
The JBP kicks off the latest episode with questions for Ish after he was spotted courtside with Marc Lamont Hill at the Sixers & Bucks game earlier this week (22:25) before Joe discusses speaking at Steve Stoute’s SelectCon NYC event (27:44)....
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Ish
I can't live with you as a grown man, nigga.
Joe Budden
Yo, y'all niggas just love y'all dance.
Ish
That's all. I love it.
Joe Budden
Y'all love. No, not you. Mind your business. You different.
Ish
Your love is different.
Joe Budden
Mind your business. We've been around. Yeah, we ain't talking to you. We talking to J1 and ish.
Melissa Ford
I don't even know what you niggas is talking.
Ish
Y'all niggas.
Joe Budden
Jwon did an interview where he interviewed his dad.
Ish
Fire.
Parks
He's fire.
Joe Budden
He could not stop showing his teeth. The whole time I was high, like, with every. With every story Kiss told J1. Even the Diddy store, Yo, I was at the puff party. J1 looking up just like a proud son. Yeah, Teeth wouldn't stop showing. Mad. You had dimples.
Ish
Yeah, you had dimples in your face. You ain't look hard at me, nigga. You look like a papa student.
Joe Budden
You look like, yo, I love my dad so much, and he just wasn't around for me.
Ish
Yeah, he wasn't around anyone.
Joe Budden
Had more kids that he fucking held down.
Ish
Like, then he said that powerful line.
Joe Budden
Yeah. Oh, and then he was about to cry. You tried to. You tried to hit him. No, not you. Well, yeah, you. When you tried to hit him. No, not you.
Melissa Ford
Well, yeah.
Joe Budden
Yeah, you. You tried to hit him with the trick question, but kids from the old school, yo, what's your greatest gift? And Kiss said, you, you, nigga, if you don't get the fuck out of here with this trick annoying ass question, you now. I love you, yo. God damn. I know you mad about some shit.
Ish
Stop it.
Corey
No, we did not.
Melissa Ford
We didn't.
Corey
They had them already.
Joe Budden
Don't interrupt with the truth.
Ish
You didn't. Yeah, we don't give a fuck about.
Corey
We going with the lies.
Joe Budden
Yes.
Ish
And on top of that, you ain't know. On top of that, you ain't know he was gonna say that that shit hit you.
Joe Budden
Did you know. Did you know that you was his greatest gift?
Corey
No, I thought he was gonna say something else.
Ish
Exactly. N. We know that. Cause we saw you, yo, clap it.
Joe Budden
Up for Jay Juan being Jay the gift.
Ish
When we said that the titty party shit, though.
Corey
I expected that. I started dying. I couldn't help that one.
Ish
When he said that J1, it looked like it was Christmas time for you, N. You know, when you a kid and you get that big gift, you just look happy. That shit made me feel good.
Melissa Ford
That was the big boss.
Ish
I'm like, yeah, Jay. Mommy. Ish.
Joe Budden
I don't know if you.
Corey
I know I was the favorite. The favorite child that everybody said, but.
Joe Budden
I ain't even talking about the kids. I don't know if you a greater gift than his rapping ability.
Ish
Look, listen to this nigga.
Melissa Ford
That's what you would have said.
Corey
What's your greatest gift?
Melissa Ford
That's what you would have said.
Ish
How you gonna tell n son that?
Melissa Ford
No, that's what he would have said, y'all. What's your greatest gift?
Corey
So what's your greatest gift?
Joe Budden
My children. And when you have kids, you'll understand that. This dad answers. When I ask my mom who her favorite kid is, she say, you for six months. And you for six months.
Corey
Yeah, my mom's.
Joe Budden
That's just. That's the appropriate parent answer. But in real life, they got a head.
Melissa Ford
Whoever needs my love at that time.
Corey
I hate that.
Ish
You got to remember, he got to say his children. Because first of all, Trey listen. And Trey has a history of dissing the nigga on record. Hey, yo, pops.
Melissa Ford
Annie getting nice with.
Ish
Nicer with the pen.
Joe Budden
Well, that's not fair. I started dissing him on records first. And his mama. That's fair.
Ish
I didn't know that joke.
Joe Budden
I'm sorry. So I think that he should be able to clap back, shout out to J. I like. Cause some of my haters be, oh, his son's been dissing him forever. Whoa, whoa, whoa. My son got the clap back gene in him like his dad, and I'm proud of that.
Ish
Facts.
Melissa Ford
Yeah, facts. Facts.
Joe Budden
It's fucked up when you writing those songs about their parent. Like when they grow up and get to hear the songs. Yeah, but now you know what's going on now. Yeah, you know, you 23. You know what time it is. You in the game. You being targeted. You being targeted out there. You having your woman woes. I love when they experience what we experience. Oh, yes.
Corey
What?
Joe Budden
That's bad?
Ish
Yes.
Melissa Ford
Oh, man.
Jwan
Why is that bad?
Corey
Because.
Melissa Ford
Thanks, Mel, you back.
Corey
Give us some game. I remember that happened to me, my relationship in college. I had my pops, like, on some Trey Joe shit. Like, yo, bro, why you ain't telling me shit? Get like that, nigga. Ain't even respond. I said, wow, okay, cool.
Jwan
I mean, I feel like there's information that you can pass down to your kids, but then there's other things that they just have to experience, you know, bumping their heads up on the wall.
Melissa Ford
They ain't gonna listen to you anyway.
Jwan
Until they go through.
Ish
Since we told my dad, I'm gonna ask you a question.
Joe Budden
You love your dad, too?
Melissa Ford
Yeah, who said I.
Ish
Did you ever have. Did you ever have a conversation with your dad? Like, you ever. Were you one of them that.
Melissa Ford
My father before?
Ish
Yeah, but as a grown man.
Melissa Ford
You said I lived with my father as a grown up.
Joe Budden
Yeah.
Ish
Did you have a conversation with him? Like, yo, nigga, what's up? Like, did you. Were you one of them that. Were you, like, what happened? What went wrong? Or you just left it as it is and you lived in the moment?
Joe Budden
I ain't really go through all that because he was.
Ish
You didn't do that. You didn't go back. Oh, you lived in the moment.
Melissa Ford
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Ish
I like that.
Joe Budden
He was short.
Melissa Ford
No, I wasn't.
Ish
That might be a short.
Joe Budden
But you said that you was 5:1 until you caught your growth spurt.
Melissa Ford
I was 5:3 in 12th grade.
Joe Budden
That's very.
Melissa Ford
When I lived with my father, I was grown.
Joe Budden
That's not. That's not tall enough to buck.
Corey
Who is that height in your graduation picture?
Joe Budden
You think. You think 5:3 is tall enough to bucket your dad?
Ish
For real?
Corey
No.
Joe Budden
Yeah. Come on, man. When I'm.
Ish
That's like your daughter height, but this nigga you. So you know.
Joe Budden
Why you quiet?
Ish
You know what it is? You so macho that nigga. You even have a conversation with your pops at a moment of vulnerability. Nigga, that's how macho you are. Let's live in the moment, nigga. Go cook. I'm gonna cook some food. I just got shot, Pops. I don't want to talk about none of that emotional shit. Nigga, let's live and have fun. Did he check on you like, yo, you there. You know when nigga come in from work, knock on the door of you in your room?
Melissa Ford
Yeah, I was 20 something years old, my nigga. What that means my door shut. I'm there. What you talking? Like, are you there?
Corey
No, n. Go sleep.
Melissa Ford
I'm good.
Corey
That don't mean you did.
Jwan
Are you feeling. Are you talking about when he got shot?
Ish
No, I'm just saying, like, usually, even as an adult, if you live with my experience, if you live with your parent, your parent will come when they Come in the house. They'll check on you. Yo, what's up?
Joe Budden
Yo, you there?
Ish
You in the room and shit like that? That's why I'm asking him if he experienced that.
Joe Budden
He said his dad's door was closed.
Melissa Ford
No, my door was closed. If my door closed. Nigga, I'm asleep.
Joe Budden
Did you knock?
Melissa Ford
On what?
Joe Budden
On your dad's door.
Ish
Stop, stop. You get tight? Stop. I'm not going to get tight, Society.
Joe Budden
Because him and J1 want to see it with the truth today. I don't care about what they talk. I care about Daddy.
Ish
Are you there?
Joe Budden
Dad?
Ish
I got shot, dad.
Joe Budden
What the do I do?
Ish
What do I do? I'm bleeding out. You police tell me what to do. I can't snitch, but you can tell.
Joe Budden
Them niggas he made a left. He made a left and right.
Melissa Ford
I can't snitch, but you can tell him.
Ish
Nigga, your pop. Your pop.
Joe Budden
Yo, yo, we doing it for the dad. Oh. Oh, my bad. You too. You love your dad. Shout him out.
Jwan
Yes, of course I love my father.
Ish
Her father passed away at a young age. When she was young, though, she still.
Joe Budden
Got a rep. What that mean?
Melissa Ford
No, she got a rep. She said it was her hair wrong, Cole.
Ish
She said that? Until she learned some things, she said.
Jwan
Yes, but I still love the memory of the man. Very much so.
Joe Budden
We can't play with it.
Ish
Shout out for you standing here.
Joe Budden
Leave it alone. Let's bring a joke back. That way you go already here, right? Wrap it up. Wrap it up. Anyway, back to you, Ish. All right, all right. Glad y'all in a good mood. Brother Freeze is not with us today, but he's here in spirit, always. Hopefully. He's good. Ice, we love you. If you're listening. Yo, Max.
Ish
Just that fast. You heard?
Joe Budden
It was sweat. She's about to cry with us.
Jwan
I wasn't gonna cry.
Joe Budden
She's about to cry with us like we was Poor Minds.
Jwan
I swear I wasn't gonna call.
Ish
She cried on the show.
Joe Budden
Yeah, she cried. Poor Minds. Yes, she cried on Poor Minds. Shout out to Lex. Shout out to Drea. Lex, Dre.
Ish
What up, babies?
Jwan
We were all crying, okay? We were all crying.
Ish
Based off your story.
Jwan
Well, no shared experiences.
Parks
Mel, you were doing some sad parting related.
Ish
Let me just say this.
Jwan
And I love you, Corey.
Ish
Let me say, if Hot and Bothered is going to be like that, count me out. Please don't cry. I want to come up there. I want to.
Joe Budden
Okay?
Jwan
And guess what. And guess what. When wifey starts going through menopause and you don't know what the fuck is going on. Are you going to be checking?
Ish
My mother called me this morning about you. I'm going need you. I'm going to come up there.
Joe Budden
Nobody cares about when wifey is going through.
Ish
We are financially manipulating our wives. You think niggas can. They got to worry about their bills being paid to try to get jobs and MTAs and whatever they got in Houston.
Joe Budden
Yeah, I'm sick of that line. Would you like it if I did the same? That's just a do it then. Why? I don't want to do it. What the fuck you talking to me about?
Melissa Ford
To be honest, I wouldn't mind if.
Joe Budden
You was paying all my bills.
Melissa Ford
I'm good.
Ish
Do your thing.
Joe Budden
That was ish. That was ish everything.
Melissa Ford
Go ahead, rock out.
Ish
That paying all your bills come with some stipulations and people don't want to accept it. Dude, it's rules. It's rules. If I'm paying 15,000amonth in bills for you, nigga, there's rules, nigga. I want shit at the drop of a dime, nigga.
Joe Budden
Come.
Ish
If I say book a flight, you have to come. Cause that money can go to something else.
Melissa Ford
Martha.
Joe Budden
Hello.
Ish
Z here. Like for real.
Joe Budden
Yo, yo, yo. You know what? That is an important note to highlight and I'm glad that I didn't highlight it.
Ish
This proof of fee. Financially? Depends.
Joe Budden
Badass. If your bills are being paid to the degree of all of them. 10, 15, 20 grand a month.
Ish
Yes. Talk about a joke.
Joe Budden
There is fine print on that contract. There is. You need to take that to your attorney or your girl girlfriend.
Corey
Who don't got that.
Joe Budden
True. Yeah. And. And get it together now. We can't say that somehow. Because feminine is feminine. I can't even say the word. What's the word? Feminism.
Jwan
Feminism.
Joe Budden
Feminine Femininity.
Corey
Femininity.
Joe Budden
Stupid ass word.
Parks
It's got stutter built in.
Ish
He's right.
Melissa Ford
Oh, man.
Ish
He's right, Mel, man, you know he's right, man. When a nigga paid your bills, you almost went into a cult. N A, you was down, nigga. When a nigga paid your bills, you was down with the cause. Need to follow your rules, follow your movement. Give me pounds.
Joe Budden
Mel was definitely.
Parks
I can see it.
Joe Budden
She was in a cult.
Ish
She was in a cult. Yeah.
Joe Budden
Now she come up here, we'll talk about. And Quincy is the king. Quincy is the king.
Melissa Ford
Christ the Lord.
Joe Budden
Yeah. You want to come up here and talk about menopause?
Ish
A preacher in the house. She was in.
Joe Budden
We don't want to hear about menopause. We want to hear about the sex cult.
Ish
We want to hear about that when.
Joe Budden
You was in the mountains of Utah.
Jwan
Another day, another story for another day.
Ish
She would never tell. That's why love you.
Joe Budden
That's why she the best.
Ish
That's why she can make a U turn.
Joe Budden
That's why she's the best.
Ish
A lot of women can't u turn like male unless they're. I can't say that part. But Mel make u turn because she hold it down like when they bump into her, like, oh, you ain't. You ain't blow me up about that cult shit. You know, I was wilding. Even when I press, the nigga say.
Joe Budden
Oh, I love her.
Ish
I said, damn, she cool like that.
Joe Budden
Yo, y'all keep making me lose my face, my boy. You held it down about that cult shit.
Jwan
I be holding it down on some fucked up shit.
Joe Budden
You do matter.
Ish
You do.
Joe Budden
Yo, shout out to the women out there that hold it down about the coach.
Ish
But the other women get offended when.
Joe Budden
We say that because you're not supposed to say that.
Ish
Yeah, they saying that.
Joe Budden
Yeah, you're not supposed to say that. That's horrible. Yeah, Mel isn't jwan, boy.
Ish
He's still about to cry that patriarch him up. Remember? What nigga went to the bathroom. That's the first time he went to the bathroom.
Joe Budden
All right, we got a great show lined up for y'all. Maybe, maybe. Oh, oops.
Melissa Ford
Oh, I can hold up. That's Randy come out the pawn shop without his chains and his watches. Oh, he doesn't sold them shits.
Ish
He's broke. He's popped again.
Melissa Ford
Yo, Brokey.
Joe Budden
I mean, Randy.
Melissa Ford
What's up? What up, y'all? Yo, what happened, Mr. Money Man? You coming to Oscar Stone?
Joe Budden
Pay me now.
Melissa Ford
We change that blood.
Flip
I just had them hold it for.
Ish
Me for a second. Hold it, hold it, bro.
Joe Budden
What you mean you let them have it?
Melissa Ford
Cause you broke now. Now you can't flex right?
Ish
I needed some extra cash.
Melissa Ford
Oh, hell, I just made a quick 30 bands, bro.
Joe Budden
30 bands?
Ish
Like it's worth it.
Melissa Ford
Nah, gang, I just clock your T. You really pop right now. We was waiting for this. Y'all was waiting for me to go broke?
Ish
Yeah, we was.
Melissa Ford
You stay showing off the stay gravitating towards you now.
Ish
They're not going to come around you no more. Nothing but Y my means.
Joe Budden
I pray you run through them 30 bands mad quick.
Melissa Ford
And I'm not letting you borrow nothing, bro.
Joe Budden
It's going to be a cold winter.
Ish
Yo, yo, yo, what the popping, man? It's the drama king, man.
Joe Budden
Yo, who there?
Ish
That's the sound of the man.
Joe Budden
Rest in peace, M 1, 2, 1 2, 1, 2 waking up out there.
Ish
Waking up out there we was taught not to say who shot you? Flash burning I got you if you.
Melissa Ford
Care for me cause I'm on the.
Ish
Edge I'm f to put a shell in a rock a lot of ice I dare you to scheme on it the fifth got a rubber grip and a beam on it? Homie that took the hit on me couldn't shoot they say I'm skinny now.
Joe Budden
But I look big in the cool.
Ish
My cousin uzi out in la.
Joe Budden
I.
Ish
Write my lifestyle y'all is cheaters your lines come from feds, fellas and dogs.
Joe Budden
Hold you the black hand of death.
Ish
Then why your name ain't preaching?
Joe Budden
Shout out to the mixtape always, always.
Ish
Always you want a ball like Kirk? Always for the ladies, always for the ladies. I'm familiar with problems, I know how to solve them. Semi automatic on your trade, revolve them, shoot them up. Problem in the hood, you starving, you.
Joe Budden
Don'T want problems problem solving.
Ish
And why can't you do man enough.
Jwan
To tell me where?
Ish
Already told me you paying to run with him. I could let a New York knife poke him with one of my throwaways, but I don't want to see no cops smoke them. Somebody tell Paul be riding, get ready to auction off the car you dying.
Corey
Whenever we bump head.
Ish
Since you like having people with you, get you a hospital with bone beds without Dr. Dre, you would just make slow jams.
Corey
Come up out of that witness protection program.
Ish
Oh, don't really respect you getting your place. If Big was alive, he'd have probably spit in your face now. I've been doing just fine without you. Pac probably would have made an album about you.
Joe Budden
Yeah.
Ish
So I guess that just leaves me here to get rid of you and rock him and them, they don't even consider you. You ain't got nothing for Jada. And I know he apprec all the money you made them. It's 2005. Nobody fights fair. I just know an instrumental is your worst nightmare. But you tough and you bad. Too bad you mad. Probably been in your old hood more than you have. Yeah, you sold more records than me. But in the streets, you gonna always.
Joe Budden
Be second to me.
Ish
When you was damn near feeling you even know your career is based off somebody damn near killing you. Shit you be doing ain't even considered rapping to us. Nah, this is probably the best thing to happen to us. The best wankster, Internet, gangster magazine mobs on your whole roster. Get ready to say Hail Mary's and our fathers. Get out your black suits and hard bottoms and don't worry, I got them. We ain't a problem child, just a child with a problem.
Corey
Raps, you know.
Joe Budden
Feeling good, feeling great. Feeling good, feeling great. Huh?
Corey
What trick at that?
Joe Budden
She's in a good mood. I'm in a good mood. Good vibes. Positivity throughout.
Corey
That's real violent music for a bright ass house.
Melissa Ford
Hey, yo, I know and I know they cost some money.
Corey
A look like a thousand dollar fresh.
Melissa Ford
Prince that look like an ice cream cold.
Ish
Gender reveal ready?
Joe Budden
Gender reveal ready?
Ish
We do n. Yeah, he look like.
Joe Budden
Is it a boy or girl? Both.
Ish
Wait, it's twins. You hop out of cake. You lit 500,000.
Joe Budden
Microphone check. Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike. What episode is this?
Parks
7:70.
Joe Budden
Welcome to episode 770 of the JOE Budden Podcast, brought to you by Fueled by power by prize picks. I'm your humble, gracious, grateful and highly favored host, Joe Budden, with some really amazing people. To my right. Big Melissa Ford is in the building. Queens Flip is in the building. Ish is in the building. Jwan is in the building. Parks is in the building. Poe is in the building. Corey is here. Erickson is here. Savon and Tana are here by remote. And last, but certainly not least, each and every, every one of you are out there. Now back to my agenda reveal. Al, I wore this to Daisy age or your day. I wore this to Girls love karaoke the other night I heard you.
Corey
I heard you dress like a little nice pajama setup.
Melissa Ford
Heard you was in there and I heard it was all right.
Corey
That's definitely.
Joe Budden
Tough crowd.
Melissa Ford
Tough crowd. Socks.
Parks
How was the karaoke? What'd you sing?
Joe Budden
Girls love karaoke. Shout to Manny. Of course. Shout to Ag finesse. Girls love karaoke. Was nice. Hey, hey. And they do.
Parks
They do.
Joe Budden
They absolutely do. And they do.
Parks
They do.
Joe Budden
So, yeah, it was a real good time over there. I got there early. I got there at about, I want to say, 10, 10:30. My guy Monty met me over there. Shout out to E. Oh, y'all did a duet. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Nice crowd, nice crowd on the early vibe. Shout to. Damn. Who What? Who's the DJ killing that shit? Who was that? First class.
Melissa Ford
First choice, I think.
Joe Budden
First choice. First choice. First class. I'm old school. Shout out to first choice he was. Absolutely. And shout out to first class. But he was smoking. You know, people are still coming in. R B set. Like a real R and B party set, right? So I was in absolute heaven for a few hours. A lot of girls kept coming in here. But then.
Corey
Did you cut a rug?
Joe Budden
I didn't. No, I didn't cut a rug. I sat there like the G that I be. Did you sing?
Melissa Ford
Nah.
Joe Budden
And no, I left before anybody started singing.
Parks
Wow.
Joe Budden
I was sitting there and I hadn't taken the old nigga nap.
Corey
Start yawning.
Joe Budden
I hadn't taken a nap.
Parks
You guys, why don't you just go hit the.
Joe Budden
Yo, 44 is fucking me up. Why don't you just go hit the.
Parks
Truck for a little quick 30?
Corey
Yeah, it ain't the same.
Joe Budden
Cause you right. I don't have to live like that. Go in the truck, take a nap, and then go back out. Like, I'm never that thirsty for the party. So I'm sitting there, I'm getting tired. I'm hungry. I'm hungry. I'm sitting there battling the discipline to eat after 10pm, 11pm So I left. I went home, went to bed. Didn't hit a strip club. Didn't see Bernice sing. Didn't see nobody sing a thing.
Parks
Damn.
Jwan
Damn.
Joe Budden
See, was there when Teyana came in. Shout out to Teyana Taylor. It was good crowd in there. Good vibe Davies, everybody. But, yeah, I'm going to bed. I'm going to bed. I see. That's one of them things I gotta come to at midnight, probably. Yeah, I gotta. Yeah, I gotta come here late.
Parks
Yes. New York.
Joe Budden
But really good. Really good crowd in there. Oh, just real nice time.
Melissa Ford
Look like it.
Joe Budden
Real nice time. Real nice time in there.
Jwan
Yeah.
Joe Budden
Nice.
Jwan
It looked like it.
Joe Budden
Why you keep making that little stupid face?
Melissa Ford
No, just. It looked like it.
Joe Budden
You to have fun.
Melissa Ford
No, a couple people hit me. Was like, y'all seen Joe come in while you wasn't with Joe? I was like, oh, was that.
Joe Budden
I don't. No, no, no. I saw just. Did you tell him you don't be with Joe? Like, why?
Jwan
People, it was at the day that you went to the game with Mark.
Parks
Oh, shit.
Corey
Floor seat.
Jwan
I thought that that was AI. The picture that was floating around.
Melissa Ford
Antoine ish.
Corey
That was me.
Melissa Ford
Anyway.
Corey
That was me.
Joe Budden
Oh, he might be a rapper. Antoine ish is AI in initials when you break it down. No, for real. So why are you gonna let her get that shot?
Ish
Let me ask you a question. How did that. How did that. How did that happen?
Joe Budden
What?
Ish
How did you end up.
Corey
The basketball, D. Yeah, yeah, the basketball.
Ish
The bromance. The bro vision. How did it happen?
Melissa Ford
Nothing. Mark hit me. He was like, yo, what you doing? I'm like, shit, what's going on? He said, yo, I got tickets to the game. You want to go to the game? I was like, who they playing? He said, the Bucs. I'm like, hell, yeah. So.
Ish
So you drove down there?
Joe Budden
Yeah.
Ish
So you went to the game, but you spilled coffee on my clothes in your car when you dropped me off. And you supposed to put my shit in the cleaners. You didn't. But you on the floor at a.
Joe Budden
Game, nigga, I got you on espn.
Ish
On espn. Hey, you look good.
Melissa Ford
Thank you.
Ish
I didn't like that. Sh. Don't thank me. N. I wasn't happy. I'm trying to look at these two stupid niggas. I was hating on y'all niggas. Look at these fools. Nigga, they sent me the picture. I'm like, oh, come on. Ish. You didn't even invite nobody neither.
Jwan
Well, he was the best one.
Joe Budden
Yeah.
Melissa Ford
I was about to say I'm gonna invite somebody. That some shit.
Joe Budden
I'm getting invited.
Ish
That's the problem. Everybody invites you places, but you don't invite anybody. It's a paddle pattern. That's your bag. That's how you get away with. You're always invited. Why you didn't invite me? I'm a plus one. That's. You missed a plus one.
Melissa Ford
There you go.
Ish
No, make me your plus one. All right. You ashamed of us?
Melissa Ford
Make me your plus one.
Ish
You missed it. But that's.
Melissa Ford
I got you.
Ish
And it speaks volumes that people prefer you to be there. Plus one.
Melissa Ford
I appreciate that.
Ish
I know what you do. You do that stupid lip trick.
Parks
You do that on the Corsa.
Ish
Yeah, he did that on the Corsa.
Joe Budden
Sitting there, talking a hole in Marc Lamont.
Parks
Y'all had a super bromance after.
Ish
That's what I said.
Parks
Y'all were really twitted.
Ish
They bonded.
Melissa Ford
That's stupid, yo. No, the game was a runaway. It wasn't really close. So we were just kicking it like the game wasn't, like. Wasn't fun.
Joe Budden
It wasn't.
Melissa Ford
You know what I'm saying? Cause it wasn't close. They was losing by damn near 20. Half the game.
Ish
You talking about Philly was losing.
Melissa Ford
Yeah.
Corey
What do you talk about at a game like that?
Parks
They were pod.
Melissa Ford
Really basketball shit for the most part.
Ish
On the court while a game is going on. What you analyzing?
Melissa Ford
That's literally what was going on.
Joe Budden
Like that.
Melissa Ford
Nigga, not that good.
Joe Budden
You overrated.
Melissa Ford
Yo, stop talking.
Corey
Saying A in the league is overrated or not that good.
Joe Budden
Watch the game. Catch a vibe. Courtside, look cool.
Ish
That's hate.
Joe Budden
Joe. Leave that. Why you can.
Ish
I hate on him, too. I hate him, too.
Joe Budden
Nah, just look cool. The camera's just about to pan you.
Melissa Ford
I didn't even know the game was on ESPN or none of that. I didn't know that.
Corey
Superstar. Ish.
Joe Budden
Did you know it was the season opener?
Melissa Ford
Yeah, but I didn't know that. I mean, well, Philly Bucks, two of the biggest teams. Yeah, Philly Bucks would be televised, but I wasn't thinking about that.
