Matt Walsh (34:34)
Turn for her. Turn around. Watch the game. Yep. Okay, so a bit hard to hear the Eagles fan, this middle aged man calls the woman a dumb C word. And the woman's fiance, Alexander, tells the man not to say that. To which the man responds that his fiance is an ugly, dumb C word. And then Alexander says, cool. And that's the end of the interaction that, you know, we see here. So, like I said, very viral video. A lot of outrage at the Eagles fan. The Eagles fan has. The Eagles organization has responded. They banned this guy for life. They've apologized to the woman. Also, the guy, the Eagles fan, has been doxed and his employer has been, you know, has. Has been notified and he's probably going to be fired. So all that has happened because people are very upset at the Eagles fan, which, which is understandable. I mean, his, his conduct is reprehensible. I do think it's a little bit more complicated than that or, or at least there's more to say than just that, in my opinion. So let's, let's go through a few points about this. First, yes, to reiterate, the Eagles fan is a stupid, pathetic, trashy goon. No question about it, and no offense to the good people of Philadelphia, but he's not the only Eagles fan who falls into that category. Okay? So, yes, the Eagles fan is a drunk, trashy idiot, but it's a little bit redundant to say that an Eagles fan is a drunk, trashy idiot. And again, no offense, but, you know, if you're an Eagles fan, Eagles fans have earned a reputation, and they have really earned it. So if you don't like the reputation you have, well, you know, you earned it. What can I tell you? What I mean is that the behavior you see in the video is not at all unusual at an Eagles game, and it's pitiful. You know, I'm a diehard Ravens fan. As you know, I'm a big football fan. I'll be the first to say that it is a sign of a severe character defect and a sort of pathological inability to grow and mature. If you are too obsessed with your favorite sports team and too emotionally invested to the point where you're actually getting angry at someone who's wearing a jersey from another team. Okay. That, you know, as a Ravens fan, the rivalries with the Steelers. And so I'm not going to get angry at someone if they wear a Steelers jersey. You might joke around with them or something. My brother in law is a big Steelers fan, so there's a, you know, there's. You go back and forth as a joke. I'm not actually getting mad at someone. I can't even imagine that. I can't even imagine getting actually angry because somebody is wearing the colors of another team. That is not my favorite team. It's just, you know, I hesitate to call it childish only because that, that could, that's, you know, sort of an understatement. The behavior you saw in that video was worse than childish, but it is also really childish and you need to grow the hell up. It's okay to watch football as a grown man. I certainly watch it. But it is just asinine to make it a central aspect of your identity. Not to mention, of course, speaking this way to anyone, but especially a woman, is repugnant. However, point two, the supposed victims in this altercation are not actually totally innocent, for one thing. And it always surprises me, it shouldn't surprise me, but it actually doesn't surprise me. But it frustrates me that this happens time and time again and hardly anyone ever brings this up. We don't know what happened prior to the video being taken. There's a reason why the guy pulled out the video when he pulled it out. We have no idea what transpired ahead of this. Okay, so for all we know, that woman was cussing the guy out a few minutes ago, a few minutes before the video was taken. For all we know, not only could that be the case, but it's kind of likely that it's the case. I'm not saying that it happened. I have no clue. That's my point. I don't know. But it could have, right? And if it did, or if there was any deliberate antagonizing going on, then suddenly the packers fans are much less sympathetic. It still would not justify the behavior of the Eagles fan. But let's just, you know, hypothetically. Okay, hypothetically, if five minutes before that the woman had turned to that Eagles fan and cussed him out and called him stupid, stupid, dumb, hick or something, is, you know, does. Is she still a sympathetic figure in this? Of course not. Again, wouldn't justify what the guy said. I would never talk that way to a woman. But just the fact that no one's even curious about that, no one's even curious what happened prior before this, and no one ever is. Anytime there's a viral Video, it picks up. These viral videos always pick up in the middle, in the middle of some kind of altercation. There's a reason why that guy who's taking the video, he was not, I assume, you know, taking that video the entire game. So this happens in the middle. And so you have to wonder what happened before the middle. What I do know. And yes, go ahead and call this victim blaming. Go ahead and call victim blaming. I don't care. You are a moron. If you go to a game at Eagle Stadium wearing the jersey of the opposing team, you are literally asking for something like this to happen. And bringing your fiance or your wife to a game at Eagles Stadium wearing the opponent's colors is beyond foolish. Why would you do that? I would never do that. Okay, now, that doesn't mean the Eagles fan is justified in a cost to you. It does mean. It doesn't mean that they should respond that way. Right? It just means that they will. Something like this will happen. It shouldn't, but it will. So why would you put yourself in that position? If you leave your car unlocked with the keys inside when you're parked on a city street at night, it's gonna get stolen. It shouldn't. The thief is not justified in taking your car. The thief should still be tracked down and thrown in prison. But it will happen, right? And so when you come and cry to me, my car was stolen. I left it unlocked with the keys in it on a street corner in the middle of the night. My car was stolen. I