Episode Overview
Title: A College Student Shouldn't Be Doing Either Of These Things
Podcast: The Ramsey Show Highlights
Date: December 28, 2025
Main Theme:
This episode dives into the alarming trend of college students engaging in risky financial behaviors, specifically sports gambling and short-term trading. The hosts, led by Dave Ramsey and George Kamel, respond to a father's question about guiding his son away from sports gambling and whether redirecting him toward short-term trading is a better alternative. The consensus? Neither is wise, especially at a young age.
Key Discussion Points & Insights
1. The Listener’s Dilemma: Investment vs. Gambling
- Listener Call ([00:12]):
- The caller describes his 21-year-old son’s two financial habits:
- Positive: Investing in a diversified, long-term portfolio.
- Negative: Daily or weekly sports gambling, mirroring most of his peers.
- The father wonders if steering his son toward short-term trading (futures/options)—which he himself does—would be a preferable risk-taking outlet compared to gambling.
- Quote:
- “If you’re going to be involved in that kind of risky speculative gambling… apply it to learn more about short term trading like futures and options.” – Listener ([00:39])
- The caller describes his 21-year-old son’s two financial habits:
2. The Hosts’ Unified Stance: Neither Is Appropriate
- Dave Ramsey ([02:02]):
- Refuses to pick "the lesser evil" between sports betting and short-term trading:
- “A college student shouldn't be playing short term trading and a college student shouldn't be sports gambling, period.”
- Emphasizes that the real solution is to encourage pursuits that are truly beneficial—neither option is wise or healthy for a young adult.
- “I would never tell them, instead, do short term trading. I would just say do neither.” ([02:20])
- Refuses to pick "the lesser evil" between sports betting and short-term trading:
3. Sports Gambling: A Modern Epidemic
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Dave’s Strong Warning ([02:55]):
- Portrays online sports gambling as the fastest-growing and most destructive addiction among young men in America.
- “FanDuel is a portal to hell. DraftKings ain't king of nothing except their own pocketbook and they're screwing an entire generation of young men because you don’t win… This is evil stuff right here.” ([03:09])
- Likens sports betting to drug addiction:
- “No, this is cocaine. You are screwing around with cocaine. You’re screwing around with fentanyl, you’re screwing around with crack and it’s going to kill your little butt. You need to get away from this stuff.” ([03:30])
- Portrays online sports gambling as the fastest-growing and most destructive addiction among young men in America.
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The Social Trap ([04:13]):
- Betting is normalized because "everyone is doing it," but Dave warns this mindset is dangerously misleading.
- Uses the classic parent analogy: “If all your friends jump off a cliff, are you gonna jump off a cliff?” ([04:19])
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Impact on Lives ([05:51]):
- Detailed consequences observed from counseling:
- Lost marriages, lost jobs, bankruptcy—“just sad, sad, sad stories.” ([05:51])
- Few are having serious conversations about these dangers.
- “Everybody’s walking around grinning like betting on football is a wonderful thing.” ([05:56])
- Detailed consequences observed from counseling:
4. Why It’s So Dangerous: Addictive Design and Financial Ruin
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George Kamel ([05:14]):
- Covers sports gambling under "Investing Traps" in his book Breaking Free from Broke.
- Blurs entertainment and get-rich-quick hopes; addictive and socially accepted.
- “This is really scary to what it’s doing to young men.” ([05:29])
- Admits that sometimes people won’t change until they feel significant loss—“he might need to lose a bunch of money and get burned before he actually turns a corner or he needs to find new friends.” ([05:45])
- Covers sports gambling under "Investing Traps" in his book Breaking Free from Broke.
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Dave Ramsey ([06:09]):
- Dismisses “cute” gambling stories:
- “It’s like a stinking golf or fishing story. You lose more than you win, but you tell only times you won… So it’s not cute, it’s not funny.” ([06:09])
- Warns about the brain’s rewiring:
- “You’re creating habit patterns, neuropathways in his brain that it may take him a decade to get out of.” ([06:32])
- Emphasizes the damaging effect on long-term wealth building and life quality.
- Dismisses “cute” gambling stories:
5. Practical Advice to Concerned Parents
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George Kamel ([06:59]):
- Suggests intervention:
- “What I would ask him is, hey, how much have you spent on these apps collectively? … Show him what it’s actually costing him both in past and future tenses. That might convince him…” ([06:59])
- Suggests intervention:
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Dave Ramsey ([07:20]):
- The apps’ addictive power:
- “They have spent a half a billion dollars building the visuals, building the feedback loops… once you stick your toe in there…” ([07:25])
- “They lure you back in… ‘Here’s a free bet on us. Come back.’” – George Kamel ([07:36])
- The apps’ addictive power:
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Dave’s Emotional Conclusion ([07:40]):
- “They are the best in the world and they’re making billions of dollars at it and at the cost of an entire generation being screwed over. … This is evil. Straight up evil. It’s greed and it’s out of control.” ([07:40–08:04])
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
- On gambling and short-term trading:
- “A college student shouldn't be playing short term trading and a college student shouldn't be sports gambling, period.” – Dave Ramsey ([02:02])
- On the addictive danger:
- “FanDuel is a portal to hell.” – Dave Ramsey ([03:09])
- “No, this is cocaine… And it’s going to kill your little butt.” – Dave Ramsey ([03:30])
- On industry manipulation:
- “You’re at such a disadvantage when you open up one of those apps because they have spent a half a billion dollars building the visuals, building the feedback loops…” – Dave Ramsey ([07:20])
Timestamps of Key Segments
- 00:12: Caller introduces dilemma: son's investing vs. sports gambling
- 02:02: Dave sets the show’s stance: “Neither is a good idea”
- 03:09–03:30: Dave’s fiery warning about sports gambling addiction parallels drug abuse
- 05:14: George outlines sports gambling as an “Investing Trap”
- 05:51: Real-life consequences: families and futures ruined
- 06:09–06:32: How normalization and habit formation make gambling so insidious
- 06:59: Practical advice: tally up losses to drive the reality home
- 07:20–07:40: How apps manipulate users; industry “evil”
- 08:24: Commentary on gambling ads’ pervasiveness, even on YouTube
Tone and Closing Thoughts
The episode is direct, urgent, and unflinchingly critical of both sports gambling and short-term trading for young people—especially college students. Dave Ramsey is forceful and passionate:
“This is evil. Straight up evil. It’s greed and it’s out of control.” ([07:40])
The hosts urge parents to see gambling as a serious addiction—akin to drugs—rather than a harmless rite of passage, and to support their children in developing healthy, sustainable financial habits instead. The message is clear: Do neither. Stay away from quick-money schemes and build wealth the old-fashioned, proven way.