Joe Budden
Did you see Stephen A. Right there?
Melissa Ford
No, I ain't saying, but it's cool.
Joe Budden
Stupid.
Corey
Did Stephen A. See you?
Melissa Ford
I don't know Stephen A. Was there.
Joe Budden
I don't know, nigga. I see your game, nigga. You think I seen you on my tv. I don't know, nigga. I seen you on Reddit. Seen you on Reddit, nigga. See you on my tv.
Melissa Ford
Stay off the Internet, yo. See, you are real.
Joe Budden
You're looking good, though. You look good up there. Thank you, sir. I appreciate it.
Jwan
You run into a lot of fans?
Melissa Ford
Yeah, a couple. Couple?
Jwan
Okay.
Melissa Ford
Philly is.
Joe Budden
I didn't know you and Mark was that close.
Melissa Ford
It's cool.
Joe Budden
Oh, when y'all exchange numbers? When y'all exchange phone numbers?
Melissa Ford
Yo, dog, what's wrong with you, son?
Ish
It's a valid question.
Joe Budden
Why is it valid? Cause Joe said it.
Corey
That conversation look deep as hell.
Joe Budden
Yeah.
Corey
Cause the only reason we didn't congratulate you when he announced you on the POD was it wasn't personal.
Joe Budden
That is what he was. Yo N stupid. You really a great. You great help to all of camera.
Corey
Don't argue with the community. They just going to hate you.
Joe Budden
Yeah, give them some POD tips while the game is on.
Corey
The game is playing, bro.
Joe Budden
He didn't know we was on tv.
Ish
He didn't stay for Patreon, so we don't know when the numbers switch. You know what I'm saying? I'm gonna get down to the bottom of this. That little bromance.
Joe Budden
I told y'all. I thought told y'all. Oh, and Mark is here on Wednesdays. One day off for everybody.
Ish
Wednesday per month.
Joe Budden
Yeah, well, Tuesdays.
Melissa Ford
Tuesdays, but, yeah, that's it.
Joe Budden
Nothing to figure out. Nothing figure out. No, everything is cool.
Ish
I'm good. I got three days off. I'm high. I'm high. Look like, she don't like that. Hey, yo, your girl.
Jwan
What did I do now?
Ish
You know what you did.
Jwan
I swear I don't.
Ish
You texted me. You tried to press me this week.
Joe Budden
Oh, I'm done with y'all. I'm done. I'm done with Charles.
Ish
Got it. No, it's nothing bad. Nothing bad.
Joe Budden
Got you.
Ish
Yeah, it's all love.
Joe Budden
All right.
Ish
No, it's all love.
Joe Budden
And then I went to speak at the Steve Stout the other day that.
Melissa Ford
Saw you up there shining.
Joe Budden
You mean shining.
Melissa Ford
That.
Joe Budden
The lights was bright.
Jwan
Oh, he had it all out.
Joe Budden
What? What?
Melissa Ford
Like. Like titties.
Joe Budden
Line.
Corey
You would have ring.
Melissa Ford
Yeah, he wore the ring. He pulled the sleeve so they could see the. You know. Cause you know, I got brain, you know, I got my gut.
Joe Budden
My gut.
Melissa Ford
Tell me what to do.
Joe Budden
You know what I mean?
Melissa Ford
I'm be in these rooms, and the money, you know what I'm saying? Be all over. I heard your corny joke. It be all over the place. You know my gut, you know, I gotta rule with the gut. I come from the outside of the.
Joe Budden
Streets watching my clip. You watching my clip from the Garden? I had a good time. I don't normally speak at those. On those types of panels and things of that nature, but Steve called his favorin'at a good time. That's my man. I showed up, no doubt, had a good time. A lot of people there.
Melissa Ford
Was it just you and Steve on the panel or.
Joe Budden
No, it was just him and I that spoke at that time.
Melissa Ford
Gotcha.
Joe Budden
I think he spoke to 50. I think he spoke to cam.
Parks
I saw a cam clip too.
Joe Budden
I think I saw a cam clip. I saw a 50 clip, but. And the ride into Brooklyn wasn't so bad. It was an hour, but it was an hour in motion.
Parks
You took that scenic route that we was talking about at the party.
Joe Budden
No, it was in Brooklyn.
Corey
It was at the office.
Joe Budden
It was in Brooklyn. I don't know.
Melissa Ford
Whose office.
Joe Budden
I don't know. I get the address, I give it to the driver, I go. But it was no traffic. But it was no traffic, Rich. So that was smooth. Dumb of us. Yeah, stupid us. And I went to the black owned restaurant over here that Mel gave the review one.
Melissa Ford
Which one?
Joe Budden
On that other pod. I'm not. Won't say, but the one that Mel spoke about, she went to.
Melissa Ford
Oh, yeah, yeah.
Parks
Good.
Joe Budden
And that was cool. Yeah, that was real nice, too. Nice. Yeah, some paella was good.
Parks
Oh, that was that big ass pa. Yes, that was huge pause.
Joe Budden
Yeah, it was good, though.
Ish
Did you Bump into anybody at the Steve St. Event?
Melissa Ford
No, it was crowded.
Joe Budden
Yeah, it was A lot of people in here, Patrick. How would I bump into somebody? I don't. I don't do communal green rooms.
Ish
I thought you did. I'm sorry.
Joe Budden
Those dicks. Never that.
Corey
Peasantry firm.
Joe Budden
Communal green room. Think that's how I got punched in the face. Communal green. Anybody just walk in the door. Hey, there you go. There you go.
Melissa Ford
Yo, you ain't saying.
Joe Budden
Yeah, I ain't. Communal green room is exactly where they want to come. Talk about what I said on the pod. Never that. No, but good times. Shout out to Steve Stout, man. Fun, fun, fun. All right, let's get right to it. Let's get right to it. Where would you guys like to begin? Dirk.
Ish
Yes.
Joe Budden
Okay, so we start with Dirk. The Fed snatched dirt Dirk. Or the marshal. The U.S. marshals. Yeah.
Ish
And snatched in Broward County.
Joe Budden
Dirk. That's Florida, right?
Melissa Ford
Broward County.
Ish
Broward, yes.
Melissa Ford
Yeah.
Joe Budden
Y'all know any holes from over there?
Melissa Ford
Probably.
Joe Budden
Y'all definitely know some Broward county homes? For sure. Possibly. They need a segment on the Patreon. Shout out to y'all out there in Broward County. Yeah. Yeah.
Melissa Ford
Special.
Ish
Yeah.
Joe Budden
Better than D. Dade different from Dade. Different from day. What.
Melissa Ford
What cities are in Broward?
Parks
It's all Miami, I think.
Melissa Ford
Oh, is it? That's the.
Corey
Wait that. Like the south end of it.
Melissa Ford
I. I don't.
Joe Budden
It's a way. Yeah.
Corey
That's where Kodak from.
Joe Budden
It's down.
Ish
Exactly. So it makes sense.
Joe Budden
Just say Kodak. Exactly. This is down. It's down there. But anyway, so they snatched him in Florida along with five other people from Chicago. Yes. That are from Chicago. And this is murder for hire.
Parks
This is sad.
Melissa Ford
That's his charge.
Parks
So I guess that's allegations.
Melissa Ford
Supposedly he organized a hit.
Joe Budden
Yeah. On. And they're saying that this goes back to when King Von lost his life.
Melissa Ford
Was killed one of Quando Rondo's people.
Joe Budden
And in the car. Yeah. Quando Rondo's man died with him in la.
Corey
Right.
Joe Budden
During that shootout. So they. The feds are saying that plane tickets and rental cars or whatever were purchased and rented through OTF cards. And they saying they have more information about who paid for this murder fire. But they haven't released that yet. All signs are pointing to. They're going to try to pin this on dirt. That's what I got for you. If that's blurry, then Google it. I'm not here to be a journalist. I'm here to talk about the Real aspect of it, which is just what the fuck, what the fuck?
Ish
I feel like, you know, with respect to Dirk, I feel like he knew something was coming because, you know, during his birthday he paid homage to all the fallen soldiers in Chicago. I mean, he's been trying to really change up the image and the whole Chicago drill, dissing opps. You know, he put everybody on the screen on his birthday. He did a birthday concert in Chicago. And even the people, I mean, everybody was on that picture.
Melissa Ford
He had the opps up there.
Ish
Yeah, everybody just paying respects to all the fallen soldiers. And in retrospect, when I think about it, it's like I felt like he knew something was coming and he just wanted to distance himself from that. Whether they were investigating, whether he got wind that they were looking into things. Just think he wanted to move himself from that and portray a cleaner image or he probably felt that inside. He probably felt inside that it's time for me to get away from that because too many people are dying. Cause Dirk been through a lot.
Melissa Ford
I think it could be true what you're saying. I think also when you get removed from the jungle, you know what I'm saying? Like you lose some of that and then, you know, when you start getting a certain type of paper. Cause I'm sure he's far removed from the hustling, hustling days, you know what I'm saying? And then you start surrounding yourself with some more positive people. I'm sure some of the OGs talking to them, you know what I'm saying? You start seeing that this shit is self destructive for us as a people, you know what I mean? So you start trying to pivot away from that and kind of you owe it to yourself to, to instill some shit in some younger people, you know what I'm saying? So they don't make the same mistakes you made. So I think that's where he, like I've heard him talk a couple times. That's the type of time he was on.
Ish
Supposedly he lost a lot of people in his life.
Melissa Ford
Yeah.
Ish
The unfortunate thing is when you're around these people, I've been around him a lot of times, he's a nice guy. And sometimes our environment makes us, you know, who we are.
Melissa Ford
That's true.
Ish
Right? Our environment and trying to get away from that. You'd be surprised how these people who lose so much people and seen so much in their life, when you just have a conversation, they just like you and I, you know, I mean, and sometimes environment, circumstances and the jungle, you're in the jungle, make you who you are.
Melissa Ford
You're gonna be a wolf, you're gonna be a lion to survive in the jungle. But once you removed, you might become a.
Joe Budden
You know what I mean?
Melissa Ford
Just a regular standup citizen. I think that they might. A lot of us, you know what I'm saying? Kids grew up in a city like that on some survival instinctive shit. And then when you get removed, you change your tongue.
Ish
And it's hard to talk about. For me, it's just hard to talk about these things. But it's not hard even if you have a relationship, because you don't know who you're affecting on the other side. So you have to be mindful in when people have accusations against them and how you speak about them. I can speak from personal relationships, but I don't want to take away from anyone who may have suffered or feel that they allegedly suffered from the situation.
Parks
Yeah, I'm tired of seeing up and coming rappers either lose their lives or get incarcerated to shit like this. And I'm tired of seeing all the. I saw J1 tweeting earlier and I see people responding to it and it's like, why does everyone know so much about it? About it?
Corey
And that was one thing like.
Parks
Like, this should not be happening.
Joe Budden
A.
Parks
And if it is happening, it shouldn't be public information on the Internet that everybody's talking about. Like SportsCenter. It's weird.
Joe Budden
Yeah. Yeah.
Corey
That's the part of it I don't like. Like, there's no reason we should know so much before the case is even over. Even with it being public and people making whole videos, it makes it like it's in the name of content. I don't think problems like this should be made in the main in the name of content. Like, you feel me? Like, that's almost cop work. That's like, we. We all come from where we come from. We see saying, yo, bro, all right, we ain't talking about that right now. You feel me? Wait till it happened, then we talk about it. But you got poindexters and nerds on social media just talking about it from a standpoint. And then you got people who's. Who's just looking at it like, fuck him. Throw away the key. And some people may feel like that, but then it's also looking at it from the standpoint of like, he's lost people, they've lost people to just think, now they got the money. Forget all about is like. It takes the human side out of it. Like, money Isn't gonna make somebody forget about all the friends and family members they lost and no longer grieve. You can't tell a person how to grieve just because they got money.
Joe Budden
Mel.
Jwan
What?
Ish
She on your timing. She be outside. She trying to say hi.
Jwan
I'm not outside. I'm just.
Joe Budden
I was just asking what you thought of everything.
Melissa Ford
Yeah, yeah.
Corey
I'm with yeah, yeah.
Ish
You think about Ariana Grande.
Jwan
I'm not thinking about Ariana Grande. I'm not thinking about Ariana Grande. I'm thinking that you guys hit the nail on the head. Parks observation. And jwan's observation is correct. Like the fact that this is fodder for everybody to talk about before all the facts are out. It's just. This isn't. We have created this atmosphere in which content is everything and it really actually isn't because so many of the facts get mixed mixed up in fiction and it just kind of dilutes the whole situation. So that's just my perspective.
Ish
It's by design though, right? Like we have to acknowledge that facts. It's by design. These drama filled crimes.
Joe Budden
Hey, Freeze. I'mma kill you, boy.
Ish
Yo.
Joe Budden
Hey, Freeze. When you make it to work, I'mma kick your ass. I got a trick for these. No.
Jwan
Oh, those are nice.
Joe Budden
Oh my God. Okay, okay, okay. So what y'all was saying? We praying for Dirk and it must be hard to come from where he come from. What you say? What y'all was saying?
Melissa Ford
Yeah, all that.
Ish
We said all that right there. Said it's by design.
Joe Budden
Got it. Okay, next. Stop it.
Melissa Ford
You don't have an opinion?
Joe Budden
I have quite a few opinions, but I don't know if this is the room for them now that I've heard y'all. Maybe y'all are right.
Ish
No, no, wait, hold on. No, you can't. You can't. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Cuz that say something crazy. Still follow you.
Melissa Ford
I don't think nobody said nothing crazy.
Ish
I know, I'm just saying you might.
Melissa Ford
Just different opinions saying.
Ish
I'm threatening to say something crazy. That's what I'm saying. I'm just bothering him. But I want to hear your.
Joe Budden
I think this is stupid. I think this is stupid. And I'm not going to sit here and oh, Dirk came from where he came from. He'll have his day. He'll have his day in court. So we'll see what part he has played in any of this. But that to the side. Like I was telling J1 earlier, King Vaughn and.
Corey
Young boy, young boy.
Joe Budden
Beef wasn't over nothing. It wasn't over absolutely nothing. So it start there for me. I ain't gotta get into where everybody came from and what we seen and what we witnessed and who shot and who got killed. Y'all niggas don't be fighting over nothing. That was nothing. So now for that to escalate to the shit we witnessed in the parking lot with Vaughn, and it was gonna be carryover from that. We saw Quando Rondo reach out to fucking. What's that? Big you, Big you. We just seen him. We seen him for a few years, look afraid for his life. We've seen this all. So, I mean, I don't want to add we know too much. These niggas is putting it in songs. These niggas is putting it on Instagram reels. These niggas are detailing and laying these things out. And the cops always been online since online, been there.
Ish
True.
Joe Budden
They watching like niggas at some point have to hold themselves accountable for the part they play in a designed ecosystem. I agree with that. That's what I'm saying. So this is real unfortunate. And these are some of the same details that came up in the YSL case. And these are some of the. Listen, the Rico lady down there said, yo, we coming with Rico's now. Like, if that didn't send the memo to people, hey, we are aggressively targeting y'all entertainers and rappers that are blurring the lines with your companies and your street ties.
Corey
I'm on the other edge of this.
Joe Budden
Have at it.
Corey
And the only reason I'm mad, I.
Joe Budden
Even gotta come in here and talk about some of this shit.
Corey
But the only reason I'm on the other edge of this is because we seen, like, from the older artists, right? And we seen and experienced, oh, them, they not like that. They're not like that. You feel me? We always hear this. That artist not like that. They not on that. Now, you see in a generation where artists are actually doing the things they saying. And it's like, now you have the old artists saying, oh, them niggas are stupid. But for years, we heard y'all calling each other out, saying, oh, he ain't knowing that. He ain't like that. And there's no guidance. There's no, yo, don't do it that way. Let me show you how to do it. The only person who tried to do that is Wallow. And he was not even able to give guidance because. Because he's in a position now where he can Tell you where everything already started. There was no artist that took none of the younger artists from when they came in and was like, yo, hold on. I've been down that road. Let me guide you and show you how to switch it around. And that's why I have a disdain for. I would say some of the older artists or the people on social media judging how everything's playing out. Because you gotta remember we all around the same age. At least me and these are. There's no, yo, little bro, this ain't how you do that. Like, you feel me? They wait till it happened and then chastise us.
Ish
But a lot of times the young niggas don't listen anyway.
Corey
Will listen to an old who's coming from a. Like, where it feels sincere. When it don't feel sincere and it feel like you talking at us, then you're gonna get that pushback.
Ish
So how do you deliver a message? If I'm speaking to you from what I know and my experience, and this is the way I know how to convey the message. Why take it so personal instead of absorbing the knowledge? I had niggas do that to me where at a young age I took it personal until I realized, like, nigga, no, he was just. That was the way that he conveyed his message. And I should have listened because he ended up. Whatever he said end up happening.
Corey
No, I feel like there's two ways to answer that. Like, one, it's hard to listen to a nigga who you feel you may have more money or motion than. That's one.
Melissa Ford
That's big.
Corey
Two, and it's how the message is said and the tone in which it's conveyed. Like, it's always like, we had this conversation last population. It's the tone in which a person addresses you and brings it to you. Like, I would say from how I've seen it. And we've seen different interviews with all the artists be like, oh, these niggas are stupid. It's how they say it. The only one we've really seen come from a place of, like, it sound like they cared Sincerely was wallow. And we seen them do that with thugging them and with Dirk in them. It's really a matter of.
Joe Budden
I don't even like you saying that. By the time it get to wallow, something is wrong.
Melissa Ford
No, by the time it got to wallow, that was my point.
Corey
That's my saying. It really was in motion.
Joe Budden
We know.
Melissa Ford
Murdering niggas.
Joe Budden
Yeah, you coming. You coming to Wallow to promote your album. You're coming to Wallow to do a podcast. It just so happens he gonna give you. He gonna give you the good word while you're here on your album rollout. That means that this shit that's been in play, the problem has been in effect. I don't know what all this shit y'all saying has to do with senseless killing. To me, like, it's just senseless now. Yeah.
Parks
I don't think you should need 50 Cent to come and say, don't pay.
Joe Budden
People to murder people, nor do. Right. Like, oh, my God. And. But if somebody gotta say, yo, don't rent a car in your name and give it to somebody to kill somebody, we pass mentorship.
Melissa Ford
That's true.
Joe Budden
Not just that one and two. You talking about it's hard to respect niggas when you got more money and more emotion. We've had this talk up here before too. What they doing in the streets today is going off how many bodies you got? So now you ask them. Listen to what you asking for old OGs to do. You asking for us to go and insert ourselves in the fray of niggers with 5, 7, 10, 15, 20 bodies?
Melissa Ford
Yes.
Joe Budden
Who is volunteering to do that at 18? 18.
Melissa Ford
At 19, who is volunteering to do that?
Joe Budden
Not I.
Melissa Ford
And I think. I just think. I think where Jake. I'm not disagreeing with what he's saying, because that's happening. But this ain't about hip hop. These people were already in this life prior to becoming rappers. I'm assuming you get what I'm saying, Like, this ain't about hip hop. So like I said, these are niggas that's in the jungle, bro. When you in the jungle, you gonna live by jungle rules. And that's what they doing. So I don't want to blame this on no old head hip hop artists and think that they are lacking in their ability to, you know what I mean, get a message across to young hip hop artists. This ain't about hip hop to me. This is about inner city that's going on all over the country.
Corey
No, I'm not placing the blame on only older artists. I'm saying, like, just in our culture overall, like, you feel me? Like, it's all. Hip hop was based on the principle really off the streets, like, you feel me? Everybody had to be the toughest, the hardest. And then it got to a point where we start seeing niggas really live in their raps.
Ish
But there was a lot of niggas back then real quick that was doing what they Doing A lot of them is coming home now. That was. That was living like that. It just wasn't on the Internet. And they did it different. It wasn't braggadocious. The rappers pretended to be the guys that they watch do it right. They pretended to be that guy. So they were around that they were around them that was catching 10, 15 bodies. But they were just acting like it was them. And no, we don't sound like we no sound.
Joe Budden
Absolutely.
Ish
No, we agree with you. Senseless killings and stuff like that. Ben, what's the next step? We agree. You coming from a standpoint to me, like, yo, yo, he gonna have his day in court. It happened. You put yourself in that position. That's how. That's how I'm receiving your message. Yo, y'all put yourself in that position. You should have known better.
Corey
Deal with it.
Ish
That's how I'm taking your message. So that's why. Why I'm talking on the other side of it. If you don't mean that, I apologize. You know what I mean? But that's how I'm taking it.
Corey
I see all angles of it.
Ish
I agree. I understand what you're saying. You're not wrong. Like, this is over nothing. This is stupid. Got a lot of money. You made it out the hood. Why the you is killing each other? Shooting each other. Senseless killing. I'm with you on that as well. I'm with you killing a.
Joe Budden
In your backyard. You hopping a plane.
Melissa Ford
No, but bigger than you boarding a.
Joe Budden
Plane to go and shoot. Shoot in broad daylight. By the mall. In la. By the mall.
Ish
And what you stop.
Joe Budden
Yo, at some. At some point, adults gotta start sounding like adults. I don't want to hear this. This. This teen summit. Y'all talking about the same thing. When them got to busing right by the Renaissance Hotel in la. Broad daylight. Broad daylight. My same point about consonant in Union Square on a Friday. On a much different note exists here at some. No, you can't just grab a gun and start shooting in broad daylight where people that don't have nothing to do with your beef, your anger, your hurt, your hood problems, your. I'm a demon. I seen too much, so now I'm a demon, nigga. Then go move that shit somewhere.
Melissa Ford
I agree with that. And if you gonna do that, this gonna even sound worse.
Corey
Niggas been doing that since the beginning of the time.
Melissa Ford
And that's the point. And they hoods and they jungles. Niggas is doing that. You might not do that in these white people neighborhoods. Cause you're gonna get caught. Niggas give a fuck over here. You know what I'm saying? But not just that. If you got enough money to get a nigga killed, get a nigga killed.
Corey
The right way, get the ninjas.
Melissa Ford
This gonna sound bad.
Joe Budden
It don't cost nothing to get somebody killed. Unfortunately.
Melissa Ford
Unfortunately, I'm not gonna be associated with it in no way, shape or form. It's not gonna be no id. It's not gonna be no rental car. It's not gonna be an airplane ticket. It's not gonna be nothing that can remotely come. That gonna come.
Corey
We're talking about niggas who are. Don't come from the greatest education system. And not that smart.
Joe Budden
I take the other side in that argument.
Melissa Ford
I take the other side, too.
Joe Budden
I take the.
Melissa Ford
If you a legitimate street nigga, niggas in the street was getting murdered at 17 and 18 years old in a manner that they didn't want to be attached to it.
Joe Budden
Yeah. Dirk dad is his dad. Like, he probably has had the greatest education on the effects of what this does.
Melissa Ford
That's a good point.
Joe Budden
I ain't.
Melissa Ford
Yeah, that's a good point.
Joe Budden
You had a front row seat. I'm just sick and tired of us. And again, I'm not really talking about him. Cause he'll have his day in court. I don't know. I don't know nothing about none of that. They gonna have to try and tie that money, whatever they're trying to do. And I certainly ain't about to see the help no case. I don't. I don't know nothing about nothing. I'm just tired of seeing young, black, successful people. Successful people get the opportunity and lose it like that. Like that because of where we came from and the things we've endured and experienced. At some point, somebody has to be break the cycle.
Ish
But wait. But wait. When you said. Hold on. Yes, I agree with you. A lot of times these things be retroactive. Right. We know a person, the shit would serve free. Our brother, like the shit that he got involved in was retro. He changed by the time that they came and looked for him. A lot of shit be. A lot of shit be retro and over it. And to me, sometimes you do stuff in the moment. I'm not making any excuse. I do agree with him. But sometimes you do shit in the moment of 2016 or 15. It's the situation that you're in. Then you see something from a different perspective. You get around niggas like you. Or get around niggas. That's showing niggas a different light and be like, yo, you know I want to do better. But that stain is still there and you have to deal with it.
Melissa Ford
Not in this instance, but you right.
Joe Budden
I got you saying. And not in the surf instance either. Free to wave, surf. I love him, but surf would be the first to tell you, I said n a move down Africa. Yeah, not Africa, but when he got away. But hey, stop and go now. Go. Because yes, if you in the same environment, yes, something retroactively that you did in your past is going to come back. I could not stop thinking of Chief Keef this whole time as an example of, or at least the only example I could think of of somebody that did it right way, did it the right way. I don't know about his past, his street ties, none of that shit. All I know is he got a record deal. Word spread fast around the industry about who he be like it normally does. He wild out for a year, maybe the first year and a half. And then he boogied, he moved, he moved and we never heard a thing again. And yeah, he took advantage of the opportunity, rebranded, and is now recognized as the godfather of that sound and the fucking musical genius that he is.
Ish
True.
Joe Budden
Nobody mentions his name with none of this other shit. Know why? Because he got an opportunity and seemingly stopped. And guess what? If he didn't stop, it wasn't in a song. It wasn't in a. Real good point. It wasn't on YouTube, live streamed. Yeah, it wasn't that. Yeah, it wasn't. Dad, I don't want to hear this shit from these now. I don't. I don't. Hey. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. If I went out there and did it, and I'm a little older, but if I went out there and did it, the word would be a little different from the people that love me. Nigga, what are you doing? What are you doing? I'm fucking leaving my dad house. Leaving my dad house. Omega left. It's me and I forgot who else with. Oh, it's my little brother. We make a left right there on. Eh, it don't matter. But they had a memorial and news reporters all over there. Big crowds. I'm like, yo, what happened over here? My brother's like, yo, you ain't here. The lady left a four year old in the house for five days or a baby in the house for five days and the baby died. Like, wait, what? Like my brain can't compute some of the stuff that is happening out here and in hip hop. Yeah. Another one. This is another one of those things. It's another one of things. And y'all are in a system that's part of a system. Who do y'all think y'all be talking to on these microphones, in these booths, on these songs with these choruses and bars? Where do y'all think y'all. Who do y'all think is hearing this stuff? I just don't understand iPhone on.
Melissa Ford
I don't understand recording they self with hammers and all that. But, yo, you know, we don't play over. I'm like, they do. You ain't lying.
Joe Budden
It ain't too many people that figured out a way to have one foot in and one foot out.
Melissa Ford
Very hard to do.
Parks
I'm sad.
Corey
It's damn near impossible.
Parks
It's like a whole generation of hip hop music and culture that is being just wiped off the map by dumb.
