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Why Everyone Seems to Have More Money Than You (You're Not Behind!)
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In this episode of the Personal Finance Podcast, we're going to talk about why it feels like everyone is ahead of you financially,
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So head to Policygenius.com or click the link in the description to get your free life insurance quotes to stay. See how much you can save. That's policygenius.com on this episode of the Personal Finance Podcast why it Feels Like Everyone is ahead of you financially Next. What's up everybody and welcome to the Personal Finance Podcast. I'm your host Andrew, founder of MasterMoney Co and today on the Personal Finance Podcast we're gonna be talking about why it feels like everyone is ahead of you financially. If you guys have any questions, make sure you join the Master Money newsletter by going to MasterMoney Co newsletter and you can respond to any of those issues that come out every single week. And don't forget to follow us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts or whatever podcast player you love listening to this podcast on it. And if you want to help out the show, consider leaving a five star rating and review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or your favorite podcast player. And don't forget to follow us on YouTube as well. We are putting these episodes all on YouTube and you can follow along there. Now today we are going to be diving into why it feels like everyone is ahead of you financially. And there's a news flash for you. And I'm going to tell you this right now, I promise you, you are most likely not as far behind as you think that you are. If you scroll social media today, it may look everybody out there is doing better than you. You may see people taking vacations or buying brand new cars or renting high rise apartments and it may seem like they're doing way more than you can ever possibly do. And what this does for a lot of people is it causes them stress and it causes them anxiety when it comes to their money because they think, hey, I must be doing something wrong. I must be behind. Now I'm here to tell you that you are not behind. It may feel like that you are behind, but most people are really, really bad at managing money. And they stretch their dollars way farther than what they have to show for it. And it's going to show inside their bank account. It may not show up front when you see them, but it's going to show in their bank account. Now we did a tweet recently that we put on a bunch of different social networks that went viral, but it said, hey, someone out there with $150,000 G Wagon and $1,000 in the bank account, everyone is going to think they're rich. But someone with $150,000 invested in driving a 2014 Honda Accord, people aren't going to think they're rich at all. They're going to think they're not doing well. And this is the problem with society. See, you have to change your mindset in the way that you see wealth when you look at people. This is the biggest thing that you need to do, is shift your mindset. Wealth cannot be seen with the naked eye. You have to go and uncover layers. And most millionaires out there are actually hiding in plain sight. This is the premise of the Millionaire Next Door. If you've never read that book, this is part of the premise of that is most millionaires are hiding in in plain sight. The millionaire next door actually said this. They said 1. Most millionaires are actually private about their wealth. So a lot of times millionaires want to avoid unwarranted attention or pressure to spend more. So a lot of times they have what's called stealth wealth or they are quiet millionaires. And this is something that I think a lot of us need to understand. It's actually a very important trait to hide your wealth in certain situations. We will have a future episode talking about that and why and diving deeper into that because I think it's really, really important. Secondly is the millionaire next door found a lot of millionaires actually live very frugally and or they have frugal living tendencies. One of the wealthiest people I know, you would never be able to tell. They're almost a billionaire if you just looked at them. They drive normal cars, they live normal lives. But if you actually figured out how much money they made is absolutely amazing how much wealth they have. If you go into the Berkshire Hathaway conference, there's not a Gucci belt in sight in that place. That's Warren Buffett's conference. And this is something a lot of people need to understand is that wealth is not a show off thing. People who show off a lot of times are not making the best financial decisions in their life. You have to be really, really wealthy to be a good show off. And so for most people, we gotta make sure that we change our mindset when it comes to doing this. Flaunting your wealth means that you can lose it all. If you continuously flaunt your wealth, that can become a habit that gets worse and worse and worse. We call it here in the personal finance community, we call it lifestyle inflation. But really what you're doing is you're flaunting your wealth because you want people to think you're doing better than