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Episode: How Alex Bean Created A $2.5B FinTech Company in his 30s

Date: February 13, 2026
Host: Tommy Mello
Guest: Alex Bean, Co-Founder of Divvy, Managing Partner at Tandem

Episode Overview

This episode explores the entrepreneurial journey of Alex Bean, who, alongside his partner Blake, co-founded Divvy—a fintech company acquired for $2.5 billion by Bill.com just five years after inception. Alex shares lessons on building, scaling, life after a massive exit, and the nuanced relationship founders have with money, happiness, and purpose. He discusses product-market fit, the emotional aftermath of selling a company, advice for future founders, and how his definition of success has evolved. The conversation is rich with actionable insights and a candid look into both the triumphs and challenges of extreme entrepreneurial success.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Birth & Growth of Divvy (01:44–03:47)

• Origin Story: Alex and his partner were frustrated business operators dealing with traditional expense reports. Blake’s idea of “divvying” out credit cards led to their initial brainstorm.
  • “He actually came to me and he's like, I got this idea, I want to divvy out my credit card. ... within an hour we had kind of mocked up, well, what if we could put it on the phone, right? Like create a Venmo for business...” (01:53–02:19)
• Industry Disruption: At the time, no banks offered live transaction reconciliation or real-time budgets. Divvy’s unique approach forced industry giants to adapt.

2. Product-Market Fit & VC Investment Philosophy (04:40–09:31)

• Founder Lens: Now an investor at Tandem, Alex prioritizes product-market fit above all else.
  • “The most important thing at the very beginning of a company is product market fit.” (04:53)
• Testing Fit: Early on, he validated need by sharing mockups with potential users and gauging strong reactions—even though the product itself “kind of sucked” in its first iteration.
  • “We call it the, the dogs wanted the dog food, even though there's a bunch of hair in it.” (06:22)
• Evaluating Startups: Uses a simple billboard exercise—defining the target user, clear value proposition (pick one: saving time, saving money, making money), and concise messaging.
  • “The worst answer is when people say all three. ... You need to tell me why that target market wants your product.” (08:17)

3. Life After a Massive Exit (09:43–16:09)

• The Emptiness Paradox: Many founders face an existential void after selling—Alex included.
  • “I was jealous of my friends in the rat race. ... I didn’t feel like I earned my sleep today. ... I didn’t build something.” (10:46–11:27)
• Purpose Recalibration: While Alex is glad he sold (“you’re going to have to go find another mountain to climb” (13:24)), it took almost a year to regain a sense of mission, ultimately finding it through new ventures like Tandem and writing his book.
• Trade-offs of Wealth: Operating was more stressful than investing, but deeply fulfilling. Alex cautions that investors don’t face the same intensity but also lack the same stakes.

4. Work-Life Balance (16:09–17:02)

• Alex’s Schedule as CEO: Time discipline and hard choices
  • Before 8 a.m.: personal time (hobbies, workout, golf)
  • 8 a.m.–6 p.m.: work
  • 6–9 p.m.: family
  • 9 p.m.–midnight+: more work

5. Advice to Founders & Younger Self (17:02–20:26)

• Manage Emotional Extremes:
  • “Things are never as good as they seem and they're never as bad as they seem.” (17:19)
• Focus on Habits:
  • “Good habits go a long way.” (18:27)
    Stack skills and capabilities in your 20s; money will follow later.
• Reinvesting for Wealth: If starting over with $10M, Alex would build a business rather than relying solely on passive investments. (19:47)

6. Evolving Definitions of Success (20:26–22:50)

• Early on, motivation was a specific monetary “number.” Today, it’s about impact—helping others build successful companies:
  • “If I can go help 10 other entrepreneurs have a Divvy-like experience ... that to me, is a professional goal.” (21:07)

7. Navigating Wealth, Family & Happiness (22:50–42:16)

• Money’s Double Edge:
  • Alex saw both the positive and negative powers of money in his family history; wrote a book ("Factory for Good") to address these issues.
• Giving & Family Dynamics:
  • Cites Kevin O’Leary’s “one-time check” strategy for assisting friends/family to avoid long-term strain. (25:35)
  • Money can expose hidden values and create friction even in strong marriages:
    • “It was probably like the second hardest year of our marriage ... just. The emotions of money hit us so differently...” (31:16)
• Possessions vs. Experiences:
  • “The number one answer [from wealthy people] was basically, buy a cabin or go on trips with my family ... creating memories with the people I love the most.” (28:47)
  • “Difference between rich and wealthy is ... private plane by themselves, that’s rich. Wealthy is the person ... with family and friends.” (29:52)
• Raising Kids with Wealth: Importance of teaching responsibility, not just comfort. (36:23)
• Happiness Audit Exercise:
  • “The things that brought me the absolute most happiness and lasted the longest, almost all of them were free...” (41:19)
  • Step-by-step workbook: write down happy moments, rate them, note duration, and cost—most lasting happiness is free or low-cost (40:01–42:16).

8. Money, Legacy & When Is Enough Enough? (38:01–39:34)

• Pillars:
  1. Purpose
  2. Relationships
  3. Legacy (giving while living, not just accumulating)

9. Mistakes to Avoid & Building Great Teams (43:22–45:37)

• Founder Trap:
  • “If you’re the smartest person in the room all the time, you’re only going to get so far. ... Replace yourself.” (43:22)
• VC Red Flags: Wanting to “build to sell” within 2–3 years signals lack of real vision. (45:08)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “You don’t fall backwards into building a billion dollar company. It doesn’t just happen. You have to like, you have to run through walls...” (44:47, Alex)
• “Enjoy the process for every stage. ... Eventually the cat gets out of the bag and it’s just a whole different feeling.” (17:45, Alex)
• “The best example in the history of the planet is: in 15 minutes or less, save 15% or more in car insurance.” (09:07, Alex, on messaging clarity)
• “Difference between rich and wealthy is ... private plane by themselves, that’s rich. Wealthy is the person ... with family and friends.” (29:52, Alex)

Key Timestamps for Important Segments

• Divvy’s Genesis & Disruption: 01:44–03:47
• Product-Market Fit & Early Validation: 04:40–06:41
• Billboard Theory for Startups: 07:17–09:31
• Post-Exit Emptiness & Purpose: 10:29–13:15
• Founder Advice & Emotional Balance: 17:02–20:26
• Possessions, Family, and Wealth Management: 27:55–32:18
• Raising Kids with Wealth: 36:23–37:44
• Happiness Audit Exercise: 40:01–42:16
• Building Teams & VC Traps: 43:22–45:37

Resources & How to Connect

• Factory for Good: factoryforgood.com – Free resources, community, and content for exited or soon-to-exit founders, especially on giving and philanthropy.
• Tandem: Reach out for investment opportunities or founder support.
• Books Mentioned:
  • "Thou Shalt Prosper" by Rabbi Daniel Lapin
  • "Die With Zero"
  • "Atomic Habits"
  • "Driven"
  • "Buy Back Your Time" by Dan Martel

Closing Thought from Alex (46:25)

“For those that are still like, in the middle of that hike, just keep going. Like, buckle down. ... If you can learn to enjoy some of that pain, you will miss it. ... Building a company from scratch is one of the coolest things on the planet. So go get it.” (46:25–46:56)