Michael Walsh (45:56)
That actually makes me, like, irrationally angry or, I guess, rationally. Rationally angry. No matter how many times I hear this sort of nonsense from a feminist like this lady, it infuriates me. Where to even begin? Well, let's start with her changing the books in her house so that the protagonists are always female. So she's admitting. She's admitting to censoring children's literature in her home. I mean, we've heard from Gavin Newsom, this ridiculous. He's propagating this myth of book bans that are allegedly being instated by conservatives, by Republicans, which is not real. It's never actually happened. Well, you're telling us you had a book ban in your own house? And the worst kind. Because, you know, sure, like, everyone practices some amount of censorship in your home. You decide what kind of material is allowed in your home or not. Not especially for your kids. Fine. But it's one thing to just. To just not buy a book for your child. It's another to actually. To actually to buy the book and then change it to lie to your children about what's in the book, what it's about, in order to fit your political and ideological ends. I mean, that's crazy. That's what she just admitted to doing. Banning books with male protagonists would be insane already, but this crazy wench has actually found an even more insane way to go about it because she lets them. She lets the books in the house and then changes them. Lies to her sons about the books, edits them in. In a. In ways the author never intended. And why? What's the reason for it? Well, she says she wants to send the message that women can be the center of the story. Oh, really? They can. Wow. I never knew that. Oh, women can be the center of something. Whoa. We never noticed. We never noticed. Yeah. I tell you what, in modern culture, that's a news flash. Or women are never the center of anything. They could be the center. Who knew? You know, women are always, you know, very meekly hanging out on the peripheral. Never saying anything, never being at the center of anything. So this is. This is news. Wow. Of course, the. The dumbest thing about this, aside from just the principle of it, is the idea that a child growing up in modern America would not already encounter endless stories centered around women. Like, you need to create more. Like that's not already. Every movie, almost every show, the idea you have to change a few stories, the few stories that have male protagonists so that your sons never get to have a male. Like they could have one, is what you're saying. It's not even like we want to balance it out, you notice. No, it's. They're never allowed to encounter a male protagonist. 100% of the protagonist must be female. This is like. This is flat out abusive. She should have her kids taken away. She should really have her kids take away. And if you think that I'm. That. That I'm exaggerating, imagine I hate to. To be the guy. Imagine if the roles were reversed. But yeah, imagine if it was reversed. Imagine a male politician. Now, she's not the politician, but, you know, she doesn't know that. A male politician saying this, but about his daughters, that he changes the stories so that it's always a male protagonist. He. He forces his daughters to play with. With male, you know, masculine toys so that they become more like boys. Everyone would be saying, this is an abusive house. Take the kids away. She should have her kids taken away. This is. This is flat out abuse is what it is. And by the way, you know, these kids growing up with a narcissistic feminist mother who already puts herself at the center of everything. I think they know. You know, they especially know. I mean, her husband is trying to gear up for a presidential campaign, and this woman is all over the place doing interviews, trying to put herself at the center of that. Gavin Newsom is taking great pains to pretend to be a reasonable moderate, trying to soften and broaden his appeal, his image. And his wife is in front of cameras every day. Like, I force my sons to play with dolls. I told my sons that the cat in the hat is a girl. So because no hero should ever be a boy, she's out here saying that. While Gavin Newsom is trying every day to pretend to be this moderate guy now, and she's just ruining it. I mean, it's great. I'm glad she is in a certain extent, but it is very funny. So this is what her sons are already used to. They. They have a domineering, narcissistic mother who Makes herself the center of everything all the time. Her boys are very aware that women can be the center of attention. It's what they live with every day. And let's go back to the bit about the dolls, right? So she, she says she, she gives her sons dolls so that they learn that caretaking is for men just as much as it's for women. So she's trying to turn her sons into like effeminate, weak boys. And like I said, it's abusive. I mean, this is actually abusive. And before anyone, I'm not saying that letting your son play with a doll is abusive. I'm saying forcing them to, because you're trying to make them feminine. Effeminate weakness. That is abuse. That's exactly what she's doing to those boys. And that's what all liberal mothers do. All of them. Their ambition for their sons is that they become weak, soft, effeminate. Now, the good news is that very often it backfires. You know, very often you end up with. What you're going to end up with is a, is a son who's even more radically right wing than me, you know, and that's, that's often what happens. But because here's the thing. Jennifer Newsom's premise is obviously totally, totally wrong. She forces her son to play