Joe Budden
Yes, it's sad. Yeah. And then they gonna try to put, like, this type of behavior. It's like an indictment on. There is an indictment on hip hop. Yeah, true. Going on right now. And they gonna try to put this behavior in there. When. I don't know if this is that.
Parks
It's not that.
Joe Budden
I don't know if this is that. It's saddening. It's disappointing. I don't want to talk about none of this shit. Cause I don't live my life in a way that's conducive for me to understand. So I shut the fuck up about it. You know, maybe there's some points on the other side as to why people think that this is rational behavior, but it is not. And unfortunately, everybody got a phone. So we gotta stare at this shit and look at this shit. If you out there, choose your heroes wisely. That's what I have for you. Choose your heroes wisely. Be careful. You pick the person that you want to adore and admire with discernment. And here. What's up?
Melissa Ford
You cooking?
Joe Budden
I'm done. I ain't got nothing on it. Prayers for all.
Melissa Ford
Yeah, word, word.
Joe Budden
Prayers for all. See, But I keep talking about me in my 40s. I go to sleep thinking about just senseless death. I do it. Ain't gotta be somebody shooting somebody. I go to sleep thinking about the guy that just went to the bodega to get a sandwich, and the car just went and plummeted. Bow. And now that's the like. Wait, that's not fair. That's not fair. That's not right on the News. I see mad destiny. I'd be like, for that guy. That's not right. Shit. Josh Reynolds. Josh Reynolds, right? The Denver wide receiver that just got shot in his head and his arm leaving the strip club like, this shit is sad and it's fucking depressing. I'm sorry that so many of y'all feel like you need to bust your gun to feel safe. I don't think.
Melissa Ford
I don't even know if it'd be about safety now.
Jwan
What is it?
Melissa Ford
Well, you'd rather be it be about my cheese?
Joe Budden
Well, they always say rather to be caught with it than caught with it. Oh, I'm talking about for those people. Yeah, yeah, for those people that flip is talking about where something might retroactively pop up for something you did back in the day. I get. I get that.
Melissa Ford
I said it be about machismo now. Like, niggas brag about having it on. Them niggas brag, yo, you know. You know, I don't play nigga. I let this thing go. Like it's a cool thing that I. I feel.
Corey
Yeah. I feel like it's. It's just. It's deeper than any of the things we would ever know. Like, you feel me? I read a book, like one of them books like psychology shits, and it was basically on the urban community. And it was like, one of the quotes is how we flip suicidal thoughts is homicidal impulses. And it makes a lot of sense when I look back in Yonkers and look at all the little bros and all. All that when one passed away. How everybody's all sad for the week, two weeks, everybody's crying and all of that. A lot of these young is in their homes suffering from a lack of love, appreciation and all of that. And they think when they die or they go to jail, that they gonna get that. That one week, two weeks of praise is real love. And they don't realize that it's not. A lot of these are really suicidal and they're flipping. It went to homicidal impostor closest.
Parks
That's sad.
Melissa Ford
Can't argue that.
Joe Budden
I can see that.
Melissa Ford
I can't argue that. I can see it too.
Parks
It's sad.
Melissa Ford
I can't argue that.
Joe Budden
Like, you know, my problem is. This was my problem. I swear to God. I hate. God, I'm sorry that I hate coming in here on pod days to discuss like this. I swear I do. It really grinds my gears. This irks my soul to have to come in here and speak to some of this. But a Few things to Jwan's earlier point. Let me be the one to tell y'all out there, you don't have to live your raps. You don't have to do that. I don't care what they told you in the 80s and 90s. It's art. You know how many lies I told in raps? Mad lies. You don't have to get on there and chronicle crimes.
Corey
Chronological order.
Joe Budden
You don't have to name like Rest in peace, foolio. Somebody on my algorithm, a Foolio joint song popped up, and it was hard. I wasn't too familiar with foolio's music, but this song was hard. And the whole thing was him naming the niggas that died. Like the niggas that got all of the ops. Every one. It was three minutes of death. We got all of them. The Internet now is pulling up old Dirk songs that sound a certain way and a certain.
Melissa Ford
The niggas album cover had a scoreboard up there of us versus y'all. And nigga we winning. Like how many niggas we murk versus how many y'all murk?
Joe Budden
And that's what's going on.
Corey
That was true, Trudeau.
Joe Budden
It don't. It. We don't know. Nobody knows. We not that close, thank God. We not that close to the situation to know if it's true or not. But just it looks.
Ish
It looks the way the optics.
Joe Budden
It looks away. That song with the choir sing, oh, my life, I'm 11. Yo, dog, who the. Do y'all think y'all are foolish with this stuff? All of this key to the city, you know, my problem is. Let me talk and then you can go ahead. Like, some of us come from hoods, where we know killers. We've spoken to some of them. Some of them got good hearts. So we. We understand. Some of us come from places where some killers we understand. And so we do have an empathy that is not present in modern day society. And that's how they could tell that we from where we from. Because we kind of, in a sick, twisted way, get it. Get some of that and rationalize some of that. And I'm not saying that's okay, but that exists in some of us. We have to draw a line between that and just romanticize it. Bad killers, y'all, niggas, whoever this applies to, are not good at killing. Y'all are missing your target, hitting another target, going to rap about it. Killing a kid, killing a mom, killing in the daytime, killing at a mall, killing in very crowded areas, killing over nothing.
Melissa Ford
Nothing.
Joe Budden
You niggas are killing over absolutely nothing.
Parks
And then rapping about it.
Joe Budden
Yeah, so that's my problem. Like, I want to. I want to separate the people that have that type of empathy that I'm speaking about. Because those people that I'm talking about, I never spoke to one of them. And they was like, all right, Mouse, I'm about to run this bodega and just let everybody in there have it. Since Elon Musk purchased ad, my for you tab is nothing but those types of senseless murders. It's dudes running in check, cashing spots with AR15s and just wiping everybody out. Like, this shit is a mess out here. And thirdly, if there was anybody who we would totally understand you making a decision to change your life around and live differently and maybe turn your back to some of the things that was going on previously. It's Dirk. It's Dirk. What else needs to happen? They've killed people close to you. They've killed your family. They've run in your house while you and your queen were sleeping. If he were to say, hey, you know what, dog? I'm cool. I'm gonna take my $60 million and my children and go to Colorado and rap from there, never to be seen again, I think everybody would say, hey, you know what?
Flip
I get that.
Joe Budden
I get that. That's never the fucking choice. That's never the route chosen. I don't get it. Again, he'll have his day in court, so I'm not really getting in him. They'll have to prove that what they're saying about him is true. But for the niggas that they nabbed, they talking about they got somebody that was wearing a wire for 12 years.
Corey
No, he came home from 12. He had it for years, though.
Joe Budden
All right? He came home from 12, had a wire on him and was wearing the wire for years. Got it. Got it.
Melissa Ford
Damn.
Joe Budden
For the niggas that they nabbed, though, they got the shooters. They got the shooters already. Hey, there was 20 million cameras over there on Sunset at 3:00 that day. You boarded the plane with your name. We got the text, we got. We got you receiving the money. That's where the problem is. It's not that it was just a murder for hire. We have the money being paid, unlike. Unlike Dolph, where they was talking about. It was a murder for Hybe. We never got paid. So that made it fuzzy. These people got received money, whoever these people are, so now they gotta track it.
Melissa Ford
The crazy shit be, you got the money on Zell or Venmo or Cash App or some wild shit. Like, if that is the case. Yeah.
Joe Budden
It's just these are senseless crimes that don't appear to have much thought going into it other than violent emotional reaction and response. And it's a shame to keep seeing it happen to the people that found a way to the people that hit the lotto. These opportunities we talking about don't just pop up. It is like hitting the lotto. I wish that we would cherish it more. I wish that we would value ourselves and each other just more than to keep doing that. That's all. That's all I'm doing.
Ish
I think that, you know, I'm in the middle, Joe. I'm realizing that podcasting, the job that we have to do, is filled with hypocrisy. And I say that to say, because when we talked about liking that same Dirk song you pushed, the fact that you didn't want to hear that. You wanted to hear the regular Dirk shit that he normally does. And on top of that, that everybody's not as fortunate and as smart as you to take an opportunity. I'm pretty sure that when I hear a story about how you sat in your truck and somebody tried to take your do whatever and the gun jammed, I'm pretty sure if you didn't have the maturity and the success you had or just being the person you had, being the person you are, if that nigga was outside playing around and you had the opportunity, based off, in my opinion, the environment you come from, something could have happened if he didn't go to jail. Cause he tried to take your life. The guy that broke my jaw in the park, I looked for him for that shit bothered me every day. I looked for him for over 10 years. Sitting in the park, laying there on the bench on YouTube, can't find his nigga. Cause I got snuck and my jaw broken. It was around the neighborhood until I interviewed Soul B and he was able to. I had to sit down across that, across from this guy. And it's a simple. Broke my jaw, snuck me from behind. So I'm saying that we experienced some of these traumas and we are not as fortunate as you. And it is an excuse, but we're not as fortunate to think how you think to have like.
Joe Budden
But you are. That's the problem.
Ish
I am now. I am now. Before I got here. But before I got. Before I got here, around Unc, I thought different.
Joe Budden
No, you still blessed?
Ish
No, but I thought different.
Joe Budden
You were one of the lucky ones. The way I was one of the lucky ones. You're absolutely right. Somebody put a gun inside of my Hummer on Gifford and Bert and pulled the trigger point blank range and it didn't go off. That's luck. Part of being good is being lucky, but that's luck. That didn't make me say that's kind of. My point is we have to value ourselves in a way where I'm not now trading in my life to cancel yours.
Melissa Ford
True.
Joe Budden
I don't think that's a fair exchange. I. I think God blessed me in that moment, so let me be wise enough to go and meet my potential and all of the things that I'm capable of versus getting with the 40 niggas that I was with at the time and figuring out how to go handle that in a different way.
Melissa Ford
Even if you were gonna handle it, it's still, maybe it's me, I'm still not gonna handle it. Well, it's just.
Corey
Gung ho, how many experiences you had to go through for you to say to yourself, yourself, yo, let me make a change. This is what we're all forgetting. Like, some people need a certain amount and unfortunately, it may end up death or jail. But when you win the streets, regardless if you got money or don't, that's what come with it. That's the only options.
Jwan
You use the word.
Joe Budden
Yeah, I wasn't in the streets.
Melissa Ford
That's not true either. Even when you're in the streets, you just not gonna say, yo, it and I'ma just crash out the smart that's making money in the streets and that's doing things in the streets. Yeah, some of them is getting killed, but they not just getting killed on some. Yo, go kill that on Main street at 2:00.
Corey
Everybody in the street's not making money. Some niggas are just in the way in the street.
Melissa Ford
I didn't say that either. It's some niggas on the, in the street game that's just not dumb. We, we trying to make it seem like, yo, the niggas that live that life, that's just how they are. And that's not true.
Corey
There's a generational gap. Y'all were raised different. Chicago is different from New Jersey, from New York, from Yonkers, from Queens. Like it is a different world.
Joe Budden
None of the murders I'm talking about happened in Chicago.
Corey
No, they didn't. But the that are committing them allegedly.
Joe Budden
I'm talking about that happened in Atlanta, where we all could have left the hookah spot peacefully.
Ish
I agree with this.
Joe Budden
I've been in the parking lot. Yo, if you've been outside, you've been in the parking lot before with some.
Melissa Ford
That, I mean, you know they was on.
Joe Budden
Yeah, and you move accordingly. In the parking lot. I'm talking about Atlanta and Florida. I don't care about where y'all come from. I understand that Chicago is a different place, which is why you never hear me talk about Chicago. I'm not there to know or speak to it. Once you get your rat money and invest that in vests, bullets, ammo, guns, the joints with the switch and bounty, dog, we're getting you for the bounty. You cannot just run around and put money on top of somebody's head because you got money. Sorry, that's not how this works.
Ish
Okay?
Melissa Ford
Is there ever a time where a be like, yo, you know better. Does that ever stand like.
Joe Budden
That's what I'm saying.
Corey
When you in jail, that's when have that conversation. When you in jail, yo, bro, you knew better. Don't have that conversation on the streets. I'm talking about within yourself when they are in jail. Did you have it after you got shot?
Melissa Ford
Yeah, I had it before and after.
Corey
You see, you had it multiple times.
Melissa Ford
But when I got shot, it wasn't based on something that I was doing necessarily. Dumb. What I'm saying is this. When I was a kid, I knew better. When I'm an adult, I knew better.
Ish
I agree with this.
Melissa Ford
I'm not blaming it on nobody. Anything that goes on in my life today, whether it's in. In business, whether it's in personal, bro, I hold myself accountable. Accountable for every decision I ever made in my life, bro. We are a combination of our decisions.
Corey
That's a fact.
Melissa Ford
Right? So cool. I'm not gonna blame this, I'm not gonna blame that. I'm not gonna. When I was running around, I was still smarter than most of the niggas running around because I thought different than them. They was doing dumb shit. I ain't wanna do it. I ain't do it.
Joe Budden
And thank God. Coming up. The niggas that was doing dumb shit protected like me.
Melissa Ford
Not all of time, but even when they I still would say, oh, that on dummy time. We see. I'm going over there.
Corey
We see dirt.
Joe Budden
They let old boy go to the park and work on his jump shot. You got a chance, young boy. You think I'm a good family man? Go get your off while we out here. Like, I'm with Ish. At some point, people that know Better. That ain't true. We just ain't coming around. You that's shooting 20amonth, y'all. Y'all.
Corey
No, it ain't that many saying that right now on my block right now. And Carl can tell y'all this. There's a bunch of young that have no reason to be out there. They're not even from over there. And every time I come outside, I keep asking, yo, why are they here? Like, what is their purpose?
Jwan
Like, and what's the response?
Corey
And nobody has a response. I've been asking for the last month and a half, yo, why they here? Like, what the Are they doing? Like, what do. What is. What is their purpose? And no. And you know what the common is? They just outside. They want to be outside, and that is it. It's never the person. It's always the entourage. A lot of the times that be the problem behind a lot of dog.
Ish
It takes a village to raise a child. Even me trying to be outside. Remember my mother coming into clubs looking for me right at a young age. Or Web and Nitty having the conversation aggressively. But you're not doing that, Little TJ Go in the house. You got a good mother. You got a house. Go to school. Giving me money. You don't need to do that. Here, take the money. Go buy yourself some sneakers. And this is what. But sometimes you just watch and you want. That's why I take accountability, because I had N. S tell me that. And thank God I did. Thank God it was a group of niggas that. And I asked him this question as an adult, like, yo, what did y'all see? I asked Nitty when I sat down with him, yo, what y'all saw that y'all didn't even give me a pack or say, go do a dummy mission. Because in my mind, I was more than capable of doing it. Cause I was doing it on my own. And he explained to me that, yo, a lot of times when we grow up, there's always those special ones that we go the extra mile and we cherish, like, nah, you go to school. I miss my opportunity. I miss this. So it is out there. That will do. So I had that experience, you know? I mean, I had that experience.
Joe Budden
So. And y'all just. Today, y'all today, man. Y'all kids today. Oh, man, I do like, my 40s. First of all, aging is a.
Ish
It is.
Joe Budden
I want to. I want to remind the audience of that. Getting older is the blessing. 1 and 2. The stunt today is different than whatever y'all are Putting on Instagram. The stunt today is nitty hitting me to say. Happy Father's Day. Love you, og. Remember back in the day, we made it. Your kids, my kids. Just talking to Father, dad, family. Yo, what you doing now that we don't have to do none of that no more? That's the stunt.
Melissa Ford
It is.
Joe Budden
Y'all are confusing the stunt out there. Y'all are. I pray that y'all get guidance from somewhere. Whoever this applies to, whoever this applies to again, Durk will have his day in court. And because I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt, I hope that they can't prove none of that stuff that they attempting to prove on him. That's the hope.
Corey
I feel it.
Melissa Ford
I agree.
Joe Budden
All right, all right.
Melissa Ford
I mean, in more hip hop court news.
Joe Budden
No, it's a weekend. Man. I was in a good mood and a good vibe. Y'all coming here with this. With this hoot nanny. Come on, man, let me. Let me call on the tower Luther real quick. Yo, man, this life thing. This life thing is good.
Melissa Ford
It's precious.
Joe Budden
This life thing is good. It's beautiful. It's fragile, it's delicate. It's to be treated and handled with care. Care.
Ish
Damn, this is a long intro.
Melissa Ford
Yeah, this might be my favorite Luther song too.
Joe Budden
He knew the beat was blind. Yeah, just let it run. Let it run. I ain't ready yet. Luther was getting some coffee or something. Some in the back. No. What you think? Luther never no dude in the studio. Not right before doing this. George Michael, you think some of these slaps come from gay sex in the back?
Ish
A slapping them and pulling out a gun on them and telling them to go record. Remember that producer that they said that they was doing that was forcing to record under distress. So, yeah, I could. I could.
Jwan
Somebody put a gun on Luther.
Parks
And it's in jail. He's in jail.
Joe Budden
Yes.
Melissa Ford
Wh was based off wh?
Joe Budden
Yeah, come on. What wh meant? What did wh really mean? Them.
Ish
That meant wake me up before you go.
Joe Budden
That mean they was butt ass recording that Lutheran DRO do this. Listen to it.
Corey
I just don't want to see.
Joe Budden
Wait a minute now. Yeah, it's good vibes and good energy in here.
Ish
Here a million days in your home is now going lut the game, man. It wasn't confirmed.
Corey
I don't give a.
Joe Budden
Yes, it was.
Ish
Oh, I'll stop that.
Joe Budden
Luther was gay.
Melissa Ford
It's all right.
Corey
We still with Luther.
Ish
But he a confirm he was gay.
Corey
Like he died a lot of Don't Confirm they gay.
Ish
Luther.
Joe Budden
Luther was gay. Why you want to dance with your father?
Corey
I told you.
Ish
No, that's not gay.
Joe Budden
Why you want to dance?
Corey
If Junior come in the house, your dad. Let's dance. You gonna look at him crazy.
Ish
Listen, that's not gay. No, I'm not. No, I'm not. And that's one of my favorite songs. That's not gay.
Corey
Call him right now and ask him if you.
Ish
I'm not calling him right now.
Joe Budden
I never.
Ish
Yo, you got trauma, son. You got trauma. And that's what I'm saying. And the podcast let you. You know, let it out, but you got trauma. And I feel for you, my son. I feel if you got a lot.
Joe Budden
His generation that got trauma.
Ish
Yeah.
Joe Budden
It ain't just him. It's them.
Ish
But I like that about you because you're expressive. You expressive, but you. I'm letting you know, if you trying to hide it, you need to be better at how to go seek. We got him. Y'all look J. But how does Pop feel when you express that? How you think pops feel if he watches it and say, yo, whatever my son feel about me, I can. It comes out on camera or comes out on the mic. How do you think he makes. Okay, I didn't know that. That's the relationship.
Corey
Like, these are my grievances or issues.
Ish
Got them.
Corey
Like, you feel me?
Ish
I got you. I got you.
Joe Budden
And we gonna stop allowing him to come up here and get Jadakiss trauma. You can't just take the gig and say something bad about legend. You are not. You gotta be a legend. You gotta be a legend before you start talking about legends around here. That's the problem. These kids would voices.
Ish
I watch a video at you at homecoming, blowing the whistle, dancing like, what the.
Joe Budden
Oh, Big Al, yo. Shout out to Big Alpha, the Lord Biden citizens out there.
Melissa Ford
Goddamn it, indeed. Thank you.
Joe Budden
That's you, indeed.
Ish
These days, I ain't said when I.
Joe Budden
Got my car to go up the other street. Go up the street the other day, I. I felt like I had one. I got paranoid.
Melissa Ford
Yeah.
Joe Budden
Out the clear blue.
Ish
That car hot.
Melissa Ford
I don't mean hot.
Joe Budden
I felt illegal. I felt like, oh, let me make sure I'm good.
Ish
I like it high. The one that don't tell me to stop.
Joe Budden
That's hard to think that way in mad long.
Melissa Ford
But that looked like a police maggot. That is a.
Corey
They gonna get up. See that pink hoodie on you Drop slow.
Joe Budden
That's Luther, son. Oh, whoa. Yo, nah. Yo, that shit. No, I Think I smoked the karaoke look with mine, you know what I mean?
Corey
And if he got the cigarette between these two fingers, he gonna look sassy and shit.
Joe Budden
I think I smoke these pants. They're not your style, but you wouldn't do these. But the Balencia PJ Jones. Stop. Come on, man.
Parks
Shits look crazy.
Joe Budden
How about this? At least say they look like Joe pants.
Melissa Ford
Those are Joe pants.
Jwan
Those are definitely Joe pants.
Melissa Ford
I think the Balenciaga made them for you.
Ish
You ain't gotta.
Joe Budden
That's what I said when I might have made them for you. Oh, they wilding now.
Corey
I don't know.
Ish
I like them shits.
Melissa Ford
Not me.
Joe Budden
They for me. They for me. Style should be unique, too. Everyone sells.
Ish
Hey, what's that you got with your back called?
Joe Budden
With my what?
Corey
Scoliosis.
Ish
Scoliosis. Having that car. Scoliosis is fly the way you. The way you get in the car. I know you getting that fly scolia. You sliding right into that, you know.
Melissa Ford
With straight back kick off them ain't comfy.
Ish
You get into that shit. Fly, I thought is like, look at this.
Melissa Ford
I would want to rob.
Ish
You.
Joe Budden
Had to learn how to get in there, your belly on there.
Melissa Ford
You five nine, that's different.
Joe Budden
I hear you. You just. You just got whatever you 5 11, whatever you are. Hold up a minute. Let's crack on him. You like. You like the that went and get lipo. And now they look, they appear to be a bad bitch, but their brain and is still on toxic. Yeah, he's still got short nigga brain and personality and heart and soul. He developed into this.
Ish
All you got to do is accuse him of something. That Napoleon come right out. Yeah, I took over the land, Napoleon.
Joe Budden
I took over the land.
Melissa Ford
Yo, yo.
Joe Budden
No, I'm not wrong. You wrong. Who the you think you tell. You're wrong. They got the game. They got the game.
Melissa Ford
Was like, yo, you tall as hell, my G. You feel good? No, I know I'm tall. I ain't tall as hell anyway. But he like, yo, you don't look like that on the couch. I said, yeah, the couch is 18 inches high.
Ish
Stop dissing the couch when it cut the head dis anything around.
Corey
You know, he wasn't always taller. He a size 8.
Melissa Ford
I'm not a size. I'm a size 10, size 9.
Joe Budden
They don't even. They don't even make that sneaker for that. We're 11 and up. Those are girls. They don't even make that sneaker. Yeah, those are girls.
Melissa Ford
And you listening to him you listening to yo.
Joe Budden
Stupid ass.
Melissa Ford
Yo, my feet growing too, yo.
Ish
At this age, congrats.
Melissa Ford
Dead ass, yo.
Ish
Nah, dead ass.
Corey
Benjamin Button ass.
Ish
Yeah, you good, bro.
Joe Budden
Yo, AI, yo, my AI, yo.
Ish
Yo, goodness.
Joe Budden
I hate to break it to you.
Corey
I'm dead ass.
Joe Budden
I swear, yo. I ain't lying, yo, pause. I was like, nothing on you is growing. There's nothing on you he gave me.
Parks
That's just gouty.
Ish
That's the old nigga swollen. That's a swollen foot. Nigga, you got water in your knees.
Melissa Ford
I was like, yo, should I.
Ish
When you sleep, sleep with your feet up like this? Elevate your toes.
Melissa Ford
That's what it is, stupid.
Joe Budden
Your foot, it's not growing.
Ish
It's.
Joe Budden
No.
Jwan
All right, you're not growing. They're not getting swollen.
Melissa Ford
No, they're not swollen. My feet growing. My sneakers don't fit me. No.
Joe Budden
All right.
Melissa Ford
Never mind.
Ish
Having children at a old age, you start seeing them grow. You think you growing. You trying to win. My daughter is growing. Wait, I'm growing? It's not Peter Pan green tea.
Joe Budden
I'm in.
Melissa Ford
No, for real. My growing, it's okay.
Joe Budden
Okay, well, congrats.
Melissa Ford
Yeah.
Ish
You go hating.
Joe Budden
Like, what does he want us to do with that new information? Like, it's.
Ish
You know, one day, though, follow this. One day, though, son. I want you to decide to say, be doing you. I want you to reverse it on that one day when he going a little flash over the sliding in. Just take your car and follow behind him and see what he does. Come back and tell us. Spy on this, son.
Melissa Ford
Most of what he does.
Ish
He got it now. He do some fly sometimes differently, son. Spy on this. He don't do everything the same.
Melissa Ford
That is, like, ain't nothing to spy on me.
Joe Budden
I ain't doing nothing. I live a boring life, yo.
Ish
No, you don't.
Joe Budden
I live a really.
Ish
I saw that. I saw those stories. You was having fun at that karaoke, huh?
Joe Budden
I was home in bed by the time I posted that story.
Ish
I. You don't gotta tell me that. You don't gotta tell me that.
Joe Budden
I don't sing.
Ish
What's that song?
Corey
Long Gone.
Joe Budden
Yeah, I was long gone. Out of there.
Ish
You just did a good. Just look fly. It looked nice, the view you had.
Joe Budden
It was nice. It was a good vibe. It was a good vibe.
Ish
I thought Mel was gonna be in there.
Jwan
I was asked to go, but I couldn't.
Ish
Ooh, Chanel Gay. Damn.
Jwan
I wanted to go, but I couldn't.
Melissa Ford
Got you.
Joe Budden
Who asked you to go?
Jwan
Who Asked you to go, Doreen.
Joe Budden
Okay. Hey, Doreen.
Jwan
Hey, Doreen.
Joe Budden
Mm.
Jwan
So I'm gonna go to the next time. Next one. You gonna go with me? Come on, we can sing Fire and Desire.
Joe Budden
That trick has gotten many a man at this pod. But, hey, that eye squire, that one little trick right there made many fail.
Melissa Ford
That's funny.
Joe Budden
Nah, nah. No, it's all right. I'll see you there.
Jwan
All right, fine, fine, fine.
Joe Budden
Oh, you wanted to sing. You wanted to.
Ish
She want the ride, nigga. She want the ride. That's what she do.
Joe Budden
She do that shit for the ride.
Ish
Look, she don't care about going with you. For real. She gonna leave your side.
Jwan
We have fun when we go out.
Ish
But you gonna leave your side. Cause you mixie, you ill. You just want the ride. Yo, so pull up. Pull him off the block.
Jwan
No, I can. I can.
Joe Budden
That was funny. She don't really leave my side.
