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Courtney
Question about home repairs and basically the. The route we should go on if we are trying to knock debt, but we do currently live in a home that is proving to be not actually livable.
George
Are we talking like black mold or is it like I don't like the kitchen?
Courtney
No, we're talking about extensive mold. When we got testing done, the it didn't come back as anything majorly toxic, but obviously it's just not currently ideal situation to live in.
Dave
So that's interesting to me. So you got it tested and they said it's not overly toxic. Does that just mean they can remediate it, move on and no one's concerned.
Courtney
They can remediate it, but the problem is the space that was added onto the house before removed, moved in, was improperly ventilated. We actually didn't know this, but they built on top of a crawl space and then they just sort of tapered it off. And so there's a portion of the house that's not actually a true crawl space, but there was no moisture barrier. So now the support beams under that part of the house have completely rotted away with the mold and our floor caved in. So that part of the house is not habitable.
Dave
Got you. Got you. So how much does it cost to fix it? Fix all of it.
Courtney
The remediation alone would be between 6 and $8,000, but that does not include demo and to rebuild it. And we actually don't know if that includes mold that has traveled up into the Sheetrock or if. If it's strictly underneath the floor.
Dave
Got you. Okay, so now hit us with the. Hit us with the hammer of why you can't afford this and why this is a well.
Courtney
We potentially could be looking at thousands and thousands of dollars and we're just wondering what can we. What route should we go? Do we take out a loan to try and get this fixed? Do we. Everything that we searched, it keeps pulling up heloc and we're just uncertain about that. So we just don't know what route to take here. Insurance is not going to cover it either way.
Dave
Do you have any money anywhere? Like, do you have any money saved anywhere?
Courtney
We have a little bit in 401k. We have a little bit in savings, but not much.
Dave
What's in savings?
Courtney
It would be just around a couple of thousand. It's not much at all.
Dave
Like 3,000 or like 12,000.
Courtney
Somewhere around there.
Dave
Okay.
Courtney
Yeah, somewhere around there.
Dave
Okay. Well, you're halfway there for the remediation. That's the good news.
Courtney
True.
George
And we know it doesn't have to happen tomorrow. So could this happen over the course of the next 90 days? And you guys cash flow it. Could you save up $1,000 or $2,000 a month out of your paychecks?
Courtney
Absolutely not.
George
What do you guys take home every month?
Courtney
I'm not sure of the exact number that we take home, but yearly, between the two of us, we probably only make about 75,000.
Dave
Okay, so here's where I want to challenge you, because I asked you a question and George asked you a question and you didn't know the answer to what I would say are. I don't. Pretty basic numbers, Courtney, which is how much do you have in savings and how much do you make every month?
Courtney
What.
Dave
Which. That lets me know you don't have much of a budget.
Courtney
We don't.
Dave
Okay.
Courtney
Which also I. There, There is a little bit of backstory there. We have had some issues in the past, and for that reason, we did keep our finances separate. So I'm tallying numbers here, and this is something that we are working towards. That's a. That's a separate issue. Okay, we are working towards that goal. But. But these are. These are roughly around the numbers that we would be working with.
Dave
So you're separating the money, but it's not you having all the control over the money or him having all the control over the money. You're managing your own. Is that what I hear?
Courtney
Correct.
Dave
Okay. That being said, it doesn't change the fact I still think that you need a budget and he needs a budget.
Courtney
Definitely.
Dave
And I think when you do that. Because right now you really can't answer George's question. You don't know if there's extra margin.
George
You could pull together. Is not a thousand dollars. I can almost guarantee I could find you a thousand bucks if I looked at your bank statements and helped you create a budget. So I want to encourage you that it is possible to do this. Making 75,000 a year.
Courtney
So what do we do about the. The literal floor being. You know, we cannot use that part of the house.
Dave
I mean, what, today?
Courtney
Yeah, I'm sorry, I could. I could only hear it with both of you.
George
I'm just wondering, you haven't been able to use it. What was it used for previously, if anything?
Courtney
That was our bedroom.
George
So where are you guys living right now or sleeping?
Courtney
Well, I am currently in the living.
George
Room, like on a couch. Is there an air mattress in there? What's the situation?
Courtney
We tried to move our bed into the living room, and it just. It wasn't working out. So we tried to move it into a back part of the house, and ultimately the couch was a better option.
George
Are there kids involved?
Courtney
Yes.
George
Okay. How many kids?
Courtney
One.
George
Okay. And their bedroom's intact?
Courtney
Yes.
George
But mom and dad are hanging out in the living room?
Courtney
Yes.
Dave
That's.
George
That's an adventure. That's a story you'll be able to tell one day to your kids.
Dave
It's a camping trip.
George
Could you survive this for another six months?
Courtney
We've been living like this for five years.
George
Well, I'm sorry. Five years?
Courtney
Yes.
Dave
Wait a second.
George
So you've. This issue has been happening for five years and we're just now doing something about it?
