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Caller
So I'm 21, and I got two kids, and I made some financial mistakes around the age of 18, and I'm $70,000 in debt now. And here recently, I got into a settlement, and I'm going to be getting around $250,000. And I'm wanting to play the waiting game. I don't want to pay it off. I just want to let it fall off on its own, and I want the best advice.
Dave Ramsey
Fall off? Fall off of what?
Caller
Fall off of my report, the statute of limitations.
Dave Ramsey
No, honey, you owe money.
Caller
I know, but.
Dave Ramsey
So how did you get $250,000? Well, what happened?
Caller
So a kid's mom bought him a 3D printed firearm, or I mean, a 3D printer, and he 3D printed a firearm with it, and he accidentally shot me. And I'm. Now, I went after her homeowners insurance policy, and that's what I got out of it.
Dave Ramsey
That's the wildest thing I've ever heard. You got shot by a 3D printed firearm?
Caller
Yes. So the handle, the lower handle, the magazine, and then the slide part is all 3D printed. The only things metal would be the barrel, the trigger mechanism, and the bullets.
Dave Ramsey
How old was this kid? I'm just curious. This is fascinating.
Caller
14.
Dave Ramsey
And he knows how to build a firearm from scratch?
Caller
Yeah.
Dave Ramsey
Well, there's YouTube, I guess. Yeah. Wow.
John
Wild world we live in.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah. That's nuts. Okay, so her. They pay off 250 grand. You owe 70,000. On what?
Caller
The Dodge Hellcat. I'll just. I put it. Put it to you there. I went and got it brand new.
Dave Ramsey
Where is it?
Caller
I got approved. It's gone.
Dave Ramsey
Where'd it go?
Caller
The only reason they did it got sold. Okay.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah, yeah. Replay.
Caller
I couldn't tell you. I have no idea. Like I said, I made some.
Dave Ramsey
You weren't that drunk. Where'd the car go?
John
How much money do you have to make where budgeting is just optional if you chose C. Watch this.
Caller
She makes about 170. I make about 115.
John
Hold on. Did you go back after you paid off everything? Borrow some more money?
Caller
Oh, yeah.
John
Oh, no car.
Caller
We like to go here and there, and we get to Mercedes and.
John
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Dave Ramsey
Where'd the car go?
Caller
It got sold.
Dave Ramsey
And who sold it? You had to sell It. You owned it?
Caller
Yes.
Dave Ramsey
Okay, so you sold it? It didn't get sold. I sold it. Okay. When you sold it, you didn't pay it off?
Caller
No.
Dave Ramsey
How did you sell a car and give title without paying it off?
Caller
No title. That's a lot of the deals nowadays. People like cars that way. What had happened was the fuel pump had went out and it was going to cost around 1500 dollars for just the part alone. And, you know, as I mentioned, being
Dave Ramsey
18 these days I'm kind of up on. And I never heard anybody buying a dadgum car without a title. How'd you get tags?
Caller
They. It came with it. They didn't buy it for, I guess you would say, leisurely driving, if that makes sense.
John
Are they too fast, too furious?
Caller
Yeah.
Dave Ramsey
Drug dealer doing runs. And so they didn't. So it's still titled to you?
Caller
No, I would say morally track. Track stuff. Because a lot of the tracks, they don't require cars to have titles or VINs or anything like that.
Dave Ramsey
All right, so you owe $70,000 on a car that you didn't pay off when you sold it.
Caller
Correct.
Dave Ramsey
Now all of it is that.
Caller
Yes, that's it.
Dave Ramsey
Okay, well, when you get your 250, you write a check and you pay the people that you owe because you screwed them.
Caller
Correct.
Dave Ramsey
Okay, good. Now we have. Now we have 180.
Caller
Now my question would be, though, could I come at them with say, 50 full check?
Dave Ramsey
Come at them with anything? I don't know.
John
I want you to be a person of integrity here, brother. Like you walked into a place Even though you're 18, and you said, hey, I'll give you this amount of money if you give me that car right now. And they said, deal. And they made a bad deal. And you were 18, didn't know what you're doing, but you shook hands and signed a piece of paper, brother.
Caller
Correct.
John
And just because a 14 year old printed a gun and shot you with it like that, and you have this windfall of cash, all of a sudden, thank God you weren't permanently injured.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah. So, man, do what's right. What do you make a year?
Caller
Right now I'm making close to 70 of where I'm located.
Dave Ramsey
Good. Good for you. Okay. All right. So you call them up and say, I need to settle this debt. What will you accept? And see what they say. And whatever they tell you, write them a check for that. Okay. Maybe they'll take 50. They might.
Caller
Okay.
Dave Ramsey
And here, one of the things that we find as we've studied wealthy people is not like I was told when I was growing up, not by my parents, but by people in my neighborhood. They all said wealthy people are crooks. Okay? And all the data that we have today tells us it's quite the opposite. And so if you want to become a wealthy person, that changes your family tree, that your children have a different life than you had and then your dad had. And then his dad had. And you change everything. You have to become a person of extreme integrity. Quit doing crap under the table cars with no titles and quit looking for a shortcut on everything. Just do the right thing, show up for work, work your butt off while you're at work and people will notice because that alone is unusual. And just become a man of extreme integrity. And that would be my prescription for you. If you want to call them and say, all right, guys, I owe you this. I did this deal when I was 18. I, I know you probably got 70 or 100 or whatever on it. What will you take? I'll write you a check today if you'll make me a deal. And you, you know, and then just, they're probably, they might say 50, 50 would actually be a good deal for them. And then the next time you get ready to buy a car, be a grown up, write a check for the car, Buy a, buy a father of two car, which a hellcat would not be on the list. Okay. And you know, and pay cash for it and get a title and go get tags on it and be like a functioning part of society. And then that leads you towards being able to grow and to function and to win.