you, actually. And so most of you out there who are getting discouraged by all of this happening, people taking amazing vacations every single month, people doing amazing things, they're able to send their kids to private school. They're driving the brand new Tahoe or Suburban, they're driving the brand new BMW or Mercedes. Let me tell you something right now, most of those people that you see in your life are up to their eyeballs in debt. Not you though, because you listen to the personal finance podcast. You are a wealth builder. And so you are going to be able to build a tremendous amount of wealth. If you practice stealth wealth, if you practice becoming a quiet millionaire, I promise you your income will exceed your expenses and you'll be able to invest the difference, which is the gap. So let me say this up front. Getting rich is simple, but it's not easy. We have temptations surrounding us left and right. There's advertisements telling you you need to spend on social media. People are telling you you need to consume more and more and more. And there is nothing wrong with consumption. There's nothing wrong with spending your bankroll on the things that you love. I want that. And longtime listeners know that we want you to spend your dollars, though, on your values. We want your dollars to go and stretch further on your values, and we want you to spend less on the things that do not matter to you. Who cares what your neighbors have? Who cares what your friends have? Focus on yourself and the things that you can control. This is what we're going to be talking about today. There's gonna be a lot of psychology involved in this episode because psychology is so incredibly involved in our consumption decisions that we want to make sure that we master this stuff. You got to master the mental side of your money. It is 90% of the battle. And so we'll be talking a lot more about psychology and we'll be talking a lot more about how you need to master the mental game of money. Because it is a tremendous thing that once you get this down, my friends, it will change your life. Have you ever been in a cycle where you're just spending dollars and all of a sudden it starts to get out of control and you're spending more and more and more and more, and then all of a sudden you get this really terrible feeling in the pit of your stomach like, I just spent way too much. I want that to be avoided for you. And most people continuously do that, month over month over month. They treat $500 like $500 is worth nothing anymore. And this is something I want to change for you today. So today we're going to be diving more into this, and I'm going to Talk through actual 7 reasons why you're not as far behind as you think you might be. Let's get into it. Reason number one is we as humans tend to compare ourselves to others. Now, I've said this before, and it is one of my favorite parts of the book, the Psychology of Money, that Morgan Housel talks about this concept. But whenever you see someone driving a fancy car, do you think to yourself, man, that person looks really, really cool in that car? Or do you think to yourself, man, I would look really, really cool in my car? For most people, it's the latter. And one thing we actually do is we tend to compare ourselves to someone else and we see something, but we really think about ourselves in that specific situation, it's not like we actually think that person is elevated because of some of the things that they have. Instead, what a lot of people do is they wish they were in that situation. Now, this is something that you gotta make sure that you understand that you're going to do this. This is human nature. Humans will compare themselves to those who appear more successful. It is human nature. This is how it works. This is how our minds work. It has happened since the beginning of time. The key is to recognize this though, so you don't feel bad about it, so it doesn't induce stress or anxiety. Instead, we are going to be able to control these feelings because we understand how this works. Psychology actually has a term for this. It's called the social comparison theory. And in the social comparison theory, it actually explains how we constantly evaluate our own status based on others. So we're actually comparing ourselves to others instead of realizing that we're actually in a very good situation. When we see outward markers of wealth, we instinctively feel bad, even though those markers often hide financial instability. This is something that you need to recognize is the social comparison theory. It is something that you are going to do time in and time out. If somebody gets something brand new that is better than the thing that you have, you're going to want that thing, especially if it's your taste or your style or something along those lines. Have you ever had a friend who got just a beautiful, amazing, brand new house? Maybe it's a custom build house and it's got all the warm undertones that are in style right now. Maybe it's got beige galore going all the way across the house. You know who you are, who you like those undertones. So this is something that I think a lot of people become very envious because now this person abides in a place that I wish I could have. Well, let me tell you something here. Unless somebody