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John
i am debating filing bankruptcy, getting a secured credit card to potentially buy my first house in two years. Right around Covid, I got myself into about 12 grand worth of debt and I could pay 1500 bucks, file chapter seven and. And start saving. Now it is relevant to say that I. I got a better job since then. I now make anywhere between 10 and 25k a month, but I also have a girlfriend.
Dave Ramsey
You make 10 to 25k a month and you're worried about $12,000 in debt?
John
Yeah.
Dave Ramsey
You realize how lame that sounds?
John
I know, I know. Yeah. But I'm also taxed at a heavier rate because it's Whoopee.
Dave Ramsey
You make $25,000 a month. You could have lived on 1212 and paid off 12 in one month.
John
So you don't think it's worth it to save the money?
Dave Ramsey
Oh, I think it's asinine. You make so much money. Go pay your bill, dude.
John
Down. It's up and down, Dave.
Dave Ramsey
Well, between 10 and 25. Cry me a river.
Rachel Cruze
$120,000 to 250. $12,000 of debt. That's it.
Dave Ramsey
You didn't call me with 1.2 million in debt.
John
Right. I guess it does sound silly.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah. Okay, so let me back up. Let me back up three steps. Okay. This money is. This money, this income is very new, isn't it?
John
Yes.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah. And that's why you haven't done the calculation I just did. Okay. So if you make $10,000 a month, that's $120,000 a year. If you make $25,000 a month, that's 300,000 a year. So you're making 100 and a half to 300 somewhere in there in the coming months. But your brain has not caught up with that math yet because you've never made that before and you certainly hadn't made it lately.
John
Right. And, well, I'm also. My girlfriend has good credit and I'm trying to get mine back on track, but I have to take care of this debt first.
Rachel Cruze
Well, the bankruptcy won't help that, John.
Dave Ramsey
Bankruptcy puts you out of the house business for two to three years. And by the way, they're not going to let you file chapter 7. There's a means test when you go to file A Chapter 7, which wipes all the credit card debt out. And the means test says, looking at your income, do you have the ability to pay this back? And then. And the judge is going to go, uh huh. And they're going to throw you into a chapter 13 for five years. So your plan's not going to work even if I would go along with it. And I'm not going to go along with it because it's not good for you. So what would be much better? So you were making nothing before? Hardly. I mean you, you must have had no income, not had a low income before, did you? There are basics every family needs. Food, shelter, transportation, and term life insurance. Term life is simple. If you pass away, it pays money to your family so they can keep paying the bills. Protecting the people you love is part of winning with money. And when you're ready to do that, go with who I trust Zander Insurance. Zander Shop's top companies to find the right coverage at the best price. And they've earned my recommendation for nearly 330 years. Go to Xander.com today. You must have had no income, not had a low income before, did you?
John
Like six to eight grand a month? Yeah, it wasn't, wasn't that much.
Dave Ramsey
Well, that's more than I was thinking.
Rachel Cruze
Not bad. John, what's your, what's your life? What, what's your lifestyle like? I don't understand.
Dave Ramsey
What are you doing with all this
Rachel Cruze
money if you don't have a house? How much is your rent?
John
My rent is only 900 and I, I, I had a repossession of a vehicle and I've since cleared off a lot of my debt, but I still have this, this chunk hanging and I went down, I bought two used to use cheap cars that we got in on trade at the dealership. So I had good deals on and so I haven't planned on, that's what I kind of do is just plan on keep paying cash for vehicles. But my girlfriend, I want to upgrade her vehicle and I'm also helping her wipe out her credit card.
Rachel Cruze
John, you're talking about filing for bankruptcy and upgrading your girlfriend's vehicle in one sentence like the. No, no, I think your priorities are all over the place. Do you feel that? Do you feel chaotic?
Dave Ramsey
Do you sell cars for a living?
John
I'm a finance manager at a Ford dealership.
