The Moth Podcast Summary: "Juicy Lessons from ‘The Place’" by Tina McElroy Ansa
Episode Information:
- Title: Tina McElroy Ansa: Juicy Lessons from ‘The Place’
- Host: The Moth
- Release Date: July 30, 2012
Introduction
In this captivating episode of The Moth, storyteller Tina McElroy Ansa shares her deeply personal journey from growing up in the vibrant African American business district of Macon, Georgia, to crafting her own meaningful love story. Her narrative delves into the influences of her upbringing, the rich tapestry of stories from her father's juke joints, and her quest for a love story that resonates with authenticity and depth.
Early Life in Macon, Georgia
Tina opens her story by painting a vivid picture of her childhood in Macon, the "heart of Georgia." Her father owned multiple juke joints and liquor stores, including the Bonton Cafe and the Bluebird Beer Parlor, which were central to the African American community before desegregation. These establishments were more than just businesses; they were social hubs where music played incessantly, reflecting the changing eras through artists like B.B. King and James Brown.
“I saw my whole life through the prism of Broadway and Mulberry and my father's juke joints because there was always music playing.” [03:15]
The Place and Its Influence
The juke joints were not only places of music but also of storytelling. Tina recounts how her mother worked at these venues, introducing her to a colorful array of characters—from barmaids to part-time prostitutes. These individuals, despite their rough exteriors, were Tina's babysitters, friends, and confidants. They frequently shared stories of love, conflict, and everyday life, enriching Tina's understanding of human relationships.
“These people had such marvelous stories, such amazing stories. They told stories all the time about what happened last night...” [07:30]
One poignant memory involves her introduction to the community as a baby, wrapped in a fluffy yellow blanket displayed in a liquor store. The regular patrons bestowed blessings on her, associating her beauty with good luck.
“They said the things that all admirers say, you know, but these admirers... had look on their breath and most likely half of them had a Pabst Blue Ribbon can in their hand.” [06:20]
Desire for a Rich Life Story
Growing up amidst such storytelling inspired Tina to aspire for a life filled with equally rich and meaningful experiences. She longed for her own compelling love story, unlike the ordinary tales she heard from her peers in school. Observing the superficial narratives of her friends' romantic exploits, Tina yearned for something deeper and more authentic.
“I knew then that's what I wanted. I wanted a story like that. It was all juicy and rich, you know, it makes somebody go, mm, mm, mm.” [14:10]
Her Quest for Meaningful Love
Entering adulthood, Tina became the first black woman working at the Atlanta Constitution's newsroom, marking a significant milestone in her career. At 21, she was still a virgin, a rarity among her peers. Determined to create her own meaningful "first time," Tina set high standards for a potential partner, desiring someone well-read, passionate, and genuinely knowledgeable about women's bodies.
“I wanted him to really know his way around a woman's body. This is what I wanted.” [11:45]
The Trench Coat Encounter
Tina's meticulous planning led her to a colleague who epitomized everything on her wish list—especially wearing a trench coat. This man, a respected journalist, became the focal point of her desire for a perfect love story. Recognizing him not just for his professional qualities but also for his embodiment of her ideal man, Tina initiated a subtle seduction plan.
“This man had on the trench coat. This was the one. He was it. He was it.” [09:50]
The Seduction Plan
Tina carefully orchestrated her approach, gradually increasing physical intimacy through casual touches and subtle gestures. She selected the perfect moment, aligning her personal schedule to ensure privacy and time to develop their relationship without complications.
“Stick to the plan, girl. Stick to the plan. Don't get cocky.” [16:30]
Her efforts culminated in a heartfelt and passionate encounter, aligning with her desire for a rich and memorable story. The experience was everything she had envisioned—meaningful, respectful, and deeply satisfying.
“It was good. In fact, it was great. It was wonderful.” [18:20]
Reflection and Conclusion
In the aftermath of her experience, Tina reflects on the significance of living a life filled with genuine stories. Her journey from the bustling juke joints of Macon to crafting her own love narrative underscores the impact of environment and personal ambition in shaping one’s destiny.
“Not only was I a grown woman having sex in my own way, in my own choice, but like the people down at the place, I had a story. And it was a juicy one too.” [19:10]
Tina McElroy Ansa's story is a testament to the power of storytelling, personal agency, and the pursuit of authentic experiences. Her narrative not only entertains but also inspires listeners to seek out and create their own meaningful stories.
About Tina McElroy Ansa
Tina McElroy Ansa is an accomplished author of five novels, the founder of Down South Press, and a director of writers' retreats on her Georgia Sea Island home. She is currently producing the screen adaptation of her first novel, Baby of the Family, alongside her filmmaker husband, Jonae Ansa. Above all, Tina is a passionate storyteller, dedicated to sharing rich and compelling narratives.
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