made that purchase responsibly, 30% or less of their income. We teach how to buy a house on this podcast. Very specifically, total cost of ownership. They ran the maintenance cost. They most likely made a bad financial decision if they do not have the means to do so. If they listen to their mortgage lender who said they could, you know, afford a 40% of their income on a mortgage, they're in big, big trouble, my friends. And so this is something you cannot compare yourself to other people. You have no idea what is going on in closed doors. And so number two is most of these lifestyles that we are jealous of are just a facade we compare ourselves to people, but most of the time they are just a facade of what is actually going on behind closed doors, behind the financial veil. Debt levels are rising at massive records across the country. And the more that we compare ourselves to people and try to keep up with people because of that comparison, the worse off we are going to be. So you need to recognize this up front. It is the new year. It's about to be the new year. And guess what, my friends, we got to change our mindset when it comes to this stuff. Do not try to keep up with the Joneses. What we need to realize is that true wealth comes from investing in the future, personal growth and skills. It does not come from outward appearances. So what can we do about this is you can track what really matters. You can track what really matters, which is your net worth. It is not even how much money you have coming in, although that really does matter and it makes the entire situation much easier. But if your net worth is growing every single month, that is a huge, huge win, my friends. It is huge for you to see your net worth rising over time. So you can use a tool like Monarch Money, for example. You can use promo code pfp and you get 20% off on that. There's other tools out there as well. You can use a spreadsheet if you want a free version. There's so many different things that you can use. But make sure you understand your net worth is the scoreboard. That's what you need to focus on. Stop comparing yourself to other people. Instead focus on the scoreboard, which is your net worth. Now, reason number two, why it feels like we are behind everyone else is invisible spending habits. So most people out there are going to have different spending priorities and not all spending is visible. So let's give an example here. Let's say, for example, your friend takes a bunch of luxury vacations. You see them going to Hawaii, you see them going to Cabo, you see, you see them going to Sandro Pay, where I don't even know where that is. You see them going all over the place, but guess what? That same Exact person saves $0 in their 401k. They save $0 in their Roth IRA, they bought a thousand dollars worth of bitcoin one time, and they have no idea what they're doing for retirement. They spend all their money on kids activities and they spend all their money on these extracurricular activities, but they have $0 saved for retirement. Well, my friends, that person has a real problem. They're gaining life experience, which is absolutely beautiful. And I want you to travel, to go to all these places, including Sandro Pay, which I don't know where it is, but I want you to do it in a way that makes sense, where you're hitting your investment goals and you can do that. Imagine if you can do both, how beautiful and amazing that would feel for your life. This is where true wealth is built. When you can do both, man, you've got it all. You've got it all financially, when you can do both. So I want that for you specifically. I want you to see the difference in that and see how powerful that truly can be. Meanwhile, your co worker out there who's wearing plain jeans and plain clothes and driving a plain old car, but they have maybe six, even seven figures in their 401k. Boy, oh boy, that is a major difference from someone who's taken vacations left and right and not even being able to take on this situation. The Federal Reserve reports that 39% of Americans couldn't cover a 400 emergency expense. My goodness. It is really foolish to compare yourself to people when four out of the 10 people that you're comparing yourself to can't even cover a 400 expense. You've got to be able to make sure that you know and understand that most people are not in as good of a financial situation as it may look. It doesn't tell the real story. They may have credit card debt, they may have payday loans, they may have drained savings, they may have a HELOC that's just locked up. And so you got to make sure that you understand this. In behavioral economics, there's something called the availability heuristic. And this causes us to judge situations based on the most visible evidence, ignoring the unseen. So ignoring the savings, the investments, the debt, all this stuff, we ignore that and we only focus on the most visible thing. And stealth wealth is something that really does matter tremendously in the long run. And it's something we really got to think about. So celebrate your invisible wins. Think about your invisible wins and the things that you're actually doing that nobody else can see. It's not like you're going out there and maxing out your 401k and then posting about it left and right. Your