Dave Ramsey
Okay, I thought so. Okay, all right, so let's slow down a little bit, all right? Girlfriend has started to become in this conversation, high maintenance. She wants a car, she wants a house, she gets, she gets nothing until you get your grown up life straightened out. Honey, you got to get your grown up life straightened out and you don't be buying cars for people you aren't married to. And buying houses with people you're not married to. And you certainly don't do that, too. And you certainly don't do that to make them happy, because they're not worth being married to if that's what makes them happy. So, warning, warning, warning. Okay, so now. So we're going to set her aside and let her have her little life while we date her. And we're going to look at John. Now, John makes 6 to 8 to 10 to $25,000 a month. So I want John to sit down and say, do the math. You know how to do math. You're a finance manager, for God's sakes. Sit down and do the math and say, okay, where is my. My $10,000 going? Where is my $12,000 going? Where is my$8,000 going? And then make it behave. I want you to buy food, shelter, clothes. You have $900 rent. Very good. Okay, pay the cars off. Any car that is in your name needs to get paid off or sold. And you need to clear these debts. Now then, as you know, you're sitting in the chair looking at credit reports every day. Credit reports age out. Anything that is not a bankruptcy stays on seven years, but approximately three to four years out. An old repo, an old defaulted credit card that has now been paid off and made good, an old repo that has been cleared up and made good, the deficit has been negotiated out. All of that that's three or four years old hardly counts against you anymore. It might bump your credit score, but you can go get a house. But you need to put these things all paid off, all cleared, so you can get the credit report clock ticking. Because when they tick off seven years, they will all disappear. Chapter seven bankruptcy is 10 years, though, my friend. It stays on there 10 years. And when you have them fill out an application in your office at Ford to get a Ford Motor Credit loan, it doesn't say if you file bankruptcy. It doesn't show up on your credit report. It says, have you ever filed bankruptcy? And if you say no and you have, that's fraud. So the answer is for the rest of your life, you have to say, I filed bankruptcy while I was making $15,000 a month and I had $12,000 worth of debt. That would be stupid. You don't want to do that.
Rachel Cruze
I'm at a loss for words. That doesn't really ever. I'm just conf. I just don't. I just can't get in his brain. I'm not sure I Don't understand his logic. No. Maybe she.
Dave Ramsey
She wants a nice car, she wants a nice house, and he wants to impress.
Rachel Cruze
But that has nothing to do with him filing bankruptcy. I mean, like, I just don't.
Dave Ramsey
He thinks it's the shortest way to get there.
Rachel Cruze
Of all of it, though. I don't. It just. Yeah, it just makes no sense. So, yeah, John, I, I would make a. I would make it a goal. Live on four grand a month. It's plenty. With your rent, lights, cell phone, insurance, and throw six grand this month at the debt, and the next month the same. You're completely debt free. Get an emergency fund. And I would work on John. There's a lot of. She need. You said she wants a new car. I was like, no, no, she doesn't want to. I, I want. There's a. There's a lot of ego in all of this. I, I would. I would do some work on John if I were you, John. I would. I'd get to the bottom of what some of this that you're grasping at. You're grasping at a reality that's not there. And it's. And it's so interesting to, to hear you talk about it because I, I don't. I don't know. I don't get it. I'm at a loss. I am at a loss.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah.
Rachel Cruze
And I think our audiences too, every, Everyone just. We all just kept looking at each other like, I don't get it. I don't know. I don't know.
Dave Ramsey
Well, it's.
Rachel Cruze
And he's the most extreme. I think that's it too. Bankruptcy is the most extreme. I think if he called and was like, I don't know. I'm thinking about doing debt collections and letting it go, you know, letting it go to be bad debt and be sold and try to negotiate it, like, even that. I'm like, okay, that's not a smart thing. But bankruptcy, I'm like, that's just the most. One of the most extreme things that you can do to yourself financially.
Dave Ramsey
But somebody on TikTok told him that in two years he can get a house if he has no debt. Starting today. And the best way to get rid of the debt is bankruptcy. And all of that, of course, was TikTok law, which doesn't. Isn't real law and isn't how bankruptcy really works. There's a means test.
Rachel Cruze
You were very empathetic.
Dave Ramsey
When you go in. When you go in. I'm not, I'm not trying to. I'm just trying to.
Rachel Cruze
You were that.
Dave Ramsey
Just trying to make sure he hears me, that's all.
Rachel Cruze
John, we are for you. We are for you.
Dave Ramsey
We want you to win.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah, I don't want that to be shameful.
Dave Ramsey
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In this concise yet impactful episode, a caller named John seeks advice on whether to file for bankruptcy over $12,000 in debt, despite recently securing a high-paying job. Hosts Dave Ramsey and Rachel Cruze dissect John's situation—his sudden increase in income, his motivations, and misconceptions around bankruptcy. The conversation highlights the importance of financial responsibility, priorities, and the dangers of following misguided internet advice.