Ditch Bro Marketing for Profitable Growth with Leslie Hassler

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Podcast Summary: The Lindsey Anderson Show – "Ditch Bro Marketing for Profitable Growth with Leslie Hassler"

Episode Details

• Title: Ditch Bro Marketing for Profitable Growth with Leslie Hassler
• Release Date: July 22, 2025
• Host: Lindsey Anderson
• Guest: Leslie Hassler, Author, Speaker, and Strategic Business Advisor

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Introduction to Bro Marketing

In this episode, Lindsey Anderson delves deep into the concept of "bro marketing" with guest Leslie Hassler. Leslie defines bro marketing as a highly aggressive, often manipulative marketing strategy aimed at rapid wealth accumulation. She explains that this approach typically emphasizes the personal brand of the marketer, leveraging tactics like fake scarcity and high-pressure sales to coerce quick decisions from consumers. However, Leslie highlights that such methods are increasingly ineffective and misaligned with both business owners' values and the sophisticated nature of today's consumers.

“Bro marketing uses scarcity, it uses scare and fear to move you into a decision. And a lot of times I've just not seen it work so much for the people that ultimately succumb to it.” — Leslie Hassler [05:41]

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Impact of Bro Marketing on Customer Relationships

Leslie discusses the detrimental effects of bro marketing on customer relationships. She introduces the concept of the "Valley of Despair," describing it as the low point where aggressive marketing tactics leave customers feeling undervalued and mistrustful. Customers acquired through bro marketing often lack genuine alignment with the business, leading to poor long-term engagement and loyalty.

“People buy from people. ... If you don't believe in your product, in your price, or in your transformation, nobody else will.” — Leslie Hassler [11:24]

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Shifting Back to Fundamentals for Sustainable Growth

The conversation shifts to sustainable growth strategies that contrast sharply with bro marketing. Leslie emphasizes the importance of returning to basic business principles, such as understanding and communicating a clear value proposition. She explains that a strong value proposition articulates the transformation a business offers its clients, focusing on genuine solutions rather than manipulative tactics.

“The basics is really about understanding your value proposition. ... those foundational elements that most people actually never build because they're just good at doing the work.” — Leslie Hassler [14:54]

Leslie illustrates this with a client case study where refining the marketing message and improving sales conversations led to a significant increase in lead generation and conversions, underscoring that effective fundamentals can markedly enhance business performance.

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The Role of Alignment in Marketing Success

Leslie highlights that alignment between a business's values, strategies, and client needs is crucial for successful marketing. She points out that even with the same marketing techniques, businesses can experience vastly different outcomes based on how well their operations align with their core values and customer expectations.

“It's about finding out what works for you.” — Leslie Hassler [17:39]

This emphasis on alignment ensures that marketing efforts resonate authentically with both the business and its target audience, fostering sustainable growth and customer loyalty.

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Incorporating AI into Marketing and Sales

Addressing contemporary challenges, Leslie discusses the integration of Artificial Intelligence (AI) into marketing and sales strategies. She reveals that her firm utilizes AI extensively to enhance efficiency, manage workflows, and automate repetitive tasks. This adoption allows for more strategic allocation of resources and keeps her business six months ahead in marketing initiatives.

“AI just helps us do them faster. ... we're implementing it with almost every single one of our clients.” — Leslie Hassler [21:04]

Leslie also notes the importance of having robust processes and documentation to effectively leverage AI, ensuring that technological advancements bolster rather than disrupt business operations.

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Final Insights and Actionable Advice

As the episode concludes, Leslie offers pragmatic advice for business owners struggling with ineffective marketing strategies. She urges entrepreneurs to prioritize profits as an intentional goal rather than a mere reward, emphasizing that profits provide the necessary fuel for growth and future endeavors.

“Stop putting off profits. ... prioritize your profits because it is the thing that gives you fuel and enables you to do the next big thing.” — Leslie Hassler [23:24]

Leslie encourages business owners to revisit their foundational strategies, ensuring alignment and authenticity in their marketing efforts to attract and retain the right customers.