with dolls because she thinks that the dolls make the child feminine, make them into the caretaker types. The reason that girls are feminine and want to be caretakers is that they're given dolls to play with. That's what she thinks, and she has it, of course, completely backwards. It's not that girls are feminine caretakers because they play with dolls. They play with dolls because they're feminine caretakers. This is the nature versus nurture thing that, that women like Jennifer get completely wrong. They just don't understand it because they have no insight into the human condition. Right? They're totally clueless. Their ideology has overridden everything. They're basically aliens, right? Like someone like Jennifer Newsom is, is essentially a space alien. She's like a. And she has an alien's understanding of the human species even less. A space alien gets over another galaxy would probably be able to understand males and females of the human species better than this woman does. Doesn't understand anything. Girls are naturally inclined towards being nurturing and maternalistic. They're not socialized that way. That is nature these days. They are socialized away from that. Great pains have to be taken to steer girls away from that, away from what is natural for them, which is the opposite of what you should do. The answer to nature versus nurture is that girls are feminine by nature, boys are masculine by nature, and the nurturing should be intended to help them understand and fully inhabit and embody their natural selves, their nature. The nurturing should be in harnessing what is natural to them. The dolls. The dolls don't make girls, you know, maternalistic and nurturing. They. They are. Instead, the dolls are a really profound and beautiful reflection of what is natural. I mean, I've marveled at this with both of my girls. The fact that they. At such a young age, without being pushed in that direction, we never tell them, oh, you have to play. You're a girl. You have to play with dolls. That's never been said. Like I've said many times, I got, you know, started with a boy, girl, twins. And we had a playroom and they. We had toys in the play with. They. We never said, here's the toys that boys play with, here's the toys. That never said that one time. Don't need to say that. You just kind of unleash these two little kids on the playroom and they immediately gravitate. Boy toys, girl toys. It's a very natural thing. And. And I've kind of marveled at this, not in a surprise kind of way, but in a. In a. In a finding a beautiful kind of way that girls at such a young age, from toddlerhood, are already trying to sort of inhabit the role of mother that they. This is how they play from the youngest age. They want to have a baby doll and pretend they're feeding the baby doll and comb the hair and all of it. And boys don't do that naturally. Very rare. It'd be a rare exception to have a boy who naturally plays that way. And boys, on the other hand, are. 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Tap the banner to learn more and get a'@usaa.com bundle restrictions apply. Okay, let's. Before we wrap up, I want to mention this. Somebody named Ellie Slate home went viral over the last few days with a selfie photo from the Artemis launch. And she showed up to the launch and took this photo of herself watching the launch. And we'll put up the screen. You can see the rocket in her glasses. So she says, Artemis 2 launch caught. Caught in my glasses reflection right. Now, the reason that this photo went viral, it's got, what is that? Almost 30 million views. Okay. Is that some people thought it was a cool photo, but a bunch of other people pointed out that she's doing the meme. She's doing the, the meme you've probably seen where it's, you know, the meme is like photographing something you want to show everybody. And then you see males and they photograph the object and then females who photograph themselves in front of the object. This is kind of the perfect example of that, of that meme. A lot of people pointed that out. So it went viral and then there was a backlash and people were saying, well, that those people are sexist. And then they argued back and on and on. So this is obviously a worthwhile thing to argue about. This selfie photo from a random woman at the Artemis launch, obviously worth. Worth arguing about. So I'll give my two cents on it because obviously the selfie thing is out of control. It has been for many years. And you know, a lot of people are pointing out how narcissistic it is that this woman took a picture of herself watching the rocket rather than just taking a picture of the rocket. But that's not really my point because I also don't think there's any reason to take a picture of the rocket. I mean, there are a bunch of people there watching the rocket launch. And yeah, a lot of them were like on their phones getting video of it or taking a picture of it. Why there will be a thousand high quality photos and videos of the rocket. Like if you, you don't need to take a picture of it. They got professional photographers there, they got news cameras, they got. Why do you need your own video? It's not even going to be as good as the one that they're taking over there. Because I, I have a different suggestion and I don't mean to pick on Ellie. I'm sure she's a nice person and she's just doing what a billion other people do all the time. And not just women, by the way, men do it too. But here's my suggestion. What if everybody just put their phones down every once in a while and experience a moment? Like actually experience the moment, Just experience it, you know, you