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Dave Ramsey
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Hillary
The process of trying to pay off student loans, and between, like, my federal loans, there's about like, there was 21 to start with.
Dave Ramsey
How much?
Hillary
But now there's 18.
Dave Ramsey
There are 21 loans? Yeah, 21 loans. How much do you owe, Hillary?
Hillary
326,000.
Dave Ramsey
Say that again.
Hillary
320.
Dave Ramsey
326,000. So are you a doctor or a lawyer?
Hillary
I'm a pharmacist.
Dave Ramsey
A pharmacist?
Hillary
Yeah.
Dave Ramsey
Wow. So you're making 120?
Hillary
I make about 150.
Dave Ramsey
Good. Okay. Are you single?
Hillary
I am. I'm a single mom of two. Yeah.
Dave Ramsey
How old are you?
Hillary
I'm 31.
Dave Ramsey
Are you married? No. You said you're a single mom. You're not married. You told me that. Okay. All right. Wow.
Financial Advisor
So has the balance grown because of interest? What's. What's going on here? You've just been making minimum payments.
Hillary
So I graduated in 2020, and I paid off through that. I had like two separate loans. So I had paid off all my previous private loans, which was 70,000, and then I have my federal ones, which have been on forbearance and are still in the middle of forbearance. But I've been paying on them. Well, I've been paying on them since, like, the other one got paid off. But now the interest and I tried to pay off as much as I could before the interest started, but now the interest is starting and I can't seem to figure paying off.
Dave Ramsey
Okay, so let's pretend that you lived on 100,000 and you put 50,000 towards this. You've not been doing anywhere near that.
Hillary
What, this past year I put like, this past year I was trying to put towards my retirement and like, plan for my retirement because I don't want to.
Financial Advisor
Like, that's a competing goal. You either want to get, get out of debt or invest. It's. You can't do both at once and make progress.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah. So if you stop retirement and you stop everything and you live on beans and rice and you attack these student loans like your life depended on it, could you put 100 towards them?
Hillary
Probably not. 100 with like, my kids are 7 and 3, so I have daycare, but once, like, they're no longer in like full time daycare. My littlest isn't in full time daycare than I can. But, like, I could definitely put like at least the 23,000 plus other amount that I've been. So I could probably put around 40 to maybe 50,000.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah, I want you to. Okay, let's go. Let's get it to 75, which is a four year plan.
Hillary
So within that, though, I was trying to pay off. Like I mentioned, they're separated between 21 different loans.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah. You list them smallest to largest. List them smallest to largest. Pay minimum payments on everything but the little one. But I want you putting 75,000 doll a year towards debt. And if you're putting 75,000 towards debt, nothing towards retirement. You're broke. You have got to do something different. You've got to attack these student loans and get rid of them. They're not a pet and they're an ugly zoo animal. Yeah, you got. I mean, you got completely screwed on your education. You paid like five times more than you should have to become a pharmacist.
Hillary
Mm.
Dave Ramsey
You know that, right?
Hillary
Yeah, I'm not sure. I'm not sure why I ended up being so much. But yes, I know.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah, I'm not sure either because it shouldn't have been anywhere near, you know, four hundred and something thousand dollars to become a freaking pharmacist. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. All right, now, anyway, we're where we are. If you do 75 times 4, that's 300. Four years.
Financial Advisor
So eventually the goal here is to make more payments than the interest is accruing, so the balance goes down. That's the goal. And right now, you haven't been putting enough toward it in order to make that happen. So we're telling you, pause investing. Pause everything. Throw all of your energy towards that smallest debt so that you can begin to make traction.
Dave Ramsey
$75,000 a year, $6,000 a month, plus 6,500amonth. Okay. And that. That. Just lay out your budget. Do that. Hold on. We'll get you signed up on every dollar and it'll help you walk through this. But you're gonna have to tighten the screws down and knock it out. Otherwise this is gonna just keep staying a death cycle on you. Why refi refinances defaulted private student loans for struggling borrowers? Learn more@yrefy.com Ramsey. Why refi refinances defaulted private student loans for struggling borrowers? Learn more@yrefy.com Ramsey.
Title: "You Got Completely Screwed On Your Education"
Podcast: The Ramsey Show Highlights
Date: December 24, 2025
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This episode features Dave Ramsey and a financial advisor coaching Hillary, a single mom and pharmacist, who is struggling under the overwhelming burden of $326,000 in student loan debt. The conversation dives into the realities of extensive student loans, the pitfalls of trying to balance retirement investing with debt repayment, and offers a tough-love, actionable plan to attack the debt head-on. The episode’s tone is direct, urgent, and compassionate, aiming to empower listeners facing similar financial stress.
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Competing Priorities:
Stop Investing. Attack Debt Aggressively:
Target Repayment: $75,000 Per Year
List Loans Smallest to Largest:
Making More Than Accruing Interest:
The episode delivers a jarring but practical wake-up call for listeners overwhelmed by student debt, especially those with professional degrees. Dave Ramsey and the team lay out a clear—but intense—path: halt investments, live lean, and attack the loans head-on using the debt snowball method. Hillary’s story stands as both a cautionary tale and inspiration to take radical action, while Dave’s unvarnished approach reminds listeners: you can dig out, but only if you go all-in.