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Conclusion

Lindsey Anderson and Leslie Hassler wrap up the episode by reiterating the importance of moving away from outdated, aggressive marketing tactics. Instead, they advocate for a return to fundamental business principles, emphasizing alignment, authentic value propositions, and strategic use of technology like AI. This approach not only fosters more meaningful customer relationships but also paves the way for sustainable and profitable business growth.

For listeners seeking to implement these insights, Leslie directs them to yourbizrules.com for additional resources and support.

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Key Takeaways

• Bro Marketing Defined: Highly aggressive tactics aimed at quick profits, often misaligned with customer needs and business values.
• Negative Impacts: Erodes trust, attracts unsuitable customers, and leads to poor long-term engagement.
• Return to Basics: Emphasize clear value propositions and authentic marketing strategies.
• Importance of Alignment: Ensures that business strategies resonate with core values and customer expectations.
• Leveraging AI: Enhances efficiency and effectiveness in marketing and sales, providing a competitive edge.
• Prioritize Profits: View profits as an intentional goal to fuel growth and future projects.

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Resources Mentioned

• Leslie Hassler's Book: Scaling Rich – Focuses on growing a business without burnout and moving away from bro marketing strategies.
• Website: yourbizrules.com – Access to resources, books, and support for scaling your business.

Transcript

[A]

Hey everybody. Welcome to this episode of the Lindsay Anderson Show. Today we're talking about bro marketing. And for those that don't know what bro marketing is, we cover in this episode. But it's this get rich quick like highly aggressive marketing that so many people are no longer aligned with you as a business owner. Really hate the way this makes you feel. And ultimately the customers you get on the other side of this, well, they're not your best customers. You pair all of that with the pandemic with some bad actors coming online and the trust for those online customers really, really eroding. And so your audience is savvier than ever. Sales funnels that used to work five years ago, they don't work as great anymore. We've all become expert buyers. And those bro marketing tactics with fake scarcity and pressure sales, they're really wearing thin and not working as well as they could. And today's guest is here to talk about exactly what is working now. And spoiler alert, it's not another new hack or trends. It's getting back to basics and making those work. So if you're trying to grow invisibility, bring in more leads and close clients without selling your soul, this episode is for you. So let's hop in to this interview with Ms. Leslie Hassler. But before we get to that, I want to let you know that this episode is brought to you by my agency, the BAM Agency, where my team and I help business owners just like you turn social media into a sales machine. If you're ready for a custom strategy that actually drives results, you can book a free session by heading over to Lindsaya.com apply. Let's hop into my interview with Ms. Leslie Hassler.

[B]

Are you ready for next level growth in your business? Welcome to the Lindsay Anderson show where we pull back the curtain on the exact strategies, tools and mindsets that build million dollar empires. If you're hungry for more time, more freedom and a whole lot more impact, you've come to the right place. Buckle up because we're about to ignite your business journey. Now here's Lindsay.

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This episode is brought to you by the BAM Agency. Done for you. Social media that actually drives results, not.

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Just likes, but high ticket sales.

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[A]

My guest today is Leslie Hassler, an author, speaker and strategic business advisor who helps service based business owners grow with predictable profit and less overwhelm. She's the founder of your Biz Rules, a fractional C suite firm that supports in scaling businesses with hands on strategy and leadership. Her new book, Scaling Rich is all about growing without burning out and ditching the bro marketing for something that actually works. That's exactly what she's going to talk to us today. Leslie, welcome to the show. So happy to have you on Howdy.

[D]

It's so exciting to be here. We're going to have a great time.

[A]

We really are. Let's have this bro marketing thing. I know in the green room we've talked about it, it's like a thing. First of all, how did you get involved in the work that you do today?

[D]

Wow. So your rules is about 11 years old. It came as an op or out cropping a transition from my first business into something better. So I like to tell people my first business was my prison. My second business is my playground. And that's really what your business Rules has become. And I really was brought into it. And the reason I continue to do what we do is because we are so committed to seeing other businesses succeed. There's just not enough help for those entrepreneurs who've been in business maybe three, five years, then you're starting to come up with problems that Google can't answer for you. And we're just here to help guide and provide a path that actually, like you said, gets you some more profits, gives you a better quality of life, give you some growth and scalability and something that you can sustain and love.

