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Normal is broke and common sense is weird. So we are here to help you transform your life. From the Ramsey Network and the Fairwinds Credit Union studio, this is the Ramsey Show. I'm George Camel joined by Jade Warshaw and we are fired up to take your calls about life and money. The number to call is Triple 8-825-5225. I can see we have one or two phone lines open right now. So if you're that person who's going, why should I call? I'm never going to get through. You might win the Ramsey show lottery today and make it through. If you're kind to our phone screener, Christian, 888-255-225 is the number to call. Susan is in San Francisco kicking us off. What's going on, Susan?
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Hello. Thank you for taking my call.
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Sure.
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I'm calling up regarding my father in law. My father in law lost his retirement money due to bad investments and a divorce. Now he's barely scraping by with Social Security. My husband comes from a family of three other s. My father in law has told us that he's in or. My husband and I told. He told us, my husband and I, that he's in $33,000 in debt from credit cards and is barely scraping by between the credit card debt, food, living expenses, et cetera. He has about $100 left over a month. He has started asking us to buy him things after a knee surgery he had. We bought him a recliner. Also redid his shower to help him get in and out easier.
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That's great.
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And then he asked us for $1,000 more to help with some other expenses. Now he's asking us to buy him hearing aids. My husband and I hasn't talked to any of the other siblings to help with their dad. He doesn't think they can afford it. When do we stop?
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Wow.
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How old is the father in law?
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84.
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Okay. Okay. Gosh, I'm so sorry that that took place. And it sounds like he just didn't have the financial literacy to invest correctly. And then it sounds like the divorce was kind of a double whammy there.
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Did he get divorced very late in life?
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Well, he's divorced Twice. So this one? Yeah. He was a second marriage, was he?
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What I want to know first before I talk about him, I want to know about you guys. What's your financial situation?
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We're doing well. We do have two children that are still in school. So we are paying for them to finish school. They'll be here done in about a year or so. College, College. So financially wise, I mean, we're doing good in the way of.
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There's no debt. You guys have plenty of retirement. I should be clear by that question. Any debt?
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No.
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We pay off our credit cards every month. We're doing well with retirement. We're putting away with money with that. I mean, we are, I mean, to pay stuff for him. I mean. Yes. I mean we have to tighten the budget a little bit to pay whatever the father in law needs. So that does put like some kind of strain on us just because we aren't able to do the things that we would like to do.
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Right. Because this is costing you. This has cost you a lot so far. And I mean hearing aids are not cheap. I mean we're talking a couple of thousand dollars. I. How much?
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Well, he's anywhere between you can get them from fifteen hundred dollars to five thousand.
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Right, Right.
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What does your husband think about all this? Does he want to continue helping dad financially? Does he want to put a stop to it, a limit to it?
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Well, he's now, you know, after. This is like the fourth time he's asked us for things. He's like, okay, when is this gonna end? Like, what is next? Like if the car breaks down?
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Well, the truth is it won't end until you end it.
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Yeah.
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Because, you know, life keeps lifing and things keep popping up. So. I agree with George. It's not gonna end.
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I mean, I don't, I don't know what his health is like at this point. Is he able to take care of himself? Does he live alone?
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Yeah, he lives alone. He's able to take care of himself. He lives in a small apartment. It's so, you know, I mean that health wise, he's, he's okay.
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So there's two, there's two realities here. And I don't think I need to say this to you. I think you've thought of this. But it's worth saying out loud for the call. We're very, around here, we're very much self starters. Autonomy is good, be in charge of your own life, that sort of thing. And so for that reason, I don't think that you have a moral obligation to take care of this person. So hear me say that. However, the two things that you're holding in your hand are, I have my life going over here. I have money that I want to spend on my life and my family, what have you. And then you have this guy over here who the truth is, he's not going to work. He's 84 years old. He's not going to bring in any income. And so what you're balancing is his quality of life and how that is affecting your quality of life. And this is not a, a selfish statement, but it is kind of like a, a mental calor tax statement, which is, is it going to drain you more to know he's over here? He needs hearing aids, he doesn't have them, his car is broke down, he's having trouble eating, like those sorts of things. Are those going to bother you to the extent to where you go, you know what, maybe it's just worth it for me to help out. Maybe that actually does improve my quality of life. And I'm not over here worried about it all the time. There is something to be said for that. And I think that you've probably weighed that out mentally. And I think only, you know, is this something that really is a need or is this something that there are measures that he can take to lower his lifestyle? Can he sell his home and downgrade to an apartment? Are there things that he can do to kind of fund this out for another 10 years if he's healthy? So does, I mean, does he live in a house? Is there things that you can sell off that can kind of stave this off from you guys fitting the bill?
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Not really, no. Because when he did lose his house through the divorce and they had to sell it, they were already deep in debt at that time. So he didn't make any money from selling the house. So he basically has, you know, he lives, like I said, in a small apartment and stuff.
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What's his rent?
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What's interesting too, I'm not exactly sure what it is, to tell you the truth.
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I don't know if you're going to give him any. A single dollar more. You're going to be very involved with his finances and understand exactly how much is coming in and how much is going out, because that controls how much you're going to end up having to give every month. And it gives you a very clear picture about the future of this. Is he even making the minimum credit card payment? Is it in collections and they're coming after him? You guys need to get clear on that as you step further into his financial life. And I would have your husband talk to the siblings. Right now, we're assuming that nobody can chip in and nobody wants to help. I would have a come to Jesus meeting with them going, hey, listen, here's what's going on with dad not doing well financially. Are you guys willing and able to chip in a certain amount per month, put a limit on it, even a time limit and a number limit so that they know this is not an eternal funding of dad's life.
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Right.
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Because he could live another 15 years.
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Right, right, right, right.
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And if he, if he has no assets, truly, I wouldn't even worry too much about this credit card debt. If they sue him, there's nothing they can take.
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It's unsecured and it's not going to
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pass to you guys. So that would not be something I would jump in and say, well, we got to pay off the credit card debt. No, you know, you can keep paying minimums if you want to, but.
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And if, if he, they do come after him, if he does miss a payment, I would be contacting Guardian Litigation. They're a nationwide law firm that can help with this debt settlement collection issues. They'll assign him an attorney to help with all of this. You can reach out to them@guardianlit.com Ramsey but right now it's. We need a game plan with some timelines. We need limits to all of this. Otherwise it will never end. It is bank of Susan forever. And he's going to come for a thousand, then two thousand, then five thousand. And you guys need for your own marriage, insanity. This needs to stop or it needs limits.
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Foreign.
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Up next.
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What's going on, Ray?
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Hey, guys, thanks for taking my call.
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Sure. How can Jade and I help?
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Well, first I'd like to share a brief cautionary tale with other Ramsey listeners and then I'll get into my specific housing circumstance that hopefully you guys can make some advice on. So last year I purchased my first home with my fiance and which goes directly against Ramsey advice. And sure enough, the thing happened. Not four months into that home, we ended up separating.
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Oh, no.
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Yeah. So that, you know, was very stressful emotionally on top of the financial aspect of that. So I was forced to sell a home that I can no longer afford it. It made sense with two incomes, but just couldn't swing it with one. So this is a classic kind of circumstance that you all would warn against.
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How did that work? Was both your names on the mortgage and the deed?
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Just me. It was just me. So we, we had split the down payment, which is a very modern thing to do. And so I had to sell the home and I, I didn't quite get back the down payment, but I was fortunate enough to be able to make sale without realtors just to a neigh. So didn't have to pay commissions, so got out of the home relatively clean. But that brings me to now. I moved into a one bedroom apartment to try to get my feet back under me and keep chugging along with life, even though it was very difficult. And not a month and a half after signing that lease, I was laid off from my job. Oh boy. So kind of just a combination of things. So now I'm looking at really potentially moving back with my parents at 32, which is incredibly humbling. I guess my question is in terms of the lease, you know, what are, what really are my options? I asked the rental, the property management company about a potential buyout and that would ultimately amount to roughly $16,000 for only three months of occupancy and they're
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not willing to work with you at all on a, a smaller early termination fee or could you find a replacement tenant to take over?
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Right. So I explored those options. I requested the early termination fee, which they wanted to be $7,000. So that would be in addition to the rent that I've paid and then of course the fees that are non refundable, etc.
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So you can't, you can't go back and get the rent that you've paid. But just if you were to early terminate today and be, how quickly could you move out and what would you still be on the hook for?
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I can move, I can be out of there, I mean, in two days, really.
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And so they prorate my research or they make you pay the whole month?
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They would make you pay the whole month. Well, I need to give them 30. Excuse me, I need to give them 30 days notice. Specifically, I could be out of the apartment, you know, this week. I had offered, you know, a few thousand dollars to cover their estimated damages, which is typical for early termination fees. Right. A couple months rent for them to remarket and rent the unit. But they were very firm on the $7,000 on top of all, like I said, the other rent and whatnot. So I'm, what I'm worried about is not being able to pay that and then being sent to collections and then that impacting my ability to rent for years to come.
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Yeah, so what are, Was there a severance with the layoff?
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No, it was unexpected and without notice, so no severance.
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Okay. And what are your job prospects now? What were you doing and how long do you think it'll take for you to get back into a similar role?
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So I was a designer, an architect in training, so to speak. Things are slowing down in the industry, especially where I'm living currently, which is why I'm kind of trying to regroup, like I said, for just a short period back at my parents to really explore what the next move would be.
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How much money do you have for your name?
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So I, that's another thing I wanted to talk to you guys about and get some perspective on because typically the show has some pretty dramatic scenarios and maybe which makes me feel a little better about myself, but maybe doesn't give me a lot of perspectives in terms of how, you know, well, I'm doing. So I have $20,000 in Roth IRA, $20,000 roughly in a 401k, 10,000 in another brokerage account, and then about 8 grand in kind of a typical Checking, savings.
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Okay, great. So you do have some money. So if they were to offer a settlement for an early termination, you could cover it through the brokerage account and. Or you're checking your savings.
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True. Yeah.
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What would stop, what's stopping you from what caused you to look at this and go, I don't have the money to do this, I need to call the show? Why, why do you have pause on spending your money to get out of this lease?
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Frankly, I just, I wanted to know if there were other options in terms of just my. Where I stand legally, if I had any grounds for debate or negotiation with them. Really just felt like an exorbitant amount of money.
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Yeah, well, I mean, there's, there's certain laws in your state and I don't know what those are. I would be. If you want to contact an attorney, that would be the place to get legal help. We are no experts in that field, but what I would do is push on the negotiation front because if this is it a large, kind of complex corp owned by a corporation?
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Yeah, it's a larger management company. Okay.
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The other thing I would do, just as a resourceful guy, is I would take my lease agreement and upload it to AI and really understand it better than they do. Because that's what you signed. That's the contract they're gonna hold you to. I don't think they're gonna rip it up and go, well, we'll just work with you outside of that. Because again, this is a big corporation.