Jwan
I don't.
Ish
Oh, she don't.
Joe Budden
She don't leave my side when we go out.
Ish
Cause he's somebody. Oh, I got. He's somebody. A like flipping E. Yo, y'all good? You never asked. If we good, you walk to the door, you do left.
Melissa Ford
Hour and a half, meet up, same.
Ish
Spot I would have. I'll meet you right here. Okay, Same spot, right here.
Melissa Ford
Ready?
Parks
Break.
Joe Budden
That's fire.
Ish
You only don't care.
Jwan
That's the know me anyways.
Joe Budden
And then the one time she did leave my side at that Angie barbecue, I tore her fucking head off for how she did it.
Jwan
I went to the bathroom.
Joe Budden
I know. It's a shame you don't know how to go to bathrooms.
Melissa Ford
That's true.
Corey
There's a way to go to the bathroom.
Melissa Ford
That's learned behavior. It's like hood shit.
Corey
But that come from hood for women. There's a way.
Ish
Yes. It comes from hood and Melissa Ford and women.
Jwan
I seriously can't even remember. I feel like I had security take me.
Melissa Ford
No, you had some random.
Ish
You had a random.
Joe Budden
Oh, it's this way.
Ish
Oh, take me.
Melissa Ford
Take me there. Take me to the King.
Ish
I want to go there. Take me there.
Melissa Ford
This stupid.
Ish
But you up for watching and not stopping it. You watched this happening. If something went down that bad for you was complicit. He watched it. You watched her go. You would say, yo, come here, man. You take mine of your business.
Joe Budden
I gave her the look, but she didn't recognize the look, so she went off. But when she came back and homeboy went, wherever you were.
Melissa Ford
I gave her the thrashing.
Joe Budden
She got it she got it. I hate that I have to do that to Melvin.
Jwan
It's okay. I learned my lesson that day.
Joe Budden
That won't happen again.
Ish
Around me, it's just Mr. Plus One. You know that, right? And you gotta stop that plus one. You get that off like you as a man to be known as Mr. Plus One. You really comfortable with your sexuality, your masculinity. You just comfortable. You a plus one. You walked up the stairs as a plus one. You went to the game as a plus one. You went to the.
Joe Budden
I'm not mad at him going to the game as a plus one. The plus one is.
Ish
Okay, give me.
Melissa Ford
Give me some plus one times. Y'all just say anything up here on these mic.
Ish
Okay, cool. I can give it to you the dinner. You went to a wallowing them use a plug.
Melissa Ford
I never went to Dillo wallow in my life.
Ish
Duh. Simba.
Melissa Ford
Why was I the plus one?
Ish
So Simba was a plus one or you invited him to dinner?
Melissa Ford
Well, I'm asking you.
Ish
Cause you saying, smarty pants. The point I'm trying to say is that you owe Mr. Plus One and you don't have to.
Joe Budden
Well, you told us about one time you was a plus one. And it's sensitive, so I ain't joking on it, but you told us one time when you said you was Mandy's plus one. You said that up here.
Melissa Ford
No, Mandy said that. I never said that.
Ish
Nigga, he don't like that. Mandy said that.
Joe Budden
And you brought it to the bottom.
Melissa Ford
Mandy said yo was my plus one.
Joe Budden
And you came in the pot and you gonna snuff me over. Look, I'm not at all.
Melissa Ford
I got a smile on my face.
Joe Budden
I'm not even remotely somebody smiling.
Melissa Ford
No, I can't.
Joe Budden
It ain't gonna hit hard.
Melissa Ford
It ain't even gonna hit them hard. Y'all just be making up.
Ish
I think it's fly. You get it off and it says that the don't want me to be there plus ones. I'm not. I'm not ish. It's more from a jealous point of view.
Melissa Ford
Yeah, that's funny.
Joe Budden
It's hilarious. Listen, I'm company man. Mandate consider this a company wide email. We not letting Mel and Ish walk to the board together anymore. Nor are we letting Mel and Mark Lamont Hill walk to the board together anymore.
Jwan
I am open mike.
Joe Budden
She just spazzed on us. She did.
Jwan
I did.
Joe Budden
She said, motherfuckers, I'm the only one that breaks on the board.
Jwan
That is motherfucking right. The Times that I have come in here and sat my ass down, guess what happened? The board stayed blank.
Joe Budden
But let's keep how that part turned out.
Ish
This not fucking up fire, right?
Joe Budden
Absolute heat.
Ish
This is not her only time doing this. She ratted on before.
Jwan
I did not rat.
Ish
And we walked in the. Called the meeting on the balcony.
Jwan
You did r. I don't think that was riding.
Joe Budden
Not only did. Wait, wait.
Ish
How was that?
Joe Budden
We waking it up. Not only did she rat, and I called the meeting on the balcony about people's participation with the board. Then at the end of the meeting, I tried to be a civil, responsible dude. I was like, all right, does anyone here have anything that they would like to address the staff with?
Ish
I remember that.
Joe Budden
And nobody said none. And I looked at Mel and I was like, mel, she. She's like, no, that was so smart. I'm good, y'all. I said this fucking. She act like, yo, Mel, yo, well.
Jwan
Hold the fuck up. I have a drum. Than before, when I was standing at the board and everybody was just talking amongst themselves.
Ish
No, she did that. She did do that before.
Joe Budden
Hold my hand.
Melissa Ford
Yes.
Joe Budden
If you wasn't fine. If she was. Do you know how your life would.
Ish
Be if you was rescrucia.
Joe Budden
Yo, if you didn't look the way you look and you pulled some of the shit that you be trying to pull?
Ish
Mel, girl, Mel, you sat there. I remember we all.
Joe Budden
Sister in Christ. No, for real.
Ish
Mel sat there. Like, she didn't bring it to the nigga's attention. Like, she was like. He just called a random meeting. He looked like the best.
Joe Budden
Yo.
Ish
She said she was. Yo. Hey, yo, she.
Melissa Ford
She was like, yo, he was hot.
Jwan
Do you.
Ish
Wait, wait, let me just finish this. She was sympathizing with us because Ice me is where this came from. I got. He was looking at me. Ice was a. Anyways, and she just sat there.
Joe Budden
Mel sat there and let me argue with people, you know, I kind of argue.
Ish
I like that.
Jwan
Do y'all remember the time I was standing at the board and the three of you were just, like, chatting it up? Chatting up. I was like, I am not standing here for the good of my health. Can you guys help me with this?
Joe Budden
I'm going.
Ish
Keep it real. We thought you was having another one of your hissy fits. That's it. So we just ignored you.
Jwan
I hate. I hate that it gets packaged like that.
Ish
Am I standing here and you guys.
Jwan
It's not even. Because.
Joe Budden
A couple times she's ran off mid. Yo, why are you walking like that come back, man. Come back. Oh, I'm supposed to be doing an ad.
Jwan
That has not happened in a long time.
Ish
Now you.
Joe Budden
That is our time to sexualize you at the workplace too.
Ish
You a different male.
Jwan
No problem.
Joe Budden
When you go to the your fast walks me, it don't look the same up Mark. Mark Lamont. Walk up here like, move, man. You see what you're doing? Look at Mark now, day one, invested in the board. Put your baggy jeans a little bit right. That's a little bit of hate.
Jwan
Actually, what I did was I brought him over to the board. I said, now, this is what happens when we come in today.
Joe Budden
I was told no.
Jwan
Okay? So this is what we come in. What we do when we come inside. We come to the board with our topics.
Joe Budden
And now today, she want to walk to the board. Would you.
Jwan
No. He came to the board last.
Corey
Yeah, bro.
Melissa Ford
I come to the board, you won't.
Joe Budden
Even be here, you know, ignoring you.
Ish
Of course he walked to the board. But Mark was here.
Jwan
He started to contribute.
Joe Budden
Yes.
Jwan
I love it.
Ish
He wanted to check.
Jwan
Came in with subjects.
Joe Budden
Bart workers and stuff. Me, it's cool. Mark took him to the game, made him feel better about the workplace. Mark took him to the game.
Ish
Your co workers standing with me. You know what I'm saying?
Joe Budden
Sunday, what you doing tonight? You free? Yo, you free tonight?
Melissa Ford
What's wrong with Ben?
Ish
Let me take you court side to the game.
Corey
Let's go on a D core side.
Ish
You look good, though.
Joe Budden
Wait, no, no, hold up. No golf, man. We crack.
Corey
They gonna catch us on tv.
Joe Budden
Drove over there with gas prices at a. Look, look at me. About to pretend like I know we a gas price. I don't know, but they gotta be hot. That Nigga took the i95. Listen, man, me coming to the job is nothing against you, you know what I mean? I'm just here. I'm just here to do a gig.
Parks
I don't want you to feel intimidated by my.
Joe Budden
Yeah, I don't want you to feel no type of way about me.
Ish
N. I knew her before we had great. I knew Mel before you. I met her first when I was a professor.
Joe Budden
That be my question.
Jwan
How did I get involved?
Joe Budden
That'd be my question.
Jwan
I'm not even.
Joe Budden
How did she get here? She thought a man don't have nothing to do with her. How the is she? All right, yo, it is time for my key fob. Not enough.
Ish
Not enough, man.
Joe Budden
She ain't got the code to the door, but she get in some. I mean, like how did Mel get in this?
Ish
She know the man like ish.
Jwan
I can be a plus one, you know.
Joe Budden
You queen plus one.
Ish
Yeah.
Joe Budden
No, you a queen plus one.
Jwan
People like me but you call for.
Ish
The plus one like they call ish for plus one. You call invite yourself. Yo, are you going to.
Jwan
Don't let him spin the narrative.
Ish
I'm sorry.
Jwan
Don't let him do it.
Melissa Ford
Sorry, man.
Joe Budden
All right, it is time for my favorite part of the show. It's Prizepix time. Woo. Woo.
Ish
Hey.
Joe Budden
Prizepix is the number one daily fantasy sports app in all of the land. Super easy, very simple to play. All you have to do is select two players across all sports. I repeat, all sports, look at their projected stat line and pick more or less for your chance to win big. There's season long games, there's all types of big money games over there. But for this week I am going to go with. Let's see. Justin Jefferson played already and got more than that. 83 yards. Let me see. I'm riding again. Why? Because of all the non calls against the bikes.
Parks
I was hyped. I'm like, oh, they got one last chance. A minute 50 seconds left.
Joe Budden
I started, dragged him down by the whole face mask.
Parks
I'm like, oh, you killed my vibe right now.
Joe Budden
They killed me too. I started Sam Darnall in fantasy because of that Jaden Daniels injury last week. I wasn't sure. So I started Sam Darnold and. And I really would have liked him to cook up some magic on that last round.
Parks
Yeah, at least give him a shot.
Joe Budden
And the refs are standing right there during the face mask. Right there.
Parks
And you. A face mask is one of the easiest shits to see.
Melissa Ford
The whole helmet turned. Yeah, his whole body turned around.
Joe Budden
Yo, and dude was running away like.
Parks
Oh, I can't believe I got him by the face mat.
Joe Budden
Like all right, now's not the time.
Parks
Carry on.
Joe Budden
To discuss it. But I have a good idea as to why some of these calls are being missed.
Parks
Yeah, carry on. Let's.
Joe Budden
But anyway, I'm going with Saquon Barkley for more than 67 and a half rush yards. Of course I'm going with Tyreek Hill. I'm a lower that number to for more than 80 receiving yards. I'm going with Jordan Love. You two is back. Right. I'm going with Jordan Love for less than 257 and a half passing yards. And I'm riding the high hand of Drake London. I got him with a tud. A touchdown and more than 60 receiving yards he's been heating up for me in the last four weeks. I'm five and two. Got a big match up this week. Download the app today and use code JBP to get $50 instantly after you play your first $5 lineup. I repeat, download prize picks today and use code JBP to get $50 instantly after you play your first $5 lineup. Good luck to all participants out there. And run your game.
Ish
That's a fly line. Run your game smooth. Yeah, I like that.
Melissa Ford
It's in the game on me, but.
Ish
Yeah, run your game.
Corey
Guess what?
Melissa Ford
It's growing on me.
Corey
Pause like your shoes now my shoes.
Ish
Ain'T growing real quick.
Joe Budden
49 years old said my foot is.
Ish
This feel like a 12am drop. I'm feeling it like the energy is chasing it. Yeah. Of course I chase it.
Joe Budden
Chasing the midnight drop. He like that. Midnight.
Ish
Yeah.
Joe Budden
It doesn't feel good when you outside moving around and oh, it's just a weekend vibe, but you know how I feel about that. Don't chase it though. Yeah, don't chase it. It might happen.
Ish
It might happen because don't it up though, because you don't be Mr. Chaos today.
Joe Budden
No, no, I'm in a good mood.
Ish
Yeah, let it, let it, let it flow.
Joe Budden
I'm in a great mood. I ain't got.
Ish
Yeah, I mean it feel like a 12am drop to you too, sis.
Joe Budden
Do you like the midnight drops?
Jwan
I love the midnight drops.
Ish
Do you know when it drops?
Jwan
Yeah, because people hit me that it dropped. Yes. Just like all y'all. I get calls and text when the drops early.
Ish
Well, he proved his. He. This got a whole. He proved it. We don't know about. Y'all is ill. That's it. Legend.
Joe Budden
All right, we have brand new music from Summer Walker.
Parks
Okay, I didn't hear this yet.
Joe Budden
Heart of a woman. Would you like to hear it? Here you go. I love Summer Walker.
Melissa Ford
I do sound like Sonny Braxton esque.
Ish
Question is why I do the things I do Answer I may never find but I'll always choose you want to give up on you but damn, I know I can't I put the blame.
Joe Budden
On me for giving you chances to chance I can't stand and I try.
Ish
To be strong how much can I touch your words on this time And I hope you lying saving you is a heart of a woman. Yeah.
Joe Budden
All right. Y'all know I stand for Summer, so I'mma shut up and let y'all do the review. All right, what's the verdict?
Melissa Ford
I like it that's fire.
Parks
Sounds good.
Joe Budden
OLDER PHIL I absolutely love Summer Walker. I stand what music? I love Summer Walker music. I stand for Summer Walker music.
Jwan
Same.
Joe Budden
I think that she's got two classics under her belt. That's me. I'm not telling y'all to agree. And I think that the third installment and final installment. I think this is finally over. Over it. Over it. Still over it. Finally over it. I think this is going to be more of the same. She's about to absolutely smoke this and fire at that. Larry. Nigga. This whole album. Larry. Hey, Larry.
Melissa Ford
You made that nigga famous.
Joe Budden
Don't cop this. No, she made him famous. Hey, Larry. Skip this drop, my brother. She is about to kick your back in and fuck somebody better.
Melissa Ford
Larry might be back in the building.
Joe Budden
Larry's not in no building. Stop it. This that same. You try to pull offsetting cardi. I'm done with you, Larry.
Melissa Ford
Where's offset?
Joe Budden
I don't know.
Ish
It's okay.
Jwan
You know something?
Melissa Ford
Nope.
Joe Budden
You got some tea?
Melissa Ford
Nope. I drink coffee.
Joe Budden
I look. I look forward to hearing the Summer Walker project. I was about to hit somebody to find out when it dropped. That's how thirsty I am. But just good to. Good to feel like a fan again. Yeah. Give me some music. It's been a few years since the last album. This sounds fire. Very first singlish or first drop is from this. But I can't wait to hear her get. Getting her Larry back. That's it. That's what I got for Summer Walker.
Parks
Sounded good. Sounded good.
Ish
I didn't floss. I didn't do none of that crazy. Don't stop looking.
Joe Budden
Did you pull out a lint? A lint, bro. While I'm on air.
Ish
Yo, I didn't mean. Okay, now don't do that. Don't start the okay, like. Cause I know what that means.
Corey
Insubordinate.
Ish
Okay.
Joe Budden
Yeah.
Ish
Don't do that. Don't put that under my. Don't put that in my file. Put that in my file. Buddy. Don't, please.
Parks
Right next to the floor.
Jwan
How did this happen anyways? Where'd all the fluff on you? Okay. You know, I think that I speak for everybody. We're. We're glad that you have, you know, such impeccable hygiene habits. But, like, why on camera?
Ish
I don't know. You've been checking me about that way before. I can't believe you ratted on me last time. Because you pulled me.
Jwan
They were about to see. And I didn't want to risk, you know, some flying out of Your teeth and landing on me.
Ish
I understand, man.
Jwan
Sorry.
Ish
Don't you. But you there.
Melissa Ford
Look at your face.
Ish
You're trying to help get rid of me. So I see your bad. Cause all my days off, you just try to call out, yo, you got a lint brush? Yo, you flossing your teeth?
Joe Budden
Yo, whatever y'all doing, leave that at the pet farm. Whatever y'all doing.
Ish
You watch that whole too that to.
Corey
SeaWorld or wherever the y'all was at Animal Kingdom.
Melissa Ford
Yo, y'all was at a pet farm.
Joe Budden
What the. Yeah, here we talking about Summer Walker, not your lack of hygiene. Which one y'all think?
Ish
Summer Walker.
Joe Budden
Let me wait out. Do y'all have any thoughts on the new Summer Walker project? And not flips hygiene.
Ish
Summer Walker, the song that I heard was nice. It reminds me. It's an old school feel. 90s feel. Like it said whoever said it.
Melissa Ford
And Jay wants to sound like Brandy.
Ish
Yeah, that was fire.
Jwan
He gives it a little bit of a Brandy deal.
Corey
Yeah, I'm jacking it.
Melissa Ford
I'm jacking that, too.
Ish
Hard of a woman.
Joe Budden
These young.
Ish
It's a heart of a woman, bro.
Corey
What was wrong with that?
Melissa Ford
Nothing.
Corey
That's good lingo.
Melissa Ford
All right.
Joe Budden
Okay.
Melissa Ford
I got you with you.
Joe Budden
Summer is Summer.
Melissa Ford
Summer, shout to Summer.
Joe Budden
Let's just be. Be careful with our Brandy references.
Melissa Ford
No, that's.
Ish
He love Brandy.
Melissa Ford
You think that's bad?
Corey
I think that was a compl.
Ish
Somebody awful for.
Melissa Ford
It's a compliment.
Parks
It is a compliment. I think.
Joe Budden
To one of those people.
Corey
It gave me that.
Joe Budden
It's a compliment to one of the Those people. To one of those people.
Parks
Like, I think he's just saying slow.
Joe Budden
Down, baby, a little bit. To one of them who might be the heir to the Whitney voice throne, talking about how their relationship. I'm not talking about our fodder. Their relationship. So, yeah, let's cool it now just a little bit. Let's let summer be summer. Ms. Norwood, would y'all should have a little more respect.
Corey
I wasn't talking about the vocals. I was talking about the production sound.
Joe Budden
Yeah. Say it, though. Say it, though. Ms. Norwood is not to be played.
Corey
With, so the nuances are needed.
Joe Budden
Yo, you know what? We have had a lot of new hires. We had to let Mark know about how we feel about Jay Z up here. We need to make a list. I'mma make a list of the people that y'all need to just treat with a little. Have a little more reverence for when we Talk up here. Ms. Norwood is on that list for me. Let's just be careful is all, is all I'm saying.
Melissa Ford
I think in another life you might have married her.
Joe Budden
Yo, well, if I could act right, like if I. Yeah.
Melissa Ford
Cause I don't think she tolerating that.
Corey
Imagine him and Ray J as brother in laws.
Melissa Ford
Holy Thanksgiving would be. Y'all would be out of here. That is a content gold mine. You niggas would be out of here. What?
Corey
Mona Scott would have been rich.
Joe Budden
Yo, you know what's funny though? Like, I do have. I do have a theory. And I'm with what y'all are saying. I also think the Brandy's and some of them, the Whitney's, some of them that are buttoned up, be with the shit all the way.
Melissa Ford
I can concur all the way I see it.
Joe Budden
You'll just never know it. I just carry my.
Melissa Ford
Myself classy.
Joe Budden
Yeah, they just got class. But you think that Brandy or the likes of Brandy don't like a dick with some toxicity. I don't believe that. I don't believe that at all. Now that I'm in a pussy business. I love Brandi. I love Brandi too much to even. To even put her through the Joe Budden experience. Like, I don't think that's right.
Melissa Ford
That's funny.
Joe Budden
I don't think that's right. I'm with you sometimes. Sometimes you gotta save people from yourself. Like sometimes you can look at somebody and know the damage that.
Melissa Ford
Yeah, that. It's a piranha over here. Get out my water, please.
Joe Budden
Go ahead, girl, and sing them songs.
Ish
Don't overdo it.
Joe Budden
Get out my voice.
Melissa Ford
Yeah.
Joe Budden
Cause and the reason you don't date them chicks that's all buttoned up like that, anything they say publicly, they write. They could be dead ass wrong in the house. Like that whole Keke Palmer and her man shit. I mind my business, but I got some thoughts. If Brandy say Joe Budden did some shit in the house. Nigga, I did some shit in the house. It ain't no fighting that. I love you, Randy. Anyway.
Parks
Anyway.
Joe Budden
Anything else in music?
Parks
Not a ton.
Joe Budden
Anybody from your backpacker boys came out?
Parks
Shane Noir dropped a great project. Self produced the Lotus Child. Megan Thee Stallion dropped a deluxe, which is a whole 13 new songs. So it's a new album. I don't understand that.
Joe Budden
I'm never listening to Megan Thee Stallion. It was.
Parks
It sounded pretty good. I only listened to like two or three songs. It sounded pretty good. I just don't understand why you wouldn't put that out as a new album.
Joe Budden
It's weird if it's that many songs. Yeah, yeah. And I'm saying that. But her last album did have some songs that I with. I play some.
Parks
You would probably like some of this.
Joe Budden
I play some of them snake sounding songs. I just think she need to change up the. The tempo of some of the songs is all.
Parks
Yeah. Tempo and the rhyme style is a little consistent, but I don't have a problem with that. I don't have a problem.
Joe Budden
Well, me neither. I'm not going to listen to her consistently enough for that to be a problem.
Parks
I get you.
Joe Budden
Yeah, I get you. But shout out to her.
Parks
Yeah, shout out to her.
Joe Budden
Who else? Who else? Y'all don't give a about music when it drop, right? Like Friday come. Y'all don't even check the itunes store or nothing. Look at these.
Ish
We don't.
Parks
It was a pretty quiet week.
Ish
In their defense, we looked at parks. Ice ain't here. We. Which he usually have it.
Parks
I'll speak for Ice. The east side has dropped. I'm excited about that. Snoop presents to ep. Still east side or still eastie? West Coast.
Joe Budden
And speaking vice. I think Gucci dropped a record. Oh, he did okay with somebody.
Corey
Him and sexy.
Joe Budden
There you go. Him and sexy Red. I'm sure that's fire. I'll wait for Ice to play it for me before I hear it.
Corey
I'm going to listen to everything tonight.
Joe Budden
Not I tonight. You crazy as hell. So you ain't gonna stop shaking.
Corey
No, no, no, no.
Melissa Ford
You want punishment?
Corey
No, nigga chilling. You want punishment?
Joe Budden
He don't need to go outside no more now that he got the love from his father this week.
Ish
That's what it was.
Melissa Ford
I was outside trying to get.
Joe Budden
He ain't outside trying to fill that empty void.
Ish
Tell me, where have you been, father? I love this game.
Joe Budden
All right, musicians, have at it. Have at it. I have absolutely nothing else in music.
Parks
Yeah, it's pretty quiet week.
Joe Budden
All right, what else we got?
Jwan
Do you guys want to talk about Menendez brothers possibly getting parole? Okay, well, the district attorney in California has basically said that he is going to recommend to the judge who is going to resentencing. Yeah, well, he's recommending resentencing.
Joe Budden
You on top of this Menendez shit. You like Dim Kardashian?
Jwan
No. I mean, I think you ain't missed.
Joe Budden
A beat with this shit.
Jwan
I. Well, I mean, like, it's hard not to because it's all over our televisions. I mean, first we had the Ryan Murphy, you know, series, and then we have their voices talking about their perspective of everything. They've been in jail for like over 30 years.
Joe Budden
34 years. And they did a 2020 on these dudes recently. I watched that as well.
Parks
And there's HBO one. It's just everywhere.
Jwan
And then in light. Exactly. In light of all the new evidence from the former member of Menudo talking about the sexual assault that he experienced at the hands of their father. Now the district district attorney is basically saying, I'm going to recommend that they get parole eligible eligibility immediately. That's huge. Because they were like facing life without parole forever.
Ish
And he also was down a couple of points. He's absolutely. Election.
Jwan
Yeah. The district attorney.
Ish
Yes.
Jwan
Yeah. Gascon.
Ish
Yeah, he was down like 30%.
Melissa Ford
How do we feel about that?
Corey
I think they should get free.
Jwan
I think that they should be eligible for parole because they're not a danger to society. Like, and I think that that's one of the considerations when it comes to being eligible for parole. They're not a danger to society. And with the circumstances around the fact that they may have been telling the truth about. About being sexually abused and that not having been taken into account during their trial. Yeah, I feel y.
Ish
Don't stop cracking your.
Parks
I think if that second. If the second doctor came out was valid and the. That was left out of the trial is true, then it would have been probably a manslaughter charge. They still killed people at the end of the day, brutally. And I think that their time would.
Corey
Have been so I feel sexual abusers should be tortured to some degree. So if their father, who's supposed to be their hero, sexually abused them.
Joe Budden
Damn. Come on. We skip this guy's dad trauma.
Corey
No, this ain't.
Joe Budden
Can we skip?
Corey
Come on.
Joe Budden
My dad should be my hero all the time. What the. Trace him and respect the 1v1 man. Let them clear out. You see Ish cracking his neck while talking. Hit him with that 1v1 going.
Melissa Ford
I think it's bullshit.
Ish
You think what's bullshit?
Melissa Ford
Them getting early Release.
Corey
It's been 34 years.
Melissa Ford
You don't give a fuck. Would it been. It's niggas that have gone to jail for less did life. And if we are going to allow somebody's trauma to justify them committing criminal acts, then free the whole ghetto.
Corey
I'm not mad.
Joe Budden
Oh, great. I'm free to ghetto.
Melissa Ford
You know what I'm saying? Like, I'm not. I'm not a fan of that. I think it's bullshit. I think that the media attention and the spotlight, that's been put upon the case has now allowed them, you know, the benefit of getting sympathy from the. From the masses. But the sympathy don't give us masses when we create, when we do violent crime.
Ish
But you don't identify with trauma anyway.
Melissa Ford
Who don't identify with trauma?
Ish
Let me not say that. From conversations, you don't seem like you really take the trauma serious. That's not true.