[A]

I love it. I love it. Well, today we're talking about bro marketing specifically. So when I say the term bro marketing, for those listeners who maybe don't understand what that term is, how do you define it?

[D]

So I really think the term bro marketing and it's not something I came up with.

[A]

No, it's out there. It's out there.

[D]

It's out there, right? It's out there for sure. But it talks about the marketing that has a decidedly almost aggressive kind of approach. It typically puts the person at a personal brand on a pedestal. Look at all the things I've accomplished and look at what you have not. So that have and have not discussion is wickedly there. In fact, most of the marketing language is about almost making the consumer feel smaller so he feels so small. You have to get the answer from the person up high and listen, it works for some people. If it didn't make people money, they wouldn't do it. At the end of the day, I just think it's out of alignment for a lot of our clients and for our own business. And I just want to open this up because I've been in marketing, oh, golly, 25, 30 years. I mean, you and I probably put together could hold all the marketing knowledge.

[A]

That's right.

[D]

We mean a lot of different evolutions, but at the end, I think people are getting tired, they're getting bruised by that highly aggressive, well, you know, I don't have the money to pay for this. Well, if your child was suddenly wrought with cancer and you had to pay the medical bills, you'd find the way. That's that, bro. Marketing, it uses scarcity, it uses scare and fear to move you into a decision. And a lot of times I've just not seen it work so much for the people that ultimately succumb to it.

[A]

Yeah. And there's two sides of that, right? The marketing itself. Now, since the pandemic, and there was a bunch of bad actors that came online and now intimacy and AI, like, all of that is making it way less effective. But also on the flip side, and tell me what you think about this, is when you acquire customers through that kind of like mental gymnastics and psychology, when they're feeling in the heat of the moment, but then you have to serve them when they're no longer in the heat of the moment, they don't really end up being your best customers where you can do your best work anyway.

[D]

Yeah. So you're talking about the Valley of Despair. And I don't know if you've ever heard. Tell us.

[A]

I know all about it, but tell.

[D]

The listeners know all about the Valley of Despair. Right. So imagine if there's a plateau, there's this valley point, there's the slowest point possible, then there's the slope up and out. This is really where scarcity marketing is talking about, is putting people down in the bottom of the valley. I agree with you. When we, when our experiences is our. If our clients at that bottom of the valley, Honestly, we have a 50, 50 success rate. Because what we don't have when it's that bad is time. And it took you time to get there, it's going to take time to get out of there. And so time is our enemy in that. And how many choices in movement? Usually money's not high, money's not fruitful in that area. So you're limited in choices. So you're going to pay in time, you're going to pay in money at the end of the day. And so that being down at that bottom of the barrel, if you will, does tend to put people into a position where they aren't their best. They either are not able to make decisions clearly, they're not able to show up, they're not able to participate, or they just may be flat out of choices. It could be that we have the best solution and it works for everyone, but it won't work for you because at the end of the day, you have no more time and you have no more money. And so that's. I don't know, that's a really hard place to be. And we have had clients there and we're fully transparent about where people are and what we're going to have to do to try to rectify it. Because we're, like you said at the beginning, we're always here to help people succeed. And if you recognize that you're ready to succeed more, then why not? We're going to give it a go. But the BRO marketing does tend to get you down here. So obviously, and this goes into what I would consider pretty marketing 101, right? It's somebody has to have a problem and your solution solves that problem. So on some level, they're on the downslope, because if everything's good, then they don't see a problem. Chances buy your solution. So they need to be on the slope of noticing that there's a problem. And very rarely do they notice it in the first 25% of the problem. Usually it's in that middle, maybe 30 to 70% of the problem. But if they're down to that 95 or a hundred percent, it's a different situation. So, yeah, we want to make sure that our marketing is calling in a lot of ways to the best version of somebody that's calling them forward, not putting them down, and finds them when they still have hope. Because if they're at the bottom of the barrel and I'm using my hands to do a lot of visualizations if you're just listening to this. But if you're at the bottom of the barrel, hope is hard. And I like to say that we can do a lot for people, but I. I can be a hundred percent with you. I just can't be a hundred percent for you. There's nothing I can do for our clients to do it for them, but I can be with them every step of the way. And I need hope and I need belief in order to make what happens next.