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They want their money.
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They're just all doing their jobs and they want their money. And so I would just be pushing on that, figure out exactly what's in that lease agreement and contract to figure out what my options are. I don't believe Ohio has any job loss, financial hardship ex. Unless the lease itself has a provision for that. So that's again, some of the homework I would be doing. You can contact an attorney, but I think worst case, what is your rent right now? What is it costing to stay there?
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The rent is sixteen hundred dollars a month, roughly.
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Okay. And what are your other expenses? Like, what does it take to run your life for a month if you went bare bones?
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You know, I'm a pretty efficient guy. Bare bones would be probably another grand. On top of that, I would say for gas, food, et cetera, because you're
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still a capable man, you can go do seven side hustles and still cover that month without dipping into the brokerage or savings. So I would try that, I would try desperately to find an actual career job again. In the meantime, doing all these side hustles and floating your checking and savings until you can negotiate with your landlord to maybe negotiate the 7k down if you found a replacement tenant. So they might be willing to work with you there. Said, if I find a replacement tenant, will you bring it down to one month's rent as penalty and keep the deposit? Whatever.
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Right.
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And I think if you're the squeaky wheel and you do the hard work for them of finding a tenant, they might be willing to work with you. Yeah, but it's not a. I don't, I would not just go pay 16 grand today to get out of this.
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Yeah, I just want to check on though your efficiencies because I want to make sure you're covering your insurances and stuff. Do you have insurance? Do you have medical and everything like that.
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So. Lost that with the job.
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Yeah, that's, that's what I'm concerned about is I don't want one accident riding around here. So I need, I would want you to pick up something for the interim
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and that should be able to get cobra. Even though it's expensive.
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Exactly.
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In the interim.
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So that's on my list too because I mean, every time you go out in the street, there's an opportunity for you to be in a worse off position than you are now. So let's make sure all of our bases are covered. And if you look up and you go datgum it, you know, know, with, with rent, with my eating and gas and Cobra and all that, I, I, I can't float this. Then that's an excuse to. Okay, we might have to dip into the checking just to get out of this. But please, please, please don't sacrifice lack of health insurance. We've seen that happen. And that's where a lot of bankruptcy cases are born.
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Wow, this is amazing to get to talk to y'. All.
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B
We're amazed to get to talk to Matthew. We're so excited to help.
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Yes, sir. Yeah. So I'll be brief and my question is, me and my fiance, we just got engaged and I'm 20 years old, I don't have no debt and I make pretty good money. However, she wants to go to RN school to become a registered nurse. But I'm trying to convince her not to take out student loans. And I'm in the financial position. I could pay for it, but I don't want to make a mistake saying if she did not end up loving registered nurse that I'm out $40,000.
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Yeah. When does, when's the wedding? Have you guys set a date?
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No, it'll probably be January of next year. But she, she has got graduated with an associate's degree and now wants to go to RN school.
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Is she working right now?
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Yes, sir. Yeah, she's. She's a waitress at a barbecue joint.
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D
So your, your, your uneasiness about paying for this is, is more about. Is this the career that she really wants? It's not about, you know, anything else. Correct?
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Yeah, no, it's. I mean, I work really hard for my money. I'm a rancher. And I don't mind helping her out just so we can stay out of debt because once we are married, I don't want to get the burden of debt.
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B
You're a wise man at 20. That's impressive. And how old is she?
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She's 21.
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What makes you think that this could be something that she's just got in her mind right now, but will change her mind down the line. Has she shown that to be part like a personality characteristic?
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Not necessarily. It's just she's never had any family members or experienced a job. And I know being a nurse is a super hard job, so I just don't want her to. I don't want to spend this money. And then we end up looking back as a huge mistake.
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B
Yeah, well, the other piece that you haven't mentioned is covering somebody's education that you're not married to just has a lot of risk.
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E
Yeah, just like the last caller.
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You heard it, man. I mean, I paid. Listen, you could be calling in a year from now, man. I paid for her nursing school and then we broke up and I can't get my money back now. I hope that doesn't happen. I hope you guys are married and have a wonderful long marriage. But there's still that risk factor when you're not married. You have no protection there. And so I love the idea of you guys developing a plan to cash flow her nursing school. And that might mean, hey, you're going to work for this next year. And come January we get married, let's reassess, let's see where we're at financially. Let's have her start saving up in order to cash flow this because it's going to become yalls burden once you're married.
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I'd also look at. I mean, you guys have a not quite a year, but if you're planning on getting married in January, in the meantime, she can do some programs out there that will allow her to shadow that career and really get in that environment and see can I stomach it, do I like it? And get a sense of what it feels like, get a sense of the hours and really do her due diligence before you were to shell that money out. And this is the perfect time to do that while she continues to work and save up.
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Yeah, I was gonna suggest can she work in a healthcare environment, in an administrative role where she at least gets to see the inner workings of the system, talk to the nurses and get a real feel for what it's gonna be like. Cause she might find out, man, I really like healthcare, but I'd rather be on the business side versus with patients all day. And so I do think you're right to be cautious and go a little slow here. And I think she's just going nursing sounds good. And it is. It's a great field if you're the right fit for it. And you can get paid a lot of money and help a lot of people.
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Yeah, she could do a nursing shadowing program. She could volunteer at a hospital for a while. She could maybe start as a CNA and do that first and not shell out the $40,000 right away. There's a lot of things that she could do to kind of get her feet wet without spending a ton, ton of money.
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Yes, ma'. Am. Okay. Yeah, I'll try to pass it on. And my other situation is trying to get her to fall in love with the Ramsey plan like I did about four years ago.
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B
Well, she fell in love with you. Is that partially due to your fiscal responsibility?
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E
Well, it's. I think she loves the lifestyle and she loves me. We live debt free. I mean, I live at the ranch. We take care livestock all day long. She helps out with it a lot, and I think she's really interested. But the nursing, she doesn't know anybody that's a nurse. And she goes on Google and see what a nurse makes, and she wants to do that.
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B
And that's the fear. If you're aiming at a certain paycheck, then that scares me because, number one, you may not finish school and may not see that paycheck, and it might be less than you thought or it might be more stressful than you thought, and she jumps out of nursing after you guys sunk 40 grand into it. So I do think there's some premarital counseling to be done here, and we can help with that. We'll gift you guys Financial Peace University, and you go through that together, get on the same page, and we'll do the work for you. On trying to convince her to jump on the Ramsey plan.
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Yeah, I think we've given you some good solutions. And even for her to. To. To suss out the. The nursing program. My bigger thing is you need to talk about your viewpoints and philosophies around money. And like George said, we'll hook you up with the stuff, but you need to sit down one night and say, okay, here's the thing. I'm a guy. I built my whole life on avoiding debt. I don't do credit cards. I don't sign up for debt. It bothered me, or it gave me a. At least questions when you were so quickly willing to go into debt for a degree. And those are the questions that you do want to start asking now. And not even in an accusatory way or with, like a bad, you know, air about it. Just seek to be curious and learn about her.
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And I Want to be aligned in every area of our life, and money's a part of that. That's it. That's how you start it. So wishing you the best. Hang on. The line will get you financial Peace University to watch with her. All right, Brock is in Tampa up next. Brock, welcome to the show.
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Hey, how's it going, y'? All? I appreciate taking my call.
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B
Sure. What's going on?
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So I got just a small question. I've got a classic car that I've heard some mixed input on whether I should keep it or sell it and invest the money that I get from it. I'm a young guy, so, you know, I guess any money that I can invest now will set me up later for the future.
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How old are you, Brock?
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I'm 19.
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Okay.
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You got any debt?
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I have no debt.
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B
Good. How much do you have in the bank right now?
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A little over 100.
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B
Fantastic. At 19?
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Yes.
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What do you make?
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About 120.
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Dude, you are crushing it. Okay.
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What kind of work do you do, Brock, at 19? Making 120.
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Run like a. Like a landscape company kind of deal.
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Good for you. So tell us about the classic car.
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E
So I bought it off a customer about six months. Seven months ago. It's a great little car. I love it. It just, you know, I just kind of fit and, you know, I. I've got money invested. I don't. I don't know. I just. I've heard people like, hey, are you gonna get rid of it?
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D
What'd you spend on it?
- [30:04]
E
I just want to see. I bought it for 10, and the cars probably worth closer to 20.
- [30:10]
D
Cash?
- [30:12]
C
Yeah.
- [30:13]
E
Yeah. Everything I got is cash.
- [30:14]
B
So you could sell it for 20 and you're going. I might rather see that grow in an investment account than sit in a garage and collect dust and be something I have to maintain.
- [30:22]
E
And that's. That's kind of where I'm at with it, too. Now. What's even worse is the car sits outside exposed to the elements. It's not protected. Yeah, exactly.
- [30:32]
B
And you want to pay for storage, insurance, all of that. How many other cars do you have?
- [30:37]
E
I've got a place to store. I've got two other trucks.
- [30:41]
B
Okay. Can you get another classic car one day, or is this the one of a kind? You'll never see it again, and you'll hate that you sold it.
- [30:48]
E
I could definitely get another classic car. This car, too, isn't even. Like, if I was to. If I wasn't to get a good deal on it, I would have never Bought it because it's not something that like would appeal to me.
- [30:58]
D
Yeah, you kind of sound like you're talking. You've, we haven't had to talk you out of this. It sounds like you're set on it.
- [31:04]
B
And I'll show you the map. Say okay from 19 to 59. Well, yeah, you'll have a little bit of, you can grieve it. You'll say goodbye and you know, you'll take that 20 grand, invest it. And if you just leave it in an investment account from 19 years old to 59 years old, it's a 40 year span with an average 10 rate of return. You're looking at a million bucks in that one account.
- [31:23]
D
That's true. But also hear us say you don't have to sell it, but nothing.
- [31:27]
B
If you were in crippling debt making 30 grand and this thing was going to be your savings savior, we'd say sell it today. Nothing's on fire. But you just convinced us you don't want to deal with this thing anymore.
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B
We had a blast recording this show live in front of audiences on the road in April. That's right, Ramsey show live. We traveled to four cities in the month of April and did Ramsey show live in front of about, you know, 300 something people. The show was filled with live questions from the audience. You get to see their faces, see the reactions, bring the spouse up to for the debate. And Jade and I had a great time. I was on two of those, I think.
- [33:43]
D
Were we Phoenix?
- [33:44]
B
We were on zero of them. Jade together. Oh, we were this year.
- [33:49]
D
Is that.
- [33:50]
B
Yeah, I was with.
- [33:51]
D
No wonder my mind went blank.
- [33:52]
B
Rachel and Ken. You were with Deloney and Ken for one. And Rachel and Ken for the other.
- [33:56]
D
George, what's up with that, man?
