Financial Advisor/Jade (2:28)

So half of your, Your mortgage is 50% of the problem is 50% of your take home pay? Is that what you're saying?

Caller/Single Father (2:34)

Yeah. Yeah.

Financial Advisor/Jade (2:35)

Okay.

Caller/Single Father (2:35)

Yes.

Financial Advisor/Jade (2:36)

So you guys.

Financial Advisor/Coach (2:37)

Yeah. Your house is not a blessing, brother. You got to change your mindset on. It's not. It's killing you.

Financial Advisor/Jade (2:41)

The mortgage is a bigger problem than the credit card debt. Almost.

Financial Advisor/Coach (2:45)

It's killing you. Hate to tell you that. We're telling you we love you, dude.

Caller/Single Father (2:49)

There's a little, there's a little Twist.

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Caller/Single Father (3:20)

There's a little twist. The mortgage normally won't be that high coming in March. When I went through the crisis, I couldn't pay my property taxes and I couldn't pay my. I couldn't pay my property taxes.

Financial Advisor/Jade (3:32)

So you're doubling up right now, Is that what's happening?

Caller/Single Father (3:35)

Yeah. My mortgage company basically did an escrow and to pay for the back taxes, my mortgage went up. But it's going to come down about fifteen hundred dollars.

Caller/Single Father (3:48)

In March. So I'll have a little breathing. I'll have, you know, fifteen hundred dollars of breathing space.

Financial Advisor/Jade (3:55)

Okay.

Caller/Single Father (3:55)

Which could have been in some of those credit cards, but you know, not as much as I need because some of the interest is obviously going to gobble.

Financial Advisor/Coach (4:04)

Here's the thing, here's what you're gonna have to do. You're gonna have to either, and this is me just being a direct. Cause I care about you, okay? Either.

Caller/Single Father (4:12)

Okay.

Financial Advisor/Coach (4:13)

Man, you are a smart guy. You make a good salary and your, your heart is bigger than the moon, dude. You're an amazing guy and you're gonna have to figure this out. Or if you, if you get with this crazy crew over here in Nashville, Tennessee, and we've got millions of people who've gone through this and it's worked, you're gonna have to say I'm gonna surrender all of the old ideas I had about things like a good mortgage rate is always a blessing or the interest rate here and that. But we have a process and I promise you it will work if you'll follow it. But you got to go all in. Okay?

Financial Advisor/Coach (4:49)

And no other, no other little influence can get away with what we say, which is it works 100% of the time if you'll run the plan. Okay. Jade's going to walk you through it, but you just got to be all in.

Financial Advisor/Jade (5:00)

How old's your kid?

Caller/Single Father (5:01)

I.

Caller/Single Father (5:04)

By the way, I have two things that were offered to me which is the Purpose of my call. So I just want to make sure we get to those. But my child is five years old.

Financial Advisor/Jade (5:12)

Five. Okay, good to know. Okay. So I was just trying to attack the first question that you had, which was. Seemed. Seemed like the credit card debt was an issue. I wanted to know what your time was like and what your ability is to earn more money. Knowing the age of your kid helps with that. You know, if you have a toddler at home, it's a lot different than if you have a 14 year old at home. But get to your. What were the other two parts of your question that you had?

Caller/Single Father (5:38)

Well, the reason for my call is because I got two offers to deal with this and not knowing what you've said previously on this top. Because I'm really tempted to go with either of these two because I don't have any more income because I'm spending as a single dad every minute of my life with my baby. I mean, she's the world and I'm all alone.

Financial Advisor/Jade (6:02)

Get into your question because we don't want to hit the clock on you're my two questions.

Caller/Single Father (6:05)

Got it. Okay. One agency hit me up and said, look, we will help you. We will negotiate all.

Financial Advisor/Coach (6:13)

No, no, no, no, no, no, no. Don't do that. Don't. Just total scam. Total scam. Promise.

Caller/Single Father (6:18)

It's not that concerned consolidation, but they said they would, you know, if I go, you know, don't pay them for 60 days. No, no.

Financial Advisor/Jade (6:26)

Because all that's going to do. Here. Ask yourself two questions. If you don't pay them, what's going to happen? Your credit's going to be destroyed. And during that time, all they're doing is setting you up for negotiations. If you really wanted to go that route, couldn't you do that yourself? If you wanted to say, you know what, I'm just not going to pay them, I'm going to default everything and then I'm going to settle everything. Couldn't you do that yourself if you wanted to? Yeah, sure. You don't need anybody to do that for you.

Caller/Single Father (6:51)

Okay. Okay, good.

Financial Advisor/Coach (6:52)

But don't do that.

Financial Advisor/Jade (6:54)

You don't need to do that. You don't have to do that. I was trying to set you up for a world where you can say, okay, right now I'm making minimums. There's not much breathing room. What can I do to get more money in the door? And that would be my biggest question is what can I do to get more money in the door? You're right. And it's going to be very tight for you until March or April. And there's part of you that if you want to, you know, take that horse to the Old Town Road, that's fine. Because once you do, you're going to be well within, not well within, but you're going to be way closer to being able to keep this house about 600 bucks off. I don't think I'm going to make you sell the house over that just yet. But in the meantime, you've got to be doing everything under the sun to get money. We can't just do nothing for the next four months. You've really got to make sure that you are exhausting every single effort to get more money in. And what I would do if I were in your shoes is I'd say, okay, what do I need? What. What would make me feel like I'm making a dent in this? Is it $2,000 a month to put at the smallest credit card? Is it at fifteen hundred dollars a month? And I would work backwards from there. Can you take your kid with you to do some doordash and to do some Uber eats? I think you can. I've seen it. And to to do some grocery runs for folks. That's what you've got to do because that's the only way you're paying this off. And I can tell you right now, there's not going to be anything comfortable about it. There's not going to be anything easy about it. There's not going to be anything about this that makes you look forward to it, except knowing that at one point you're finally going to pay it off and it's going to be behind you for good. That's it.

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