[A]

So can you just dive into that a little more? Tell me what it looks like. What are the clients saying in their heads when they don't have Hope.

[D]

Yeah. Oh, my gosh. That won't work. It's never worked.

[A]

No.

[D]

Nobody wants to show up and do the work. Nobody wants to pay. Like, the nobody. Never, ever. That kind of language is predominant. And let me just even give you an example. And this is an example we talk about actually in our first book, where we had a client come in and a marketing issue. Their marketing message was off. Conversion wasn't happening. So we worked. The problem started at the beginning, put things into place, and. And then we sent them out. We're like, okay, go. So suddenly, leads turned on. In fact, I think we, I don't know, multiplied the leads by 10 times. Good. Leads coming in, but no conversion. Great. Let's look at the sales conversation. Let's look at the questions. Let's see how you're delivering things. How are you supporting the sales decision? And honestly, it was a lot of like, okay, well, that works. Okay, that could be better. But it's not bad. You know, it's like, chick, chick, chick. But then in the conversations in between, nobody understands what I do. No. People don't pay for my work. Nobody. Da, da, da, da, da. That internal talk, which a. Just sabotages all your marketing and sales in a way that you.

[A]

Because you all show up and do the work, and there is so much work to be done and the energy you're putting around it and how you're showing up. And it all matters.

[D]

It all matters because at the end of the day, people buy from people. Yeah. You know, unless we're talking that we're Coca Cola, Pepsi, Tesla, you know, Mercedes Benz. Big brands where people are buying a brand. Right. But still, if you look at who represents those brands, the people you're buying, the aspiration of what that people represent. So people buy from people. And if you don't believe in your product, in your price, or in your transformation, nobody else will. Yeah.

[A]

Oh, amen to that. That was good. That was real good, Leslie. Okay, thank you.

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I had a client recently say to me, lindsay, I've never had leads come.

[A]

To me like this before.

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That's the difference between posting randomly and using a real strategy. At the BAM Agency, we turn content into conversation and those conversations into clients. If you want a social media system that actually works, apply for a free social media strategy session. Call by heading over to Lindsay A dot com.

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Apply.

[A]

My question is. My question now is there's so many business owners who think that they're doing everything right, but they're still not seeing, like, these kind of results. What do you say? To them.

[D]

Well, when it comes to marketing and really business, everything works and nothing works. It's the truth of the matter. You can have two different business owners doing the exact same thing. One's going to work for one and just totally flatline for the other. Which honestly is the reason why you probably shouldn't follow the next shiny object. What's underlying things is likely alignment. So it's alignment with who you are, who your clients are, how you'd like to do business, what's the quality of life that you want. All of these things really will determine your success. And one of our very, very, very early clients had this exact same issue going on. That a decent six figure business, they're doing well, they wanted more, they invested, got some education. The education was good. I'm not even going to knock that. The education was good. However, the education and what was being prescribed was so far out of alignment with the personal values of the owner that her business went from six figures to nearly zero in trying to implement it. And what we did was come in and we're like, okay, first off, you got to stay true to you. You have a North Star, you have a guiding light. We need to know what that is and then we need to bring the business into alignment with this. And if it doesn't feel good, then maybe we should find what does because you'll be more successful with what does. What feels, feels good. Then one doesn't. Because again we go back to the whole how you talk to yourself. If you have so many competing commitments that you can't align to find a solution, it's going to tear things apart. And that's the same thing here. Why you can have two people do the same thing and have completely different results because everything works. Nothing works. It's just about finding out what works for you.

[A]

N is in alignment. Yes. You. Yes. So you know, bro, marketing we talk about, it's a little bit of a fad. People are expecting more. We have expert buyers on our hands, prospects, Mara, they're warming all up to this. But you know and I know we agree on this. That's why you're on the show. It always comes back to fundamentals that never stop working. The basics. So you touched on these, but can you outline the basics for us?