- [33:58]
B
I know, I know. They split. Well, we're too powerful together, you know, it's like. Like Air Force One. You gotta have one person on Air Force Two for safety. So Charlotte and Denver episodes are out right now on The Ramsey Show, YouTube channel, Spotify, Ramsey Network app. Phoenix and Anaheim episodes will be coming out soon. They were super fun, and I think you're gonna really enjoy watching them. The energy is electric.
- [34:20]
D
Different. It's just different.
- [34:21]
B
That's right. Go check it out. All right. Let's go to Eric in Las Vegas up next. Hey, Eric, what's going on?
- [34:30]
E
Hey, how's it going? That was calling me because I kind of have a situation with my grandfather and his reverse mortgage. And my wife and I are still in baby step two, but he's having some health scares, so he needs us to kind of move in with him. So I'm trying to make sense, if it makes sense, once we get done with our baby steps, if we try to tackle and get his reverse mortgage paid off, or do we just live there? He said he'd let us live there without rent. While we're helping him, do we get our money situated for a down payment on our own house after he passes? We're just kind of not sure where to go.
- [35:07]
B
Man, that's a lot to be handling right now. So he's got a health scare. Is that meaning you need to move in and take care of him full time? What does that look like?
- [35:18]
E
Yeah, so he's been passing out recently, and he, you know, falling around his house and not being able to call for help and stuff. So it's kind of like, okay, it's time to, you know, move in. We don't have. He doesn't have any other family.
- [35:30]
D
And how old is he?
- [35:32]
E
He's 80.
- [35:33]
D
Okay. And so the deal is you. You move in, you help out, you don't have to pay rent. And then when the day comes and he's beamed up, you guys inherit the property.
- [35:45]
E
Yeah, basically. But he has a reverse mortgage. And my wife and I, just six months ago, we had our son. And so the house is. It's not super old. It was built in the 90s, but some TLC. So I would probably have to front load that before even thinking about the reverse mortgage at all, which means if I didn't get the house. I'd pretty much lose that money.
- [36:09]
D
Do you know the numbers around the house? Like what does he owe on it? What percentage is the reverse mortgage and what's it worth?
- [36:16]
E
Yeah, the house is worth about 530. Currently he owes 302,000 on the reverse mortgage. And I don't know the interest rate, but it's about seventeen hundred dollars a month. That goes up, up, man.
- [36:30]
D
Wow.
- [36:31]
B
Well, I would not do anything with the reverse mortgage right now. You guys aren't in a financial position to do anything anyways. You got your own financial, you know, mess to clean up. You can still move in with him and it can still be quote unquote, rent free. I mean, he's basically just using his house as a piggy bank with a lot of fees right now. These reverse mortgages, there's a reason they're sold on late night TV with a, you know, washed up actor with a mustache. And so it's not a good product. Terrible product. And I'm sad that he's fell into it. But this is the reality for a lot of, you know, elderly people is they didn't save for retirement, but they've got a paid for house and they see this marketing saying, hey, what if we could just send you a check every month? Doesn't that sound good? And they take it. So I would just hold, get his health back in order and see what you can do to help take care of him. You keep fighting your own fight to get out of debt. And if this is a win, win for both of you because you get to live rent free with your family and get out of debt faster and he gets the help from his wonderful grandson. I call this a win. Regardless of what happens with the house later on.
- [37:36]
E
Make about 7 to 9,000. So I could clear this debt pretty quickly if we moved in. So that's my whole thing is like, I don't know if it's still worth it once we get out of debt or.
- [37:49]
B
Well, I mean, you don't have 300 grand to pay it off anyway. So.
- [37:54]
E
Yeah, he was talking about a full mortgage or something.
- [37:57]
B
Oh, man. Well, I would also get clear on his estate planning wishes and what is going to happen and who inheritance will go to because I don't want you paying off a house that ends up going to somebody else and you have no recourse.
- [38:12]
E
Yeah.
- [38:13]
B
And so I'm not saying that, you know, you need to say, hey, if I'm paying this off, I get the house in the will. You may not even want this house to deal with because like you said, it needs some tlc. It may not be the house you would have chose for your family to live in, but right now that's, that's not a problem. That's a bridge we can cross way later on.
- [38:31]
E
The best, best case, short sight everything and just live rent free and kind of get out of my own situation.
- [38:37]
B
You get yourself to a financial position and this will be a great wake up call of man. I never want this to be me.
- [38:44]
E
Yeah. I'm telling you, that's it.
- [38:47]
B
And you help grandpa live the best life he can live considering his health conditions. And you will have done a good deed on this earth, my friend. Wishing you the best. Joseph is in Tampa. Up next on the line. What's going on?
- [38:59]
E
Joseph, George, Jade, it's an honor to talk to you both. Thank you for taking my call.
- [39:04]
B
Absolutely. What's your question today, guys?
- [39:08]
E
I think I made a dumb decision. I took out my 401k so I can transfer it. I know I took it out. I have it in the form of a check so I can transfer to a Roth ira.
- [39:18]
B
Wait, was it like a direct rollover check?
- [39:22]
E
Yeah, that was my intention.
- [39:24]
B
Like it's not. And is it made out to you or to the next institution?
- [39:29]
E
It's made out for the next institution.
- [39:31]
D
Okay, that's good. We're still good.
- [39:35]
E
But the institution I'm trying to roll it over to is saying that the account that I have would have to be closed and liquidated with them. So they can open up a new IRA to put this money in, but I may face tax implications.
- [39:50]
B
I think what you're talking about is the pro rata rule. Yeah, that's something you can look into. So basically, if you have a traditional account that has money in it and you're trying to convert is. Do you know what type of money this is? Is it all traditional or all raw? Is it both?
- [40:08]
E
This is. It's just a 401k savings plan. It's all traditional. I'm trying to put it into. I'm trying to put it into. It's called a Later Traditional ira.
- [40:20]
B
I've never heard of that one.
- [40:21]
D
Me neither. Tell us about it. Why is it different.
- [40:29]
E
Here? Change your Later IOA account. They're saying that I can only have one Later IRA account. It's their name for their investments account later with acorn.
- [40:42]
B
That's where you're trying to roll this into?
- [40:44]
C
Yes.
- [40:45]
B
Okay. I would try to use a more reputable institution to roll this over into like A Vanguard, Fidelity, Schwab. They're going to be much easier to work with. And you sh. You should be able to contact them and say, hey, I need this check to be voided and made out to this other institution.
- [41:06]
E
Oh, okay. Because at this point, I mean, I was getting ready to crash out on these guys at Acorns and shut the account and put it back into Fidelity.
- [41:14]
B
Yeah, I don't know the exact reason. I'm just. I'm trying to think of why they would block you and say they need to close this account, liquidated, open a new one. And my guess is there's some function where they can't do a rollover into an existing account.
- [41:28]
E
Right. They can't have it into an existing account. And they won't let me have two of these investments account with their institution.
- [41:34]
D
Yeah, I think George is right. I think you just need to knock on another door and go to another bank.
- [41:40]
B
Because I've done this with my. My wife used to work at Ramsey for nine years, and so we transferred her 401k.
- [41:46]
E
It had.
- [41:46]
B
You know, they ended up doing it as a check. And then I literally took a picture of that, deposited it into a Vanguard Rollover ira. So that's what you're looking for, is a rollover IRA with Fidelity, Vanguard or Schwab. That's what I would recommend.
- [41:59]
E
And then contact the original institution and have the check reissued or whatever.
- [42:04]
B
That's right, yes. Because I don't know enough about Acorns, but I don't know that they accept 401k rollovers. Or if they do, they're clearly making it very difficult.
- [42:13]
E
They are. Okay.
- [42:15]
B
Because I'm seeing here, as I looked it up, Acorns later is designed for new contributions only, not for receiving rollovers from workplace retirement plans. So you chose the wrong. The wrong brokerage to mess with, unfortunately, Joseph, sorry. But at least you didn't withdraw the funds into your bank account because you'd be on the hook for some taxes, my friend. So direct for anybody listening out there, if you leave your employer for any reason, you can do a direct rollover in kind. So from traditional 401k to a rollover, traditional IRA or Roth to Roth. And you want to make sure that you don't see the money. The money goes from one institution to the other institution. That's the way to do it, without penalties and fees.
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in MLS ID 1591 nmlsconsumerexess.org Eagle housing lender foreign. Welcome back to the Ramsey show in the Fairwinds Credit union studio. I'm George Camel here with Jade Warshaw taking your calls on money and life at Triple 882-55-5225. Sarah is in Spokane, Washington. Up next. Sarah, what's going on?
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C
So my question is that my husband and I have been debt free from about 2013 this year. And my husband is an alcoholic, but got sober in January and replaced alcohol with spending. So now we have $38,000 in debt. And so he is now unfortunately not sober again, but now wants to pay off the debt.
- [45:00]
B
He's not sober now, but he wants to pay off the debt?
- [45:04]
C
Yes. It's the opposite of what traditionally happens, I think.
- [45:09]
D
And the 38,000, is that all sorts of different things or was it like one vehicle? Because $38,000, since January is a lot of money purchases. What are they?
- [45:21]
C
So one is a boat and one was a bathroom remodel.
- [45:25]
D
Okay. Boat and a bathroom.
- [45:26]
B
One of those we can sell. So that's good. How much is that boat worth?
- [45:30]
C
Yeah, about 28,000.
- [45:35]
B
And what's owed on it?
- [45:37]
C
13.
- [45:38]
B
Oh, good, good.
- [45:39]
D
So there's some money there. And the bathroom, you were on board with that? A little bit. I gotta believe.
- [45:45]
B
Hard to sneak that one past you.
- [45:48]
C
Yeah, so I was until they came back with the quote and then I said no. And he signed the papers without you. Okay.
- [45:56]
D
Okay. So the good news is there's money to be made back on the boat and then we can cash flow the payoff of the rest of this. Is he working? Is he Able to hold down jobs?
- [46:06]
C
Yes.
- [46:07]
D
Okay. What does he earn and what do you earn?
- [46:10]
C
So together we earn just under 300. Wow.
- [46:14]
B
Great income. So that's nice. We'll clean this up fast. I mean, if you sell the boat, you'll profit 15,000 and apply that to your 25,000 left on the bathroom loan.
- [46:25]
C
Well, so my question is more. So we have the money. We have. I have 50,000 in savings and I have 35,000 additionally in a emergency fund.
- [46:38]
D
Okay.
- [46:40]
C
However, the last year of our life has been incredibly volatile with a lot of things that we've not seen coming that we've had to cash flow. So I'm just worried about draining savings. He has some stocks that he plays with that he needs to sell to pay for this, and I'm worried about the tax implications for that. I just don't know the. Like we can pay it off. I just don't know the best way to do it.
- [47:05]
D
I'll tell you my thing that I'm a little concerned about. You said your concerns. My concern is if he's back drinking again and you guys have this stellar income, does this have the ability to affect his job and his employment, therefore putting you guys at. In a. In a really tough situation financially?
