Transcript
A (0:02)
Welcome to the observable unknown, where science meets the unexplained. I'm Dr. Juan Carlos Rey of crowcupboard.com and after two decades of working at the intersection of comparative religious studies, grief counseling, anthropology, quantum mechanics, and consciousness studies, I've discovered that our most profound human experiences often exist in the space between what we can prove and what we can perceive. In this podcast, we'll explore the measurable influences of immeasurable forces, those hidden factors that shape our reality but often escape our traditional scientific frameworks. From the latest research in consciousness studies to the ancient wisdom that's now finding validation in neuroscience and quantum physics, we're here to bridge the gap between academic rigor and spiritual insight. Whether you're a skeptic, a seeker, or simply curious about the deeper mechanics of human experience, you're in the right place. Together, we'll examine the evidence, challenge our assumptions, and explore what happens when we dare to look beyond the obvious. In this episode, we enter a story that begins not in comfort, but but in exile. A story of a young woman who was born a refugee who could have chosen despair, but instead chose flame. That flame became vision, and that vision became code. To inspire Afghanistan's first coding school for girls. Our guest, Fareshta Faroh, has lived the very truth that when you educate a woman, you change the axis of a family, a community, even a nation. Her journey is one of resilience, defiance, and hope, a living testament to what happens when possibility is offered where only walls once stood. It is my honor to welcome her here and to listen together as she shares the story of fire carried forward, line by line, code by code. So, without any further ado, let's join the conversation. Hello, Fareshta. It's always great to hear your voice and to sit with you. I find some of your insights to be really unique. And to be honest, world changing. Your journey began in exile, born a refugee. When you look back, what inner fire carried you from those beginnings into building something as audacious as Afghanistan's first coding school for girls?
B (2:50)
Well, first of all, thank you so much, Juan, for asking me to join your amazing podcast. It's an honor to be here and share my story with your audience.
A (3:00)
Thank you.
B (3:00)
As you said, I was born as an Afghan refugee in Iran during the Soviet invasion to Afghanistan. My family fled the war, and like every other refugee family, they left everything behind and started life from zero. So, as you can imagine, being born as a refugee comes with a lot of challenges, you know, and a lot of discriminations, because I think oftentimes people think about refugees as people who come to steal opportunities from you or perhaps they are a burden to the community. And I think that sense of proving yourself that you are worthy enough to be part of this community is always part of a refugee journey for anyone and of course for myself. I think to your question, when you become a refugee, it's. It means that you are giving up on something which is very important to you and to refugees. I think giving up your home where you feel safe, you feel comfortable and connected, is the sacrifice you make. And perhaps that feeling will create a wound in your body and you carry that wound with yourself wherever you go. And it kind of remind me of this saying from Rumi, whose real name is Maulana Jalaluddin Barhi, which is known to the west people as Rumi, who is a 13th century Farsi poet. As someone that I admire his poetry and get my inspiration from. He says that the wound is the place where the light enters you. And I think the concept of fire here requestion for me is that the wound that I carry as a refugee still can be a place that allow light and healing into you. And when you allow that dead light that enters your body, that then create an environment for you to be able to move forward and have that fire or passion in you in order to be able to continue your life despite of the challenges, discriminations and everything that you're facing. And I think that certainly was a lesson for me to learn as a refugee board. But also I think what I've learned as a refugee that perhaps created that inner fire in me to be able to create the first code in the school for girls in Afghanistan was that great things can start with empty hands. That something that I learned from, you know, being a refugee, learning how to be resourceful. And most of the time you really don't need to have everything ready for you in order for you to start something. You can look around and see what you can do with what you have and with using that resources and the faith in yourself. I think that inner fire will help you and heal you to be able to continue and do the work that you. You enjoy about it. You love it and perh. Want to give back to the world and your community.
