What happens when the title you’ve worked years to earn arrives exactly as your life falls apart? We sit down with Tracy Cunningham to trace a brutally honest arc: years of high performance, a long-distance move to London, global projects that fed her ambition, and the “yes” to a head of global underwriting role that looked like validation - but came bundled with three people’s workloads and a private tidal wave at home. As her father’s illness turned terminal, late-night calls and relentless delivery became the norm, until her body delivered the verdict: breakdown.

Tracy walks us through the Friday she couldn’t push one more minute, the diagnosis that followed, and the slow rebuild that forced her to decouple worth from output. She shares the hard lessons learned about boundaries, micromanagement, ego, and the quiet danger of self-imposed expectations. We talk about identity after a career crash, the grief that rewires priorities, and why “work-life balance” is not a slogan but a set of non‑negotiable design choices.

There’s hope on the far side. Tracy returns to reinsurance with clear limits and supportive leadership, steps back from a COO role before history repeats, and shapes a remote global position that leverages her expertise without draining her health. If you’ve ever felt the water warming without noticing, this conversation is your early alarm - and your permission to reset. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with one boundary you’ll protect this week.

And join us for part 2 next week where Tracy will be sharing her biggest lessons so you can spot the signs earlier.

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[114] Tracy Cunningham on Burnout, Boundaries, and Bouncing Back