boy does it because your boy talks about money all day long. But it's not like you're doing that with your friends. You're not making a Facebook post after you max out your 401k. Said, Ballin just maxed out my 401k. No, nobody does that. And if you do do that, people are gonna be like, well, this guy's just bragging. It's weird how people won't celebrate stuff like that, but they'll celebrate your brand new car, which is a depreciating asset. Isn't that interesting? It is interesting to me. Reason number three is that true wealth is actually stealth. Now, stealth wealth, that term I first originally heard, I think from financial samurai, but I love just that it rhymes and it' interesting way to say it, but the people call it quiet millionaires, the millionaire next door. There's different ways to say this, but we have seen over and over again examples of stealth wealth. Usually the people who flaunt less may have a little more than you think. Now if you want to practice stealth wealth, we'll have an episode talking all about this and why it is important. Even more so. But it starts with the big things. Houses and cars are the big ones. So making sure that you control your housing expenses by keeping your housing expenses under 30% of your gross income and all in housing expenses. That's your mortgage, that's your maintenance, that's your repairs, that's everything under 30% of your gross income is going to be really, really important. In addition, your cars are something that you really got to control that expense tremendously. Cash for cars is king. Always paying cash for cars is number one. If you can't pay cash, which most people out there cannot, then I want you to follow simple rules. 10, meaning 10 years or longer is how long I want you to drive a car that you're going to finance. Two is 20. I want you to at least put 20% down or you can get gap insurance if you really don't have it. But gap insurance or 20% down, specifically if it's a brand new car. Why? Because if you get in a car accident, you drive that car off the lot and you get an accident that totals your car, you are 20% in the hole. You need to make sure that you cover that cost and do not get yourself in sticky situations. Four, your auto loan should be no longer than four years and then seven. It should be 7% or less of your gross income spent on payments per year. Year. I think that 7% or less is generous. If you make 100 grand a year, you're spending $7,000 per year on car payments. So the higher your income goes, the more generous that gets. Which is why income solves a lot of different problems in a lot of these different situations. So that's housing and cars. What about debt. Most quiet millionaires, people who are really building up that stealth wealth and you can't really see it, most of them avoid high interest debt at all costs, meaning any debt above a 6% interest rate, they're avoiding that at all costs. And I want you to avoid that at all costs as well. In addition, you don't want to over complicate your investments. Your asset allocation should be simple. You should have a simple process. It should be fully automated. It is the number one thing that you could do is automate your money if you want to become an automatic millionaire. If you want to be a person who becomes a millionaire on autopilot, you need to make sure that you are automating and not over complicating your investments. And then lifestyle inflation. Now I would argue some lifestyle inflation is healthy. Healthy. You know, if you have kids or if you have your family is growing over time, your lifestyle is going to inflate. You got more people involved in the situation here. You got to pay for more food, you got daycare, you got all these things you're juggling, you got school activities. Lifestyle inflation is normal. Or if you're just getting older and you're making more money, you know, increasing your lifestyle to enjoy the fruits of your labor is absolutely beautiful. You should be doing that. You should enjoy your money. Money is a tool for you to utilize to get what you want out of life. If you want more time, you're going to invest those dollars so you can retire faster. If you want more stuff, you're going to invest those dollars in the stuff that you want. But balancing both is a beautiful thing and I think most people need to be doing that. 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It's great for all kinds of things, like if you want to practice for an upcoming interview, ask for advice on things to do in a new city or brainstorm creative ideas. And by the way, this script was actually read by Gemini. Download the Gemini app for iOS and Android today. Must be 18 to use Gemini Live. This episode is brought to you by US Cellular. You shouldn't have to sacrifice a great experience to get a great deal, and US Cellular Prepaid agrees, which is why Right now, you'll get a new Samsung Galaxy A15.5G for free without any hidden fees like the device activation fees you get with those other prepaid providers. So you can use your free phone with US Cellular's nationwide 5G coverage to stay connected to the ones you love without having to make sacrifices. Terms apply. Visit uscellular.com for details. Reason number four is understanding trade offs. Most people out there do not