Courtney
No, this has been. Like I said, there's been some other issues in other areas that, you know, don't deserve any time on the air. But now that we have worked through some of those issues and we are trying to get on top of finances, we just truly don't know where to go. And we've only recently started. My husband recently started the Dave Ramsey plan, and so we're on the right track. But it's been really hard to try and convince him that taking out some sort of. Some sort of loan or something somewhere to get this fixed is a good idea, because right now he's really wrapped up in the idea of knocking out all debt, knocking out everything, but ultimately.
George
So you want to take out the loan and he doesn't.
Courtney
Yes.
Dave
Well, here's the thing. Here's what I'm hearing. There's discomfort going on. You've. You've experienced something in your relationship. You don't have to mention it on. On air, but whatever that is, that has been very uncomfortable. And now you've had this thing pop up in your home. The mo. And the. The issue with the, I don't know, joist. Is that what they're called? I don't know. The. The wooden beam and. And that's uncomfortable. And you're trying to get the money, and that's separate. So that's uncomfortable. There's a lot of uncomfortability going on. And now you called this show and we're asking you to do something else that is potentially quite uncomfortable for a longer period of time. And I think you're probably just experiencing a fatigue in that area of. Can I just please have a simple solve, guys? Can you just make it easy for me. And unfortunately, debt can look like the simpler. You know, it can look like the solution. It can look like the easy button. But you've just told us you've been through some things, and if you turn around and add this debt to the equation, yes, maybe you get the thing fixed tomorrow. But now you've got this huge amount of debt hanging around your neck that you guys have to get on the same page on financially what you're not in order to pay off. And I can tell you it's probably going to be easier for you guys to lock arms and pay for something in cash and than it is going to be for you guys to lock arms and pay off this debt because your money's separate. So he pony up the cash. You pony up the cash, and you guys get this thing paid for in cash.
George
I'm on team husband. Helocs are only going to give you permission to do the stupidest things, like take this mold situation and go. You know what? Full kitchen reno. They're giving us $100,000. Don't do this, Courtney. It's going to be hard, but more debt is only going to make your situation more difficult.
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Summary of "How Do We Prioritize Home Repairs While Paying Off Debt?" The Ramsey Show Highlights – July 27, 2025
Introduction to the Issue
In the July 27, 2025 episode of The Ramsey Show Highlights, the Ramsey Network addresses a pressing dilemma faced by a listener named Courtney. Courtney seeks guidance on balancing essential home repairs with the ongoing challenge of paying off debt. The episode delves into the complexities of maintaining a safe living environment while adhering to financial priorities.
Caller’s Situation
Courtney reaches out with concerns about severe mold infestation and structural damage in her home, rendering a portion of it uninhabitable. The issues stem from improper ventilation in an added section of the house, leading to rotting support beams and a collapsing floor. Although remediation tests indicated that the mold isn't highly toxic, the living conditions remain untenable.
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Financial Breakdown
Courtney and her husband earn a combined annual income of approximately $75,000. Their savings are modest, ranging between $3,000 and $12,000, which is insufficient to cover the estimated $6,000 to $8,000 for mold remediation alone, not accounting for demolition and rebuilding costs. Additionally, they lack a comprehensive budget, making it challenging to assess their financial capacity accurately.
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Courtney admits to having limited savings and notes that her husband prefers keeping their finances separate due to past issues, complicating their ability to manage and prioritize expenses effectively.
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Discussion and Advice
Dave Ramsey and co-host George Kamel engage with Courtney to explore viable solutions. They emphasize the necessity of establishing a detailed budget to understand their financial standing better. Without a clear budget, it's challenging to determine whether they can allocate funds toward home repairs without derailing their debt repayment plans.
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George suggests the possibility of saving $1,000 to $2,000 monthly by reviewing bank statements and optimizing their budget, though Courtney expresses that increasing their savings rate is not feasible under current circumstances.
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The hosts also discuss the emotional and relational strain caused by financial disagreements. Dave points out that the underlying discomfort in their relationship may be exacerbating the financial challenges, making collaborative decision-making more difficult.
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George advises against taking out large loans like HELOCs, cautioning that they might lead to unmanageable debt without resolving the immediate home issues effectively.
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Insights and Conclusions
The episode underscores the importance of comprehensive financial planning when facing unexpected home repairs. Establishing a budget is crucial for understanding available resources and making informed decisions about whether to prioritize repairs or debt repayment. The discussion highlights the delicate balance between maintaining a safe living environment and adhering to debt reduction strategies.
Courtney's situation exemplifies the challenges many face when unforeseen expenses arise amidst existing financial obligations. The hosts advocate for transparent financial management and collaborative planning to navigate such dilemmas effectively.
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Conclusion
Courtney's call to The Ramsey Show Highlights provides valuable insights into the complexities of managing home repairs while striving to eliminate debt. The episode emphasizes the necessity of clear budgeting, collaborative financial management, and cautious consideration before incurring additional debt. By addressing both the practical and emotional aspects of financial decision-making, the show offers a comprehensive approach to overcoming such challenges.
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