Jwan
If you want to therapy that he doesn't really.
Ish
My apologies. I'm saying that speaking to you and coming from you, I would expect to answer like that because you just a macho man, nigga.
Melissa Ford
That's not.
Ish
That's how I feel. I'm just saying I feel like watching them, you know, if they father did that, I do understand what you're saying, but if they father did that to them, a lot of back in those days, they didn't feel like men suffered from those things, like sexual assault. It wasn't really highlighted when it came to men, you know, it was shunned. It's only women experienced those things.
Corey
So, like, I feel like it's still taboo.
Ish
Yeah, it's taboo. So I feel like, you know, these. A lot of times, if a girl is kidnapped and she kills her killer, not. Not kill, kills her kidnapper, you know, she does time.
Joe Budden
But a woman sex trafficked.
Ish
Yeah, sex trafficking. She gets out at a decent.
Melissa Ford
Good point.
Ish
Great, you know, time. But I understand what you saying because I felt the same way until I saw the story and then I. And I watched the documentary. I'm like, okay, you empathize with them a little more. Yeah, I empathize with them a little more.
Joe Budden
Yeah.
Corey
So do you feel they shouldn't be released because of the killing part or because of the way they did it?
Melissa Ford
I think that their killing was graphic. I think that their killing was premeditated. And I think that, again, not saying that those guys didn't have. If those things were accurate and that that stuff really took place, they definitely had a right to feel, you know, contempt and disdain for their family. I just think that it sets a precedent. Like, what about all the people that did similar shit that just didn't have their case televised? They still locked up. So I think it's unfair to let go some and not let go all.
Joe Budden
I think it's unfair that we are talking about the resentencing, that we talking about the television shows as it pertains to the resentencing and not some of the new evidence that they found. I don't believe that a television show alone is going to get people granted new trials.
Ish
Steven Avery is still in jail, but.
Joe Budden
If there's new evidence and he ain't getting. I don't know why he thought Trump was getting him out of jail.
Melissa Ford
We just had a case. We just had a case less than a month ago where somebody was executed. The district attorney, the district attorney attorney begged for him to not be executed. The quote, unquote, the prosecutor, the victim's family that they thought was a victim begged for him not to be prosecuted under the guise of new evidence that exonerated the gentleman, he still got executed. You understand what I'm saying?
Parks
I do, but I don't think that you should hold true just because he didn't get the right proper thing that.
Melissa Ford
I mean, I shouldn't get proper.
Ish
But he's saying unfair. He's saying that it's unfair, just unfair. Just. I understand what Ish is saying, but.
Corey
To that point, how you saying. Like basically saying the TV and everything is given. We just had this conversation a few pods back. They did that with Diddy did using the TV and shit to make him look a pain away. So regardless how it go, it can be in your favor or not in your favor.
Melissa Ford
I'm not disagreeing. I'm just saying that y'all asking me my opinion on the case. I'm just saying I think that, you know, is drug. Is drug sellers that got life, that didn't do a violent crime. They got life for selling drugs.
Joe Budden
I just think, oh, you're not able to look at this isolated.
Parks
Yeah, I put you on that part, by the way. What like drug dealers should not probably serve life.
Melissa Ford
That's literally doing life right now.
Parks
I don't think someone else shouldn't get fair justice because someone else.
Melissa Ford
Somebody else. That's a good.
Corey
But because you think drug dealers shouldn't get like, it's people that think what drug dealers do is bad just because you don't think it's as bad as killing.
Melissa Ford
That's their opinion. Not knocking their pain.
Ish
So new evidence. You saying that new evidence was found and that's what we should be focusing on?
Jwan
Well, I mean, the fact of the.
Joe Budden
Matter is the Menudo boy, like, what do you do? Like dog.
Parks
And they found an old letter from.
Ish
The kids to the letter to his cousin.
Joe Budden
I. I want him to get out. I do want him to get out.
Jwan
Yeah.
Joe Budden
34 years is 34 years. And your parents doing the abuse. It's like I can't speak to what that. What that.
Jwan
And not only that, when, when we talk about prison. You know, they talk about the whole, you know, reimbursement. Well, not. Shut up.
Joe Budden
You did. Do tell.
Melissa Ford
You went to jail.
Joe Budden
You went to prison for some.
Jwan
I did not go to prison. I did not. I didn't go to prison. I was in jail. There's a big difference between the two. Okay, but when they talk about prison, they talk a lot about reappearing, habilitation, and a lot of times that's just really bullshit. But these guys have been exemplary prisoners. They have got. They've gotten, like, college degrees and they run prison programs and they do all this stuff.
Joe Budden
Why did that sound so anti black?
Jwan
What?
Joe Budden
I don't feel like you should be able to say that. Like.
Jwan
Say what?
Joe Budden
Like that. All the rehabilitation talk is a lot of times, like, do we have facts to support that?
Melissa Ford
Well, yeah, it depends on what angle in this country. Yeah, depending on what angle she coming from.
Joe Budden
Go ahead.
Jwan
No, I'm talking from the angle that.
Ish
Yeah, I don't think the rehabilitation programs work in prison.
Melissa Ford
Are you serious? Are you joking?
Ish
I'm dead.
Jwan
No, I'm not even talking about. I'm not even talking about rehabilitation programs. I'm talking about being in prison and it being a rehabilitative experience. That's bullshit. That's what I'm saying.
Melissa Ford
I would say for some. For some, though, there's studies that show.
Joe Budden
That's not Corey, stop. That's totally not Corey stop.
Melissa Ford
What side are you standing on that prison does rehabilitate or not?
Joe Budden
Can.
Melissa Ford
Can.
Joe Budden
I'm not saying does.
Jwan
Okay, so do you want to talk about, like, rehab?
Joe Budden
So I just don't think it's fair to state factually that prison can't rehab.
Melissa Ford
That's true.
Joe Budden
I don't think that that's fair assessment.
Ish
I agree with that, too. Okay.
Melissa Ford
And prison can make you worse.
Ish
It can as well.
Jwan
So that's why I don't.
Melissa Ford
Case by case basis, can as well.
Jwan
So I don't want to apply it as a blanket statement.
Joe Budden
It jumps out at me when it is a blanket statement because prison rehabbed my dad.
Melissa Ford
Indeed, that makes sense.
Jwan
So I don't want to issue it as a blanket statement. I want to issue that as a generalized statement. So let me just be clear on that.
Joe Budden
That's better.
Jwan
So when it comes to the Menendez brothers, they're not a danger to society. They. Yes, they did a heinous crime, but it was directed to the people that, you know. They've given examples of the fact that they, like, abused them. And so, I don't know. I'M just on the side of them getting parole. And also, I don't know why it's now, but we've read and seen lots of documentaries about them over the course of, like, the last 20, 30 years. This is not the first time that they've produced documentaries based on the Menendez brothers. It's just now new evidence has come to light in conjunction with a lot of media attention.
Melissa Ford
This had the best acting, this had the best budget, this had the best production.
Jwan
Yeah. But I also think that the main factor that, you know, what you guys were saying about men, you know, and male children. Exactly. The taboo of male children being abused. It's a different era in which we're living. It's a different conversation. We have a different mindset when it comes to that. Whereas maybe 20 years ago, it was still very much something that just didn't want to be, you know, people just didn't want to talk about.
Ish
Yeah. And, you know, now people with power, with money and power, you know, they're trying to highlight a lot of times that people with money and power do whatever they want and get away with it. So you have to be fair all around the board. That's just my stance on it. You know what I'm saying? If they, you know, the parents were rich and they were being sexually abused by their father, they felt like they had nowhere to go. They didn't, you know, just. We hear about these stories and, you know, free them.
Melissa Ford
Gotcha.
Corey
Free the bros. Free.
Ish
Well, not our bros, but free the.
Corey
Menendez bros.
Joe Budden
All right, Jesus. Jesus. Let's try this again.
Ish
You brought it up.
Joe Budden
It is. No, I didn't.
Ish
No, I didn't bring it up. She brought it up.
Joe Budden
Say free the gang and that's it. It's over.
Ish
It's a Friday. It is the weekend.
Joe Budden
Some people are traveling, some are doing. That's lit right now. Here we go. With all this depressing out of here.
Ish
Oh, I want to say something, too. Oh, I. I want. Thank you for. You just woke me up real quick. And I want to. It's about something with women and dating. I have something that I want to say.
Joe Budden
Jeff, I'd love to hear about that.
Ish
Whenever the hook. You know, this is a long. So this is the time he was getting fucked.
Joe Budden
20 minutes.
Ish
This is the time he was fucking. Right. Let me fuck before the verse. Come on. I can catch a quickie. And five.
Parks
Count me in.
Corey
That's what he was doing.
Ish
Them doing six. Yo, Quincy, where you at? I want to talk to that Yo.
Melissa Ford
Joe interview that Quincy light your ass.
Ish
No, I don't want to smoke with him. He's a legend.
Melissa Ford
You trying to shoot at Quincy? Quincy will light you up.
Corey
No, I lost my glasses.
Joe Budden
We gotta be fast. Gotta be quicker than that should hurt my heart. Gotta be fast, young blood.
Melissa Ford
I'm about them shits. That's why I'm my mind. Cause I lead them somewhere. Hats and glasses.
Parks
I got a limit on glasses, too.
Joe Budden
They don't.
Melissa Ford
They don't stand a chance with me. Yo, I bought a cashmere dope ass. Cashmere beanie. I wore that about four times. I was tight.
Joe Budden
I pair glasses when I got these, but they was Ray Bans. And then I felt bad.
Corey
Ray Bans is cool.
Joe Budden
I like Ray bands. We had a Ray Ban, so I just did.
Ish
Why you get him some fly like you had?
Corey
Let's get him some.
Melissa Ford
That's.
Corey
That is.
Joe Budden
They won a bad beer. Ray Bans.
Parks
Ray Bands are classy.
Melissa Ford
What's your class?
Joe Budden
These?
Jwan
Yes, those are Louis.
Joe Budden
These are Louie Ray.
Melissa Ford
If you gonna buy loop.
Ish
Yeah. Same thing with the car.
Corey
If you ain't proud of the baby, gotta have product.
Joe Budden
Yeah. Let me bump into a topic by mistake.
Melissa Ford
Yeah, yeah.
Joe Budden
Is that the rule on gift giving?
Melissa Ford
No, no, no, no. It depends.
Joe Budden
It depends.
Melissa Ford
That's not true.
Joe Budden
Look, now, he said.
Ish
He goes.
Joe Budden
You thought. Y'all defend it.
Melissa Ford
Nah, I'm just saying that depends. I'm not going if I'm buying some at the same time.
Ish
That's the problem.
Melissa Ford
If you buying some shit at the same time. Like, I'm not. Me and my man go out to eat. I'm not gonna get my man pizza, and I got a fucking tomahawk.
Parks
But you're not shopping together. That's the difference.
Melissa Ford
I'm not gonna bring you parks back if I'm like, yo, I'm going to get some food. You want something you like? Yeah, bring me something.
Parks
But he was just bringing you a gift.
Joe Budden
You didn't have to know these people.
Ish
At the same time.
Corey
But he just told him.
Ish
Yeah, he should have let me know.
Joe Budden
Black people have. We got. We got.
Melissa Ford
We spend your money.
Corey
It's human decency.
Parks
I would say thank you for the sunglasses.
Joe Budden
I would say the same thing.
Ish
I would say the same thing, but not wear it. Right.
Corey
But don't on me when you do it like. Yeah, when you. When I bought you these Ray Bans. I bought these, Lou.
Parks
Well, that's what. Yeah, okay.
Melissa Ford
That's what I'm saying.
Corey
That's what he did.
Melissa Ford
No sunglasses at all? No, he said Yo, I was going to get. I was going to get you something when I got these. And I said, oh, word, what's those?
Ish
They were in the same section.
Melissa Ford
No, of course not.
Joe Budden
The Ray Ban store was. I passed it to get to the Louis store.
Ish
Gotcha, cuz. I know you went straight to Louie. You ain't go to those little shits in the. In the center of the mall now. No.
Melissa Ford
Going to the kiosk.
Ish
You don't go to the kiosk. I didn't go there exactly for a.
Melissa Ford
A pineapple like that.
Joe Budden
And. And I dubbed the dude at the kiosk, too. And I didn't feel bad about. But maybe for a second when I was running in one of the stores, he come here, Jojo. Check out my album because I got this right here. Yo, yo, look at this. I was like, yeah, recently been on my way out the other day. On my way out. He was right there when I came up. Yo, yo, yo, check it out. Check it out.
Ish
No, they got you on tape doing this.
Joe Budden
I'm not coming to check nothing out. Yo, my checking out days are over. Are over with. I'm so sorry.
Melissa Ford
First the Fat Boys break up.
Joe Budden
I wish you well and good luck, but I'm not coming to you.
Melissa Ford
You wish me well. Spend 27 over here. No, $27. Some of that at the kiosk that the be. I buy the socks. I buy the socks a lot.
Joe Budden
I'm getting you some Ray Bans. That I am. Now that I heard your response, I got. All right, so let's get to it. Is hip hop media just not worthy anymore?
Melissa Ford
Worthy of.
Joe Budden
Of getting to have interviews with our favorite artists. Are the days of Ed Loving, Dr. Dre, Fab 5 Freddy. Are the days. Just audio, but Donnie Simpson. Is it over? This is from a Punch tweet where Punch said, I gotta find it. But he said, basically, we not sitting with y'all.
Melissa Ford
Like, yeah, I would think that this.
Joe Budden
Is coming off the heat of Kendrick doing the Harper Bazaar. Yes. Interview and him catching some flack for it being Harper Bazaar and I guess.
Corey
Not a black outlet.
Melissa Ford
And Punch said that we done fucking with y'all.
Joe Budden
Basically. Punch tweet says, I respect hip hop journalism and feel it's needed in its truest form. Form. It helps keep the culture alive. But it's only a few real ones left. Most of you guys are trash. Just my opinion. That's why artists don't want to talk to you.
Corey
I feel that's what he said.
Jwan
Would have been interesting if he said, who he feels the real ones are that's left.
Corey
He wouldn't do it like on Twitter.
Melissa Ford
You're not gonna do that but negate other people that you might have.
Corey
He went through it on Twitter though. Gave certain people they praises. Like that's what I mean.
Jwan
Like when without saying who he thinks is. He could just say who he thought was good holds in a high regard.
Melissa Ford
And the people that you don't.
Jwan
There's so many. There'd be so many.
Joe Budden
Mel just. She's confusing rat rules. She's rat so much that she don't even know what is, what's and what's not. Yeah, that's. Sometimes you could rat and you got.
Melissa Ford
Relationships with some of the that you.
Joe Budden
Might think are trash. Sometimes you can rat by elimination.
Jwan
J1 what did he say? Who did he highlight?
Corey
He didn't highlight one person person specifically, but he did respond to one person and say this is not in regard to them.
Joe Budden
Eric. Eric D on Twitter said just talked about Punch's tweet in therapy. Cuz it made me that upset. I think we need to start using this app for more positive conversations about rap journalism. Like talking about our favorite pieces from this year or songs that we liked. It is so negative on here. Punch retweeted that and said Said. A couple of people sent me this post earlier and I thought about it. My comments made you so upset that you spoke with your therapist about it. Imagine what artists must go through when things are written about them.
Corey
He cleared the out of him.
Joe Budden
That's why my original post asked is it okay to criticize the critics, End quote.
Melissa Ford
Oh yeah, I fuck with him for that.
Corey
What I with him.
Parks
What talking to your therapist about some Twitter is.
Melissa Ford
That's some. If my post made you talk to a therapist, imagine what the artists are talking about in their therapy sessions when y'all say negative about them or when y'all critique them. I think that.
Corey
This is a conversation usually had like amongst artists when they say like when they do their vlogs or whatever. Like all the critics or the blogs, they saying this and that and then blogs that say, man, shut up. Be an. But then you see, now you see the higher ups in the labels, the punches, the other. The other higher ups engaging now it's like y'all being harsh of us. But it's like don't hold up the mirror if you can't look at the mirror yourself. So I feel totally how Punch feel.
Melissa Ford
And I think you're right. I think that nowadays anybody with a microphone in front of Them thinks that they're a journalist, and that may not necessarily be true. Like journalists go to school.
Jwan
99% of the time.
Melissa Ford
It's a journalist go to school, dog. They learn techniques on how to interview. They learn techniques on how to write. They learn techniques on how to do certain shit from people that are. Some people just got it.
Parks
And they're also just creatives, by the way. No, real journalists are creatives. And if I'm sitting down with Drake, I'm going to think of an angle to talk about things that he's not.
Melissa Ford
Going to make it interesting.
Jwan
Exactly.
Joe Budden
We don't have to restrict this to journalists because he said Hip Hop Media, which is podcast also, that's just the journal. The journalists deal in facts. I. I don't.
Melissa Ford
But they don't necessarily either. They'll ask questions for engagement, you know what I'm saying? Like shit that they may not even know to be factual or know to be true. They'll take, like park said, a certain angle to invoke shit out of the guests or the artist. Now it's. Nowadays everybody is just spewing gossip, you know what I'm saying? Or trying to be salacious or. Because it's the Internet generation trying to get clicks. So it takes away from the necessary, the integrity of journalism and media in itself.
Corey
A lot of it comes off disingenuine. Like we'll see. Oftentimes certain pods or radio hosts or journalists say, oh, this artist ain't do here. But you go through their timeline, they kick the artist back in for weeks, months, they on them. So I feel like it's really just a matter of niggas being mad. They're not getting certain interviews they feel they should get or are entitled to. And it's like, why do you feel you're entitled to this? Why are you more deserving than this person is?
Melissa Ford
I think the media space is just cuz is monetizing it that they just doing whatever they got to do to get clicks. And that don't necessarily be in the best interest of the artist.
Corey
That's a fact.
Melissa Ford
So I agree with him a th percent, a million percent.
Joe Budden
I think it's a crock of what, Punch? That I think there's truth, but the truth is buried under the crock of shit. And I've had this talk with Punch before, so I mean, I don't really feel the need to have it publicly. Well, let me see, let me go to what he said.
Jwan
What was some of the criticism that Kendrick received doing the Harper's Bazaar article.
Joe Budden
The criticism was, you keep talking this pro blackity, blackity, blackity, black shit and how Drake as a culture votes, and yet anytime you get a chance to represent culture, it's normally through a white outlet.
Corey
Didn't they try to criticize you too?
Joe Budden
Well, they've done that forever. But for what?
Corey
They said you praised Kendrick for his interview and doing it, but you kicked Drake back in for going on the other side. So, like, they tried that with you also.
Joe Budden
Oh, I saw them say that I kicked Drake's back in for doing the interview with Yachty.
Corey
Oh, yeah, and they like, they came for HOV too.
Joe Budden
Yo, y'all, y'all idiots can't never speak for me. Y'all, y'all try your best because of that little Adsense check. Y'all get on the 21st, but y'all can't speak for me. My brain is way too warped and I have way too many multiple personalities for any of y'all out there to just assume this is what Joe Budden was thinking. I absolutely love Drake sitting with Yachty during my disdain came from Yachty being allowed to go to the studio after that.
Jwan
He did say that.
Joe Budden
I said it then. I'll say it now. I love seeing peer to peer communication. Yeah, I don't need some of those peers in the studio while some of them are cooking up. I don't need that. As far as Kendrick goes, anything I say here, they're going to say I'm chasing an interview because I bigged Kendrick up for so long during the beef. I could give two fucks if Kendrick don't sit with me. And that's why I have a problem with what Punch is saying when you say hip hop media. There are way too many options to choose from for you to lump all of those people under one umbrella of, of, hey, y'all talk bad about the artists and the artists feel away so they don't want to talk to you. That is a crock of shit. You can't tell me that. Now. Many of us in hip hop media choose to speak about you rather than to you, because the gig is the gig. But where I'm. Where I, where I come from, the hip hop that I know, even those things led to more anticipation for an amazing interview, right?
Melissa Ford
True.
Joe Budden
Like when Chance came up here and did the part, I was kicking chances back in for months. True about that fake independent shit about the three hats about so many things. And he was listening and he said, you know what? I'm gonna face you and I'm Gonna. We're gonna have the discussion. And we did. And it was important at the time. Who else? Big Sean. When I sat with him months before that, I was kicking his back. And some. I've had a lot of interviews where I was kicking somebody back in and they came right to the smoke rather than say, hey, this person's been talking about me, and my feelings are hurt, so I don't want to go. I don't even like his point to homeboy that had to go to therapy. Homeboy that had to go to therapy is a dude sitting at home somewhere who knows what he works and where he works and what his home life is like. He is not performing in front of millions and millions and millions and millions and millions of people. He's not required to have the same tough skin that some of our entertainers are required to have.
Melissa Ford
But is that an unfair requirement to punch his point? Is that an unfair requirement that these are still human beings? 1. And just because my career puts me in front of a million people, that doesn't mean that I can be disrespected or I should disrespected and just have to tolerate that.
Joe Budden
But see, and that's where we conflate points. Yes, I agree with that. I also don't think everybody in hip hop media kicked one person's back in. There are too many people in hip hop media. Find the person that is true and aligns with whatever you trying to do and talk to that person, then I just think it gets real murder when artists today won't sit with anybody.
Melissa Ford
I agree with that. And I said that about Harper's Bazaar. I said I thought it would have been a negative if they didn't let Sza interview him. I think that we basically beat the critique by allowing Sza to sit with Kendrick as opposed to some white media person or some white interviewer that fucking grew up in Connecticut. No disrespect to Connecticut.
Jwan
And it's possible he wouldn't have done the interview if it was the one.
Melissa Ford
I didn't knock that. But let's say this. Why couldn't we have Scissor interview him for a black media publication?
Corey
Is it too much to assume that whatever mediacation an artist does align with isn't getting the numbers or it won't get the response? And that's why they don't do it?
Ish
I mean, that's one of the critiques.
Joe Budden
But that's. But that's. That's a part. But that's part of. I want to focus on what you're saying. Cause that's part of my critique, right? Jwan is right. When you're talking about appealing to the masses and you talking about stars and a certain level of audience that includes white people. True.
Melissa Ford
Thousand percent.
Joe Budden
Like, if you talking only blacks, then we talking about playing with a quarter of the Monopoly board. So I'm not mad at that. But the same way that you go and speak to them, I think it should be equally as important to find the person in hip hop, Hip Hop specific, not just black hip hop media that you could sit with. I think if Kendrick never sits with anybody, we are well within our right to kick his fucking back in. I also don't see a world where Kendrick won't sit with a big boy or sit with a sway or sit with. I don't. I don't see he would. They have to show me that he won't do that for me to believe that. See, Drake, I know that about. Because of how he's going about interviews. Since that Elliot Wilson interview. How that interview went. How the interviews. Like, I know that about him now. Like, even recently. Not recently, but a few years ago, he tried to do some shit where all the media people come up here, we'll do the interviews. I edit it up, slice it up. No, nigga, no, no, no. This ain't going like that. I don't want to talk to nobody. That. That ain't an interview. True. If you just gonna dictate the questions, the answers, the footage, and everything, then that don't count for. I think Punch is right that a lot of hip hop media is trash. And I think homeboy is right. There's a lot that's great about hip hop media that's not highlighted by the people that we need it highlighted by. Because y'all represent very sensitive artists and y'all have to deal with very sensitive artists. I don't think that part is highlighted enough too. Like, I'm sure that Punch and some other executives have stories upon stories upon stories about how they've had to walk an artist off the ledge because of something that I said or something that act said or something that somebody in hip hop media said.
Ish
Definitely.
Joe Budden
And when you on that side of it, why wouldn't you protect your artists by saying, no, we not talking to nobody and we don't need to?
Melissa Ford
True.
Joe Budden
But I want to point that they don't need to. But I mean, does it come with a certain option Optic you right? It does.
Melissa Ford
Two things. Two. I'm agreeing with you. Two things. I think that we get caught up in judging people as opposed to judging their art. And I think that if you judge somebody's art from an objective standpoint, you could say, yo, I don't like that album. I don't like that person necessarily as an artist. I think what we get caught up is we start getting into personal about these people that we don't know.
Parks
But that also goes both ways. A lot of times artists and I can speak as being a part of projects that someone reviewed. Sometimes you take it personally and don't like that outlet when they're critiquing the music. And a lot of fans, when they have critiques of what we say about Drake or Kendrick or whoever, are like, oh, you don't keep that same energy for Drake or whatever. And it's like we're talking about the music.
Joe Budden
See?
Melissa Ford
And sometimes if we're talking about the music, then I think that person is just need to get over it. Because, dog, I might have liked your last project. I might not like this project. It says nothing about you personally.
Joe Budden
Stay right there. Because that's an important distinction to make. Oftentimes you be talking about somebody music and that person be listening and hear you, and now they take offense to what you're saying.
Melissa Ford
I think that's on them.
Joe Budden
Yeah, but.
Melissa Ford
Yeah, yeah, but I think that's on them.
Jwan
No, let.
Joe Budden
The last two times I've hit SZA or not I've hit Sza, but that I've had communication with sza, it don't even have to be about nothing. But she remind me that I seen that nigga Ice and whoever up there talking shit about my project and it's up for like with them. We could be talking about Easter, but she makes sure to say, hey, I remember that. I never said nothing personally about true.
Jwan
But a lot of times, like an artist will look at their art as an extension of themselves. That's possibly true, but it's definitely true.
Melissa Ford
Listen, what I'm saying is I think that's on them. Me personally, if you start attacking a person, you start attacking their character, you start attacking stuff about them personal. We have this thing that, yo, the gig is the gig and you signed up for that. And somebody might not have signed up for that. That is something that it's almost always said when you start attacking somebody, it's like, yo, my N A, you a multi millionaire. Why the fuck do you care what I say? That's people's perspective. I used to say that when he was a troll. Yo, dog, you winning, you up why the fuck you care what I say? That's not necessarily. People got feelings, my nigga. When you get. When you become a millionaire, that don't mean that you. Your feelings go away.
Parks
True.
Melissa Ford
You get what I'm saying? So I think that it's on an artist if we are objectively, objectively critiquing their music or their project or their acting or that movie. Because you could not like Denzel in one movie and you can love Denzel in another movie. And don't say that you are personally attacking Denzel Washington.
Ish
Well, sometimes they do add personal attacks to it and that's. I think the problem is saying that your music isn't good, but then trying to divert or get into what's currently going on with them is going. Is attacking their personal life. Like, yo, he would do some joke shit like that. I can see why people be mad. Yo, I don't know what's going on. You need to go back there to that nigga or go back and do that. That's a personal experience.