understand trade offs. They don't understand the power of opportunity costs, which is something I think everybody needs to know. If you haven't heard our million dollar money decisions, it shocks about the power of opportunity costs and how impactful that can be on your financial life. Most people make decisions based on impulse. And when people make decisions based on impulse, they will appear significantly more wealthy than someone who does not make decisions this way. This is just how the world works. If you made $100,000 a year and somebody else made $100,000 a year, your friend makes every single decision based on impulse, you know they want it, they got it, they want that, they got it, they want this, they got it. Whereas you're making slow decisions cautiously to ensure hey, I want to make sure I got enough cash on hand to buy that thing. I'm not trying to go into credit card debt here or I want to make sure I got enough cash on hand to spend more on the things that I love, love. And I'm going to track this a little bit. I'm going to actually automate my spending habits so I can have a little dashboard that just shows me exactly what's going on with my spending. It's all automated. I'm not spending a bunch of time budgeting or anything like that. I could just see this dashboard and it could tell me what's going on with my financial situation. And before I make a purchase that's big, maybe I wait a couple of days, I look at my dashboard real quick, make sure I got that cash on hand, and then I make it rain on that thing if I want to buy it. That is what I want for you all. I do not want you sitting here and making decisions on impulse. So here's my lesson is I implore you to learn about opportunity cost. It is a simple concept that in finance kind of represents what you are foregoing when you decide to spend money on something. So you could decide to take on a 600 car payment, or you could decide to take that 600 and put it towards your retirement. There are two very different outcomes when you think about that One is if you decide to buy a new car instead of investing your excess cash, you lose out on the potential gain of that money, meaning the dollars that you could have invested an 8 to 10% rate of return, you lose out on that potential gain. But secondly is that money will also depreciate over time the dollars that you put into that car. It is a double whammy that you want to make sure that you avoid at all costs. So what you need to know is successful people make sacrifices that are not always visible in luxurious lifestyles. They have major trade offs to people who live a modest lifestyle. And recognizing this, this promotes unfair comparisons and helps you actually have self acceptance. I don't want you feeling bad because other people are doing specific things. Instead it may feel like you're doing worse, but a lot of times it's an illusion. Which is reason number five. There is this crazy illusion of quick success online and there are people, I see it day in and day out of my comments. If I tell somebody that it's going to take them over a decade to build wealth and to invest their dollars and to really watch compound interest start to working, they say, who wants to wait a decade? Let me tell you something everybody. Building wealth takes work. It takes time, it takes energy. Over time you can simplify it to be very, very easy with automation, but it still takes work for you to go out there to your job every single day to earn those dollars and then to put those dol your investment account through automation. You need to make sure that you understand that building wealth takes work. When you're working hard and you're grinding, it can be so discouraging to see somebody else doing all these amazing things. Maybe they're not even just working in the middle of the day and they're just doing whatever they want during the middle of the day. And it can be really discouraging. Or you could see somebody online who just built a business in a year that does millions of dollars. Or you see somebody who bought bitcoin early and they make millions and millions of dollars from crypto. The truth is this is extremely uncommon for most people. Do not fall into the trap that this is going to be something that you are miss it on. A survey came out that 70% of lottery winners go broke and bankrupt within the first few years, which is one of the most sad statistics of all time. And there's actually a similar statistic with crypto millionaires that are coming out. Crypto millionaires are losing all their money because they take the success and the wins, and they put it in something else that's even more risky. And that tendency just allows them to lose it all. And so there's a lot of things that are happening here that people don't understand that true wealth is secured over time. I love building wealth slowly. There are ways to do it faster. Accelerate your path. If you're very good at business, you can accelerate your path. If you're very good at real estate, there's other ways that you can do this faster. But building wealth takes time for the average person. The average person needs to accept that small amounts of money over time can grow to very large amounts of money. And that's the path for most people to take. Now, you may have some