Podcast Summary: The Moth – "Janice Bartley: Italian Stallion"

Introduction

In the February 15, 2010 episode of The Moth titled "Italian Stallion," host Janice Bartley presents a heartfelt and engaging true story that delves into themes of love, vulnerability, and self-acceptance. Recorded live at the Moth main stage in 2008, this narrative unfolds against the backdrop of New York City's vibrant community storytelling scene. Bartley’s storytelling is enriched by the collaborative efforts of her friend Alex, who assists in conveying the emotional depth of the experience.

Main Story

Setting the Scene

Jason, the protagonist, begins her tale by introducing herself and her friend Alex, who supports her in sharing the story. Set during a summer at Camp Oakhurst in New Jersey, Jason recounts her experiences of daily activities like swimming and engaging in camp events.

First Attraction

At a dining hall gathering with friends, Jason notices an older man with distinctive black hair and a captivating smile. “He was an Italian stallion. I was looking at him, he was looking at me” (05:12). This mutual attraction sets the stage for the unfolding romance. Over the next two weeks, Jason and the man—whom we learn as King—develop a connection marked by laughter and meaningful conversations. “We laughed, and we had a good time” (06:01).

Developing the Relationship

As their relationship deepens, they share their first kiss under the summer stars. “Last night, we had our first kiss” (06:19), Jason recalls, highlighting both the joy and the anxiety that come with young love. Being 26 and inexperienced in relationships, this moment is both exhilarating and daunting. “It made me feel good because I was 26 years old and I never had a boyfriend. It also made me sad because I might not see him again” (06:46).

Deciding to Spend New Year's Eve Together

A week into their blossoming relationship, Jason receives a call from King, indicating he wants to take their relationship further by inviting her to spend New Year’s Eve at his home. Torn between excitement and apprehension, especially since she still lives with her parents, Jason decides to proceed with support from her family. “I thought, oh, my God. Because I was still living with my parents” (09:21).

The Evening at King’s House

Upon arriving, Jason is struck by the ambiance of King’s home—every detail meticulously arranged. “His house was beautiful. Everything was a bag and everything was in place. His dining room was set up so amazing” (11:46). The evening progresses with a carefully prepared seafood dinner, and as the night unfolds, Jason experiences a whirlwind of emotions. She shares, “I looked at him and he looked at me and I could read his mind” (13:25), capturing the profound connection they share.

The Outcome and Realization

While Jason chooses not to delve into the intimate details of the night, she emphasizes the positive impact it had on her. “It was the best New Year's I ever had” (14:05). More importantly, the experience led to a significant personal realization. Despite living with a disability, Jason acknowledges her ability to form deep, meaningful relationships. “I want people to know that even though I have a disability, I can still move” (14:33). This newfound self-awareness empowers her to embrace her identity beyond her disability, fostering a sense of self-worth and acceptance.

Conclusion

Jason’s story, as narrated by Janice Bartley, is a poignant exploration of love overcoming personal challenges. It underscores the importance of being seen for one’s true self and the transformative power of vulnerability in building meaningful connections. Through her narrative, Bartley invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with love and self-acceptance.

Notable Quotes

• Jason on First Attraction:
  “He was an Italian stallion. I was looking at him, he was looking at me.” (05:12)

• Jason on First Kiss:
  “Last night, we had our first kiss. Let me tell you. It was good.” (06:19)

• Jason on Relationship Impact:
  “It made me feel good because I was 26 years old and I never had a boyfriend. It also made me sad because I might not see him again.” (06:46)

• Jason on New Year's Decision:
  “I thought, oh, my God. Because I was still living with my parents.” (09:21)

• Jason on Emotional Connection:
  “I looked at him and he looked at me and I could read his mind.” (13:25)

• Jason on Personal Realization:
  “I want people to know that even though I have a disability, I can still move.” (14:33)

Final Thoughts

Janice Bartley’s storytelling in "Italian Stallion" offers a compelling glimpse into the complexities of young love and the journey towards self-acceptance. The use of vivid imagery and emotional honesty invites listeners to empathize deeply with Jason’s experiences. This episode exemplifies The Moth’s mission to showcase authentic, impactful stories that resonate universally.

Attributions

• Storyteller: Jason, assisted by Alex
• Host: Janice Bartley
• Podcast Production: Paul Ruest at Argo Studios, New York
• Podcast Hosting: PRX Public Radio Exchange

Listen More

To explore more stories like "Italian Stallion," visit themoth.org or search for The Moth on iTunes under "Best of The Moth Volume 14."