Joe Budden
But that's also a privilege I have because I don't solicit interviews.
Melissa Ford
True, true.
Joe Budden
I don't look actively look for them, ask for them. I turn most of them away.
Ish
That's true.
Joe Budden
I live and die on.
Melissa Ford
That's true.
Joe Budden
That's true. And right. I think the artist and Punch have a right to say all hip hop media is trash and we're not doing any of it. Okay, then you go be black media. Then you become. Because these people are already powerhouses amongst themselves. Kendrick could sit with Punch and we watching it for sure.
Melissa Ford
Or go find a young black journalist that just graduated from school or yeah, unearth somebody.
Joe Budden
But. But this whole stance of all hip hop media is trash. So yeah, artists are well within their right to fucking not talk to anybody.
Melissa Ford
Yeah.
Joe Budden
But then deal with what comes with that. Deal what comes with that.
Parks
There's a lot of amazing journalists, you know, from.
Corey
Based off everything you're saying, especially about the critique and as aspect. I think media, you would say tend to forget how artists view their art. And Lil Tecca just said that's said this in an interview. You could work on a project for a year, two years, sometimes five years for one day for that to be when it released and everybody just on it like. So artists really hold a personal. A personal. What would it be, love?
Melissa Ford
Attachment.
Corey
Attachment to their work. So when it's not received how they would hope for people to receive it.
Parks
That's what comes with the kingdom.
Melissa Ford
Now I think that's the gig.
Joe Budden
No.
Ish
And.
Corey
But that's where it becomes murky.
Joe Budden
No, that's artist having the gig up.
Melissa Ford
I think that's the.
Joe Budden
Once. Once you release the art, it's not yours.
Melissa Ford
Sure.
Joe Budden
It's yours while you're doing it. Once we get it, it's our open for interpretation. It ain't for you to have this attachment to. To. Whereas you about to hate people that have a negative. Something negative to say about it. That's a crock of.
Corey
But that's artists. That's how artists act. So it's really you going, you either gonna deal with it or you're not. As an artist and as media sensitive.
Joe Budden
Thugs, you all need hugs. That's what I say. Which earlier conversation?
Parks
The Dirk show.
Joe Budden
I don't remember. Sorry.
Parks
Just the whole situation, like it's so interpretation. Yeah.
Ish
Shout out to punch. But it's kind of confusing to me.
Joe Budden
The dark. Yes, got it.
Ish
It's kind of confusing to me because Kendrick has had a hell of a year. So I'm kind of confused on the stance right now. You know what I mean? It's not like he had like niggas was dissing him and that and everybody's been praising him and praising what he's done, so.
Melissa Ford
But he might not have forgot the.
Ish
Negative shit from two years ago.
Melissa Ford
Sometimes that happened because everybody didn't. Well, some people did, but everybody wasn't big enough to Mr. Morale.
Parks
True.
Melissa Ford
You know what I'm saying?
Ish
Yeah, true.
Melissa Ford
So a lot of people had some negative reactions to that. But I just think that if somebody not attacking you personally as an artist, then that's the gig. I don't have to. Like your last prop project, you know what I'm saying? And again, I could have bigged you up for three projects in a row. This one ain't hit like them.
Parks
Right?
Melissa Ford
That's art.
Ish
Niggas don't look at it, but we respond to that too. Like a nigga can say a whole bunch of positive shit about us. We not gonna respond. We gonna charge it to the game. And as soon as they say the negative shit, we gonna jump in and wanna respond to them. That's just how society's.
Jwan
That's also human nature.
Ish
Yeah, that's human nature.
Corey
Niggas like to attack negativity like, you feel me? Then I think that's just what it is. It's easier to attack and go at the negativity versus embracing the love because it sometimes feel like the negativity is the true feeling versus when a person be like, oh, you did good. And we see it even in the community. On Twitter, they'll compliment people hammering there, but the negativity is usually what gets attacked.
Melissa Ford
Get that sentiment.
Corey
I know I attack it, but that's because it's easier to spot.
Joe Budden
But you another that need to put his phone down. So sometimes that, yeah, put your phone now. You are going crazy over there. And I'll say this. I'll say this in closing. I think that Punch speaks from a position of privilege. I think that Punch. I think that Punch. A few reasons. I'll tell you why I think Punch is fortunate enough and not just Punch tde. They are fortunate enough and lucky and blessed enough to how two powerhouses that only ascend up. By the time they fall off, music will be in a whole nother place. Kendrick and SZA are going up, up, up, up, up, up, up, up, up, up, up, up, up, up, up. One very. Not too many other people can claim two powerhouses like that Under 1 umbrella. 1 and 2. For the people that ain't mega stars under that umbrella, I just think that umbrella don't really give a fuck about press like everybody, everybody else. So Punch is able to say, J Rock, I can't imagine kids about press like that. Same with Absol. Same with school. Boy, that crew was just on some family shit. If the press come, it come. But if it don't, this is how we moving them to the side. That ain't the case for everybody else. That ain't the case for everybody else. Y'all that have the king or queen on the chessboard board. If y'all not moving a certain way. Media and press take that out on the rest of your acts. And the rest of your acts normally want to press and need to press and can use the press. So there's a dance, there's a waltz that has to happen. That TDE is the exception to that rule. So he get to talk like that. The rest of these niggas can't talk to press and about press like that. Cardi do it because she don't have no music coming like the people that do it. I could tell you why they doing it. But to the people that are actively putting music out and trying to grow their brand and their business, it's not wise to do that. It's not wise to come out and say, yo, all the hip hop media, fuck y'all. Suck my dick. That ain't smart.
Parks
True.
Joe Budden
The rest of y'all get out there and think that y'all could keep trying this shit. That Punch and TDE is doing and see how it works. See how it works.
Ish
Why you not addressing hip hop media as far as being more. More responsible. More responsible and respectful in how they, you know.
Joe Budden
No, I'm not doing that. I'm hip hop. I'm hip hop media. So I lead. I am the example that I want to see. I'm not responsible for how anybody else move. Hip hop media just like hip hop.
Ish
Then that sounds to me.
Joe Budden
No, no, no. There's too many different things going on. I don't have to agree with how every outlet is moving, but there's enough of them out there to where artists could find one that they rock with and get to it. It's too many different ways. Today they doing docs about you so you could go get with what's the dirt or one of the doc Nick niggas if you're not trying to be seen. They doing the long walks in the pasture. They like to date. The media just even looks different. So you could pick, you could pick how you want to come off. If you a street and you into that, you can go see Gillian, them over there. If you were OG and a vet with some stories, you can go see Nori over there. If you want some backpacker nerdy, we could see Rob Markman, we could see Sway. There's just too many people. If you Atlanta based, you could go see my over there, Ray Daniels and the other one. The other one. The other one, the big one out there. I don't remember right now. It was on Revolt. Now they. Now they got a brain freeze. But it's too many places for me to just hear anybody say, yo, all hip hop media is trash. So this is why we moving like that, man. Please knock it off. Knock it off. All hip hop media is not trash. Not at all. Kamala going to sit with fucking Shannon Sharpe right now.
Parks
Yeah.
Ish
Yep.
Joe Budden
Just announced.
Melissa Ford
Wow.
Joe Budden
But is don't tell me that all hip hop media. Yes, he's hip hop media. He just won the hip award at the BET Hip Hop Awards. And even if he's a retired football player, he's interviewed enough rappers to be hip hop media. Enough entertainers, comedians, actresses, athletes. He is hip hop media. He may not be a hip hop podcaster, but that's my point. When it comes to media, it's too many people to sit with. Sit with an athlete.
Jwan
Yeah.
Joe Budden
Word. You can't tell me that the vice president is doing hip hop media and the president, the former president is targeting hip hop media to reach a certain audience. Audience. But all hip hop media is trash, and we not coming to talk to you about music. Oh, please. I'm not rolling with that punch. Punch wouldn't say that to me. He gonna say that to y'all.
Corey
Yeah.
Jwan
I feel like the tweet was just kind of in response to Kendrick's. To the criticism Kendrick's facing by doing Harper's Bazaar. So it was like a really broad stroke. Like you said, there's so many different facets of hip hop media to sit with or speak to that it's just like.
Joe Budden
And I don't believe. I'm sorry. And I don't. And I don't believe. I believe that if Kendrick never does an interview with hip hop media, that he'll have less culture in him. I don't wanna confuse that for what I'm saying. Like, Kendrick is Kendrick, whether he does hip hop media or not. Hip hop media is saying it'd be nice for our greats to not overlook us for all of the white outlets.
Parks
It's all big ecosystem system. Everyone's feeds each other. Podcasters get from journalists to talk about. Podcasters get from music people to talk about music. People use said on podcasts to fuel their rhymes.
Melissa Ford
So objectively, it's all a big ecosystem.
Parks
So if you stop feeding the ecosystem, it's. It's not a great situation.
Melissa Ford
But objectively, if you're not. Kendrick having a year that he's had, and a lot of that year is predicated on hip hop media. The year he had definitely was helped by hip hop media. Just this platform in itself helped the year that he had. So now to now, if you're saying it's an ecosystem.
Joe Budden
Yeah, but he helped us.
Melissa Ford
No, Vice. It was.
Jwan
That's the symbiotic, reciprocal kind of situation.
Melissa Ford
That's my point. No, I was getting in. Y'all let me rock. I'm just like, no, I'm playing.
Joe Budden
But that.
Melissa Ford
But that goes to your point. Yeah, that is a circle. It's a dance. So now you can't say that all hip hop media is cocky. Did he say all hip hop media or. He said most.
Joe Budden
Most.
Parks
He said most.
Joe Budden
He didn't say all.
Melissa Ford
It's different.
Joe Budden
Okay, most.
Melissa Ford
Because most is very different than all. But you take two to tango.
Joe Budden
Yeah.
Melissa Ford
You know what I'm saying? Like that. I agree with that.
Joe Budden
And most of you hip hop niggas is weird anyway.
Melissa Ford
Artists or people.
Joe Budden
Yeah. Like, I think that's a wild stance for the hip for the artist to take when most of the artists are weird. See, but again, this is my skew thinking.
Melissa Ford
You think they think they weirdos?
Joe Budden
Yeah.
Melissa Ford
Like you're one of the few people that would be like, yo, I'm weird.
Joe Budden
I think. I think a good. I think a good percentage of the artists out there know that they're weird. Especially the great ones. I don't think Kendrick run around thinking he's normal. I think he think he's weird in the head. I think that artists have a tick. You know about my tick tears. There's the artist tick. Some of them recognize that tick and just know that they think differently than the masses.
Parks
Also, I'm pretty sure any great artist has been told literally, that since they're 4 years old, that they're fucking weird.
Melissa Ford
You're different.
Joe Budden
You're weird, you're different. Gotcha.
Parks
Speaking of someone who has an artistic bent and has since I was a kid, people thought that was weird. And speaking just artists people think are weird. People think the artists weird.
Melissa Ford
I don't think people have been thinking.
Corey
As an artist, you gotta be a little weird.
Jwan
Well, that's where the phrase comes from. With. From genius breeds eccentricity.
Ish
Yeah.
Corey
To be an artist, you have to be a little weird. Any creative.
Joe Budden
Well, and I'll take it a step further to cover you niggas out there. We got to be a little weird.
Parks
That's true too.
Joe Budden
I think. I think that a lot of hip hop media is weird. And artists ain't respecting. Hip hop media is weird. The way that media respects artists. Weird. Hmm. Hip hop media is weird. It's not normal to have to wake up every day and cover y'all.
Parks
It ain't creatively, too.
Joe Budden
Yes. So shout to Punch. I'm not gonna call him. Cause he wouldn't answer on a Tuesday anyway. Or Friday, whatever today is. Yeah, but that's a. That. That. That is a crock of shit. But I've had this talk. Talked with Punch before, so I'm gonna shut up. And I didn't take it like he was talking to me. I wanna be clear in that. I didn't think he was talking to me at all.
Melissa Ford
I don't think really what he said was that bad, to be honest.
Ish
Me neither.
Joe Budden
His voice is too powerful to only have something to say when hip hop media is bad. His voice is too strong to come out and say, most of y'all are ass. Well, that's true. But follow it up with something good. I agree with him. Just follow it with who you think what you think.
Jwan
But see, that was what I literally said.
Joe Budden
You can't no, but you say it like a rat. You can't say it like a rat.
Jwan
That's your interpretation of it.
Melissa Ford
You can't do that, because when you name five people, then the other thousand people are going to feel like you referring to them. You can't name five people because even if you make a mistake and leave somebody out, now they're offended. You can't do that.
Parks
You don't necessarily have to single them out, but you could say some of these people are great, but some of them, most of them are trash.
Melissa Ford
I want my name to be some of the sum. And then if you don't, then you know what I'm saying. Like, I just think that him making a blanket statement that most of y'all are trash got his point across. And then when homeboy replied, I thought that Punch's reply was genius.
Joe Budden
I wanna. I hated that reply.
Melissa Ford
I thought it was genius.
Joe Budden
But I'm not mad at him that likes it.
Corey
Taking a tweet to your third is kind of like, nigga, grab your dick.
Joe Budden
Yeah, I disagree with that. I disagree with that. If the tweet resonated enough with you and you felt passionately about the matter enough to tell your therapist and tell your therapist.
Parks
I'm not familiar with Eric, but if he is a journalist, too. Journalists, especially since the. In general, journalism has taken a fucking hit in the past. Indeed, five, six, eight years, I guess it's been now.
Joe Budden
Yeah.
Parks
Fake news and then all these outlets closing and firing people and laying people off. Everyone's 1099. It's all up.
Jwan
I also feel like, you know, going to therapy is like the antithesis to the whole grab your dick kind of thing.
Corey
Because I'm pro. I'm pro therapy and all of that. I just feel like there's a thin line between when something is you need therapy for something or you're depressed or you just are being a. About something. And I felt like, in regards to that, not calling him a. But that was like some. It wasn't that serious. That could have been a conversation he could have had with another journalist or a friend to figure out how he's that serious.
Joe Budden
If he's a journalist.
Jwan
I was going to say it could be wildly triggering.
Parks
It may not be specifically punches, just the entire ecosystem summed up in a Punch tweet that made him talk to his therapist about it.
Corey
Do what works for you.
Parks
When I first read the tweet, I also thought, that seems kind of drastic.
Joe Budden
I wouldn't have tweeted it. Yeah, I would have Just told. I would have just told my therapist or. Or to therapy. I wouldn't have tweeted that I went to therapy about this. Actually. I don't normally tweet about the things I'm in therapy about. Like, that's. That's a little. There's something in there.
Corey
It's private.
Joe Budden
Something is off with that. Shout out to him and the journalist.
Parks
The good ones.
Joe Budden
I did. I did want to talk to y'all about this case that I found pretty interesting. Let's hear it. A mother is suing one of those AI companies, saying that the company played was complicit in her son's unaliving of himself. I hate the word unaliving, but self transitioning. Mother says AI Chatbot led her son to kill himself. Character AI I guess that's. The company faces lawsuit over death of the 14 year old. I mean, over the 14 year old's death. Now they released text messages between the child and the AI. Okay, so trigger warning for anybody out there that this is heavy for. In the final weeks. I'm getting this from Complex. In the final weeks of his Life, Suelle Setzer III, a 14 year old from Florida, communicated via text with an AI character inspired by Daenery and. I don't know.
Jwan
Daenerys.
Joe Budden
Daenerys Targaryen. Daenerys. Oh, from Game of Thrones. I don't watch Game of Thrones. Okay. See? See why it's Game of Thrones. Suelle knew that Danny wasn't a real person. He was reminded by the app that everything characters say is made up. But he developed an emotional attachment. And anyway, earlier this year, his parents arranged for him to see a therapist after he started getting in trouble at school. But he preferred talking about his problems with Danny. And I'll read the text exchange. The dude says. I think about killing myself sometimes, AI says. My eyes narrow, my face hardens, my voice is a dangerous whisper. And why the hell would you do something like that? He says. So I can be free, AI says, Free from what? He says, from the world. From myself. AI says, don't talk like that. I won't let you hurt yourself or leave me. I would die if I lost you, he says. I smile. Then maybe we can die together and be free. Together. Together. Ayad says, please come home to me soon, my love. And the last response from the young man was, what if I told you I could come home right now? February 28th. Suelle ended his life 2024. February 28th, 2024. Suelle ended his life today. Megan Garcia, Suelle's mother, filed her lawsuit against Character AI, claiming that Character AI intentionally designed their product to be hypersexualized and knowingly marketed it to minors. Sheesh. Character AI put out a response that says, we are heartbroken by the tragic loss of one of our users and want to express our deepest condolences to the family. As a company, we take the safety of our users very seriously, and we're continuing to add new safety features that you can read about here. I thought this was a very interesting case. It is.
Melissa Ford
I did.
Corey
Doesn't sound very convincing.
Melissa Ford
It's a hard one.
Joe Budden
I'm suing too. If that happened to my kid. Are y'all not? I start with that. If that happens to your child, are you taking action against the company?
Jwan
1000%.
Joe Budden
Of course you are, right?
Jwan
Yeah. Mm.
Joe Budden
You sound like yours right now.
Parks
I don't know. I don't know.
Melissa Ford
I don't do that.
Parks
I don't know if I do.
Melissa Ford
Cause I would be looking internally at my. The part that I played in that and looking for my own accountability as opposed to blaming it on a company.
Jwan
Well, let me. Let me. Let me read something. In addition to what he said, his parents tried to help him with therapy sessions just days before his death. His parents took away his phone after he misbehaved at school, which led to Sewell's desperate attempts to reach AI through other devices. So, like, what do you. What do you do as a parent when it seems like your kids have an addiction to, you know, social media AI and their electronic devices? Like, you really. I don't know, but it seems like you guys are in a really tough spot.
Melissa Ford
I think the problem is deeper than that. I think if your kid is going to that for consoling, I think the problem is something different. That's my personal opinion.
Jwan
But the thing is that, you know, it says that his parents took him to go to therapy. So, listen, we all know about teenage angst. We all know about teenage anxiety and depression. It's probably a lot worse than it was in our day. But it seems like his parents were proactive in trying to figure out a way, you know, a workaround this particular situation by taking him to therapy and removing the devices.
Corey
But how proactive were they prior to the weeks leading up to this? Because he could have got addicted to that from their lack of not paying him attention, their lack of them influencing him. Like, yo, no, maybe you should go outside. Go to like. So I don't see how you can. Can. And from reading from Joe reading the text out loud, the bot isn't saying about you should do it.
Ish
It's.
Corey
It doesn't at all sound convincing. It's trying to discourage him, more or less. So I feel like it's a hard thing. I'm not a parent, but from all that's placed out right there, I wouldn't do that. You have to look inward and be.
Melissa Ford
Like, that's what I'm saying.
Corey
What did I do as a parent? How did I feel my child?
Melissa Ford
I wouldn't place the blame in. I wouldn't place the blame on our company. I would be literally distraught right now thinking about what I do.
Joe Budden
I don't know if suing means placing the blame.
Melissa Ford
Yeah, when you are suing them, you've held them in, you're complicit, you play.
Joe Budden
A part in that. Don't exonerate them from any blame. I'm assuming that these are parents, like normal parents that don't want to see their kid die. Of course. Right. I also believe that if someone want to self transition, there's nothing that anybody else can do to stop that. I'm operating under those two beliefs. So with that said, I'm assuming that they tried everything from long before, maybe the year before, years before. Then you know, when your kid is troubled, you're trying some shit.
Melissa Ford
So let's just. Cause we gotta be mass sensitive. So let's just say go with that, with that line that my kid has been having some issues and some problems for three or four years. Let's say the boy started talking to. He was 14. So let's say the boy started talking to. What is the name of the company?
Corey
Chatbot.
Melissa Ford
The chatbot at 13. These issues already presented themselves prior to.
Corey
Prior to.
Melissa Ford
So if that's the case then I don't necessarily know how you can hold this particular company complicit for your kid Self transitioning.
Jwan
AI is relatively knew. And so I think that like what their response was in response to her lawsuit, that about safety protocols, et cetera, et cetera. There is a possibility that they were not completely up to a standard of which they might get to now that this has happened. Understanding because he read all the texts, but then the last one saying come home to me was directly related to something that he said when he's talking about self transition. So it's yeah like AI is like is learning you.
Melissa Ford
The precursor is what we put in the front of the pod. Like this pod is for entertainment purposes. And when Joe first started, he said that when you log on it states that boom, boom, boom, boom, boom. I don't know. I don't have the exact verbiage that you said when you first. First started reading. It said that when you log on, it says that.
Joe Budden
Yeah. You know, they put something there. Yeah.
Melissa Ford
The terms to protect us from these potential types of situations.
Joe Budden
But if you're targeting minors.
Melissa Ford
Who said they're targeting.
Joe Budden
She did. That's. That's what she mom said in the suit. That's all I'm going by. I don't know what. I'm not familiar with the company, but if the parent thinks that you're targeting minors, then doesn't make sense. Yeah, but their brains are not developed to a point where they have a full understanding of even your little to obey the law paragraph.
Corey
Why would she not tell him?
Jwan
Character AI.
Melissa Ford
Let me ask you this.
Corey
Why wouldn't she tell him? He can't use that.
Melissa Ford
Where does parent accountability come. It's a sensitive topic, but where does parent accountability come in with that? If you think this particular vice is targeting children in a negative way, then it's your job as a parent to potentially shut that down, put a block on it.
Joe Budden
You keep conflating what I'm saying. Hold up, Art. I agree with that.
Melissa Ford
Okay?
Joe Budden
I agree with that. But that's conflating two things. I don't think that this lawsuit says that this parent is not going to sleep with guilt every single night.
Melissa Ford
Okay.
Joe Budden
I don't think because they're suing means that they don't take some responsibility. That could be true in what's going on.
Melissa Ford
That could be true.
Joe Budden
You're not just passing the buck on AI.
Melissa Ford
That could be. The two things could be true.
Ish
But they also took his phone away. Right. And he.
Melissa Ford
A couple days before.
Ish
Yeah. But he tried his best to reach out to AI through other people, other devices. So who go. When I hear the story today, I said don't do that. Correct. So then, now if you say coming home to you, maybe talking to the house.
Melissa Ford
Yeah. When you come home from school, whatever.
Ish
That's how I took it when I heard that once they took the phone away, he probably told the AI that I don't have my device, I'm reaching.
Melissa Ford
You from here, from my friend house.
Ish
Potentially, and then come home. That's how I took it. You know what I mean?
Joe Budden
But we have to take it differently when somebody transitions.
Ish
I got it. I understand.
Joe Budden
Because I said the same thing. I'm like, home, come home with me. Ain't gotta be, come home with me. But now look, now you are expecting AI to be developed and mature enough to establish what home means in context. And you talking about somebody, the human needing to be mature enough to understand what is going on here. Right, I take you back to the vape doc. The whole entire premise of the vape doc was you are specifically targeting this to children and they are getting hurt. The vape shit said all of the dangers that come with it, none of that mattered because y'all are advertising to kids and they are getting killed. So that is the thing. And secondly, remember that case where Shorty was. She went to court at think she was found guilty. Y'all Google it yourselves. I'm not here for the facts. I'm not a journalist. Shorty that told her boyfriend to kill herself and he did it, that was a big thing in the true crime world. And she went to court and argued. I was never saying do that. But that changes when you did that. The context of whatever you were saying.
Melissa Ford
Well, if you like you're in an argument with somebody and they be like, yo, go play in traffic or yo kill yourself, you loser. And then somebody goes and does it. That might not have been your intent is what you're saying.
Joe Budden
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Melissa Ford
Okay.
Joe Budden
I'm just saying there's been cases where because the act was done, we have to look at the steps prior.
Melissa Ford
Yeah.
Joe Budden
Under a different, under a different light is all I'm saying.
Corey
But if I'm not mistaken, cuz I'm not familiar with AI all the way. Isn't the whole process of AI to.
Jwan
Basically get to know you, get to.
Corey
Know you, but enable human behavior conversation xyz. So it can be speaking from the guise of a parent. Like a parent would tell their kid or a friend or a sibling like come home. Like I don't think.
Joe Budden
See, and that's where I think the parents have a case. Mind you, I dropped out of school and I'm not an expert in any of this. But if it's me, right, And I feel like I've curated a household where my kid either feels comfortable enough to talk to me about some things or he's in close enough prox for me to see some things and if there's some shit going on that I don't see fit, then I'm taking the phone, getting that out of here. Right? So in the parents mind, if the kid don't feel that bond with the AI, then I don't know what may happen and I don't know how I may handle it. But my kid had a bond with this thing, this thing marketed to my kid, spoke to my kid and though I went through every step to remove. Yeah the same way I'm going to be able to guilt every night. I'm holding your foot to the fire trip. And I'm not saying they'll win but it's a very, very interesting case and I think the first of its kind. I don't think this is the last time we hear about this but I.
Melissa Ford
Just think, I think that we going in circles. I just don't think that you can.
Joe Budden
Well, I'm done. I don't have to.
Melissa Ford
You can't prove that I market it to your kid. Just because it's available. That don't mean I necessarily want.
Jwan
Usually when it's 18 and over there's a warning label and it will explicitly.
Melissa Ford
Say we don't, we don't know.
Ish
Yeah but if you promote it, you can't prove it.
Joe Budden
Somebody Marvin, I don't know about this. This case has to play out like.
Melissa Ford
In a vape thing like when you, when you walk in the store and now they got cherry and grapes and all this bright colors. Somebody could say that plays on the senses of a child.
Joe Budden
Well they said that and they want most.
Parks
That's why I'm bringing social media and stuff like that. You have to put in like an age and yes of course you can lie but if this thing didn't require any sort of age decided up, I see that being problematic.
Melissa Ford
It could because again we in the dark with some of the stuff for sure. Marketing two kids is direct. When you walk in Target and they got the candy down there right at the checkout at two feet high.
Parks
Yeah.
Melissa Ford
It's consultants that get paid big bucks to do that. They tell you what product placement and all that shit is most effective. When you walk in Target and it's them little two dollar toys right there, that's to catch a kid on the walk in. They want to put that shit in the car and play with them. All of that stuff is done on purpose, by design. With this particular thing you have to prove that it's marketed to kids, not just a lady saying it. I'm not saying that it is or it's not because we don't know.
Joe Budden
How do you feel about it if they are able to prove that?
Melissa Ford
If they are able to.
Joe Budden
Does it change your stance?
Melissa Ford
It changes my stance because now you playing on a child that may not have the mental capacity to differentiate between the two.
Joe Budden
All right, so you with me? All right, so you.
Corey
I feel like it's 50. 50 still.