financial windfalls, and those windfalls are going to be absolutely amazing. They're going to accelerate your path to wealth and financial independence. And you can do it even faster with a higher savings rate. And as you earn more income, you can take more of that income and put it towards your investment. And this is really going to accelerate that path. But it's a proven way to accelerate that path. It's not just some fantasy land that's on social media. So focus on that slow, steady growth. Understand, wealth is simple, but wealth takes time to build. Reason six is it may look like the grass is always greener on the other side. To truly get ultra wealthy, like I'm talking about, you want to make 20 to 100 million dollars within your portfolio. And a lot of you out there are super ambitious. A lot of you who list this podcast. I've talked to some of you, and you are really, really ambitious people. Why else would you listen to a finance podcast if you're not ambitious, if you don't want to turn your life around, if you don't want to change your financial situation. But the people who get to that 20 million to $100 million mark, they have to work so incredibly hard to really do it the right way. You have to work your butt off. I'm talking late nights, I'm talking working some weekends. I'm talking really working very hard, understanding scaling, having a really good financial education. And so really, there's a couple of different ways to think about this. When you own a business and I own multiple, you are on 24. 7. It is something that you have to really work at to make sure you're on top of things, especially the types of businesses that I own. And especially when you start, you have to make a tremendous amount of sacrifices because you can't scale with people yet because you don't have the money to scale with people. So think about that or think about somebody who is a really, really high earner, somebody on Wall Street. Wall street employees, a lot of them work 80 hours per week. Week. They make a lot of money. But the hours that they put in and the grind they put in, they really lose out on a lot of social things in life. They lose out on just being able to do very flexible things in life. Or entrepreneurs. They may sacrifice years of stability before they actually have success. Now, for me personally, I love it this way. I love kind of grinding through and solving problems and figuring out some of this stuff. It is not for everybody though. When I first started out, I actually hated it and I got used to it and now I developed that muscle and that callus and now I love it. But for a lot of people, it could be overwhelming, it could be stressful. And so you got to analyze the trade offs of what some of these people have done and how much work they have put in. And if you're not willing to put in that, it's fine. Because over time you can take small amounts of money and grow them to very large amounts of money by just going to work, making sure you put in your time, trying to earn more every single year, trying to increase your investments every single year. And you can very well become very, very wealthy at a day job. Very wealthy. In fact, when I was working on this podcast episode, guess what day of the week I did it, I did it on a Saturday because my other businesses were taking so much of my time that I had to go work on this on a Saturday. I gotta show up for you, the wealth builders. And so we gotta make sure that we understand how this works. So action step on this one is I want you to reflect on opportunity cost. I want you to think about every single financial decision and how it has a trade off. I want you to think about is the grass greener on the other side or is it something I got to grind it out to get to where I want to go and think through that process. This should be something that you're always constantly thinking about, about is how this is going to work. If you like hard work, it's great for you. But if you don't like hard work and you want the easiest path there, it's probably not entrepreneurship, I'll tell you that right now. And the last reason is financial help. So one thing that you can't see for a lot of people is financial help is on the rise. And if I don't want you to think that if you did not receive financial help from anyone that you cannot become wealthy. Because I'm going to tell you an amazing truth. 79% of millionaires, according to a study by Ramsey solution which surveyed 10,000 millionaires, 79% of them them are first generation millionaires. Holy cow, is that an amazing stat? That is one of the most amazing stats that I've ever heard. You know why? Because that means for you and I is it's up to you and you could become a first generation millionaire. It was not handed down to them. They did not receive an inheritance. Instead, they were first generation millionaires. That's why I believe anybody in this world can build wealth. I truly, truly believe that. This is why this podcast exists. I want to teach everybody as many people as possible. I want to create a million millionaires. How do we do that? We spread the message that anybody in this world can build wealth. But right now we are seeing more people than ever getting financial help. Specifically the millennial generation and Gen Z. Now they've