don't. Well, what if I Don't have a picture of it. No, it's okay. You don't need a picture of it. Did you know that? Did you know you can actually experience something and not have a picture of it? It's not like a waste, okay? It doesn't become a wasted moment because you don't have photographic evidence of it. Where do we get this idea that nothing is real and nothing matters unless you have photographic evidence that it occurred? What kind of way is that to live your life? You're at a rocket launch, history is being made. You'll probably never see anything like this again in your life. Okay, I know they say they're gonna go back to the moon in a couple years, but. But you might not be at that rocket launch. And even if you are, you're not gonna. This is. This was the first launch back to the moon in our lifetime, and you're not going to get another first. So this specific thing will never happen again. And I wish I could have seen it. You know, I. They invited Michael to go see it for some reason, not me. I don't know. I'm not bitter about it. I mean, I am bitter about it for sure, but we won't focus on that. And in a lot of ways, it's good they didn't invite me, actually, because if I was there, I would not, you know, they would have wanted me to do content or something about it, and I wouldn't want to do any content. I just want to watch it. Oh, do a selfie video and talk. No, I don't want to do a self. I just want to watch it. That's all. I don't even. I don't. That's it. I just want to be there for it. And. And what about that? Like, you're at the rocket launch, just let. Just. Instead of trying to get a perfect shot of it or get a shot of yourself watching it, what about putting your phone down and being in the moment, experiencing it, living it. Experience the full size and scope of the moment. And this is why. I mean, it's like one of the million reasons why smartphones are like the worst thing that's ever happened to humanity. I really believe that most people just can't handle having these things carrying them around everywhere. And now, anytime anything happens, any big moment, small moment, life, milestone, anything at all, everyone has their phone out documenting it for who exactly? Nobody in the public cares about whatever the thing is, or if they do, it's like a rocket launch. There's already a billion other photos. We don't need yours. Are you documenting it for yourself? Well, okay, fine. But now you're going to go back and reminisce over a moment you never actually experienced fully because you were too busy filming it or taking a picture of it. You experience this moment through a little box. You're in the world, it's three dimensional, and you're choosing to experience it like this. Or even worse, you experience it. I mean, it really is like you. Even worse, you experience the moment with your back turned to it so that your face can be in it, so that you can become the subject of whatever this thing is. And what's the point of that? Again, nobody in the public cares about your selfie. So what are you doing? What's the point? Are you really going to go back later and just flip through all the pictures of your own face? I always wonder this about people that take selfies. The people that take selfies, you know they have a million selfies. What do you do? What do you. Like? You've got millions of people walking around with thousands of pictures of their own face in their phone, just walking around within their pocket, carrying around every second of the day thousands of pictures of their own face. For what? Do you forget what you look like? We have mirrors, if that's the problem. Are you ever going to really go back? Do you do that? Is that what people do? Do you just, like, reminisce? You just. Yep. Look at the. Look at my face. Oh, there's my face at the rocket launch. There's my face at dinner that day. There's my face the next morning. There's my face at breakfast. There's my face walking on the sidewalk. There's my face at the baseball game. There's my face. Is that what people do? Is that what you do? Just reminiscing about your own face? The narcissism is out of control. It's like, it's. It's unlike anything our ancestors could have ever conceived. And the cost is that you miss out on your own life because you're so obsessed with documenting it. You know, I still think about. I think I've shared this before, but. And there are a million more recent examples that work, but just for whatever reason it's always stuck out to me is maybe because it was so early in the selfie age, because in 2011, on my honeymoon, we went on a cruise. I'll never do that again. But different subject for another day. Well, we're on a Cruise and it's 2011, so this is only A few years into, you know, smartphones existing and we're out on the deck and there's a sunset. And it was like the first clear night that we got and because it was like had been cloudy and overcast and anyway, so we're getting our first sunset over the ocean. And I'd never seen a sunset over the ocean at that time. So I was there along with like the whole deck was crowded. People just want to see the sun set open. It sets pretty quickly when you're on the water. And of course, you know, every single person on the deck, every single one was experiencing that moment through their phone. They were all just like taking pictures of they all, they all were. I mean we're on a deck, we're in the ocean. It's the ocean. We're on this huge ship with a bunch of fat old people. The only people that go on cruises apparently on this ship in the ocean. And it's the sun and it's the water and you're like looking at it like this