- [47:26]
C
It hasn't ever.
- [47:29]
B
So he's a pretty functional alcoholic.
- [47:31]
C
Very.
- [47:32]
B
Okay, well, here's the thing. You can move around the money, pay off the debt, but it's not changing this underlying problem, which is your marriage and his addictions.
- [47:43]
C
Right.
- [47:43]
B
You guys are not on the same page. He's making moves behind your back.
- [47:48]
E
You.
- [47:48]
B
Doesn't seem like you have much of a vote here. And you're realistically worried about the future. Now, I would pay off the debt and I would sell the boat. It's not going to put you in dire straits to do all of this to knock out the debts. What I would do is put some guardrails in place so that neither of you can make any more stupid financial decisions. And that means we're going to freeze both of our credits. We're going to pull both of our credit reports today. You can go to annualcreditreport.com pull those for free to get everything out on the table. And he needs to be very much involved in this. Is he on board to rectify the situation and get his life and marriage back?
- [48:32]
C
That's to be determined. I don't. Can't answer that.
- [48:35]
D
I think I would go. I think I would go to a further extreme on this. I don't think that you can give access to an addict, to the money. I don't think he can have access to the money because the problem is he's going to spend it. Whether it's signing a, you know, a bathroom contract that you didn't agree to or toys, gambling.
- [48:53]
B
I mean, it sounds like he's just looking for every vice possible.
- [48:56]
D
So I think that you have to have that conversation and figure out on the side and. And possibly with some counsel what it can look like for you to have access to this. And maybe you. It doesn't sound like he would work with you on this to say, hey, I'm worried. I'm worried about me. I'm worried about you. I'm worried about the family. Do you guys have kids?
- [49:20]
C
We do.
- [49:20]
D
How many?
- [49:22]
C
Three.
- [49:23]
D
Three? Yeah. I'm worried about the kids. We're unsafe. And so the only thing that I can do to stay in this environment with the kids for it to be safe is I have to have access to the money because I have to make sure that mortgage is paid. I have to make sure that the needs are met financially and that you don't mess things up for us going forward for the long term. If you're not able to do that, then I have to make other arrangements,
- [49:47]
B
which means you're the gatekeeper. And in order to make sure that you're safe. And until he shows himself to be trustworthy, which means he is sober, making wise financial decisions over a long period of time, I do think it's wise not to, quote, unquote, separate your finances, but to make sure that he does not have access to. To this money to make bad decisions with.
- [50:09]
D
Right. Because you're still keeping him abreast of what's going on. He can still look at the budget like. It's not to say that he can't. There's no transparency. It's just to say, hey, you used to be able to have this debit card and go and spend, spend, spend. Now I'm going to be the one that pays the bills out of our money. I am going to be the one that handles the money, basically. Does that make sense?
- [50:32]
C
Yeah. I mean, it's. I do handle it already.
- [50:36]
D
Right. But he's got a debit card in his wallet and he can go out and he has a savings.
- [50:40]
B
What are you worried about? Like, give us the top priorities of things that you would be worried about right now with your finances.
- [50:48]
C
My biggest thing is if we were to drain the savings and then we have. We've had a couple, like $10,000 emergencies come up in the last year because of other circumstances that we've cash flows. And so I just am worried that those may come up. And we've already drained our savings to now pay for those.
- [51:09]
B
No one's asking you to drain the savings. I mean, if you sell the boat and pay off the bathroom remodel, you're still left with liquid 50 grand.
- [51:19]
C
Okay.
- [51:19]
B
And you're not going to have a $50,000 emergency. And you can probably cash flow that now that you'll be completely debt free with a full emergency fund with $300,000 coming in. And so you guys are actually a really decent spot. But it's more of the what ifs and is he gonna get better and will you guys work together and will this addiction get worse? Those are the parts we need to deal with.
- [51:42]
D
How long was he an alcoholic before he got sober? This. This last time.
- [51:47]
C
So this is the first and only time so far and it's been 20 years.
- [51:52]
D
Okay.
- [51:52]
E
Wow.
- [51:53]
B
What. What gave him the ability to get sober that first time? Was there one thing?
- [52:02]
E
It.
- [52:03]
C
Our son was also an addict and went through rehab. Wow. And so it was an eye opener.
- [52:11]
E
But. Yeah, but it wasn't.
- [52:13]
B
Wasn't enough.
- [52:15]
C
I know.
- [52:16]
B
Yeah.
- [52:16]
C
Our son is one year sober.
- [52:19]
D
Okay, that's good. Listen, we're rooting for you. You've got. You've got your work cut out for you. And I think the best thing you can do is control your actions. You can't control his. So you can decide what your boundaries are going to be, what you want, the picture you want for money that makes you feel safe. And you can act on those things. You don't have to. And you can't wait for somebody, especially somebody who's not in a healthy place at this moment. But rooting for you guys.
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- [54:24]
B
We're headed to Grand Rapids. Up next, Kenzie joins us there. Kenzie, welcome to the Ramsey Show.
- [54:30]
C
Hi, thanks for having me.
- [54:31]
B
Absolutely. How can Jade and I help today?
- [54:34]
C
Alrighty. My husband and I have been married for almost a year now. We've been essentially running from my father in law for almost three years. We do not pay a monthly flat rate rent. Rather we pay just the monthly expenses like propane, electric and minor repairs. So we're very fortunate to be in this situation as it has allowed us to stay safe. But I'm to the point where I want out of this house. I prefer for my father in law to just be my father in law at this point, if you know what I mean.
- [55:02]
D
Yes, I do.
- [55:03]
B
Instead of your landlord?
- [55:05]
C
Yeah.
- [55:06]
B
Now he's not. Is he living there or is this just a house he owns that you guys are.
- [55:10]
C
No, this is just an extra house that he owns. It's paid off and everything. He, it's. I don't know. He, he's like gifting it to us like just to live there for free. He means no ill will by it, by any means.
- [55:23]
D
But you feel it?
- [55:25]
C
Yes.
- [55:25]
B
Are there some strings attached relationally?
- [55:29]
C
Not exactly. And I don't think he intends to do anything purposely, but I just kind of feel obligated to do certain things. I think it's time for us to get out. But my husband and I do not agree on this. He wants to wait until we have enough cash to purchase a home. Whereas I'm okay with starting to look now and having a mortgage, so.
- [55:51]
D
Oh, so he wants to do like
- [55:53]
B
he the 100 down?
- [55:55]
D
Yeah. Not just saving a down payment. Oh, gosh. How much is that going to cost?
- [55:58]
E
Yeah.
- [55:58]
B
What's the number?
- [56:00]
C
I'd say 250 to 300.
- [56:02]
B
How much do you guys have now?
- [56:05]
C
We have roughly 120,000. We have 51,200 in our savings and then we have 68,445 in a CD.
- [56:16]
B
Okay.
- [56:17]
D
How long would it take to realistically do this? Which means you've got a three to six month emergency fund and you've got the cash money for the house.
- [56:29]
C
I would say three to four years.
- [56:32]
B
What do you guys make here?
- [56:35]
C
We bring home. Well, we don't bring home. We make roughly 110 to 120. Just depends on overtime. And I will say this is my first year, like with an actual salary.
- [56:48]
B
Okay, so you're essentially living on 60 and banking 60 in a year? If it goes well, yeah.
- [56:54]
D
I think I'd like to hear more from you because, I mean, I'm thinking about Mike's situation. My husband and I, we rented a house from Sam's mom, which is my mother in law. And we did that for 10 years almost while we paid off debt, saved up a down payment for a house. And I understand what you mean, which is that Nina is the best. She gave us so many breaks. But I still always felt a thing, like I was grateful, but at the same time, when it was time to move into our own place, I was really excited to have our own place. But I want to know because a lot of that can live in our own minds too. And yes, it does affect the relationship, but because he's not living there and because it sounds like he's happy to do this service, it sounds like maybe there's more to it. But there's part of me that's like, hey, don't block the blessing. Like, if there's a blessing here, don't block it. Is there more we should know about it before I say that?
- [57:53]
C
I think it just feels like we're leeching off of. In my opinion, it feels like I'm leeching off of his dad. And I don't ever want to be like, reliant on somebody else.
- [58:02]
D
Okay, that. Now we're getting somewhere. What if you paid rent? What if he paid a reasonable rent instead of just, you know, utilities and things like that? Because that'd still be cheaper.
- [58:12]
C
I don't think he would take it. He's a very stubborn man. I don't think he would allow us to take it.
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B
What would it cost to rent elsewhere right now if you guys were to leave today and go rent, if you weren't ready for the house?
- [58:23]
C
1200 at least, I'd say.
- [58:25]
B
Okay. I mean, I'm just trying to do the math. The reality. So 1200 bucks times, let's say a year, that's 14 grand less that you would bank. Yeah, in the year.
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C
And I'll throw in another wrench. We are expecting our first child in November.
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D
Oh, that's great.
- [58:43]
C
So maybe I am just being a little bit dramatic here and I need to suck it up for another couple years. Listen, since we are having a child,
- [58:51]
D
what you could do if you really wanted to. But to your point, he's not going to take it. You could pay $1,200 into an account and just say, this makes me feel better. And when you're ready to move out, you could say grandpa or dad in law. This is, you know, however much Money this is, $50,000 and he's not going to take it. And then you're going to say, well, I really tried, I did my best. And it's okay for somebody to give you a gift because think about it like this. If you had the ability to do something like this for your children's children, for your children, would you do it?
- [59:27]
C
Absolutely.
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D
Absolutely. So that's a joy that he has to be able to do that. And so I think sometimes it's hard to be on the other end of somebody else's generosity. It doesn't sound like it's stunning your growth. Like if I was concerned that it
- [59:39]
B
was really, if you guys weren't saving any money, there was a bunch of strings attached, a relationship was awkward and strained, then I'd say, hey, it's worth getting out and paying the 1200 bucks. But to Jade's point, point this, it feels like we're just blocking a blessing because it feels weird and it, it is hard to accept generosity. It does put you in a place of weakness. But I, I think that's, that's okay for a season. If this was 10 years and you guys weren't moving forward, but you guys have a baby on the way, you're banking 60k a year to save up for this house. And can I also tell you, Kenzie, it's okay if you guys went and got a 15 year mortgage where the payment was no more than a quarter of your take home pay and then you pay that off. Because the truth is the goalpost will keep moving with this house, that $300,000 house four years from now.
- [60:21]
D
Good point.
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B
Is a $375,000 house.
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C
Yeah. And I feel like to a certain extent, like the mortgage would make us save more, if that makes sense. Because right now we're living there kind of rent free. We don't really have like, yeah, we have a budget, but we're kind of.
- [60:38]
B
You can, yeah, you can, yeah. Be a little more comfortable and have a little more of your luxuries.
- [60:44]
C
Yes.
