C (2:18)

Okay.

A (2:19)

You have other family anywhere in the country?

B (2:23)

I'm sorry?

A (2:24)

Do you have other family anywhere in the country?

B (2:28)

I do. I mean, my ex husband is nearby and he's very, very helpful. But my question is, I have this $9,000 credit card debt, which, I mean, I pay faithfully, you know, is there any way. What kind of credit card, you know, relief is there?

A (2:54)

Because there's not any. You borrowed money on a credit card, and the only credit card relief there is is if you file bankruptcy, which you're certainly not going to do on $9,000. There's no magic pill that says you're disabled, so they forgive the credit card debt. That doesn't. There's no such thing.

C (3:13)

So I also don't think that that's the biggest.

A (3:17)

That's not your core issue. Your core issue is you're draining down the savings. What are you gonna do when the savings is gone?

B (3:23)

Yeah, I am. And that's. I'm trying to hang on to that.

C (3:27)

How much are you pulling off of it?

B (3:28)

I live as snugly as I can.

A (3:30)

Yeah, but that doesn't matter. You make $2,300 and your rent is $1,700. That those numbers don't last.

C (3:38)

How much are you pulling off that 80,000 every month, Sally?

A (3:44)

Sally, how much are you taking out of your savings every month, Sally?

B (3:49)

Well, a year I try to keep it like between four and six thousand dollars a year, but last year I had to have my transmission replaced and that was $8,000, you know, for that cheaper than buying another car.

A (4:10)

Okay, so here's what I want you to figure out. And this is not going to be easy, okay? But there's three or four levers to pull and everything I'm going to tell you is going to be hard, but they're not going to be as hard as the plan you're on. Because the plan you're on, you're going to run out of money and you're going to have a problem.

B (4:30)

That's my fear.

A (4:30)

Yeah, I know, I know. I'm not trying to scare you. I'm just saying the plan you're on sucks. We need a new. But the other plans aren't going to be without pain. Okay, so plan number part, there's three or four things and you do somewhat of all of them. Okay, I want you to come up with some kind of a self employed idea that you can do with the limitations that you have to create some income. That's thing number one. Just write that down. I don't care what it is and I don't. As long as it makes you smile and makes you $1,000 or more a month. Okay. The second thing is you've got to move. You cannot afford a $1,700 rent period. And we need to. The third thing is we're doing those two things. So we create a monthly budget that is sustainable, meaning it will last. Okay? And so if you had $3,500 coming in because you had a little bit of side income and if you had no payments and if you had a rent that was half of what you have now, you can do that without touching your savings. And that is sustainable. That will last. But the numbers you're giving me won't last. And you know that. That's why you called. And it's terrifying. And I'm sorry you're there, I'm sorry you're there, but if you don't act on it, it's going to get more terrifying. And so we've got to do those three things. We have to create a sustainable situation that the income minus the rent, minus living expenses doesn't need savings to be used. Then number two, we're going to do that by getting Affordable rent. And we're going to do that by getting. And it may mean moving to another area of the country. I don't know. But $850 rent is available out there in America somewhere. Okay. It might not be in Hartford. I don't know Hartford that well. It's an expensive little town. And Connecticut is a highly taxed state. So it's very possible. I don't know. But I want you to think in those terms. We have to get rent and income added to this equation. Better rent price, better income added to this equation, so we don't have to touch the savings. And then you're okay. You can be fine. Then you can write a check out of the $80,000 and pay off the stupid credit card and cut it up.

C (6:49)

That's right. That's right.

A (6:50)

And it goes away. That's number four, is when you've created a sustainable situation. But today I would tell you, just pay off the credit card. But if you stay in this situation with this income and this rent, you're still going to burn up your savings. The credit card is not your problem. Your problem is your income versus your life, the way your life is set up now.

C (7:10)

Yeah, that's right.

B (7:11)

Yeah.

C (7:12)

$1,000 change.

A (7:13)

I don't blame. We're scared with you. We want you to win. And what I'm telling you to do, to move to an 850, that's painful. What I'm telling you to do, to get a. To come up with some kind of side hustle where you babysit dogs or you do whatever you iron people's shirts or. I don't care what you do, whatever it is you're going to do for a thousand bucks a month. Okay. It doesn't take a lot. That's not a lot. But neither one of those things are easy. They're painful things that I'm asking you to do for you. But you know, you've got to. If you don't address this, it's going to unravel on you.

C (7:47)

Absolutely. Yeah. That money's going to run out. Yeah. This is going to be a major move out of the comfort zone. Major.

A (7:55)

And, you know, I think the other thing is I sense that you don't have a large, strong community group, friends. And so I want you to search out a good local church there in Hartford, and I want you to sit in the pastor's office and introduce yourself to them and tell them your story and ask them to help you plug in with some of the other ladies there in the church. Not so they give you money, but so you get some people that hear your story and that you are seen and you feel good and you feel whole connection. Connectivity to community. Especially when you're battling something that's having to do things that are uncomfortable is necessary. Well.

C (8:40)

And there's opportunity there. The more people you're around, people get to talking and somebody says this and it sparks an idea and you go, oh, I could go do that. Right. Like all of my major.

A (8:50)

Come over at our house and live in our guest house and babysit our dogs.

C (8:54)

Yeah.

A (8:54)

And you do that for 600 bucks. But we didn't introduce ourselves. Trying to get something from just happen. But those things happen when you're in community.

C (9:02)

Yeah.

A (9:02)

And people know your need and they know you and they know you're. You're trustworthy.

C (9:07)

Yeah. Your transmission goes out. Oh, I know a guy who can fix that. Or you know, my uncle.

A (9:11)

Instead of 8,000, it's 4,000.

C (9:13)

That's right.

B (9:13)

That's right.

A (9:14)

Yeah. Yeah. So I want you. That's number four. I want you to search out a good local church and sit down, have a meeting with the pastor. Again, not to ask for things except to connect me into community. I need more friends. I need more connection. And connection is valuable. Create your free every dollar budget today. The simplest way to budget for your life.