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Zander shops all the top term insurance companies to save you money. Get started@zander.com I fell for the annuity.
Caller (Client)
Scam and didn't know it was a scam until after I did it. And after my 20 day window was over in October, we rolled $689,000 of my husband's 401k into a fixed annuity and they gave us a 5% bonus. So the value today is 724. The problem is the insurance company, as I'm sure you know, keeps 22% of that and the first year surrender charge is 13%. So my question is, do we stay until the surrender charges drop? Especially given, you know, I mean, this.
Dave Ramsey
Is 30 days old. This is 30 days old.
Caller (Client)
It's, it's over that it was in October.
Dave Ramsey
Well, okay. I mean it's 45 days old.
Caller (Client)
Yeah, he told me it's too late. He told me I had a 20 day window.
Dave Ramsey
This is the insurance agent that told you this, that sold you this crap?
Caller (Client)
Correct.
Dave Ramsey
Okay, good. All right. I don't know is the answer, but I want more information because I don't believe the person who sold me something that's bad to start with. That's not a good source of information. Fair enough. So go to ramseysolutions.com and click on Smartvestor Pro and get one of our Smartvestor Pros there in your area that you can talk to and tell them what you've got and see if the insurance commissioner in Texas will grant you a little more leeway than that and you get 100 cents on the dollar back.
Caller (Client)
Okay.
Dave Ramsey
And then get back out of it. So yeah, and then get this into some good investments that aren't so front loaded and crappy in performance.
Caller (Client)
Right. So do you recommend an index fund?
Dave Ramsey
I recommend a fruit jar before you do this, but an index fund is fine. It was a 401k and so you need to roll it into an IRA. And based on the fact that it's in an IR, I'm probably going to put it in the four types of mutual funds that mine are in, which is a fourth in growth, growth in income, aggressive growth and international with long track records. That's what mine are in. And I'm 65. How old are you?
Caller (Client)
I'm 62.
Dave Ramsey
Okay.
Caller (Client)
My husband is about to be 60.
Dave Ramsey
Okay. So yeah, same category. And that's what mine are in because I'm going to leave it alone. And then you've got to start talking about moving some of it out of there before you get to 73 and a half because you're going to have RMDs required minimum distributions on your 401k, you're going to have that in the annuity as well, by the way, because it's probably a qualified plan, too. So, meaning it's.
Caller (Client)
What do I do if they won't move it and we're stuck with the 13%?
Dave Ramsey
Get the. I would take 13% hit and move it because you may make 13% in Q1. One quarter of the stock market might be 13%. It's certainly going to. You're going to make your money back quick enough. But I'm not going to accept Joe Bob's answer. Okay. I want somebody that knows the laws and the tolerance for this with the Texas Insurance Commission to put their hands on this. It may be. But if I'm you and it's going to cost me 13% in stupid tax to get this moved, you'll make that back up in good investments rather than being stuck in this thing. And the other thing is, every day you wake up and you see the company name, you're pissed again. I don't want to live like that. Now, let's recap. No, it's okay. Everybody makes mistakes. You were hoodwinked. So let me tell people what happened to you, and you tell me if I'm right. A person contacted you in your 60s about helping you create a very stable, predictable investment that would grow without taxes. And they are an investment advisor. They're a financial advisor. And the company name is an insurance company name, not an investment company name. But. But they posed as. And sell themselves as an investment advisor. Is that what happened?
Caller (Client)
Close. I actually reached out to them because they were promoted by a person in the church that's well known, that I trust and follow.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah.
Caller (Client)
And then they drop some big names of people that they've helped and whose money they manage. And so that's what got me.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah, but it's. You did not place your money with an investment company. You place your money with an insurance company.
Caller (Client)
Correct.
Dave Ramsey
And going in, you were not planning on doing that. That's not what you signed up for. You signed up for. To do some investing.
Caller (Client)
Correct.
Dave Ramsey
And then they. But they. Insurance agents are licensed only to sell insurance products, annuities or insurance products. They cannot sell mutual funds. And so this is. What they sell is this crap. And they put people in and they. They can even sell a decent product, which is a variable annuity. But I wouldn't even put you in that because you're getting double feed. So it's just a. Yeah, man, it's awful. I'm sorry you're having that. But if you only lose 13%, I would be in good investments versus a fixed annuity. Fixed annuity is like a high yield savings account rate. It's going to pay you 4 or 5%. If you make 12 or 14 on something in two years, you made your money back if that's all you make. And you ought to make more than that if you watch what you're doing and get some real help. So as a possibility anyway, depending on what the markets are doing. So yeah, I'm, I'm out of there. Wow, that infuriates me, John. That's.
Joe (Co-host or Guest)
Well, it's somebody else getting preyed on in their 60s. Right. We talked about earlier.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah.
Joe (Co-host or Guest)
Tell me this. So when she says 13%, is that of the growth since this thing was moved or is that over the like 13% of the entire portfolio?
Dave Ramsey
Entire portfolio.
Joe (Co-host or Guest)
Good gosh.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah. Yeah. Because they're going to get their blankety blank commission no matter what.