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B
When we need to. So that's where I'm going. Could you save 70 instead of 60? I think you might be able to do even better if you guys got really focused and went, all right, it's not going to be three to four years. It's going to be May of 2028. We are out of here and whatever
- [61:00]
D
we have saved, that's it. That's the down payment.
- [61:02]
B
That might be a nice compromise because it gives you a timeline. So this is not an endless. Well maybe, but then four years from now the house price has moved. We want a different house because we have two kids now need to save up 500,000. So that's where I would come to a compromise where you guys land on something a little more solid. I like that plan vibes.
- [61:20]
C
I like that plan too. Good old compromise boom.
- [61:23]
B
I want nobody to win. That's how you know the argument went well.
- [61:27]
C
Yes.
- [61:27]
B
That's so great. Well congrats on the baby Kenzie.
- [61:30]
C
Thank you. Thank you guys.
- [61:31]
B
That's so exciting. That's a good, you know Jade, this is a good time to remind people the principles around house housing. Dave has always said that the best plan is 100 down.
- [61:41]
D
You can do cash, we love that. Yeah.
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B
But we won't yell at you if you get a 15 year mortgage. It's the only debt we will yell at you for where the payment's no more than a quarter of your take home pay. Yeah, that's right. I'm doing the crunching the numbers for them. A three hundred thousand dollar house with a hundred thousand down on a fifteen year probably looking at about two grand.
- [61:58]
D
Yeah, good.
- [61:59]
B
So if they take home eight grand they're right there in the parameter. They could go buy a house today. Now they're going to take on the burden of home ownership which comes with its own.
- [62:07]
D
That's true.
- [62:08]
B
Joys, highs, lows, roller coaster adulting.
- [62:11]
D
Yeah, what can I say?
- [62:12]
B
It needs a new H Vac the week after we move in with a brand new baby.
- [62:15]
D
Yes, but I to your point, the, the goal post is always going to move here and I would hate for that to keep somebody from jumping in with both feet, you know to save up 3 or 350 that's a great thing. But if it's going to take you six years to do it well now suddenly that 350 isn't going to get what you thought it was going to. And now you're for that reason going
- [62:34]
B
well I can't save as fast as inflation's happening in the housing market.
- [62:37]
D
Yeah.
- [62:37]
B
And if you saw what happened during the pandemic, I mean it was insane.
- [62:40]
D
It was absolutely.
- [62:41]
B
That $300,000 home 18 months later was $500,000.
- [62:45]
D
Right. And here's the thing you have to remember for the person who jumped in, they were like, this is great.
- [62:50]
B
If you bought a house in 2019 or early 2020, you were like, score.
- [62:54]
D
Yes. That's why I'm like, jump in. The best time to buy a home is when you can afford it. It not when all the planets are aligned and everything is perfect. It's when you can afford it. And if you can do it, I say jump in. Real estate as a ladder, you know, start at the lowest rung that you can get in on and don't be afraid to climb it until you get into the house that you want.
- [63:14]
B
You lock in that mortgage payment for the duration of the loan so you're not dealing with that moving goal post anymore.
- [63:19]
D
And then outside of property savings account
- [63:21]
B
insurance going up, which that's, that's a piece to factor in. And the last piece is, you know, thinking about Kenzie's situation with a kid on the way. What if she wants to stay home one day? Well, that might change the figures and facts to where I would be planning for that option always. Which means you don't want to have a giant payment and jump into a house too early. There is this Goldilocks sweet spot and that's that 25 and maybe factor it off his income and where that's going to give you that flexibility. So very good. That's the point of the baby steps is to give you option margin, meaning all of that is is built into the place plan.
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In a perfect world, we could get to every single call and question here on the show. But we have a solution. If you have a money question you want an answer for your situation that's personalized. Head over to our website and use Ask Ramsey. It's our free AI tool that is built and trained on proven Ramsey principles. So you're not left guessing. Is this what I should do? What would Dave or Jade or George or Rachel or John say? You'll get the answer the same way we'd answer it right here on the show. So go check it out for yourself. Ramseysolutions.com and you'll see that little search box enter in your question or just click the link in the description if you're listening on podcasts or YouTube. RJ is in Greensboro, North Carolina. Up next. RJ, welcome to the show.
- [66:18]
E
Hey, guys. How you guys doing today?
- [66:19]
B
We're doing great.
- [66:21]
E
Thanks for having me on. So I'll try to keep this short and sweet. So me and my wife are just starting out getting, getting started with the baby steps, and we're still working on baby step one. So.
- [66:34]
B
Okay.
- [66:36]
E
Yep. Thousand bucks. So that goal doesn't seem too unattainable at all.
- [66:42]
D
Most people do it in 30 just for a little milestone there, and that's
- [66:47]
E
where we should be at. I'm thinking within the next, like, 30 days, we should definitely be there. Okay, so I guess my question is more towards baby step two. When you start paying off consumer debt. To us, it seems like we just have so much debt that needs to be paid off, and we just feel like we don't make enough money to, like, actually make that happen within, like, a reasonable time frame and that be the case.
- [67:16]
D
I mean, what you're discovering is something that everybody's got to look at, not just you, rj, for anybody who's considering the baby steps and looking at their debt, there's really two ways out of this, George. You've either got to lower your lifestyle, rj, or increase your in your income or do a combination of both. That's the only options, really that a person has. So if you're looking and going, man, on our income, this thing is going to take forever. Then you already know income's got to go up. So let's talk about what that means.
- [67:47]
B
Pull some levers. So how much total consumer debt do you have?
- [67:51]
E
So right now, I think we have somewhere between 80 and 85,000.
- [67:55]
B
All right, and what is your household income?
- [67:58]
E
Household income, we're about 70 grand.
- [68:01]
B
Okay. And in the 80, 85. What's the. What's the split there? Break it down for us.
- [68:07]
E
So most of it is student loans from me. Wife doesn't have any student loans. How much I'm about 50,000 in student loans.
- [68:16]
D
Okay.
- [68:17]
B
And the other 30, 35. What's that?
- [68:20]
E
So we have about 15,000 in a car and then just. Just random little personal loans. Those are about 300, 400 each. I want to say about maybe five or six of those.
- [68:33]
B
Okay. What's the car worth if you sold it? Private party.
- [68:37]
E
Private party. If I sold it, probably be about seven to eight grand. Oh, wow.
- [68:42]
B
How'd you get that far underwater on it? Do you roll over negative equity?
- [68:47]
E
No, I think we just have just very bad credit. So we just got a terrible interest rate and.
- [68:52]
D
Understood.
- [68:53]
B
Okay.
- [68:54]
D
All right. Well, I mean, you're right. I mean, what are you guys bringing home? 48,4900amonth?
- [69:02]
E
Yeah, I think that's what we calculated. I know last month we had a little extra because my wife got a bonus from work, which she doesn't normally get.
- [69:10]
D
Okay.
- [69:10]
E
So that kind of helped us out a bit. Like I said, we. We're just starting. We're trying to use the every. Every dollar app.
- [69:17]
D
Excellent.
- [69:18]
E
It seemed to help us out, you know, that first month. Of course, we forgot to budget for the second month, so we're not using it now.
- [69:26]
B
That's the thing about budgets. You got to do one every month.
- [69:29]
D
Yeah. So when you did that first budget, and. And I do want. It's not too late. You can still log in at any time and complete the one for May, even though, you know, we're. We're almost midway through.
- [69:39]
B
But go.
- [69:40]
D
Go ahead and do that because every day that you get on a plan, you're on a plan, and that's a better trajectory for you. So on the 4900, were you. When you did the every dollar budget, were you in the. Were you in the green? Was it an every dollar budget or were you in the red or. Tell me what you saw first.
- [69:56]
E
At first we were in the red, and then we just kind of shuffled some things around just to kind of make it work to be in the green. So we did. Did kind of figure out how to get into the green. I guess it's just being realistic. Like with us, we. We never know when things are going to come up. So like with three kids and, you know, kids come with us and field trips or school. School things and, you know, some emergencies have popped up over the past couple of months. So.
- [70:26]
D
So let's talk about how to budget for that, because that is life, and your budget should be able to be realistic for your life. I always say good budget is detailed, realistic, and flexible. So you need that flexibility, cuz there's real life, but you also need the, the, the, the detailed nature of it because that's going to help you have something concrete month to month. So every budget does need a cushion, a little bit of extra money for you. You know, on 4900, it's not going to be a whole lot. Maybe it's $100 there that's just held for something that you completely forgot about. Oh my gosh, the field trip. But really what you need on that budget is a line item for, you know, your kids, whether it be school lunches or school projects. And you set the amount. And if it's beyond that amount, sometimes you do have to say, we're not doing this one, you know. And so the more you do a budget, for most people, it takes 90 days to lock in what you would call kind of a sustainable, you know, this flows with my life budget. You've only done one, so that's okay, keep doing it. The more you do it, you're gonna learn each time. Oh gosh, we didn't schedule for the kids stuff. Now that's part of the budget from now on. Oh my gosh, we didn't schedule for birthdays days. Now we realize that's something we need to think ahead of when we have our budget meeting every month. Because what should be happening, George, is you guys sit down and you're racking your brain for the things that could pop up. She's rocking, rocking, racking her brain for the things that could pop up. And together you guys are saying, oh yeah, hey, don't forget about that trip. Oh yeah, don't forget about grandma's birthday. Oh yeah, don't forget, you know, you're
- [71:52]
B
interrogating the kids about what's coming up, looking at their little calendars they brought home from school because they, those kids, kids, you can't trust them to remember every little thing.
- [72:01]
D
My daughter had. My daughter had like hot dog picnic day today. And I was like, what in the world is this? Okay, put, you know, yet another thing.
- [72:11]
B
Everyone's got to chip in three bucks.
- [72:12]
D
Exactly. So we get it, rj. So that's the first rhythm that I want you to start developing because that's going to be so important to you guys walking these baby steps. The budget must be locked in otherwise, George, the wheels fall off very quickly.
- [72:28]
B
And once one thing falls off, like, well, what's the point? You know, it's hopeless. So get back on the wagon. It takes 90 days just to get this budget dialed In. And the other side is let's. Let's see what we can do with this income. Because you're making 70k with both of you working full time, and you've got student loans, which tells me you've got a degree.
- [72:47]
E
I do not. So I have a bunch of student loans that kind of. A couple of them kind of racked up, and I never finished school. One of them I did. You know, One of them I did the main one. That. That one's about grand. I did graduate from trade school.
- [73:02]
D
Okay, what's your trade?
- [73:04]
E
So I originally was an automotive technician. I have since switched. I am now a locksmith, which I just started about maybe a month or two ago.
- [73:13]
B
Is that a solo gig or do you work for a locksmith company?
- [73:17]
E
I work for international company.
- [73:20]
B
So what do you make and what does your wife make?
