Steven Puente & Adam Wade: StorySLAM Favorites - The Moth

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The Moth Podcast
Episode Release Date: June 17, 2013

Introduction

In this episode of The Moth Podcast, titled "Steven Puente & Adam Wade: StorySLAM Favorites," listeners are treated to two deeply personal and engaging stories from The Moth's renowned StorySLAM series. Both storytellers, Stephen Puente and Adam Wade, share transformative experiences that delve into themes of confrontation, resilience, and human connection. Their narratives not only entertain but also offer profound insights into navigating challenging situations.

Stephen Puente: "A Night in the Bronx"

Timestamp: [03:52] – Stephen Puente begins his story.

Stephen Puente, a licensed social worker from a small coastal town in Northern California, recounts a tense and emotional evening while working as an intern at a methadone clinic in Co-op City, Bronx. His client, Joaquin, a 17-year-old boy struggling academically and socially, unexpectedly attends their appointment—a moment Stephen views as a "victory" ([03:52]).

To celebrate Joaquin's attendance, Stephen suggests going out for ice cream, embodying his commitment to keeping children engaged and connected:
“And I think that this is what New York City needs as kids outside experiencing nature.” ([03:52])

However, their simple outing takes a dark turn when they encounter a group of local youths who seem to mistake Stephen for someone else named Rafi. The situation escalates rapidly as one of the teens pulls out a gun, threatening both Stephen and Joaquin with,
“I'll fucking kill you.” ([08:26])

Amidst the chaos, Stephen attempts to de-escalate the situation using his training in crisis intervention, stating,
“I'm a social worker. I've got a lot of experience in drug addiction and group therapy.” ([08:26])

The confrontation intensifies, forcing Stephen and Joaquin to flee through the streets of Co-op City, culminating in a desperate escape into a nearby mall. There, an elderly couple intervenes, helping them find safety. Reflecting on the ordeal, Stephen imparts a simple yet powerful piece of advice to Joaquin:
“Whatever you do, don't leave the house.” ([11:12])

This poignant conclusion underscores the fragility of trust and the profound responsibility Stephen feels in guiding and protecting his young client.

Adam Wade: "The Roast Beef Revelation"

Timestamp: [11:45] – Adam Wade begins his story.

Adam Wade, a native of New Hampshire and an 18-time Story Slam winner, shares a deeply personal experience from his time in Hoboken, New Jersey, during a particularly low period in his life. Facing unemployment and living with a friend amidst a backdrop of stress and uncertainty, Adam seeks solace in a simple joy: making the perfect roast beef sandwich.

With limited funds—"I had $7 in my wallet"—Adam heads to Shoprite to procure his ingredients. His quest for a quality sandwich leads to a series of frustrating interactions with the store's elderly Italian staff.

Waiting impatiently for his turn, Adam observes multiple elderly Italian women consistently cutting in line, each time engaging in prolonged and personal conversations with the deli worker, John. This repeated interruption breeds mounting frustration within him:
“I got 62. I've been waiting here. You let half of Italy cut me.” ([17:54])

Unable to contain his irritation, Adam confronts John, expressing his exasperation:
"And I'm having such a tough time. It just made me feel really good inside." ([17:54])

However, the situation takes a reflective turn when one of the elderly women sternly admonishes Adam:
“Shame on you. Shame on you. John's mother's sick.” ([17:54])

Struck by guilt and empathy, Adam reaches out to John after his shift, leading to a heartfelt conversation where John offers words of encouragement and understanding. This unexpected moment of connection transforms Adam's perspective, highlighting the healing power of empathy and human interaction.

Over time, Adam becomes a regular at Shoprite, building meaningful relationships with the staff and customers alike. His initial frustration gives way to a newfound sense of community and belonging, illustrating his personal growth and resilience.

Conclusion

In "Steven Puente & Adam Wade: StorySLAM Favorites," both storytellers deliver compelling narratives that explore the complexities of human emotions and interactions. Stephen Puente's account illuminates the challenges faced by social workers in high-stress environments, emphasizing the delicate balance between authority and compassion. Meanwhile, Adam Wade's story underscores the transformative impact of empathy and personal connections during moments of vulnerability.

Through their authentic and engaging storytelling, Stephen and Adam invite listeners to reflect on their own experiences with confrontation, resilience, and the profound effects of simple acts of kindness. This episode exemplifies The Moth's mission to celebrate the art of storytelling, fostering a deeper understanding and connection among diverse audiences.

Notable Quotes:

“I'll fucking kill you.” — Stephen Puente recounting the threatening encounter with local youths. ([08:26])
“Whatever you do, don't leave the house.” — Stephen Puente advising Joaquin post-confrontation. ([11:12])
“I got 62. I've been waiting here. You let half of Italy cut me.” — Adam Wade expressing his frustration at Shoprite. ([17:54])
“Shame on you. Shame on you. John's mother's sick.” — An elderly Italian woman reprimanding Adam. ([17:54])

This episode of The Moth not only entertains but also offers valuable lessons in empathy, patience, and the power of human connection, making it a memorable addition to The Moth's storied collection of personal narratives.

Transcript

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