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It helps us come back to ourselves and not drift off in the chaos of optimized activity and stressful expectations. If you are feeling stressed out and untethered, you can ground yourself in that moment by touching something natural like grass or dirt or even a soft blanket on the couch. If you don't want to go outside. You can light a candle that you love and smell it. You can look around your space and look at things that bring you joy, or look into someone else's eyes that you trust and just take a deep breath in the moment. You can ground yourself with your senses and also you can create an environment of feeling grounded in your home or at your desk, at work or even in your car by actively bringing in your senses. Have some playlists at the ready that you play while you're driving or working or making dinner. Playlists that feel good in your body. You can light candles, simmer cider on the stove. You can get a lotion that you love that has like a wintry scent or that matches whatever busy month you're in, and you put it on when you need to feel grounded, like being tactile with your hands as you rub in the lotion. Put your hands over your heart. I do that all the time. Like press into your heart, dance, light a fire, or turn on the Netflix fireplace show. Activate your senses. Lean into them. Don't see those choices as silly or small. They're not. As we all know, starting small works way better than anything else anyway. All right, the fourth way that you can feel grounded in a busy month is to schedule rest. And I think it would be a compassionate choice to do that every day. I was talking to a friend recently about her busy schedule and it's way busy. She's in grad school, so she's like grading papers and running classes. She's also doing research as part of her degree, so she's managing the schedules of a ton of people who are involved in her research study. She also has a partner and hobbies and family and regular responsibilities. And she was feeling like she she never rested. But then as she kept talking, she realized that she did have some joyful, restful things in her life already. Like a scheduled weekly movie night. It always happened and it always made her happy and feel grounded in herself and her home and her life. Now I share that little story to say Sometimes when we hear the idea of scheduling rest, we see it as starting from scratch. Like, oh man, here's one more thing I need to do that I'll feel bad about when I don't actually do it. But I wonder if most of you already have some rest scheduled most days already. You just haven't named it that way or noticed it. Maybe you read after every kid goes to bed at night, that's scheduled rest. Maybe you intentionally take a lunch break like I do and actively enjoy yourself by eating food you love and not doing anything productive or, you know, feeling bad for taking the hour that's scheduled rest. So notice if you already do schedule rest and then notice it more. You might not have to add anything to your life at all. But in busy months, those regularly scheduled bits of rest are often the first thing to go. So maybe your practice can be adding it back in. Or you might want to consider scheduling some form of rest and connection with yourself where you feel like yourself and you fill up. You slow down on the inside every day. You know, it doesn't have to be for hours and hours, but I encourage you to look around at your days, notice what's already there. And if there isn't any rest, schedule some. Or adjust something that's already there to look more like rest than it currently does. This isn't just about refueling. It's about showing yourself and your body that you can stop. You can not be productive. You can hit pause on the projects and the work and responsibilities long enough to tell your soul that your value is not connected to those things. Yes, it is for bodily physiological rest and restoration, but it's also like a small protest to the constant hum of productivity. Schedule rest. Just be where you are. What a gift to give yourself. So the fourth way to feel grounded in a busy month is to schedule rest. And the final way, at least in this episode, to feel grounded in a busy month is to remember that you're not missing anything. Some of our stress in busy months is rooted in the anticipation of forgetting things, not doing everything really well, or holding urgency in our brains for every task when not every task is even close to urgent. Right now, you have done this before. You will do this again. You can do this with more compassion than you ever have, because you can know that deep down you're not missing anything. It's going to be okay. Your checklist is not going to save you. Your organization is not going to save you. Your lack of organization is not going to destroy you. People live through busy seasons all the time, and the process and results both look wildly different from person to person and season to season. There is not some optimal way that you haven't figured out to get through December. There is no normative standard you have to abide by. There is not a magical approach that somehow makes everything line up and work out. You can do what works for you. You can get by in whatever ways you need to, and you can believe in your soul that you're not doing it all wrong just because it doesn't look like some ideal. You're not missing anything. So to recap, five ways to feel grounded in a busy month are to have a busy month mantra, to release the expectation that everything has to be great, to engage your senses, to schedule rest, and to remember that you're not missing anything. It's all gonna be okay. You don't have to be great. You can say, I am here, this is now, and there is good. There is good here. So take a deep breath and enjoy your season. Even if it's a busy one. And that's five ways to feel grounded in a busy month. All right, a quick heads up that this week I will be writing the latest Lazy Letter. It's my monthly newsletter that goes out to over 60,000 people on the first Wednesday of every month. Except in January when it will come out the second Wednesday. Because the first Wednesday is the first of the month. So we're not doing that. And this month I'm going to be sharing book reviews from this month's Reading My favorite books of 2024, a story about three people that I encountered while I was in Indianapolis at the same time as Taylor Swift. People who who changed how I see the impact that one individual can have on a huge space and some words about gift giving and winter vibes, including links to my favorite Christmas slash winter playlist. So if you would like to get that newsletter, you can head to thelazygeniuscollective.com join all right, before we go, let's celebrate the Lazy Genius of the Week this week, it's Sarah Parsons. Sarah writes, For a long time I've held on to meaningful cards and notes that I've received from family, friends, co workers and my students, but I haven't found a good system for keeping them that eliminates paper clutter. In my house, I had a brilliant idea to take a photo of them and create a digital file with pictures of all these cards and their sentiments to revisit and read over years to come. When I need encouragement or a smile. This has helped me hold on to words of life that matter while eliminating clutter from my surfaces. You know, we sometimes give technology a bad rap, but this is a time when it totally comes in handy. Making a digital keepsake box for important things is so fantastic. I did this with years of my kids artwork. I scanned the art, but then I actually put those images into a photo book. That way I can still have like the tactile analog experience of the art, which I love, but with a lot more safe space space saving energy, which I also love, but where I don't have to keep like piles and piles of paper art, right? Which it is. Okay, if you choose to keep your kids art or if you choose to keep all of your meaningful notes and cards, right? Remember, it's all about what matters to you. It's what matters to you. So if it matters for you to keep the actual thing, find a way to keep the actual thing. If it doesn't matter so much but you still want to remember, then you can do something like this where you have a digital keepsake boxer, print it in a book or whatever. So thank you for sharing, Sarah, and congratulations on being the Lazy Genius of the Week. This episode is hosted by me, Kendra Adachi, an executive produced by Kendra Adachi, Jenna Fisher and Angela Kinsey. The Lazy Genius podcast is enthusiastically part of the Office Ladies Network. Special thanks to Leah Jarvis for weekly production. Thanks y'all for listening. And until next time, be a genius about the things that matter and lazy about the things that don't. I'm Kendra and I'll see you next week.