- [73:23]
E
So as of right now, like I said, I just started this gig about a month or two ago, and I'm still getting training pay. So that's what I've been basing my income off of.
- [73:32]
D
Okay.
- [73:33]
E
Yep. So my training pay, I make about 1700 every two weeks.
- [73:39]
D
What will it go up to?
- [73:42]
E
So just potential of what it could go up to. From what I've been told from some of the other people who've been with the company for a while, I could potentially be making over 100 grand, maybe 120.
- [73:54]
D
When would that be?
- [73:57]
E
That's kind of when you kind of get. Get vested a little bit. That'll be later down the line, maybe within the next year or two.
- [74:05]
D
Okay. So that's. That's really promising and that's exciting because
- [74:08]
B
that could change the game for this debt payoff journey. And so that's what we're saying. This is a journey. Most people do it in 18 to 24 months. It might take you three to four
- [74:16]
D
years, and that's okay.
- [74:17]
B
And it might speed up on the tail end and be real slow to start. But the key is you just keep hunkering down, stay focused. Maybe you're doing side jobs right now until that income income comes up with those promotions. Maybe you get so good at your job, they have no choice but to promote you sooner.
- [74:32]
D
What I would do is I would get really serious about sitting down with your wife and you guys set the tone and say, this year, for the next calendar year, how much do we want to pay off? And work backwards and say, if we want to pay off, I don't know, $40,000 this year. What do we have to do to make that happen? And Work backwards and say, okay, what do we need to do something side hustle wise, what do we need to do overtime wise in order to make that happen. And you guys set the rules on this and make sure that you're driving the intensity forward. Don't just let life happen.
- [75:02]
B
That's right. That's the saying we have around Ramsey, is what must be true.
- [75:05]
D
Yes.
- [75:06]
B
And that causes you to reverse engineer that goal.
- [75:25]
A
Statistics show that half of Americans don't have enough life insurance or they don't have any at all. I don't understand this, John. Why don't people want to take care of their family? They think they're going to die or something.
- [75:39]
B
Well, I used to be one of those guys. I didn't even think about it. And one of my buddies said, hey, the only reason to not have life insurance is if you hate your wife and kids. And I immediately went and got term life insurance.
- [75:49]
A
That's a gut punch.
- [75:50]
E
And. Oh, you're telling me.
- [75:51]
B
And for, for decades, Dave, I've sat across people who've lost a spouse, they've lost somebody important to them.
- [75:56]
A
Me too.
- [75:57]
B
They don't know what to do next.
- [75:59]
A
Me too. I mean, you're going to have a crisis here and you know, you got two options. While you're sitting and talking to a young widow, she's concerned about how she's going to invest all this money properly and not mess this up or she's concerned how she's going to eat tomorrow.
- [76:11]
B
That's exactly.
- [76:12]
A
These are the two options.
- [76:12]
B
And your dadgum family term life insurance can replace income, pay off debts, cover funeral expenses. So your family can actually have the opportunity to just be sad. Yeah, to just miss you.
- [76:23]
A
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- [76:58]
B
Jonathan is in Boston. Up next. Jonathan, welcome to the Ramsey Show.
- [77:02]
E
George, thank you for having me. I appreciate your time.
- [77:05]
B
Absolutely. How can Jade and I help today?
- [77:08]
E
I'm calling because I'm on baby step four. My wife and I just became completely debt free, paying off 200,000 of debt at the age of 24.
- [77:18]
D
Wow.
- [77:18]
B
Way to go, man. How long did that take?
- [77:23]
E
I'd be lying if I said I didn't know. One year, nine months and about five days.
- [77:27]
D
Excellent.
- [77:28]
B
That's incredible.
- [77:29]
D
What kind of debt was
- [77:31]
E
was about 188,000 in student debt and then about 10,000 for the first little car that I bought right out of college.
- [77:38]
D
Oh my gosh. Well, I know you didn't intend for this to be a debt free screen, but I, I just. When you say that you paid off that much debt, what caused you to kind of wake up one day and realize this is not the life we want to live?
- [77:52]
E
Well, I got a job in the financial industry and I started helping people invest and I realized that I should probably start practicing what I preach. My wife and I really have an appreciation for the military, so we joined the military. And I think that very squirtily mindset helped us really get on the right track and start taking action for our ourselves.
- [78:11]
D
I love that.
- [78:12]
B
Fantastic.
- [78:13]
D
So much. Congratulations.
- [78:14]
B
How can we help today? This is an exciting stage to be at.
- [78:18]
E
Well, I appreciate it. So we, we're in a spot where we're debt free and we have about 45,000, probably 50,000 saves now. And personally I'm a huge car guy and I have a lot of friends who are in the same financial situation where they have almost six figures saved up and they're buying these cars that are not depreciating. And so I thought I may as well take a stab at looking at it. And I found myself looking at something called a Porsche Cayman and It's about, about $40,000. And I've been very carefully tracking the market of these cars and I didn't know if it was a better idea to purchase a car that might not lose as much value and maybe being a better option to not have as much depreciation.
- [78:58]
D
Well, unless you're buying like a classic car that's going up in value, I mean everything that you buy is going to depreciate. So the idea that their cars aren't depreciating is not true. Now a lot of nicer cars, cars, they kind of fall off that initial cliff in the first one to two years and then they tend to hold their value a little better longer, some better than others. But just know if you're driving something with wheels and a motor, unless it's like I said, a classic car, it is going to go down in value. The question is, can you afford a forty thousand dollar vehicle? So tell us about your income.
- [79:33]
E
So my wife and I after tax bring in about 210,000. My comp is set to go up end of this year into next year to about 200,000 for myself, and she's probably on track to make 150, so we should be looking at around 100,000 after tax, by tax season of, you know, this time next year.
- [79:52]
D
That's really, really good.
- [79:53]
B
What's she driving?
- [79:56]
E
She leased a voltage Tiguan with no money down and 300amonth, and then my car's fully paid off.
- [80:03]
B
Oh, wow. So you still have lease.
- [80:05]
D
Was that newer? Is that a newer decision or is that an old decision that you've now since learned from?
- [80:12]
E
So the Volkswagen Tiguan was in 2024, and we have a friend that works on the dealership side. So he got us a really good deal, and he has kind of unlimited kind of mileage with the car. I think it's like 20,000 miles. We don't really drive that much, so we got a good deal on the car and we didn't want to go into debt to buy another car, so that's why we made that decision.
- [80:30]
B
But I mean, it's a contract act where you promise to make payments. That sounds very similar to debt in my book. Now, there's not a loan balance that you can stare at and knock down, but I rescind my. My debt free scream until this lease is dealt with. John, what is the buyout amount for the car?
- [80:50]
E
I think it's 21,000. We don't plan to buy the car.
- [80:54]
B
So you just want to rent it and then give it back and then you restart this process. What's the game plan?
- [81:01]
E
I think we're going to buy a car in cash next year for around 25,000 for her. We don't really want to go through that whole lease or debt process again.
- [81:08]
D
Okay, I agree with that part. I would never lease a car ever again. It really is one of the most expensive ways to operate a vehicle. And I think the. The feeling of we got a really good deal and, you know, no money down and all these things, but the truth is it's still money that you're on the hook for unless you make a lump sum payment to get out of it. So it's risk that you're allowing in your life when you really don't need that. You guys make such a great income. You've got cash saved. And I think you understand that once this happens, never again. Because truly, lease payments, car payments, they are the divide, Jonathan, between middle class and wealthy folks. It's. It's just really the divide there, especially with the amount that you could invest by not having a car payment or lease for payment. Okay, so learn Lesson there. Moving on to the porsche. So it's $40,000. You guys are making $210,000 a year. We do have kind of a rule or thumb when it comes to vehicles, George. We say you should never have anything with a wheels or motors. That's more than half of your salary every year. So you guys would not be.
- [82:14]
B
So you basically capping up against that 100 grand total in vehicles and toys. And so if your, yours are worth 40, hers worth 25, you're in good shape. Now the thing to think about, I wouldn' point thinking about resale value and depreciation is just going to hurt your soul.
- [82:29]
D
That's right.
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B
So if you're paying cash, you don't have to worry about being underwater. If you're going to drive, you're going to drive this thing for, you know, seven plus years.
- [82:37]
E
Probably closer to 10. I'd like to keep this car and maybe even pass it down to my kids one day. Wow.
- [82:42]
D
Oh, okay.
- [82:43]
B
Well, they better be ready for those maintenance and repair costs 10 years from now. That's, that's going to be the problem with cars of this caliber. You're going to need to have a nice healthy sinking fund in your boat budget, you know, for two to four grand minimum to maintain this car.
- [82:59]
E
Sure. I plan to save about 5,000 a year for preventative maintenance and to keep the car in good shape. I just thought, you know, it's a car that I've wanted since I was probably six years old.
- [83:08]
B
Yeah, I would do it.
- [83:09]
D
You said you've got 45 to 50,000 saved. That's not including your emergency fund, right? Or is it?
- [83:17]
E
That would be all our savings total. We're saving about five or six thousand dollars a month right now.
- [83:23]
B
Okay.
- [83:23]
E
So we should hit our 100,000 dol. Thousand dollar goal by November or December.
- [83:27]
D
Perfect. I'd be very. Yeah, I'd be very careful to separate that money and make sure that this 50,000, whatever your six months of expenses is, put that someplace separate and then save up for this portion car fund.
- [83:40]
B
And that way you're not going to make the mistake of thinking this car is an emergency.
- [83:44]
D
Yeah, definitely don't do that. If this is the only 50,000 that you have, you're not quite ready to buy this yet, but it sounds like you'd be there in the next.
- [83:51]
B
Are you saying you do this in November? November.
- [83:55]
E
Well, I did hit a gear in December, so my car is kind of on its last legs right now, so I probably need a car within the next month. Or two.
- [84:03]
B
Oh, wow.
- [84:04]
D
Then I don't think you're ready to buy this one because.
- [84:06]
B
Yeah. What is your three to six months emergency fund? What would that entail? What does it take to run your
- [84:11]
E
house for a month, including rent? An additional 3,000amonth buffer, we're probably sitting around 6 or $7,000 a month. So that put us around the 25 to 30,000 range.
- [84:26]
B
Okay, so then any money above 25 or 30 is now your car budget. And so that, that's a hard line. You guys have to decide. We're not going to do half down, half on a loan. We're going to pay cash. We're going to do this the smart way. And that might mean we need to make this car last a little bit longer. Maybe that's a repair, maybe that's an inter. An intermediate car in the meantime for the next six to 12 months.
- [84:50]
D
And you know how to do that. You understand delayed gratification. You guys paid off $200,000 of, of mostly student loan debt. So keep flexing that muscle because it's gotten you this far and you've benefited from that. Now's not the time to kind of fall off the things that, you know, do what you know to do that's caused you to be successful to this point.