have no sympathy for you. I just don't. How could I? It was so easy for that to not happen to you. Finally, point three. And I have to say this, and I don't say it lightly, but as a man, if another man talks to your woman that way, you can't just stand by and let it happen. You can't. You just can't. Recording it and posting about the guy later is not good enough. In fact, it's worse because now your emasculation and your fiance's humiliation has been immortalized. It's amazing to me that this guy called your fiance a dumb, ugly C word to your face. Your response was cool and you put that online for the world to see. What? You have provided video evidence to the world of your shame, of your own failure to man up and take care of the situation like a man should. Now I'm fully aware, okay? If you throw down in that situation, you might go to jail. You might end up in the hospital. You might go to the hospital and Then jail. Something worse could potentially happen. I know that. But unfortunately, you have found yourself in a position. You have put yourself in a position where even the hospital and jail are, though terrible outcomes preferable to the alternative. The alternative is that you are castrated in front of your woman, and you lose your honor and your dignity, and she loses all respect for you forever, just as you lose respect for yourself. That's the alternative. And, yeah, jail will be better. I mean, I'm telling you, that relationship is over. I'll tell you right now, it is over, because that woman is never gonna forget that. Never. I don't care what anyone says. No, it's the right thing to do, okay? You're full of it, and you know it. And any woman who says that. No, that's what I'd want. That's how I want my husband to respond. No, you wouldn't. No, you would not. If a man called you a dumb, ugly C word, you would not want your husband to say, cool and then nothing. No, you would not. Don't lie. Okay, let's not lie. Now, I know there are men who will say, be the bigger man here. It's not worth it. Fine. But you and I both know if you're in that situation and you let that man call your wife a dumb, ugly C word right in front of you, it'll haunt you forever. You will spend the rest of your life trying to rationalize and justify it to yourself, no matter what you say. Sticks and stones may break my bones, you know, all the nursery rhymes. Doesn't matter. You and I know that you will not be able to convince yourself that your failure to act was actually the right call or that it was motivated by anything other than pure cowardice. Because the thing is, when people say, oh, be the bigger man. Be the. You know, that's not why you're backing away. You're backing away because you're scared. And failing to act because you're afraid of the consequences is, like the definition of cowardice. And as I said, your wife and your fiance is never gonna forget it. Never gonna forget it. And, you know, so all that to say, am I suggesting that you should risk jail or serious injury just to protect your honor and your dignity and more importantly, the honor of your wife or your fiance? Yeah, I mean, that's what I'm saying. And there was a time in this country when that would not even be controversial. Like, of course, your honor and your wife's honor, your fiance's honor. That's worth something. It's not Nothing. And I mean, there was a time when people fought duels for this exact reason. They risked getting shot. I mean, they volunteered to have another man shoot a pistol at them from 50 yards away or 50ft away, not 50 yards. For the sake of their honor and their family's honor. I'm not saying they should challenge him to a duel. I do think that bringing duels back would actually make a lot of things better inside. But I'm not suggesting that, and I'm not even saying you necessarily have to end up getting into a fight, but you gotta get in the guy's face and get him to back down and apologize. And if he does, then you can probably just. Cause he apologized now. He has backed away, humiliated himself, taken the. He has submitted, surrendered, apologized, and you can probably leave it at that. But that is just. I mean, the idea that we should never risk our physical well being for the sake of honor is a very new, very modern idea. And that's the way people look at it now. It's like there's never. Now there's. Your honor as a man is never worth any kind of physical danger. And that's the way people look at it. It's a very modern way of looking at it. I don't think it's correct. And most importantly, I don't think that the people who look at it that way are actually convinced. You know, I don't think they're actually convinced. I think this guy's gonna be haunted by that forever. And I think that, as I said, their relationship's basically over. Check back in 10 years. I don't think that they're married. I don't. It's just. It can't survive. It cannot survive. Because that's all she's going to see when she looks at you. You know, it's just the way it is. All right, let's get to the comment section. You remain. It's required that you grow up in a way. The Sweet Baby Gang. Let's see, they're not ending di, they're renaming it Anti White Ism isn't just going to go away. The culture war is far from over. We cannot give up now that we're just starting to push back. Totally agree. In fact, I've been making that point about DEI being renamed for many months now. Culture war is not over. At the same time, we should recognize our victories when they happen. I think that's also important. And we've achieved a very real victory over what we call wokeness. And I think that acknowledging that is important. I was engaged my senior year of Christian college to my now wife when she was 19. This guy's 22. He says, One of my friends told me to keep that quiet because I wouldn't want anyone to know that I'm marrying a teenager. It's insane what my generation thinks about marriage. She's now 21 and pregnant with our first. And the weird looks just keep coming. Weird looks? Really? So she's 21 and you're 24 and you get