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Episode: I Want to Borrow $100,000 From My Father-in-Law to Buy a Rental Property
Host: Ramsey Network (Featuring Dave Ramsey & Rachel Cruze)
Date: February 13, 2026

Overview

In this episode, Matthew calls in seeking advice on a complicated real estate deal: buying an eight-unit rental property using a mix of personal funds and a $100,000 loan from his father-in-law. Dave Ramsey and Rachel Cruze dissect the proposed arrangement, highlight major risks, and offer clear recommendations in line with Ramsey principles. The conversation exposes the potential pitfalls of borrowing from family, overleveraging, and jumping into complex investments too soon.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Matthew’s Proposal: The Rental Property Deal

• Structure of the Deal ([00:05] – [01:29]):
  • Property price: $900,000 (8 units, 3% owner-financed, 10-year balloon payment)
  • Down payment: $100,000 personal, $100,000 loan from father-in-law
  • Seller contributes $100,000 in “in kind” repairs/improvements over 10 years
  • Seller to mentor Matthew and wife for two years

2. Matthew's Financial Situation

• Primary Residence:
  • Owns a home, $190,000 remaining on mortgage ([01:32]–[01:44])
• Income:
  • Household income approx. $135,000/year with growth potential ([01:47]–[01:53])
• Savings/Investments:
  • $100,000 cash, $250,000 in market investments ([03:58]–[04:05])

3. Rachel and Dave’s Reaction: “85 Ways This Could Go Sideways”

• Initial Skepticism & Major Concerns ([02:32]–[02:54], [03:30]–[04:39]):
  • Consistent, strong aversion to borrowing from family
  • Complexity and risk in deal structure (balloon payment, owner-finance, repair credits)
  • Large leap from single-family to multi-unit investing
  • Risks of leveraging investments and borrowing for more investments
  • Rachel: “I just see 85 ways this could go sideways. So it's not worth it.” ([03:30])

4. Borrowing from Family: Broken Principles

• Core Ramsey Principles Violated ([04:58]–[05:24]):
  • “We never recommend you buy investment property until your primary home is paid off.”
  • “We never recommend you borrow to invest in a rental property, always recommend paying cash.”
  • “We always tell people, never borrow money from family.”
  • Dave: “There’s a lot of principles here that are being violated all for the sake of a quote unquote, good opportunity.” ([05:24])

5. Seller’s Motivation and Ethical Caution

• Rachel’s Candid Analysis ([05:34]–[06:32]):
  • Warns that seller identified Matthew as a novice investor for an off-market deal
  • Rachel: “I think she saw. Ding, ding, ding. Here's my ticket out. I gotta get out of this horrible situation I'm in because my husband's sick...” ([05:34])

6. The Dangers of Borrowing from Family

• Potential Family Fallout ([07:45]–[08:13]):
  • Dave: “I've rarely seen it where they go, yeah, borrowed money from dad. It worked out perfectly.”
  • Risks: repayment disputes, family friction, unexpected needs for cash

7. Ramsey’s Advice: Start Slow, Reduce Risk

• The Peaceful Approach ([06:38]–[09:37]):
  • Rachel shares her experience of starting small with investment properties: “Start small and then start to work your way up... That is a peaceful way to do this...” ([06:38])
  • Dave recommends paying off the primary mortgage before investing in rentals ([08:48]–[09:01])
  • Save and buy with cash to minimize risk

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Rachel Cruze (03:30):
  “Matthew, I just see 85 ways this could go sideways. So it's not worth it. It's not.”

• Dave Ramsey (05:24):
  “There's a lot of principles here that are being violated all for the sake of a quote unquote, good opportunity.”

• Rachel Cruze (05:34):
  “You thought you hit a great deal and you hit a horrible deal. Not good. Not good.”

• Dave Ramsey (07:45):
  “I've rarely seen it where they go, yeah, borrowed money from dad. It worked out perfectly. Paid him back and he was happy, I was happy. Usually it becomes, well, dad wants a piece of the pie now... And it just always ruins.”

Timestamps for Important Segments

• Matthew Introduces the Deal: [00:05]–[01:29]
• Financial Snapshot: [01:32]–[01:53]
• Initial Cautions from Rachel and Dave: [02:32]–[03:30]
• Principles & Core Ramsey Advice: [04:58]–[05:24]
• Seller’s Motivation Analyzed: [05:34]–[06:32]
• Risks of Family Loans: [07:45]–[08:13]
• Peaceful Path to Property Investing: [06:38]–[09:37]

Tone and Final Thought

Throughout the episode, Rachel and Dave maintain their characteristic direct yet empathetic tone. They applaud Matthew’s savings discipline but urge patience, risk avoidance, and adherence to time-tested principles. The consensus: say “no” to this complicated deal, pay off your house, grow your cash reserves, and only invest in real estate with cash, family harmony, and steady progression in mind.

Rachel Cruze (closing encouragement, [09:01]):
“You guys are amazing savers... You can do this slow walking it, but do it in the right order.”