- [85:10]
B
Because right now, if you got 25, an emergency fund that gives you an extra 25 in this car for fund. And you said you can add six grand a month.
- [85:18]
E
That's what we're averaging right now. It will probably go up, but I, I don't want to overestimate.
- [85:23]
B
Okay, but let's say, you know, two months from now, that's 12 grand added to your 25. Well, now we're at 37. So you're on the, on the bubble of car shopping. Maybe you get a slightly, you know, one year older or you decide to wait one more month and now you have 43,000. And so if you can just wait 90 days, you're going to be able to get the exact thing you want and pay cash. And I'd be very focused. I'm guessing you've done a whole lot of research on the exact make, the model, the engine, the features, all of that.
- [85:55]
E
George, you don't want to see my little poster I have at home that tracks the trend lines of all these cars.
- [86:00]
B
Oh, that's incredible. I love the nerdery, but that tells me you're going to make a good decision with this and it's not flippant and impulsive. You said you've Been dreaming about this since you were six.
- [86:08]
C
Wow.
- [86:09]
B
And you've done the work to get there. And so just don't let go, don't let the foot off the gas. Pun intended quite yet. Jonathan, you were so, so close and you're going to love that car cuz you're going into it, eyes wide open, understanding it's higher insurance, it's higher maintenance and it has increased your quality of life. And six year old Jonathan is smiling going, dude, you paid cash for a Porsche.
- [86:31]
D
Love it.
- [86:31]
B
Crushing it, dude. Keep it. Welcome back to the Ramsey show in the Fairwinds Credit Union studio. I'm George Camel joined by Jade Warshaw this hour. The number to call is, contacting-882-55-5225. If you want to jump into the conversation about your life and your money, Sean joins us in Baltimore up next. Sean, welcome to the show.
- [87:14]
E
Hey guys, how's it going?
- [87:15]
B
Great. How are you?
- [87:17]
E
Good, good. Thanks for having me on. So just a quick backstory. My wife and I followed the baby steps minus one. We did purchase a vacation house about five years ago, which I know is Dave's pet peeve. If we can't afford it with cash, we can financially affordable. But we do have two mortgages right now. So my question is my wife gets RSUs through her job. We also purchase stock through her employee stock plan. And is it smart to sell those stocks once they vest each quarter and put it towards our mortgages and you know, and which one should I put it towards or reinvest it or not sell them at all and let them sit.
- [87:58]
D
I love the idea of selling them once they vest.
- [88:01]
B
I would do that anyways just because you don't want concentration in any single stock. Yes, Enron would like to have a word. And so it's wise to sell them anyways and to if you want to reinvest those into mutual fund or index funds or pay off the house, I would apply it to your next baby step, which for you guys is, I assume baby step six. Are you guys currently investing 15% of your household income?
- [88:24]
E
We are, yeah.
- [88:25]
B
Great. And you got kids? Are you saving a little bit for college?
- [88:28]
E
If so, Yeah. I have two kids. My daughter's 11 and my son is 9. And we have about 50,000 in their 529.
- [88:37]
B
Fantastic. And what's left on these two mortgages?
- [88:41]
E
So I have about 270 on my primary and 165 on the vacation house.
- [88:49]
D
So what's the, when you sell these stocks quarterly, what do you take away from that?
- [88:56]
E
You Want to average probably about 25 to 40,000. It fluctuates.
- [89:01]
D
Awesome.
- [89:03]
E
It's been. Yeah, the stock has been doing really well recently.
- [89:05]
D
Okay. I love that. I would totally do that. And I would go towards the principal, your main home first, because I like the piece of having that paid off, even though obviously it's a higher balance.
- [89:17]
B
If you had like a full 165 and you could just knock out the vacation home today, that would be fine. But I'm with Jay that the primary home is usually the focus because that's where you rest your head. And so I like that idea of having that paid off. What is the mortgage payment on the primary home?
- [89:35]
E
The mortgage. Say that one more time.
- [89:37]
B
What's the mortgage payment for your home that you're living in right now?
- [89:39]
E
So it's about 2,500, I believe.
- [89:43]
D
And what about the vacation?
- [89:46]
E
It's in.
- [89:48]
D
Okay. Yeah.
- [89:48]
E
Cool.
- [89:49]
D
I feel solid in that approach.
- [89:50]
B
How much money do you guys have that you could sort of liquidate to put towards these mortgages?
- [89:57]
E
Yeah, so that's what we did. We actually just sold a bunch of stock a few months ago, and we still have about 60,000 sitting in our savings. So that's why I wanted to call you guys to see what, you know, what we should put towards it. Really. We could drop 60,000, really, tomorrow. And then we have another, you know, another vesting period coming up in June. So separate emergency fund is separate. Yeah.
- [90:23]
B
Okay, great, man.
- [90:24]
D
I mean, I love that idea for you guys.
- [90:25]
B
The number going down faster is always more encouraging and more exciting.
- [90:29]
D
Yes.
- [90:29]
B
And once you crack under, that's what
- [90:31]
E
I always look at. If I just can wipe out the vacation house, it might feel a little bit better.
- [90:35]
B
Yeah. I mean, either way, you're going to be in good shape. If you're. If you're really going after these with your income with which, I mean, you guys are making a couple hundred thousand a year. What's. What's the household income at this point?
- [90:46]
E
About 300.
- [90:47]
B
Fantastic.
- [90:48]
D
I mean, if you did one, if you decided, hey, we're going to do the vacation home first, there are worse things you could do. Like lightning wouldn't strike you. Nothing. Nothing bad, is there? My thought is just for the purpose of peace. And it doesn't hurt that the monthly payments more on that one. That's the reason that I selected that. But if you guys sat down together and you decided something different.
- [91:08]
B
Yeah. I mean, usually if you have like seven properties, it's almost like you can sort of debt snowball the Properties. But since just your vacation, I'm in primary. There's really, it's, it's sort of a, you know, choose your own adventure here based on what excites you guys, because that's what's going to keep you going.
- [91:23]
D
Where is the vacation property?
- [91:26]
E
It's an Ocean City, Maryland. So it's about three hours from my, my primary.
- [91:30]
D
Very cool. What's it worth?
- [91:33]
E
Probably about. About 450 now. 500.
- [91:36]
D
Nice. Okay. And what's your current home worth?
- [91:41]
E
About 550 to 600.
- [91:42]
D
Okay, very cool. I think you guys have done really well for yourselves. I think that's really exciting.
- [91:48]
E
Thank you.
- [91:48]
B
What are you going to do? America wants to know, Sean, blocking your vote?
- [91:53]
E
I think I'm going to think I'm going to chop down that vacation house.
- [91:56]
D
Ah, I like it.
- [91:57]
E
Go back to the primary.
- [91:59]
B
You've done this before with the, you know, the vested RSU's. Do you know the tax implications of, you know, selling off 40 grand of those?
- [92:06]
E
Yeah, well, we figured that out a couple years ago the hard way.
- [92:10]
B
It probably turns into, like, not.
- [92:12]
E
I appreciate you asking that, but no, my, my, my accountant did not tell me that.
- [92:16]
B
And were you under withheld and had a big tax bill?
- [92:19]
E
Now we know.
- [92:21]
B
Were you under withheld and had a big tax bill? Is that what happened?
- [92:25]
E
That's what happened. Yep.
- [92:27]
B
That's a good lesson learned for anybody out there who has RSUs or really, you know, those restricted stock units or employee stock purchase program or it is. If you sell anything and you have a gain or it counts as income, it ends up in your bank account. The IRS wants their cut. And you don't realize how quickly, Sean, it can bump up into different tax brackets. And you go, oh, now we went from like 22% effective to 28%. And we didn't factor in that extra 6% of 300 grand or, you know, whatever you brought in.
- [92:57]
D
Mo money, mo problems.
- [92:58]
B
I'm proud of you guys. Man, that vacation home is going to. It's going to hit different when there's no mortgage attached to it.
- [93:03]
D
Oh, yeah.
- [93:04]
B
You'll be even more excited to visit.
- [93:07]
E
Yeah. Thanks so much, guys.
- [93:08]
B
Yeah. Send us the invite once it's paid off. Yes, I'll enjoy it.
- [93:11]
D
A barbecue. I love that.
- [93:14]
B
Barbe, I haven't heard the barbecue. I like barbecue. The old barbecue.
- [93:18]
D
What was I? Cookout.
- [93:19]
B
Yeah, I like.
- [93:20]
D
Is there a difference between a barbecue and a cookout, George? The public wants to know.
- [93:24]
B
I will say cookout is a different vibe.
- [93:26]
D
And how Say, I think a cookout
- [93:29]
B
feels a little bit more communal.
- [93:31]
D
Okay. Okay.
- [93:32]
B
A barbecue feels like, all right, we're going to be grilling, but it's a oneman show here.
- [93:36]
D
Okay, I'm. I'm with you.
- [93:37]
B
Cookout is an experience.
- [93:39]
D
Cookout is like, everybody's coming over. Everybody's bringing a dish. Yes, George, that's.
- [93:44]
B
That's how I see it from my van.
- [93:46]
D
Barbecue is like, it could be any weekend. You just throw something on the grill.
- [93:49]
B
Yes.
- [93:49]
D
Got it.
- [93:50]
B
Well, I want to. Sean mentioned something that I think is important to our audience, and that is when you should be purchasing a vacation home.
- [93:57]
C
Yes.
- [93:58]
D
Let's talk about that, George.
- [93:59]
B
We see that as a toy.
- [94:00]
D
Yes.
- [94:01]
B
It's not producing income. And even if it is, if it's an investment property, we still would say that's risk.
- [94:06]
D
Do you want to know what I think? Can I just. The public wants to know. I think our listeners have figured out a way around. I think they figured out a way.
- [94:17]
B
They go, we found you guys after we bought the vacation.
- [94:20]
D
They know that if they come to us and it's already the deal's been done. We rarely tell them to sell it because, like, okay, we can figure this out. I'm starting to pick up on that vibe. Are you?
- [94:29]
B
Yeah. I didn't realize that's a life hack to just go.
- [94:32]
D
I think that's what's happening.
- [94:33]
B
Started the baby steps after we bought this giant vacation slash investment property.
- [94:37]
D
Yeah. After we started our real estate portfolio of seven houses.
- [94:41]
B
Well, luckily, in Sean's case, they are debt free. They're making 300 grand, you know, debt free outside of these mortgages. But a lot of people, they got a bunch of debt. They still have the car loans. They have all these properties, and they think they're real estate gurus.
- [94:55]
D
Yes.
- [94:55]
B
We go. How much are you making off of this thing? 100 bucks a month.
- [94:58]
D
Actually.
- [94:59]
B
We're losing money.
- [95:00]
D
Yeah.
- [95:00]
B
But with a vacation home, you want it to be a vacation.
- [95:03]
D
That's right. You want your blessing.