[D]

So the basics is really about understanding your value proposition. And the reason that people run into a problem with the value proposition, I'll tell you what that is, is initially your business success is leveraged on your network. People who already know, love and trust you and they're willing to take a risk. They may not even understand what you're doing in business, but they're willing to support and that gives a good bolus. But eventually you run out of that network if you're not consistently building in the next group of people to get to know, love and trust. So at some point in time it has to start being a little bit more than you like Leslie and you want to buy from Leslie now. You need to understand what the heck Leslie does for you and why it's worth something. That is the reason you need a value proposition. So I do think you can get by without it for a while in business, but eventually you're going to need it if you want to continue to grow and scale. That value proposition basically says, here's what I'm going to do for you and here's the value exchange that we're going to have. My value that I will provide to my client is the transformation. So you heard it in our introduction. I'm going to make you money, I'm going to improve your quality of life and I'm going to give you a business that can grow and scale. That's the transformation. In exchange, I have a fee. I get paid to deliver this value. Now in order for that value proposition to work, I need to understand the marketing message. I need to understand the problems my clients are trying to solve, what the pain of that problem is, what the promise of my work is and the benefits that come to it. So there's all of these elements that make up a good marketing message. But to be the case study in the room, you heard me say it earlier when I said a lot of our clients find that they have problems that Google can no longer solve because we have pretty self reliant clients. They're highly independent clients. They have tried solutions in the past but haven't found the answer. That's because they can't pinpoint what the problem is anymore. It's too complex. That's why Google can't answer the questions. But I know Sunday night at 10:00pm yeah. Why we have, I don't know, 500 articles, why we've written two different kinds of books. So it's that understanding of your marketing message and of your clients, the problems that they're having, what they're doing on Sunday night at 10pm what moves them into decision that drives everything you do and how your sales processes is designed and what that experience is like. Those are foundational elements that most people actually never build because they're just good at Doing the work. And that can sustain.

[A]

Yeah. And we see it on our side, too. You see that all the time. And what I want to circle back on, that really highlights this is when you were like, it's complicated. There's a lot of missing pieces. And I think a lot of people, when it comes to building a good, solid marketing and sales funnel, like, they think, oh, I'll just throw it out there. But it is crazy. Even 20 years in this, it's. It is so nuanced, it's insane.

[D]

Yeah, it is. And we have a client that was talking about Google Ads, and they're like, do you have a training? And I'm like, yeah, it sounds really simple, doesn't it? Go put some honey in, crush your vineyards.

[A]

Yeah.

[D]

Just find somebody that can take care of that for you. Because you're going to waste so much time and money trying to learn when you could actually get it moving with some expertise. And like you said, that's the balance of it is until you are on the other side and you've spent 20 years doing the work that you do, you can't even imagine how complex it actually is. And I think one of the analogies we will take is imagine you're driving a Fiat at the moment. You want to be driving a Maserati while I can't cut apart the car, because the car is your business and it needs to make money in the meantime. So I have to carefully take a piece apart.

[A]

I love that analogy.

[D]

Right. Like, I have to do this with a scalpel. Precision in a way that keeps the car running and keeps the gas tank full of gas so that eventually you get the Maserati. Now, that may take a little bit of time, but you'll actually have a better, stronger business.

[A]

And you'll, like, keep running while it's going. It's like this iteration, iterative approach, being patient. You'll find the answers, but it does take time. Analysis step by step.

[D]

You're gonna pay in time or money at the end of the day. And sometimes, unfortunately, it's time.

[A]

Yeah. Yeah. So what's your big message for business owners who are feeling this and really are resonating with your message, what is their first step?