weird looks because of that? I mean, that, that's crazy. Obviously, there's no, there's nothing strange. I mean, I think as a general rule, you know, if you're, if you're both at an age as adults where you could have gone to college at the same time or high school at the same time, you know, years ago, then, then that puts you in the same kind of general age bracket. And not only is the age gap not a problem when you're both adults, but it's effectively meaningless. Like the age gap. You know, you said you met your wife, you were 22, she's 19. The age gap is, it's like, it's not even. It doesn't, it's meaningless because there is no massive difference in terms of maturity and life experience between a 22 year old and a 19 year old. Okay? When you're 22, you're not looking back to your when you were 19 and saying, oh man, when I was young and dumb. Remember those days? I'm so different now. I mean, you might be saying that, but everyone else who's older is looking at you like, no, you're literally the same person. You didn't grow up that quickly. Now I think there's a difference between say a 40 year old and a 23 year old. When you hear about those kinds of relationships. That's not to say that a 40 year old with a 23 year old is a sex predator or a pedophile, as people today say, which is clearly insane when both parties are adults. But the difference in life experience and just sort of general wisdom and maturity is such that if I was single, God forbid, I would not be able to date somebody with that kind of age gap. I just, I couldn't relate to them. We'd have nothing to talk about at all. But here you're talking about again. I mean, you're, you know, it's. Age gap is not meaningful. Let's see. My ex was absolutely insane. I work at a grocery store and some nights when I got off work, she Would ask me to get her something to eat, but didn't know what she wanted. That was a puzzle. Some night she asked for a specific food. That was a mission. Guess which one annoyed me. You know, I get it. I mean, that is the difference. That is when men could get frustrated, as we talked about yesterday, that men, men like going on missions, you know, with a clear purpose in mind. Go to achieve something. That's what gets men. That's what, you know, motivates men. But this kind of vagueness, this. We gotta crack the code, especially in terms of relationship, gets frustrating. I will say, though, that in this particular example, it's not always annoying, or at least it shouldn't be. And in this particular example, this should not annoy you in a relationship because women never know what they want to eat. It's a stereotype. It's also true. I don't find it annoying. I mean, if we're going to a restaurant or getting takeout, me and my wife, we're at the point where usually I don't even ask my wife where she wants to go, especially if we're going out to eat. If we're going out to a restaurant, I never ask her, where do you want to go? I don't even bother. I make the reservation. I know what kinds of places she likes, and so I make the reservation. I tell her the time that we're going to go, and that's it. And usually she'll find out where we're going. I mean, if she asks me, I'll tell her, but she'll find out when we get there. And if we're doing takeout, I may ask her what kind of food she's feeling. But. But often she won't have any specific idea. So I'll just pick a place and I'll order for her. I know what kind of food she likes. And so there are times like that where the woman in the relationship is. It's. She's not like giving you a puzzle to solve and being annoying on purpose. It's more just. She just wants you to take the lead. She actually wants you to take the lead and be a leader in that. And it may seem like a small. It's a small thing picking food or picking a restaurant to go to. But that is an occasion where oftentimes the woman just wants you to take care of it. Just wants you to do it. Let's see. Ask my boyfriend to pick up a carton of eggs so I can make dinner. And he complains and complains and continues Playing valorant and then finally does it three hours later. So why are you guys together? Why haven't you broken up? I mean, it sounds like you're playing house with your boyfriend from the sound of it. Like, he's at the house, you're making dinner. I mean, it's possible you're not living. I'm gonna assume that you're living together just based on how you presented that. So you're living together, pretending to be married, and you perceive him, I guess, as a lump on a log who doesn't want to help or do anything, which maybe he is. Or maybe if I asked him, he'd have a different view. Okay, maybe if I asked it, he would say, I'm out doing things all the time. I'm constantly running errands. I'm constantly doing this. I work a hard job. She gets mad if she sees me relaxing for even 30 minutes. Meanwhile, she's not doing anything. He might tell me that if I were to ask him, but I can't. So I'm only getting your version of events. It doesn't even matter because this is how you perceive him. You perceive him, it sounds like as just this lump on a log who doesn't do anything. So what? Why are you together? This boggles my mind when I hear this from people. You're not married. You're not even engaged. So why just break up? That's the solution. Okay, if you're dating and you have an issue like, what do I do about this to my boyfriend? I can't get him motivated, he doesn't break up. That's a solution. We don't need to talk about it. That's it. Problem solved. Break up if you're already talking about someone like this, okay, if you're coming across like you've been married for 40 years and you're just fed up, and you're not even married, though, but you're already just, like, sick of this person, probably because you've been playing house for years and pretending to be married when you're not, well, then just break up. That's my advice. You voted Big Government out and efficient government in. Well, now it's time to trim the fat for Big Wireless. 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