Joe (Co-host or Guest)
That's a crazy amount.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah, well, the insurance business is all front loaded. It's all. They all get their money on the front end of everything. And so these are frustrated life insurance agents is what they are. They're not real good. And so sometimes I see these things, okay, the whales jumping on the. Sure. Pacific life.
Joe (Co-host or Guest)
Yeah.
Dave Ramsey
And we'll help you. And you got people walking and they're holding hands in a rose garden and they're retiring and all this bull crap. It's, it's stupid butt life insurance stuff.
Joe (Co-host or Guest)
My daughter, you're not gonna believe me. My daughter, yesterday, her and I, I wouldn't watch one of, one of Bluey or whatever she wanted to watch. I wanted to watch football games. So she curled up on the couch next to me and they had, they had a commercial. And she said, what does that have to do with whatever it is they're selling? She's nine. And I was like, not a lot, Josephine. Not a lot.
Dave Ramsey
It's called branding. It's called branding. Yeah. Yeah. And so if the, if the name of the company you're getting ready to do your investment in air quotes with has insurance in the name, you're about to get screwed. That's a good way to remember it. Okay, done. So I mean, if you don't do, you don't get your muffler fixed at the transmission store, you don't do investments with insurance. Okay. It's that simple. We go, you know, we go to qualified people who have securities licenses, not insurance licenses to help you do real investing.
Joe (Co-host or Guest)
I just can't believe a penalty on anything would be 13% of the total of your portfolio.
Dave Ramsey
And how about this? 20 day or 26 days with a 20 day cutoff? No, ma', am, we can't do that now. What business does that?
Joe (Co-host or Guest)
Yes, someone who is Home Depot will.
Dave Ramsey
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The Ramsey Show Highlights | Ramsey Network
Date: December 20, 2025
Host: Dave Ramsey
Co-Host: Joe
Guest/Caller: Unnamed Client
This episode centers around a listener who fell victim to an annuity “scam” after rolling over a significant portion of her husband’s 401(k) into a fixed annuity. She seeks advice from Dave Ramsey after discovering substantial surrender charges and learning that the product was not what she intended to buy. The conversation explores annuities, financial product misrepresentation, surrender penalties, and navigates next steps for those who feel stuck in bad financial products.
Caller’s Situation:
Quote (Dave Ramsey, 01:01):
"This is the insurance agent that told you this, that sold you this crap?"
Dave strongly advises the caller to seek information from a reliable source rather than the agent who sold the annuity.
Suggests consulting a SmartVestor Pro for a second opinion and to explore leeway from the Texas Insurance Commissioner.
Quote (Dave Ramsey, 01:06):
"I want more information because I don't believe the person who sold me something that's bad to start with. That's not a good source of information."
Suggested Action (01:06–01:45):
Visit ramseysolutions.com, contact a SmartVestor Pro, check with the state insurance commissioner for possible remediation.
Caller asks: Should they stay in the annuity until the surrender charges drop or exit now?
Dave’s Advice: If forced, take the 13% "stupid tax" hit and move funds to a diversified portfolio of mutual funds. Market gains could potentially offset the loss much faster than being stuck in a poor product.
Quote (Dave Ramsey, 03:08):
"I would take 13% hit and move it because you may make 13% in Q1. One quarter of the stock market might be 13%... you'll make that back up in good investments rather than being stuck in this thing."
Emotional Factor (03:40):
"Every day you wake up and you see the company name, you're pissed again. I don't want to live like that."
Caller’s Backstory:
Quote (Dave Ramsey, 05:05):
"You did not place your money with an investment company. You placed your money with an insurance company... you were not planning on doing that."
Dave explains:
Fixed annuities offer yields similar to high-yield savings (4-5%), much lower than historical stock market returns.
Dave strongly prefers mutual funds for long-term investment.
Quote (Dave Ramsey, 05:14):
"Insurance agents are licensed only to sell insurance products, annuities or insurance products. They cannot sell mutual funds."
Joe and Dave discuss the outsized penalties (13%) and the problematic business models of insurance companies.
Quote (Joe, 06:25):
"That's a crazy amount."
Colorful metaphors about marketing and branding (06:50-07:19):
Dave’s Rule of Thumb (07:19):
"...if the name of the company you're getting ready to do your investment in air quotes with has insurance in the name, you're about to get screwed. That's a good way to remember it."
Advocates working with licensed securities professionals—not insurance agents—for truly investment-oriented needs.
On Advisor Credentials (07:19):
Dave: "We go to qualified people who have securities licenses, not insurance licenses to help you do real investing."
On High Surrender Penalties (07:57):
Joe: "I just can't believe a penalty on anything would be 13% of the total of your portfolio."
On Short Windows and Refunds (08:02):
Dave: "And how about this? 20 day or 26 days with a 20 day cutoff? No, ma'am, we can't do that now. What business does that?"
Throughout the episode, Dave combines empathy for the caller with characteristic bluntness toward predatory financial products and the practices of insurance agents. He peppers his explanations with memorable metaphors, relatable analogies, and humor to keep the conversation both informative and accessible.