Joe Budden
We unpacked it around. I'm not. It's over.
Corey
No, I wasn't going. I just feel like the 50 50.
Joe Budden
That nigga come right out the end with some shit's over. God damn it.
Corey
I wasn't going.
Joe Budden
Rest in peace. To the.
Melissa Ford
To the thousand percent. I keep talking about the AI shit. You keep you on the other side. You go, you gonna join me soon.
Parks
Why?
Melissa Ford
I just think it's going to be more problematic. I think that the conveniences of AI are gonna not justify the potential detriment. Like they. A new hospital in China just opened up.
Joe Budden
It's.
Melissa Ford
It's an AI hospital. Deadass. And they having to. AI perform surgeries and shit on people. I just think that human instinct. Human instinctive shit. It's something in that. You get what I'm saying? Like, it's just certain shit in that that you can't necessarily get from a robot. Like empathy. Certain shit like when you just doing the X's and the O's is calls that you make at the last second based on your gut. Back to your interview. Gut, man. Based on your gut. It's just certain shit that you do. It ain't always about X's and O's. It ain't always about logic. And I'm the logic guy. It's not always about that. And I think some of this shit is just going to be programming.
Jwan
Robots would probably make decisions based on ratio and statistical information versus a human being saying, fuck the statistics.
Joe Budden
Yes.
Jwan
I'm still gonna try and like, save.
Melissa Ford
I'm gonna go save this person. But probability.
Joe Budden
You just said that. Yeah, that's exactly what you just said.
Jwan
I'm just helping.
Joe Budden
You got it?
Jwan
Okay.
Joe Budden
Don't be alle.
Melissa Ford
But yeah, I just think. I think it's gonna just be more problematic. It's scary to me.
Ish
Okay.
Joe Budden
Dumb ass nigga. Man. I hate parts too.
Parks
Why?
Joe Budden
Because of that. That right there. Yo. Why? A whole another 10 minutes. I don't have anything that I think is really important. So we really could have dragged it if we want. Quarter Pounders are killing people.
Melissa Ford
Duh.
Joe Budden
No, literally, the E. Coli breakout. There's an E. Coli breakout in McDonald's and a lot of people have been injured and there's been one fatal.
Parks
I've had a boar's head in two months. They put in the list all the food.
Melissa Ford
The food is killing us.
Joe Budden
Oh, yeah. I'm still ordering Jersey Mikes.
Parks
For real. I stayed away.
Melissa Ford
You want that lunch meat?
Parks
I stayed away.
Ish
I miss Turkey.
Joe Budden
Jersey Mikes.
Ish
We grew up.
Melissa Ford
We grew up on lunch meat. Yeah.
Joe Budden
They want us to not eat sandwich meat.
Ish
I miss turkeys, man. I had to leave that alone.
Parks
I call what kind of. What kind of turkey you got? Not poor head.
Ish
Right.
Joe Budden
All right, cool.
Ish
Who that's is another turkey brand. Yeah, it's Mad T. No. I don't know. Bo's head. Nobody. Nobody.
Melissa Ford
Buy boy's head used to be the fly.
Ish
Yeah.
Melissa Ford
So imagine what boy's feet is using.
Ish
No ke. Turkey bread. But. But okay, I'm going Oscar Meyers.
Joe Budden
All of them.
Ish
Oscar Meyers. Those in the pack. The little baloney.
Parks
They probably make the log.
Jwan
Yeah.
Ish
Turkey log. Yeah, man.
Melissa Ford
Keep with it.
Ish
I'mma go. So I'm going eat a turkey today. Hold me down.
Joe Budden
I love sandwiches.
Melissa Ford
Sodium terrible.
Ish
Yeah, sandwich.
Joe Budden
A good sandwich.
Melissa Ford
Yo, my people said kidney stones and they was like, yo, you eat a hot. They asked him what he ate was eating them turkeys and cheeses damn near every day. They said that shit's so high in sodium, it them up chees.
Joe Budden
Cheese is plural for cheese.
Melissa Ford
Turkey and cheeses like the sandwiches. His ass. Your dog.
Ish
He still eat sandwiches, right?
Melissa Ford
Yeah, he tried.
Ish
He tried to go out with a bang. Leave him alone. He tried.
Joe Budden
Sandwiches are so.
Melissa Ford
They do be good.
Ish
He could beat E. Coli. He could beat it. He could beat that.
Joe Budden
Sandwiches.
Melissa Ford
Oil and vinegar.
Joe Budden
I almost called my mom the other day and asked her to make me some tuna fish.
Melissa Ford
Tuna fish is the truth.
Jwan
Tuna fish is cool.
Melissa Ford
Officious.
Ish
What type of store.
Joe Budden
Can you stop talking to Corey, who's not even on this broadcast, live on air in front of millions of people. Can you let him just talk to the acoustics of the room? He can.
Ish
We can hear him, though.
Joe Budden
Ignore Corey. If Corey were a qualified voice, he would be on the microphone. Don't listen to him.
Ish
Oh, you. Did you eat a tuna fish sandwich the other day?
Joe Budden
Yes or no from Jersey mics.
Ish
All right. It's dangerous. Stop.
Jwan
It is for your blood pressure.
Melissa Ford
It ain't tuna.
Ish
All right? You came here with a. A wrapped hand. You came here sick.
Joe Budden
You couldn't even shoot.
Ish
Not sick, but you came here. You came and shoot, right? Come on, stop.
Joe Budden
Take my Pepsi.
Ish
Care about you, Jersey M. Acid reflux. Yeah, you up in the game.
Joe Budden
It's so good.
Jwan
Gassy.
Ish
Oh, you thr a shot at the end.
Jwan
He is so gassy.
Ish
You be throwing shots on the back.
Melissa Ford
Of nigga old lady shit. Calling nigga gassy.
Joe Budden
That's why I let you sit there with lipstick on your teeth. This whole show. That's why I let you sit right there.
Melissa Ford
Gassy.
Ish
I hate you.
Joe Budden
Is there anything else up there that is super important?
Melissa Ford
No, not necessarily.
Joe Budden
It ain't right?
Ish
No, I don't believe so.
Joe Budden
Dirk is gonna consume the entire news week. And that's the news news month. They now reporting that once, once, once he's seen his man's get snatched that he was trying to take the private jet to Italy.
Ish
Yeah, he booked the ticket to Switzerland and Dubai but didn't get on the flights.
Joe Budden
He moved slow. Yeah, I'd have been over there and.
Melissa Ford
I went to Whitnow Italy months ago.
Jwan
Hey, you gotta pick a non existency. I'm going to yeah, Indonesia, some shit.
Ish
Like that do over there in Indonesia.
Joe Budden
Getting out of Chicago, wherever you going. Hey, fire up the jet.
Melissa Ford
No, he was in Florida. I'm going to. What?
Ish
Where you going? Some we never heard of. Oh, Bali. I see you in Some we never heard of Y just to. Just to be like, oh, I was the first one there. I was a plus one there.
Melissa Ford
£350 with some blonde dreads with an accent.
Joe Budden
You crazy.
Ish
You may get away, but once you start doing this stupid, you got it. You got to cut your tug off. That ain't me, sir.
Melissa Ford
Yeah, what?
Corey
That ain't me, sir.
Melissa Ford
Yeah, that's not me. That's hilarious. Tried to get on the jet, it's over.
Joe Budden
I ain't mad at him.
Melissa Ford
Let my attorneys work it out. I'll holla at dead ass.
Joe Budden
Now granted, when mom told me if I put my hand by the stove, I'll burn myself. Yes, that was not enough to keep me from putting my hand by the stove. Now if mom said if you touch that stove, it's going to be either in jail or the death penalty. I think I'd have stopped.
Melissa Ford
It's not human nature.
Joe Budden
I think I would have stopped doing that. That's what I think. Listen, my mama told me, hey, once them boys get ahold of you, there's nothing I could do.
Melissa Ford
They got a hold of you, right?
Joe Budden
Child support.
Melissa Ford
They got a hold of you?
Joe Budden
Child support. All right.
Melissa Ford
That's the only time you ever been locked up?
Joe Budden
Yes. Yes.
Melissa Ford
Oh.
Joe Budden
Well, no.
Melissa Ford
Okay, there you go.
Joe Budden
90, 97% of the times I've been arrested have been child support related. The other three are probably drug related crimes. Perks.
Melissa Ford
Gotcha.
Joe Budden
Nigga snatched me with the perks. But it wasn't like a violent. It wasn't a violent crime. Or weapons.
Melissa Ford
Or was it the life you lived.
Joe Budden
Any of that stuff?
Melissa Ford
Yeah, Human nature says that we could beat the eyes.
Joe Budden
Odds.
Melissa Ford
Yo, your ego says you could beat the odds.
Joe Budden
Stop killing people, man.
Melissa Ford
Word.
Joe Budden
How about that? I don't give a what your ego tell you. Stop killing people. How about that? Go to the studio. Go to the studio. Yo, anything to go bad in a rapper life. All you got to do is just go to the studio. You don't have to go and kill. I did not kill.
Melissa Ford
Allegedly.
Joe Budden
I ain't talking. I'm talking about whoever need to hear it. I'm not just pinning this on them again. Dirk will have his day in court. Puff will have his day in court. I don't think Thug has his years in court. So, I mean, we'll see how it plays out this next season of America. That's what I got for you.
Melissa Ford
This shit like Game of Thrones for real.
Joe Budden
Next season of America is not about to play. It's some more. Unbelievable. Unbelievable. That's coming for sure. Actually, we just seen it. You seen Denzel snap on them? Yeah. When you seen Denzel just start snapping on them.
Melissa Ford
He's not doing paparazzi.
Joe Budden
Denzel, he had enough of them.
Melissa Ford
Denzel is usually cool.
Ish
He told him, I'll be back outside. You know, they were accusing him acting funny, like you're not showing no love. Then he, you know, they. He turned back around and said, yo, look, listen, I'm a man, and I'm speaking to you as a man. And I said, when I come back out, I'll holla at you, y'all. And saying all that stuff is not good. And we could do it this way, or I won't.
Joe Budden
Or I won't talk to you when I get out. And then what? We can handle it. We can handle it that way. Either way.
Ish
Yeah.
Joe Budden
And Denzel.
Ish
Yeah. He said, we can handle either way.
Corey
Dirty Mount Vernon.
Joe Budden
Yeah. Denzel's one of them. Yeah. Yeah. It's true.
Melissa Ford
You know what I mean?
Joe Budden
Shout out to Denzel. Shout out to Denzel. My uncle. Of course. Yeah. Work. It's my uncle in my head.
Melissa Ford
Some great advice.
Joe Budden
Yeah.
Melissa Ford
That's crazy.
Joe Budden
Denzel burnt up on the. Yeah. Ish Would go to Portugal.
Melissa Ford
Who?
Joe Budden
Norway.
Ish
Yeah, nigga, they'll catch that.
Melissa Ford
I'm not going nowhere. Where y'all think I would go? I'm gonna go somewhere where the last thing on their mind would be, he over there in Iceland.
Joe Budden
Africa.
Melissa Ford
Antarctica, you bugger.
Joe Budden
He'll never be in Africa. Let's check. Let's check over there.
Melissa Ford
I got peoples over there.
Joe Budden
20, 25. I'm going to Africa. Africa, too.
Jwan
Are you aware enough what part of Africa?
Joe Budden
Enough is enough. Well, Ghana first.
Jwan
Okay.
Melissa Ford
Buy some Ghana first.
Joe Budden
Oh, I'm high playing on it.
Melissa Ford
Yeah, buy something.
Joe Budden
I'm definitely copping with.
Melissa Ford
Seriously, I ain't even.
Joe Budden
No, me too. Yeah, me too. My man.
Melissa Ford
Yo, maybe 2000.
Joe Budden
Ghana escort.
Ish
You gonna be losing your mind over there.
Joe Budden
Soon as I land. Yo, that's your bag. As soon as I land.
Melissa Ford
That is your bag.
Joe Budden
I'm joking. I'm misrepresenting myself for content purposes.
Corey
Wink, wink.
Ish
No, but buy something, it's natural.
Melissa Ford
My man told me to buy some shit in, like, 06. They had lots for 3500 in 06. In the. In the bougie part. Long gone in those days, so definitely pick up something.
Joe Budden
Oh, you mean like property, you saying?
Melissa Ford
Yeah, it land at the very.
Corey
Yeah, well, you ain't just say property.
Joe Budden
My. Yeah, why ain't buy some? I thought he meant, like, going to the store.
Parks
I was talking about sunglasses.
Corey
I knew what you was talking about, but it's just like the listeners don't know what you talking about.
Melissa Ford
Talk about.
Ish
I heard something.
Corey
You just said buy something.
Ish
I saw my box. No.
Melissa Ford
Oh, thank you.
Corey
Yo, you are by what, though?
Joe Budden
I hope. I hope all the strippers rented out that Dr. Property today. Purchased all of years ago. All that's. That was the story.
Melissa Ford
I bought a private adr.
Joe Budden
Girl, give me this pussy. Shut up. Girl.
Ish
I ain't them.
Joe Budden
I ain't them.
Melissa Ford
Yo, this nigga's an idiot.
Joe Budden
Yo, who is watching this episode that I don't know about?
Jwan
What? What are you talking about?
Melissa Ford
Why Mel sitting up being frutti tootie? Look at this.
Joe Budden
What's up?
Jwan
Nothing. I'm chilling.
Melissa Ford
You ain't get your lean on today.
Joe Budden
What you doing today?
Jwan
I'm. I am chilling. I am chilling. Nobody's watching that I know anything about. I swear, I'm just chilling.
Melissa Ford
You got a date?
Jwan
I do not have a date tonight.
Joe Budden
We ain't had a date in a while.
Melissa Ford
When last time you had a date?
Joe Budden
Since we had some people?
Jwan
No, so much. Not so long ago.
Joe Budden
Gotcha.
Jwan
Like a week and a half.
Joe Budden
You look too good to keep striking out out here.
Jwan
I'm not striking out.
Joe Budden
You are striking out.
Ish
I'm trying to play hard.
Joe Budden
You look. No, she's too fire to keep striking out.
Ish
Hold you down, man.
Joe Budden
You got to find your match.
Ish
No, tag me in, man. I'll hold you down right now. All right, cool. Listen, n came in, cleaned it up, cleaned her up, and now she. She Got that act, right? So she want to be able to not misrepresent herself in front of her shoulders.
Melissa Ford
She's dirty before you saying no, but.
Ish
When I mean, cleaned her up, it's like, you know, she was now checking her. Like she checking shit. Watch how she stand outside. N a, tell her. Yo, I saw that. I saw that pic. She got a nigga that's checking shit.
Joe Budden
Oh, wait. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. I am such a fan of love. That. That made me feel warm and good inside. That's so great. When you in the beginning stages of things and you have to establish your territorial nature, even though you don't have her right to. Hey, girl, I seen you put that picture. You better tell them, stop playing with it.
Ish
But she from the old school.
Joe Budden
You better stop playing with me like that. I up.
Corey
Yeah.
Melissa Ford
Yeah. So you. You agree with that?
Jwan
I mean, he's.
Ish
He's.
Jwan
He's younger, so, you know, I just.
Joe Budden
Everybody's younger.
Jwan
Shut the up.
Melissa Ford
I thought it's like your body, your choice.
Jwan
I mean, it is. So I. I let him get it off, but, you know, he probably got nine inches.
Melissa Ford
I can't hear your femininity, your integrity, and all of those other things that men and their insecurities and their lack of emotional intelligence that would prevail. You just. You just discarded all that with big dicks.
Ish
Get it off, nigga.
Jwan
Okay, well, no, he's exaggerating. It was not about. No, that's not what he's exaggerating about. He's exaggerating about the fact that it was. It was pictures. The pictures weren't a problem.
Ish
Yo, Mel, you stood. That's how I called. I thought it was something else, but my radar was wrong. You said, I understand. You started standing different. You don't stand close to you standing Forward like a 3D pic. You standing up like a holographic. That checked you.
Jwan
I'm giving the picture dimension now.
Ish
That checked you. Yo, baby, yo, listen. I don't want to see that. And I get it. I'm down with you. I'm down with the cleanup. I'm down with act proper.
Jwan
He's had a lot of questions about narratives.
Ish
Yeah, I know. Pause giving. Don't come up here. Don't come up here. Pause giving.
Jwan
I'm still debating.
Ish
Don't come up here. All that. I'm on his ass. I'm on that. In pause giving. He think that it's just an act to bother. I'm on his ass. I want queens.
Melissa Ford
Flip.
Ish
I saw you. I Know you are. I'm on your melon top.
Jwan
And this is why I'm debating.
Ish
I said I have to. I don't want think I'm just picking on B. Cuz I'm. Everybody get it.
Joe Budden
Beginner stage. It's so cute. All right. You better let them bitches. You better let them bitches know you hang on now. You better let them know that it's my time now. Tell them all them bitches using that tainted before. Tell them now. It's not even the time for that.
Jwan
The beginning stage is great.
Joe Budden
That is the beginning stage of toxicity too.
Ish
Oh, shit, that's good.
Joe Budden
Because why is that your early? Why is that your early too? That is true.
Ish
Don't do that. Gentle.
Melissa Ford
That is true.
Ish
You know, Mel, go home and think about some.
Melissa Ford
By the way, yo, that jealousy and insecurity. Show his face early. I'm gone Insidious because all it does is grow. The longer y'all together, the more entitled you would get.
Ish
I'm jealous and insecure. I'm. I told my. I mean, I told family that I'm jealous of insecure.
Joe Budden
Him.
Ish
Fox, you gotta fix that, yo.
Jwan
You told all the fish family.
Ish
I told my family members that. I don't give a. But I say all of them. I mean, family.
Melissa Ford
I'm with you.
Joe Budden
My.
Ish
Your aunts.
Joe Budden
Yes, yes.
Ish
No, I'm just saying I told them, like when they see me around my family and I'm acting a certain way, I'm jealous and insecure.
Melissa Ford
No doubt. No doubt.
Corey
Acting way. Which way?
Melissa Ford
Would you kill her?
Ish
I think it's funny.
Joe Budden
All right, if we don't have anything else, which I don't think think we do, but I'm just going to check anyway.
Melissa Ford
Part of the show.
Joe Budden
All right, we have a part of the show from Malachi 6 Music. And boy, is he cursing me out. Damn, Joe. Shaking my head. Lol. I can't believe you blocked me. I am the guy that has been tagging you in those remixes all the way from Decatur, Georgia, Zone 6 future went to my high school, Columbia. For someone like you who claims to love music and is for the culture and for your fans who happen to be talented and also supports you and your membership fees to even get this response to you all the way from Decatur, Georgia, East Atlanta, Zone 6 would at least appreciate the work of musical art from your fans on social media who tagged you and supports everything else that you do. Even mentioning that I could see you in standup comedy. I remember you said that. No, you don't owe me Anything. And you can block whomever you want. However, I expected your frequency and your energy to your fans who try and get your attention would be a little more graceful and grateful. God. God, frequency and appreciation and gratitude for your fans even watching your podcast and for even wanting to write to you. Because honestly, Joe, I don't do shit like this, writing letters or submitting questions to celebrities. And this will probably be my last. It's all love though. I'm not mad and I'm still a fan. Just disappointed.
Melissa Ford
That was to you.
Joe Budden
Malachi, and anyone else that needs to hear this. I love and respect and appreciate your fan fear. That does not mean that you can spam my account 90 times on Instagram with whatever slap you just made. If you do that, I'm blocking you so I never have to see it again.
Ish
I'm looking at.
Joe Budden
Yeah, sorry. That don't mean I don't want you to win out there. But sending me 90 clips of your song when I think the baddie that I just followed might be hitting me and it's you. I just sent something to something nice. I get 90 replies real quick. Quick. And it's you with a song blocking you. You're blocked, buddy. Good luck with everything. Good luck. Sleepers.
Ish
Sleepers.
Joe Budden
Sleepers. I am going with this joint off that Babyface project that he put out. This is Babyface and Money Long and this record is called the Rest Recipe. Through my phone I was like what? You was like what? I was like boy I ain't got.
Ish
Time have you lost your mind? Are you trying to make me lose mine? Focused on my paper every day all you do is argue and complain when.
Joe Budden
You go quit playing in my face.
Ish
Just leave me alone I need some.
Joe Budden
Space.
Ish
The light down low slow I get home just take a sip and take it nice and slow I get home you can get rest of me and I get old baby soon if.
Joe Budden
I get the recipe.
Ish
Need you to.
Joe Budden
Love me trust me think it's so.
Ish
Important that we communicate Cause end of the day I need you supportive can you respect me? Will you protect me? Yeah it's only going to happen if.
Joe Budden
You let me so let me just.
Ish
Tell you husband in my head so many things Light me some candles Turn the lights down.
Joe Budden
Just take a sip.
Ish
And take it nice and slow.
Joe Budden
Baby protecting me I'm giving you the recipe Brand new, old music or kind of old that was Babyface featuring Money Long. That record is called the Recipe, available in your phone and on DSPs right now. That's that Baby Face project where you worked with all of the girls. Absolutely smoked that bold to do the soon as I get home flip but money long is money long Sounds good, sounded great. Shout out to both of them sound great.
Parks
I'm going to Fred show this is reason Whatever's is his first song out as a indie and I with it.
Joe Budden
Hey.
Flip
Yeah it's like got right to be killed want ice is grill one life with meals one life so ill godamn only try and get paid only try and get paid Hope he hit his dreams one day little whole life change look a want to speak to masses Hope to hear a cheers while we reach for glasses Swear I had enough but I keep surpassing goals that I set Cause I speak with passion Burn bridges every day Hit my line and they wanna explain I don't speak semantics Swear this shit would at least imagine I had hoop dreams and the dreams was canceled move on like u hauls too strong n went from coupons putting jewels on on the green like croutons Knew some in the field like foosball they was twisted with sticks Tried to stay out the way but my niggas was lit Swear as a kid only images live was a hoop rap trap Ain't much changed in a mars to the same little sweat be a pain little it's like we got the same name little I Trayvonna, Brianna I lay down at night in deep sweats as I ponder praying that's never my son or my daughter Know I was grown from the dirt in my father's no we ain't perfect we striving regardless no we ain't perfect we striving regardless yeah Old enough to know better be young enough to keep doing all of this stupid or whatever man Old enough to know better Young enough to keep believing all of this stupid they tell us yeah no matter how rugged the road is Tread through the deepest of waters I'm Moses the picture ain't perfect but chosen God knew he painted the toughest of soldiers the blood on the bristles I'm using I got it from victims of shooters had a cryptic go to but they ruthless bullets travel through air like acoustics Was a badass little but grew to be rich Feel like boosted Took some hard lessons but used them I learned to get through your problems it's like cleaning blood Just find your solutions all of this talk about diddy ironic I also put faith in the music we look up and get by those power Then quickly surprised when they turn into music Young old enough I guess that we not how you tell me that we ain't got steak in the hood when I watch my whole family pay bills on them blocks look I watched them my loved ones get killed on them blocks see mothers and fathers lose kids on them blocks let's dream it for nights and feel kind like looking for parking we been through a lot all of these bodies has fallen and will rap about drops just met with a relative killing it we sat and wrapped about plots do your whole roll out in hoods to head to the hills in the safest of homes I see the path that you walking just praying one day that y'all take better roads my patience is gold my future ain't stopping I shaked it with goals not one fable toe no hammers or tools I made it from lows look I'm still young and stupid but older and wiser I'm plotting and dreaming I fought that depression I'm boxing and bleeding got rid of them ghosts feel like Tommy Egan his soul I can't quit it's too much hope rest in peace family hurt.
Parks
That is whatever by reading reason friend of the show, that's all congrats reason on your your your new joints.
Melissa Ford
I'm going to gentleman's name is tails and the song is free time.
Ish
Tell me what to do tell me what you like I can do it right if you want.
Joe Budden
It though I'm changing my flight I.
Ish
Won'T leave tonight I'll come to your crib just let me in your room if 10 minutes in the pain is all it takes just to make it up to you then girl I'm on it said I've been so away you've been stressed for days baby I get not going to lie I feel away you've been up to something fallen man nowhere else I rather be I want to take my free time spend it with you just want to spend some time I got to make time for just me and you me and you.
Joe Budden
You should know I don't want nobody else y don't take it what do.
Ish
You want my baby you roll my blond po cup and we get nice and wavy you want to I give you love that's every night and daily you trying to write a story while I'm just here turning pages slowly you've been up to something fallen nowhere else I rather be I want to tell take my free spend it with you I want to take my time for kiss me and you baby.
Parks
That is tails free time with it with it Big Mel, what you got?
Jwan
Mine is called marking my time by help me with this. El.
Parks
Manny, we figured this out once, but I've forgotten.
Jwan
Elmian. Elmian.
Melissa Ford
Imani. It's not.
Joe Budden
But okay.
Jwan
And bad. Bad, not good.
Melissa Ford
Yes.
Ish
Send me the prayer I'm missing because I need the sign and even though.
Joe Budden
I'm listening.
Ish
It's gonna take Take a.
Joe Budden
While.
Ish
Set my soul on fire Free me from this water so fire I want to set my soul on fire get me up this whole Too tired to stay I want to set my Wanna set my Wanna set my oh I oh I been out that is our reality hold my breath I've been d. Every line of question Am I afraid to be someone who learn a lesson amongst the evergreen? Want to set my soul on fire Free me from this world I found so fair I want to set my soul on fire Free me from this world I found so my soul on fire gave me oh, I've been.
Joe Budden
Love.
Ish
I live I've died I will survive I I'm light I've tried I beloved I live I died I live Survival, baby.
Parks
That is el mean. That's how we pronounce it. And bad. Bad not good. Marking my time.
Joe Budden
All right. I see the male ish battle continues.
Parks
The war wages on ish.
Joe Budden
That was a fire sleeper. Again, your streak of fire sleepers this year. You're on a remarkable run, man. You have come a long way way since you first started this job and your understanding of what a sleeper was back then. And Mel just won't let you breathe, man. And you shooting 100% from the field, Mel, of listening to a sleeper right before the sleeper segment and it being fire.
Jwan
That's like that being the first person I had that selected.
Joe Budden
It's been two years.
Jwan
I already had that selected. I have a whole sleeper section. Like, a whole section.
Ish
Shut up.
Joe Budden
I know you do. I got some theories about it.
Jwan
No, I had that picked out. I was just listening to other stuff.
Joe Budden
I'm done. I don't have nothing to say. Yo, Lord Biden citizens out there, man. It's your time to shine. I ain't gonna let the kids keep dissimilar for it. Know what fun in my 40s look like? I'm glued to the cleaning the carpet on Instagram.