had a harder path than anybody else. The cost of living has been rising. The cost of student loans is rising. The cost of housing is astronomical, let alone inflation is just every single year beating everybody down. And so they've had a harder path than anybody else. And if you don't believe that, if you're from a different generation and you don't believe that that is the case, go look at the numbers. The numbers are very, very clear on this. But at the same time, we have to take personal responsibility and think about this. Now there are more people now getting help from their parents or family members than anybody else. Now I have friends who are getting help with their rent. I have friends who are getting help with their mortgage. I have friends whose parents let them live in their house. You may have friends who their parents help them with the down payment on a house, or maybe they pay some of their bills, or maybe they provide childcare for them, which is a huge expense. If you have a grandparent who is helping you with child care, you're saving a ton of money right there. And you have kids, or maybe they're just paying the big one. Most people are still on their parents cell phone bill. But there's a lot of different scenarios here where people are getting help. Now I'm not going to say getting help is good. Is it getting bad? That's not for me to decide. You know your own financial situation. But we do know that people who receive early financial help, if you Get a lot of financial help and you're making the same income as somebody else. They may seem like they're way more successful than you, even though they're making the same amount. Well, somebody out there is helping them. They're getting financial help. They're getting their rent paid for their mortgage or they're getting subsidized for specific bills. And so how are you going to keep up with somebody who is getting subsidies from somewhere else? You can't. And so comparing yourself to people that are doing those things is not something you want to be doing. Now, parents out there, I will say that most studies that come back state that, especially even the millionaire next door talks about this, is that that most of the people that they survey, they do not have children who are financially dependent on them, meaning that they raise financially stable individuals so that they are not dependent on their parents. And that is something I think we should all strive for as we progress towards, you know, raising our children and making sure they have that financial education. The number one thing you can give to your children is that financial education. You can teach them the stuff that you're learning here in basic ways. There's a bunch of different cool ways to do this. And as we start to build out some of the things that we want to be doing next year, we're probably going to have a section of some communities that we're building out where we're going to teach you just even how to teach your kids some of this stuff. It's going to be really, really cool. I'm excited about some of the stuff we're going to be doing there to really help people teach their kids and pass it on to the next generation. It's going to be so incredibly powerful what you can do with your dollars. If you didn't get a head start, if somebody else isn't helping you, if somebody didn't give you an inheritance, if you did not get that head start, create your own own, do it yourself. I truly believe that you can do it yourself. Hey, privilege is real. People are going to have more privilege than you out there. But guess what? It doesn't matter where you started. It matters where you finish. Financially, I know you can do this. So what do you do? You build up skills that are going to help you earn more income so that you can be the person that gives those dollars to your kids. Focus on side hustles, skill building, networking, level the playing field. Because if you can actually earn more, you're going to blow everybody who just collects checks out of the water because you're going to have more skills than them. If you didn't earn your income, it feels a lot better to earn it by acquiring your skills than it does by having it given to you. So these are the key takeaways of this episode, is you're not behind. The wealth you often see with other people is a mirage. Most of the time. It is not what it actually appears to be. In the grass could always be greener on the other side. So here's your challenge. I want you to stop comparing yourself to other people. I want you to start tracking your own progress. It's you versus you. That's what we're looking at here. And remember, appearances can fool others, but they won't fool you. If you know what you're worth, understand what you're worth. It's the most powerful thing that you can do. And understand this money psychology. Listen. Thank you guys so much for listening to this episode. I hope you enjoyed this episode. I had a fun time making this one for you guys. I truly, truly appreciate you being here and thank you for investing in yourself, because that's exactly what you do when you listen to this podcast is you are investing in yourself. I truly appreciate each and every single one of you being here here. Thank you so much. And we will see you on the next episode.