[D]

So I would say I think both the Scaling Rich book and first this and that are good places to start because it just helps you understand the landsc. If you're going to play the game, you at least need to know the rules. Right. So both of these books do a great job at doing that. And then it's about Systematically understanding where you're growing to. For a lot of people have been in business for a while, you've lost a little bit of a vision of what's possible. Now you've gotten into instead of being maybe Disneyland, everything's wonderful and glorious to. I'm just trying to be a realist and pay the bills. We need to get you back into a dream state because honestly, you are in a state. Our economy, our social, every bit of it is enabling you to grow more profitably and grow quicker than has ever been possible. And so if we can be part of that journey, we'd love to, but start with finding the ways. Just like we said, hey, remarketing. It had its lifespan. It works for some. If it's not working for you, there is a better way. So be brave enough. If you want a different enough result, be brave enough to try a different enough approach. 1 or 2% difference probably not going to get you where you want to go.

[A]

It's true. It's true. So let's talk about the elephant in the room there, Leslie. Okay.

[D]

Okay.

[A]

AI, where are you utilizing AI in marketing and sales?

[D]

Everywhere. Yeah.

[A]

Amen. It's a big elephant.

[D]

Big elephant. And we are fully transparent with it. But it has revolutionized our team and I've got a team of eight. There is no one on my team that doesn't use it. Now listen, we've invested a lot into process, into documentation. We have rule, we say what you can and what you cannot use in AI. Like we don't really share financials in AI because that's a highly piece of common sense.

[A]

Yeah.

[D]

Information. But because we work across the entirety of the business, we're also doing hr, job descriptions, strategic plans, maybe massaging some content. We're doing a lot of different things and AI just helps us do them faster. Now the reason we can do that is we have process like you would not believe. I have a 4 inch binder just as a paper backup copy of all of our processes should the Internet die because it's so much. It is our intellectual property that is what's enabled us to use AI. But we're, we're implementing it with almost every single one of our clients. We're helping them build it into their business so that they can just become more efficient, get more done and take care of maybe some of that repetitive stuff. Because AI goes past ChatGPT, it really turns into workflow management automations and things like that can just make your entire team's life so easy. But yeah, we're Fully into it. I think at this point in time we are just to see the impact. Whereas two years ago we might have always been two weeks ahead on our marketing, we're now six months ahead.

[A]

Yeah. That's your personal marketing for your business.

[D]

Yeah, we do all of our, in our marketing internal. I do have some support staff with that and they do a phenomenal job. But there's three people. It's me and then our content medium, art. So we get an amazing amount done and we produce at least an article a week, at least six posts a week, plus video on top of that. And then we do things like this that we fully support. So we consider what we do to be quite robust comparatively. But we could not keep up with it for utilizing technology to help us get there.

[A]

Amen, Leslie. Awesome. All right, what is our your final message for everybody today? If they could only take one thing away from what we've been talking about, what's that gonna be?

[D]

I'll say I'll go back to stop putting off profits. Most people treat profits as a reward instead of an intention. If you're listening to today's podcast, you need to prioritize your profits because it is the thing that gives you fuel and enables you to do the next big thing. At the end of the day, get your foundations right. They're really not that hard. But you might need a little help like we've talked about, just understanding how to put them all into alignment and then start getting going because there are people that need your good work out there.

[A]

I love it, Leslie. What a great conversation. I love how much we align on all this. I love the metaphors, everything that you shared. Where can people go to learn more about your work?

[D]

Phenomenal. We have a special page just set up for anybody listening to us. So it's going to [e-mail] Lindsay there we've got a free gift for you. We've got how you can connect to our books if you're interested in those. And then as well, if you're looking for some support, need that fractional C suite. Then we'd love to chat with you. You can find that there.

[A]

Awesome. Leslie, thank you so much for being a guest in the show. There you have it, folks, another awesome episode of the Lindsay Anderson Show. I loved this interview with Leslie because it always comes back to the basics. It always comes back to having a long term strategy and not just hoping and praying that the next marketing tactic that you employ will actually work. So thank you so much for joining me for this episode. As a reminder, if you're ready to cut the fluff and simplify your social media and build a system that drives your actual business and not just likes, let's talk. Book a social media strategy session with me by heading to Lindsaya.com apply. As always, if you enjoyed this episode of the Lindsay Anderson show, please leave us a review. Hit that follow button. That's how we can continue to bring this straightforward information to you. Thank you so much for joining me for this episode. Cheers to you and your success.

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