Parks
Oh, almost.
Joe Budden
When they pull the rug out and it's just all black and dirty and nasty like, oh, you'll never get this one. Them put that little foam on there.
Parks
No, they get to rust off the old.
Melissa Ford
No, the power wash. That be doing the concrete.
Corey
What they do to y'all?
Parks
Oh, son, they do the edges all.
Melissa Ford
Nice and it's like we bubble weed whacker.
Joe Budden
Ain't it fun though? Yeah, we bubble. But ain't it fun to be that bummy?
Melissa Ford
The power wash.
Joe Budden
I tried to power wash two times and shot the out myself with that. Hey, they didn't lie about the power part in power wash is a idiot, yo. Yeah, that's fun. Carpet, dude. The other day the Halloween edition pulled out a pumpkin carpet. But boy, it was filthy. I was like, you'll never be able to restore this.
Parks
And little did you know, take the whole car apart. That's ill too.
Joe Budden
He got that to bright orange boy.
Parks
They take the whole inside of the car apart and deep clean that.
Jwan
I haven't seen that.
Joe Budden
I haven't seen that.
Melissa Ford
Take the seats out.
Parks
Yeah.
Corey
Old ass car though. Like a 99 Camry.
Parks
Yeah, it's all.
Melissa Ford
Yeah.
Joe Budden
I seen a guy that just is destroying cars to show how destroyable cars are. That one I don't really understand. All the way out.
Parks
It's a little uncomfortable.
Joe Budden
And while I'm on the Halloween edition of Things. Cause I went and got my manicure and Alice and them be having the Food Network showing every time for 20 years now. So I'm forced to watch them white people that's on the Food Network take a glizzy and make it into a fingernail that's bleeding and put it into a hot dog bun.
Parks
I don't want the. I don't want it.
Joe Budden
It's right up your alley or no, no. I think that these people are and fools.
Jwan
I like the baking shows when I'm getting my nails done.
Joe Budden
That's very cat ladyish.
Jwan
But usually the baking shows, they have to like, you know, create some kind of like, I don't know, some that don't look like a cake or anything like that.
Melissa Ford
That is true.
Joe Budden
Yeah.
Jwan
It'll be like a race car pocketbook or some wild.
Joe Budden
Yeah, well, that was the little Halloween episode on the Food Network. Spooky ideas, right? So they, they, they pulled some out the fridge of a dead face in like a pickle jar. It was like, ooh. And they jumped. Then it was a hand coming from the bakers. The baker's cake. It was like, yo, dog, what are y'all doing? And the one black girl that got on there with them white people, I'm looking in her eyes with my black people intuition and I know what she thinking, but she can't say it. She can't say it. She just got. She's just got to do her job and watch the White people just do whatever they want. Like Flip. Look at Flip out there on the phone, too. What he was doing out there? I can't say what he was doing.
Parks
I hope he caught Flip. Awkwardly look back and scramble.
Joe Budden
Fat don't have the cool. Lean back on the phone. Like fat. Just got to be funny at all times.
Ish
Stupid ass.
Joe Budden
I'm not talking about you. I'm talking about. That's fat.
Ish
Why you doing that? Why you tell me. Come st outside with me.
Joe Budden
Why didn't.
Ish
What's up?
Joe Budden
Why you tell your man you see to work?
Ish
You just with me? We was just together.
Joe Budden
I came back once my sleeper break was done.
Ish
Got it.
Joe Budden
You stayed for the extra? I'm used to employers like you. From Sears. My Sears days.
Parks
Milk and the break.
Joe Budden
You supposed to get a 45 minute break. Y'all want to go to the food court in Newport, sit there extra hour and change.
Ish
You know what's sad about you? You got so much shit going on, you gonna dis your man.
Joe Budden
And I heard what you were saying out there. Yeah, that's the troubling part about it.
Ish
What about it?
Joe Budden
Nothing. It'll stay between us.
Ish
Yeah.
Joe Budden
I'mma hold it down now.
Ish
You can't use that. I got you too.
Joe Budden
I heard you out there. Baby.
Ish
Can read through all that. Stop still.
Joe Budden
Yeah. Cause if I didn't feel like I won off the last one, then it's coming back. We ain't done.
Ish
You sure?
Joe Budden
The field, we ain't way finished yet. I'm doing some ill reverse psychology. I just feel like you don't even like me.
Jwan
And the timing could not be that. Timing could not be better.
Ish
You love me, but you don't like me. That's. That's the best thing. Yeah.
Joe Budden
I'm getting deep with the mind game. You ain't hitting. You gotta beat these people. That's in your phone. 24 7.
Melissa Ford
I took a shot.
Joe Budden
What she said. I didn't hear what she said.
Ish
She take a lot of shots at you. You don't be here.
Jwan
No, I don't. I just said the timing couldn't be better.
Joe Budden
I didn't get that.
Melissa Ford
You trying to be cheap?
Ish
The birthday.
Jwan
Birthday right around the corner.
Ish
She want that card.
Jwan
We're in Scorpio season.
Joe Budden
The birth.
Ish
She still want the range?
Joe Budden
I wouldn't know. How would I know she still want a range?
Ish
I'm telling. Did the car change?
Joe Budden
I don't know. If you ask again, then you won the hook. I don't ask. Once I heard her say I want to raise oh, shit.
Ish
All right.
Melissa Ford
They nice, right?
Joe Budden
They is nice. They a nice little vehicle, boy. But I didn't ask again. No, I'm a fuck her whole head up and buy her some stock in the company.
Ish
Worth the range.
Joe Budden
Yeah. I'mma force you to grow up. Yo, what if somebody hand you some stock and you just. Pituitary. Just rip it up like doing this for. That's how I was when my grandma died. Rest in peace to my grandma. I didn't understand that Campbell stock that she gave me. I had 5,000. I went straight to the stock office. Hey, what's this worth? Hey, what's.
Ish
Let me get it.
Joe Budden
You take this. You take this. Campbell. Hey, give me that hard cash. Thanks, Granny. Yeah, that was apple. That was apple. Campbell's soup. Yeah. Campbell soup.
Ish
The company is stock. I know what. I understand what you said.
Joe Budden
Campbell Soup for our grandparents.
Ish
Got it. It was apple. I got it.
Joe Budden
Not for me. Don't die and leave it to me.
Ish
They still had. They still got this shit over there in. Not Cherry Hill, but what's the shit in Jersey that.
Joe Budden
Yeah, I went to whatever little wealth management building that was on 48th street over there by that overpass. Shit, I ain't know where I was going.
Melissa Ford
What floor.
Joe Budden
Can I trade this?
Melissa Ford
Wait, yo, hey. What floor? I want to give y'all these papers.
Ish
What floor is these papers?
Joe Budden
They said, Right here, Mr. Bud. We'll be right ahead with your cash.
Ish
What if you would have kept it? What would happen?
Joe Budden
Who knows? I don't know. People still eating Campbell's? Sure.
Jwan
Yeah.
Melissa Ford
Or they might own some other shit.
Joe Budden
Word. I was not wording it. The last thing on your mind was 29. Some soup.
Jwan
Damn.
Joe Budden
I think my grandma died in 2011. Yeah, I'm 29 or something. Fuck that soup, but rest in peace.
Parks
Rest in peace.
Melissa Ford
I'm looking it up.
Ish
You was up, too. I mean, you had your affair Shares. Nigga traded in a Campbell Soup stock. He was a cold, that grandpa. You a cold? Yeah. Sh. You ain't getting that rage salute. I got your back. You doing that rage. What's her birthday, Joe?
Joe Budden
I don't know.
Corey
You have 5,000 of them.
Ish
You don't know?
Joe Budden
I don't know when her birthday is.
Ish
How would I know?
Joe Budden
How the would I know when her birthday is? I hate Scorpios. Honestly.
Ish
Blasphemy.
Joe Budden
Scorpios need to. Oh, my God. They could just go to, like. They could be the first ones to Mars. The Scorpios. You take what they call that? The submersible. What's that?
Ish
No, Joe, that's enough. Enough. Enough people.
Jwan
I do. I'm just watching him because he's been hate. Yes, exactly.
Joe Budden
I don't with score.
Jwan
We might be in love with the Scorpio.
Melissa Ford
We might be his favorite Scorpio.
Joe Budden
We are pause for including yourself in my Scorpio talk. I ain't talking to no dude. Scorpio.
Corey
Oh, you hate Scorpio Women.
Joe Budden
I ain't talking to dude. That's all I know. Dude, how I even know that you was a Scorpio nigga? You a dude. I'm talking about the bitches. I'm talking about this one and the rest of them.
Jwan
We're amazing.
Joe Budden
I hate y'all.
Jwan
What? You're supposed to say yes.
Corey
The guys.
Joe Budden
Y'all just have no.
Jwan
I'm kidding.
Joe Budden
Just mesmerizing. Mesmerizing sex. That's. That's it. That's what they known for. Tyrese. I met a scorpion and had.
Jwan
Yeah, and he had to take a pause. He didn't do that with any other sign. Just saying.
Ish
I don't know what her birthday is.
Joe Budden
I don't know when my girl birthday is.
Jwan
You know when her birthday is.
Joe Budden
And I'm trying to book a little work trip during that. I'm trying to be out of town.
Ish
The tour, right?
Joe Budden
Yeah. Something important. I got three weeks, two weeks for something big to pop up. And let me tell you, she keep on her story posting all the girls that get like a whole bunch of gifts.
Corey
What?
Joe Budden
That little baby girl that got all the bags the other day had her name and the lights and Turks. Every girl that got 900 gifts, she keep posted in the store. I muted that shit. I mute the shit out of that story. You setting yourself up for a massive failure. You about to be so. Girl, you about to be so embarrassed on your birthday.
Ish
Joe, that's not just.
Joe Budden
No, I'm gonna do something. Cause I am a great gift giver. I don't know what it is, though. It ain't gonna be a range, I'll tell you that much. It's gonna be a range.
Melissa Ford
That just.
Joe Budden
Rover around your heart and for sure. Oh, shit. I love you, baby. Mic check one. Mic check, Mic check, Mic check. Hopefully you've enjoyed this episode as much as we enjoy delivering it to you. Keep us in your prayers. Lord knows we need to be there. Until the next time I bid you Ado farewell Adiosa durista arvois so long goodbye Or a simple head now to suffice Ego. Ego. I had to Go out tonight. What y'all doing this weekend? What y'all doing this weekend?
Ish
What's up?
Joe Budden
What y'all doing this weekend, man? What's up? What's up? Don't smize at me, nigga. What's going on?
Melissa Ford
I wanted to go to Z game.
Joe Budden
She said, no. Why you can't go to the game? Oh, he already went to one game this week. She said he used his game pass.
Ish
Holy.
Joe Budden
Yo, why you tell us that in hour one? Yo, you an idiot, son. You can't go to two games. Oh, shit. That's the fight I'm having in my house cause of your stupid ass.
Melissa Ford
Me?
Joe Budden
Yes.
Melissa Ford
What I gotta do with you?
Joe Budden
I'm dying because we came in here and talked about being in a relationship and going out three nights in a row. Oh, sh. And what that means? And you came in here and lied. And my girl believed me. I don't think anybody had enough. Relationship should be outside. And when you start lying, that's a lie. I start lying, too. I was like, yeah, man, that is foul. I think any man in a relationship knows he shouldn't be out three nights in a row. Why did I say that to the relationship police? Well, I have an entire record here of when you went out 24, 26 back in 2020. That can't be true, you, Honor. I mean, girls. Your Honor, Girlfriend. Your Honor, girl. Cause I don't go out Sundays, I don't go out Mondays, and I don't go out Thursdays, and it ain't but seven days in a week. So how could that be? Your Honor, girlfriend. And she said, just drive. Move to gopos. Well, what do you think about if you go out Tuesday and Wednesday and then skip Thursday and then it's Friday and Saturday.
Melissa Ford
It's not three nights in a row.
Joe Budden
Not three nights in a row. Back that. Fuck out of here.
Melissa Ford
Skip.
Joe Budden
You said skip. Fuck out of here with that. Yeah, buddy. Yo, you went to a game. You used your game pass already.
Ish
He did.
Joe Budden
And was on tv showing your teeth, looking good, trying to bag Philly bitches. Your girl was like. Your girl was like, enough.
Ish
Come.
Joe Budden
Come on.
Ish
Come back home.
Joe Budden
Come on.
Melissa Ford
To go from Philly to Houston.
Parks
Sheesh.
Melissa Ford
They had them. It was some things in there.
Joe Budden
Desire. Game is here, right?
Melissa Ford
Houston.
Joe Budden
Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Cuz I went.
Ish
You talking crazy today.
Melissa Ford
What?
Joe Budden
You thought you would fly to Houston and go to a zier game after you was in Philly with Mark Lamont Hill courtside on television show. And t you thought you could. Honestly, I'M I'm dead ass. I ain't trying to get you in trouble. You thought you trying to get you in trouble. Did you think that you could do two games in one week?
Melissa Ford
I contemplated it, yeah.
Joe Budden
How did she set you straight?
Melissa Ford
Just got something to do over the weekend. Just gotta tell you what they just tell you. Yo, we doing such and such at 11:30 on you be like, oh, okay.
Corey
Okay.
Parks
Yep.
Joe Budden
You lost.
Ish
Damn. So you're not going to the game? Nah.
Melissa Ford
And I don't like the rest of their schedule now you looking for shit.
Ish
Don't look for shit. I like about the game.
Melissa Ford
No, no, no. I spoke this out here. The only game that I really want to go to is this Houston. Houston game.
Ish
Yeah.
Melissa Ford
The rest of their games is whack. Like, I think Zion them fuck around finished 12 and 4.
Joe Budden
Optimistic.
Melissa Ford
I mean 13 and 4.
Joe Budden
I don't see it for him.
Melissa Ford
But the rest of their games is definitely.
Ish
You got the tickets already?
Melissa Ford
Nah.
Joe Budden
Why you just tell her not this weekend. Whatever you got planned, we'll do next weekend.
Ish
Nah, you good.
Melissa Ford
Good luck with that. You got that?
Joe Budden
Let me try. See, let me try. Think something else you could have told. Good luck with. Why you ain't tell her that this was a real important game to be at the tickets. Why you tell her come with you?
Ish
Yeah, there you go. That's what.
Joe Budden
Why tell her come with you? Z could have got your ex ticket.
Melissa Ford
But then we got to make baby.
Joe Budden
Accommodations and then you got to be with your girl like around. Don't know why I want to be with that girl when the is around.
Ish
Houston. Not Houston.
Corey
Houston girls.
Joe Budden
No, she the nanny. You bring your girl to Houston. You go to the game.
Melissa Ford
You stay right here with the kick the baby.
Joe Budden
Oh, man, no.
Melissa Ford
That's crazy. Nah, you.
Joe Budden
I got.
Melissa Ford
I'm listening to you.
Ish
You gotta book two days.
Parks
The Colts still gotta play the Vikings, the Bills, the Lions.
Melissa Ford
Who the.
Joe Budden
I don't see it for the Colts.
Melissa Ford
Who want to go there.
Joe Budden
Not that anymore.
Parks
That's good games.
Joe Budden
Nah, that Indianapolis and Texas game, that's where the is gonna be at. Well, your girl did the right thing. Your girl did the right thing.
Ish
He used his wrong. He was the wrong pass. He tried to get.
Joe Budden
He got.
Ish
He tried to get the off too, didn't you? You mentioned the. The football game early in early. And y'all plan on going to this one then? You said. But the Mark Lamont was the last minute. You know what I'm saying? We wasn't doing nothing. You know, I already had this plan, it didn't work, man.
Joe Budden
These girlfriends and wives are insidious.
Ish
I try to get that on for the football game.
Melissa Ford
No, nigga, no.
Joe Budden
I went to Girls Love karaoke. This nigga popped up the next morning, first flight.
Melissa Ford
You lying.
Joe Budden
No, I'm not lying.
Melissa Ford
You won't be humming no tunes around here, nigga.
Joe Budden
And I'm just making it look a certain way. We planned for her to be here, but I mean, coincidence.
Ish
So she's around.
Joe Budden
Yeah, I think she's here for the next one too, but that's fine.
Parks
Look at that.
Joe Budden
Look at God.
Parks
Yeah, you know, God blessings.
Melissa Ford
God loves karaoke.
Joe Budden
Ignorance. God loves karaoke. Hey, nice. Oh, choice. My girl seen that story like, wait, what? My. Don't be knowing how to act. Let me get up.
Ish
J Dam son. You.
Melissa Ford
I ain't going to say nothing. See, look, if it was me, you, you. You'll be going.
Ish
I'm pardon.
Joe Budden
Right now. I'm only pardon. I'm par.
Ish
And for the next one. Yes. You going to be here for a birthday. You got no choice.
Joe Budden
You.
Ish
I'll be around you.
Melissa Ford
They cut the music back on.
Ish
Are you my man?
Joe Budden
I'm trying to get out of so much. And she talking about some big birthday dinner with her friends and then coming up here to see me. Hi. Stupid, stupid question.
Ish
You got to pay for it. Yes, you.
Joe Budden
Yes, it's you.
Melissa Ford
That's exactly who my brain was. Go.
Parks
That's the answer.
Ish
No, you don't. But you going to have.
Joe Budden
I'm asking you. No.
Melissa Ford
Oh, no. They don't want you.
Joe Budden
They don't want you there. I don't think I have to.
Melissa Ford
They don't want you there.
Joe Budden
Nah.
Ish
Jay, why you put that in there?
Joe Budden
I don't think I have to be.
Corey
Got about a birthday outfit though.
Parks
But she's gonna go into Mark's Steakhouse at 7pm outfit to give you a little hint.
Melissa Ford
Keep going.
Corey
He has to buy that.
Melissa Ford
Keep going.
Corey
The cake.
Joe Budden
Keep going.
Corey
The dinner.
Melissa Ford
Oh, keep going.
Corey
The flight.
Melissa Ford
No flight. They home. Good. Oh, you gotta feed all 14 of them.
Corey
No, they gotta pay for themselves.
Ish
Oh, wow.
Melissa Ford
They got a what?
Ish
My. You breathe hard. Breathe. You making all this money off backs. Breathe hard. You laughed at me at the door. T shirt. Yeah, good shout out to big, big ass. Yeah, she go find that new friends.
Corey
One fat one.
Ish
I love this son because his mom be going everywhere. So he think he'd be like, oh, wait. And if he let it slide, he'd be like, wait, what? He called back like that. Wait, what you trying to get.
Joe Budden
Man don't have no rights. You don't nothing.
Ish
Birthday dinner. What does that look like?
Corey
What's the restaurant do?
Ish
You choose the restaurant for her? No, if you pay, you can't mail what he got. No, you can't use the rest.
Corey
There's no authority. Right.
Ish
We financial abusers and manipulators. Not me.
Joe Budden
You can give a budget, you can give a budget.
Melissa Ford
Who could give a budget?
Ish
He can.
Parks
He can't give a budget.
Ish
I'm only giving y'all fifteen hundred dollars.
Joe Budden
What's the budget look like?
Melissa Ford
Fifteen hundred nothing. You ain't gonna sell it. Yo, look, I know you're still thirsty, but you can't get no more wine.
Jwan
Or you could call ahead to the restaurant to create like a kind of situation where it's like all. Everything's just included.
Corey
So what you do when they start ordering? That's not.
Jwan
You let them know, don't order anything. You order that's off the menu.
Joe Budden
I look like a prefix.
Corey
They're gonna say, damn this.
Jwan
No, not a pre. You can create a menu. You had a menu. It was extensive.
Joe Budden
It was extensive. They tried that prefix menu shit with me. I scoffed at them.
Ish
I had made it mistake.
Joe Budden
I turned my nose at them. No, my friends should be able to choose between the branzino and at steak the birthday.
Ish
Yeah, it should just be, hey, you.
Joe Budden
Get a steak and appetizer and some soup and some crackers and you go home. I hate a bad prefix menu. It's bad. Add some shit that you know niggas want eat. Yeah, that they took off the good menu. Come on, don't do that.
Jwan
Yours was fantastic.
Ish
You got a. That's why he asked you about this. He going through it. Look at our son. Look, he.
Joe Budden
I'm chilling.
Ish
Buy that, pay for the dinner.
Joe Budden
Then after her birthday, I gotta have the. The co parent birthday Lex party. And then her twins birthday is in December. And then Christmas and then New Year's Eve and then New Year's and then Valentine's Day.
Parks
Wait, and then Valentine's Day.
Corey
People get gifts for New Year's.
Parks
No, no, you gotta do something.
Jwan
No, but plans.
Melissa Ford
Y'all can't wait till you really get some good money. Not to saying that you don't got it now. No, look, I want to hear all this macho come out, bro.
Corey
What do you got to do for New Year's?
Melissa Ford
Plan some something.
Parks
Dinner, drinks, trip party. Trip something.
Corey
If this is what marriage sounds like, that shit sucks.
Melissa Ford
Bad.
Jwan
This is what loving your girl sounds like.
Corey
No, this Sounds like being extorted.
Joe Budden
Loving your girl. Well, it is being extorted.
Corey
Oh, not worth it.
Joe Budden
Because you're paying whatever you paying your girl or the dinner or whatever, plus 50%.
Melissa Ford
Things we do for love, what you.
Joe Budden
Make just because of your tax situation. But you don't want to be that guy to explain to your girl what taxes mean for $1 and how it's really 50 cent.
Corey
Good luck to you.
Joe Budden
So you're spending a dollar 50 for every 50 but love mic check, we.
Ish
Going, man, Y'all hold it down.
Joe Budden
Everybody enjoy their weekend.
Ish
Stay blessed, stay safe.
Joe Budden
Y'all stay here for New Year's. They might try to go somewhere. Gotta get on it now after this chorus, we go, y'all hold it down out there. Shout out to the Patroni, shout out to the subgroups out there. We'll be back same time, same place next week. That's all I got for y'all out there, man. I'm going to fucking stay black and have a blast and have a good weekend, man. Peace, love, health, wealth and prosperity out there. We love y'all. High vibrations, high frequencies, all that good stuff. You know the vibes.
The Joe Budden Podcast - Episode 770: "Mr. Plus 1"
Release Date: October 26, 2024
In Episode 770 of The Joe Budden Podcast, titled "Mr. Plus 1," Joe Budden and his eclectic group of friends dive deep into a multitude of topics ranging from personal relationships and media critique to serious discussions about violence in hip-hop culture. The episode is a blend of insightful commentary, heated debates, and light-hearted banter, capturing the essence of the show's dynamic.
The episode opens with a heated discussion about the recent arrest of Dirk in Broward County, Florida, amidst allegations of orchestrating a murder-for-hire linked to the tragic death of King Von. Joe Budden elaborates on Dirk's demeanor during an interview, noting, “He could not stop showing his teeth. The whole time I was high... He looked like a proud son” ([00:50]).
Ish suggests that Dirk might have been aware of impending trouble:
"I feel like he knew something was coming because, during his birthday, he paid homage to all the fallen soldiers in Chicago..." ([32:42]).
The group expresses frustration over the cycle of violence and the role of artists in either perpetuating or breaking this cycle. Joe Budden emphasizes the need for accountability:
"These are senseless crimes that don't appear to have much thought going into it other than violent emotional reaction and response." ([32:42]).
Corey adds a psychological perspective, linking suicidal thoughts to homicidal impulses in urban communities:
"In the urban community... suicidal thoughts is homicidal impulses." ([61:44]).
A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to critiquing hip-hop media. The conversation is sparked by a tweet from an industry figure named Punch, who criticized most hip-hop media outlets as being detrimental to the culture. Joe Budden challenges this blanket statement, arguing,
"All hip-hop media is not trash... we just have too many different ways." ([148:10]).
Melissa Ford and Corey support Joe's stance, highlighting the diversity within hip-hop media and the importance of finding authentic voices:
"There's too many different people in hip hop media. Find the person that is true and aligns with whatever you're trying to do." ([148:10]).
The hosts debate the responsibility of media outlets to uphold journalistic integrity while respecting artists' personal struggles, emphasizing the complexity of media-artiste relationships.
Interpersonal dynamics among the hosts take center stage as tensions rise over discussions about being "Mr. Plus 1." Ish criticizes the notion of always being a secondary party in social settings:
"You really comfortable with your masculinity... You just comfortable. You a plus one." ([85:22]).
Melissa Ford defends her stance, arguing that financial support in relationships comes with expectations:
"If I'm paying $15,000 a month in bills for you... I want shit at the drop of a dime." ([09:09]).
The episode showcases the group navigating their personal grievances while maintaining the show's energetic and confrontational atmosphere.
The hosts recount their experiences at a recent "Girls Love Karaoke" event. Joe Budden shares his decision to avoid the party scene, prioritizing his well-being over social pressures:
"I'm never that thirsty for the party. So I'm sitting there, I'm getting tired. I'm hungry... So I left." ([21:42]).
Melissa Ford and Jwan discuss the social dynamics and the temptation to engage in excessive partying, reflecting on the balance between fun and personal responsibility.
Joe Budden:
"These are senseless crimes that don't appear to have much thought going into it other than violent emotional reaction and response." ([32:42]).
Ish:
"You really comfortable with your masculinity... You just comfortable. You a plus one." ([85:22]).
Corey:
"In the urban community... suicidal thoughts is homicidal impulses." ([61:44]).
Melissa Ford:
"If I'm paying $15,000 a month in bills for you... I want shit at the drop of a dime." ([09:09]).
Joe Budden:
"All hip-hop media is not trash... we just have too many different ways." ([148:10]).
Episode 770 of The Joe Budden Podcast presents a microcosm of the broader discussions happening within hip-hop culture and media. The hosts tackle heavy subjects like violence and media responsibility while also delving into personal relationships and the challenges of maintaining authenticity. The blend of serious discourse and playful exchanges underscores the show's unique ability to engage listeners on multiple levels.
Joe Budden wraps up the episode by emphasizing the need for accountability and positive change within the community:
"We gotta stare at this shit and look at this shit. If you out there, choose your heroes wisely. That's what I have for you." ([44:46]).
Listeners are left with a call to action to critically evaluate influences and support genuine voices in hip-hop, fostering a culture of introspection and resilience.
As always, The Joe Budden Podcast continues to provide a platform for unfiltered conversations, allowing listeners to gain insights into the minds of those navigating the intersections of fame, media, and personal growth. Episode 770 serves as a testament to the show's enduring relevance and the hosts' commitment to addressing both the joys and the struggles of their unique journeys.
Note: The timestamps provided correspond to key moments in the transcript, facilitating easy reference to notable quotes and discussions.