John
Dave and I started working here, right? All of this was new to me and I kept going to these meetings about the Deloney brand. And I remember after the third or fourth meeting, I kind of threw a little fit and I was like, guys, I don't want a brand. I don't like that idea. I don't like that word. I don't want that. And Tim Newton, who does all of that here, globally, here at Ramsey, is one of the most amazing minds I've ever been around. He said, john, all a brand is, is who you are when you're not in the room. What do people think about you? How do they feel about you? What do they know about you when you're not in the room? And that changed, change me. And I want Andrew when he's not in the room there in Louisville, Kentucky. I want everyone to know, oh, that guy's a man of integrity.
Dave Ramsey
He's a stand up dude, that guy.
John
We can count on that guy. That guy's great dad. He's a great dad.
Dave Ramsey
He's always going to great husband. Yes, he's a wonderful neighbor. Yes, he serves.
John
They just that's who that you are when you're not in the room because of how present and generous you are when you are in the room. Be that guy.
Dave Ramsey
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Episode Title: "That's The Wildest Thing I've Ever Heard"
Date: April 6, 2026
Hosts: Dave Ramsey & Dr. John Delony
Caller: Unnamed, 21 years old
This episode centers on a young caller facing significant financial and personal challenges, including $70,000 of debt, a past financial windfall from a highly unusual legal settlement, and the temptation to avoid repayment. Dave Ramsey and Dr. John Delony offer practical, no-nonsense advice emphasizing integrity, responsibility, and the long-term benefits of honest financial management. The episode delivers heartfelt commentary on character as well as the practicalities of debt repayment, flavored with vivid, memorable anecdotes.
Background: The caller, 21, is carrying $70,000 in debt after making financial mistakes at 18. He is now due to receive a $250,000 settlement after being accidentally shot by a 3D-printed firearm.
Windfall Temptation: The caller expresses reluctance to use his windfall to pay off his debt, hoping it will "fall off" his credit report through the statute of limitations.
Dave Ramsey [00:42]: "No, honey, you owe money."
Settlement Explained: The bizarre circumstances surrounding the settlement (the shooting with a 3D-printed gun) catch the hosts’ attention and set a dramatic, candid tone.
Dave Ramsey [01:14]: "That's the wildest thing I've ever heard. You got shot by a 3D printed firearm?"
Vehicle Debt: Most of the debt stems from purchasing a new Dodge Hellcat at 18, which he later sold under unconventional circumstances—without paying off the loan or transferring the title properly.
Confusion Over Car Sale: Dave and John press the caller for details, uncovering rushed, questionable decisions and vaguely legal resale methods. The car was sold unofficially for track use, evading typical title and registration procedures.
Dave Ramsey [03:13]: "How did you sell a car and give title without paying it off?"
Caller [03:17]: "No title. That's a lot of the deals nowadays. People like cars that way..."
John [03:53]: "Are they too fast, too furious?"
Ownership and Integrity: The hosts stress the importance of owning up to mistakes, paying what’s owed, and moving forward honestly—no shortcuts.
John [04:39]: "I want you to be a person of integrity here, brother... you walked into a place... and you said, hey, I'll give you this amount of money if you give me that car right now. And they said, deal. And they made a bad deal. And you were 18, didn't know what you're doing, but you shook hands and signed a piece of paper, brother."
Negotiation Option: While encouraging immediate payment, Dave offers a practical tip: approach the lender to possibly negotiate the payoff.
Dave Ramsey [05:15]: "So you call them up and say, I need to settle this debt. What will you accept? And see what they say. And whatever they tell you, write them a check for that. Okay? Maybe they'll take 50. They might."
Wealth & Integrity Connection: Dave dispels the myth that wealth is built through crooked means, emphasizing data shows it's earned through upright behavior.
Dave Ramsey [05:38]: "If you want to become a wealthy person, that changes your family tree... you have to become a person of extreme integrity... quit looking for a shortcut on everything. Just do the right thing, show up for work, work your butt off while you’re at work…"
Practical Advice for the Future:
Personal Brand: Dr. John Delony shares a story about learning the real meaning of "brand"—it's about what people think of you when you're not around. The goal: be someone known for integrity and dependability.
John [07:31]: "All a brand is, is who you are when you’re not in the room. What do people think about you...when you're not in the room?"
Dave Ramsey [08:18]: "We can count on that guy. That guy's a great dad."
On 3D-Printed Firearms:
Dave Ramsey [01:14]: "That's the wildest thing I've ever heard. You got shot by a 3D printed firearm?"
On Financial Integrity:
John [04:39]: "I want you to be a person of integrity here, brother..."
On Wealth Myths:
Dave Ramsey [05:38]: "All the data that we have today tells us [the wealthy are crooks] is quite the opposite."
On Brand and Character:
John [07:31]: "All a brand is, is who you are when you’re not in the room."
Practical Encouragement:
Dave Ramsey [08:34]: "Create your free every dollar budget today..."
The hosts drive home the necessity of integrity—not just in finances, but in life. They stress that short-term windfalls cannot replace a reputation built on honesty, and urge the caller (and listeners) to seek long-term growth by doing what's right, making responsible choices, and living as someone people can trust.