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Episode: How Do I Deal With Parents That Mismanage Their Money?
Date: November 22, 2025
Length: ~7 minutes of content (ad sections omitted)
Hosts/Experts featured: [Unspecified, typical Ramsey Network panel dynamics]

Overview

This episode addresses a listener’s dilemma: He’s achieved financial freedom (Baby Step 7 of Ramsey’s system), but he’s burned out and struggling with family dynamics, particularly having hired his parents for a side business while watching them mismanage their own personal finances. The hosts offer advice on boundaries, emotional fatigue, and when to let go.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Caller’s Background and Emotional Burnout

• The caller (“Chase” as referenced by the hosts) has worked multiple jobs to become completely debt free, including home and car [00:08–00:40].

• He expresses exhaustion after two years of intense effort, especially since his wife could not return to work due to family and health complications [00:18–01:03].

• He wonders if now is the time to pause side income streams or keep pushing himself.

  Memorable Moment:

  • D: “Yesterday.” [00:28] (on when Chase should pause and rest after debt freedom)
  • C: “Baby Step seven. That’s impressive.” [06:34]

2. The Side Business and Family Employment

• Chase runs a small business (side hustle) where he’s hired his parents (who are otherwise qualified) [01:03–01:54].

• He notes his parents are making questionable financial decisions—taking on loans and buying unnecessary vehicles—despite extra income [01:40–02:13].

• The side business nets only about $1,100 a month, paid to his parents as side income (not base living expenses) [04:09–04:29].

  Host Clarity:

  • D: “You’re not enabling them because they’re doing a job and getting paid for the job. It’s not like you’re just giving them money because they asked for money.” [03:12]

3. The Dilemma: To Close or Keep the Business

• The core concern: Is Chase responsible for “enabling” his parents’ bad financial behavior by employing them?

• The hosts clarify boundaries: As long as they’re working for pay, he is not enabling them the same as if he were gifting money [03:12–03:31].

• Closing the business is positioned as a separate decision—more about his fatigue and priorities than his parents’ spending [03:31–04:29].

  Memorable Quotes:

  • C: “If you were going to, like, put them on the streets because now they’re out of a job, then I’d be like, hey, let's be a little more cautious about this. …but if you had the conversation with them… I'm done with it emotionally, physically… I'm shutting down the shop.” [04:31–04:48]

4. Coaching Unwilling Family Members

• Chase feels conflicted as a financial coach watching his parents slide into debt, but they are not receptive [03:33–05:51].

• The hosts stress that unsolicited financial advice, even from a coach, is rarely welcome—especially from a child to parents.

• They encourage Chase to step back unless invited to help.

  Notable Quotes:

  • D: “Unless they invite you into their life to coach them on it, then it’s a moot point. …It’s going to just cause resentment.” [05:22–05:25]
  • D: “When the student's ready, the teacher appears, and they're not ready.” [05:59]

5. Final Thoughts and Boundaries

• The overarching advice: Chase should focus on his own young family and wellbeing, not try to control or rescue his parents [05:47–06:17].

• The most he can do is live by example, possibly sparking their interest in better money management.

  Summary Moment:

  • C: “All you can do is live your life…hopefully in a way that makes them go, man, what's Chase doing over there? I'm interested. Tell me more. …Parents, that's one of the hardest ones to tackle because they remember changing your diaper yesterday. They're not looking for financial advice from you.” [06:17–06:34]

Timestamps for Key Segments

• 00:08–00:40 – Caller’s debt-free journey and exhaustion
• 01:03–01:54 – Small business background; employing parents
• 01:54–03:12 – Parents’ financial missteps and implications
• 03:12–03:31 – Are you enabling with employment?
• 03:40–04:48 – Deciding to close the side business
• 05:22–05:59 – Unsolicited advice and boundaries
• 06:17–06:34 – Live by example; parent-child coaching challenges

Tone and Takeaways

• Empathetic, direct, and pragmatic: The hosts validate the caller’s fatigue, support the idea of setting boundaries, and acknowledge the emotional weight of family financial issues.
• Key Takeaway: “You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink.” [05:59]

Conclusion

This episode provides practical and compassionate advice for anyone feeling responsible for financially misguided family members—especially for adult children dealing with parents. The message is clear: Respect boundaries, offer help only when invited, and don’t jeopardize your own progress or wellbeing for someone else’s financial choices.