- [95:05]
B
Paying two mortgages, and it's just really a money sucker. You've got to realize that thing is a toy and you want to de risk your life. That is the goal. So once you've hit baby step seven, meaning your primary mortgage is paid off, then save up and pay cash for any extra homes on top of that, whether it's an investment property or just a vacation home.
- [95:23]
D
That's right.
- [95:23]
B
And if you're Dave Ramsey, you don't mix the two.
- [95:26]
D
That's right.
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A
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- [96:33]
B
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D
Indeed, today's question comes from Elizabeth in New Mexico. She says, hearing the calls on your show made me realize I want to do better for my son. He turns 18 this year and just started his first job. He makes between 150 to 200 a week as a bonus busboy. He opened a savings account on his own and deposits 50% of his pay. I was never taught anything about emergency funds or investing. I want him to have the freedom to buy a house, go on vacation, and have a good life. How do I set up an IRA for him and what accounts should he have other than the savings and ira? Okay, so let's back it up just a little bit. What I love about Elizabeth's question is she's thinking about her child's future. I don't know any parent who's not doing, doing that. However, you gotta be careful not to put the cart before the horse. And I think that, Elizabeth, if you wanted to have some sort of a, you know, UTMA or you wanted to do a brokerage account for him, that'd be fine. But for him with his money, George, I think the first thing for him to focus on is what's in front of him, which is a new car.
- [98:01]
B
You know, short term goals.
- [98:03]
D
Yeah, those short term goals. And so for that reason, I'd like for his money to stay liquid. I would not invest his money at this point time. I would do a high yield savings account if he needed it. Obviously a checking account for, you know, day to day and month to month spending. But if he's saving 50% of his pay, yeah, throw it in a high yield and he can save up for, like I said, a car. He can save up for an apartment. He can save up for higher ed, whether that looks like trades or certificates or even, you know, going to a university or community college. And that would be my number one goal for an 18 year old right now. George, what's the say you?
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B
Well, I love that he has this habit of depositing 50% of his pay.
- [98:42]
D
Excellent.
- [98:43]
B
That's the hardest part, is just to build that muscle of delayed gratification, living on less than you make. Because if he's doing that making 150 bucks, if he can continue that making 1500 bucks a week, now we're actually in business. Because right now he's not making enough to do any damage when it comes to a home down payment or a vacation. Right now he's just an 18 year old trying to figure out his life. So that's where you can step in as mom and help help him navigate that. Ask him really good questions, support him, find him opportunities where he can figure out that thing he wants to sink his teeth into. And that might mean education, it could mean trade school, could be a two year community college, could be four year. Maybe he's an entrepreneur and he wants to start his own thing. You can support him in that. And that's the best thing you can do as a mom. And the investing will come, like Jade said, when the time is right. Yeah, because I don't want him going to get a car loan because he's been investing all of his money but doesn't unlock it. $25,000 for a car.
- [99:36]
D
And I think that's so good. I think as a par. Best thing you can do is teach your kids healthy and smart money habits. I know for our kids. So our kids are on, I mean they get paid for their chores basically. So they get commissioned. Yeah. Commission or just paycheck, whatever. So they get, they get paid at the end of every week. But Sam and I's rule is you do not get to spend the money until the end of the month. So the habit that we're trying to build with them is I don't spend my money as soon as I get it. So I get paid every Saturday, but not until the fourth Saturday can I spend. And the other thing that we cause the, that we teach them to do, I can't say we make them do it, but we teach them. Okay, if you do want to spend your money, we have them tell us what, what's something that you're thinking before we ever go to the store, what's something that you think you need or that you have your eye on? That way we're identifying. We don't just go to the store and let the store tell us what we want.
- [100:28]
B
Let the shelves speak to us.
- [100:30]
D
We say, what are you thinking about? And my daughter said, I'd like to get roller skates. And I was thinking about clothes for my doll. Like, give us three things. And then when we go to shop, those are the things we keep our eye out for. So I think those are the types of habits and, and just really mindset that you want to teach your kids.
- [100:46]
B
I like that. And we always say more is caught than taught. And he's, he's been watching mom. He's continuing to watch mom. And so he doesn't, it doesn't matter what you say at this point, he's going to be looking at what you do. And so I love that you're taking this seriously and you have an open money conversations. That's a great start to not hide it under a bushel, as they say.
- [101:04]
D
Yeah, hide it under a bushel.
- [101:05]
B
All right, Jessica's in Philadelphia up next. Jessica, welcome to the show.
- [101:10]
E
Awesome.
- [101:11]
C
Thanks for having me. I'm so excited.
- [101:12]
B
We are, too. How can we help?
- [101:15]
C
So I'm a single mom as of 2 1/2 years ago, and I have been surviving on my own. I'm a little bit concerned with my income in the case that it does go up because I don't have a great, a great income through my career because I was, I always had a job to kind of support my marriage, not to support myself as a single mom.
- [101:42]
D
Okay.
- [101:43]
C
So I only make about 50,000 a year through my 9 to 5. And then I also have a side hustle, but I very much rely on child support to get by to kind of make ends meet.
- [101:55]
D
How much is that?
- [101:55]
C
A couple of years, my child support, I get about 2,000amonth in child support. So in two years, when my oldest turns 18, that's going to be cut in half. And while I'm doing everything I can to, like, find a better job and I'm, you know, working my butt on nights and weekends at this side hustle that I'm doing. I'm just worried about kind of preparing for that, for that change that's happening in two years because I want to make sure that I'm going to be to able.
- [102:25]
D
Okay, what do you bring in? So you've got 50,000 from your main job. What is the side Hustle, bring in every month.
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C
It's. It fluctuates a lot. It can be anywhere between, I don't know, 800 and 2,000.
- [102:44]
D
Okay.
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C
So it's not consistent, and I don't want to rely on that. So that's understood.
- [102:49]
B
You want to up your core income, and we're talking it's going from 24 to 12. So the gap we need to fill in two years is 12,000 a year. About a thousand a month.
- [102:58]
C
Yeah.
- [102:59]
D
What's your margin as it stands today? Like, when you do your every dollar budget today, how much margin do you have to put towards your next goal?
- [103:06]
C
So I actually just started figuring out how to budget because I've spent the last two years just trying to stand on my own two feet. I never. I'm so financially illiterate, and I've had to learn a lot over the last two years. Years. So. And I started from scratch with zero dollars, absolutely nothing to my name. And so I'm only just starting to get into the budgeting thing. Okay. And I would say that probably I'm able to put right now about 8002000 into savings. Like, I've been trying to dump everything into savings right now. I do have a car payment too, so I don't know where my money should be going.
- [103:44]
D
Okay.
- [103:45]
C
Really what.
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B
We can help give you some focus
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D
there for sure, us seeing that. So basically, your margin would be gone when this happens in two. In two years. And I think that there's probably some places that we can find it. You mentioned some debt. So what other debts do you have That's.
- [104:00]
C
I only have a car payment. I have a little bit of debt to a hospital because my son had to have surgery, but I'm working with the hospital on figuring that out, so I'm not too worried about that one.
- [104:10]
D
Okay. How much is it?
- [104:11]
C
Payment is. Is about the hospital debt's about 3,000.
- [104:15]
D
Okay. And how much is the car debt?
- [104:19]
C
I owe 8, 500 still.
- [104:21]
D
Okay. What's the payment?
- [104:24]
C
It's $300 a month.
- [104:26]
D
Okay. So we're a third there. If we can clear up that car payment.
- [104:30]
B
Do you give yourself a little raise just by paying that off? How much money do you have to your name right now in savings?
- [104:37]
C
So in savings, I have about $133,000.
- [104:40]
B
Okay, awesome.
- [104:41]
D
So I'd actually the. The 800 to $1,000 a month that you're putting in savings, I'd actually start applying that to your debt snowball. So debt snowball is a. A method of attacking Debt. And here we teach that taking your income back is the most important thing that you can do. Right? Your, your income is your biggest wealth building tool. So we would say, hey, first thing you need, you need $1,000 saved as a cushion. Next thing, we're attacking debt. Debt snowball method. We're paying off the debt smallest to largest. I think I heard you say you have 13,000 saved. Yes, I would jump in that today. I would pay.
- [105:17]
B
What if you paid it off today and you, you were left with $4,500, which is still awesome and next month it's 6,500. If you crush it and get that two grand, how would that feel?
- [105:29]
C
I would just be. It's taken me so long to get to the 13,000 thousand. It would, it would make me nervous. I mean, I guess I can always work more.
- [105:38]
D
Well, let's do, let's do math because math helps set everything straight. The truth is you don't have 13,000 saved. Okay? You got 12 in debt, so you have $1,000. That's the truth.
- [105:53]
B
That's on paper math, that's the counting math.
- [105:55]
D
You only have a thousand dollars to your name anyway, so you may as well pay off the debt and make it so and then keep adding to it.
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B
Debt free emergency fund. Then begin investing. You'll be on the path if you just start focusing your money. You got this.
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Buying or selling your home is a huge, a huge deal. And you want an expert in your corner who's fighting for you to find the best deal for the right price or get the most for your home. If you're selling. And the Ramsey trusted program is the only way to find a top agent you can trust will help make your home buying or selling a blessing, not a burden. It's easy. Compare agent profiles. You interview them. You choose the right one to work with. And you can find a local Ramsey trusted real estate pro for free@ramseysolutions.com agent or click the link in the description. If you're listening on YouTube or podcast. Mark is in Birmingham. Up next, Mark, welcome to the show.
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Hey, how are you guys doing today?
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B
We're doing great. What's going on with you?
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E
Thank you for having me.
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Sure.
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So I have a little predicament. Not a predicament, I guess, but I'm wondering if you guys think that it is okay for me to quit my job because I'm basically working two full time jobs with my side business as well that I've built. And I honestly hate my 9 to 5. Absolutely hated. Got a new boss and it has become extraordinarily difficult for me to even get up in the morning and want
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to go, wow, what sort of things are happening there?
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What's your job? So I can make sure I don't, I never do it don't apply.
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George.
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Well, I'm in retail. I'm in retail. I've been in retail for my entire adult life and, and I built a YouTube channel up and basically now it's. My dad laughs at me because he thinks that I should just quit. But I do have insurance through my job and that's of course a very important thing. You know, I'm 30 years old now, so I'm getting older and trying to take care of my health as well. But what do you make from the
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YouTube channel and what do you make from retail?
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So retail I bring home a salary of like 3200amonth. Bring home. And YouTube is kind of up and down depending on like if I have brand deals or if it's a good month, bad month, whatever. But on average here this year I've made around 8 to $9,000 a month just off of YouTube. And what, I double the.
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B
Triple your income?
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E
Yeah. And like good months. I can like, I've made 15 to 20 grand off of YouTube in months before.
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D
I mean, isn't that enough that you could buy your own insurance and you wouldn't need to be on the retail company's insurance if that's the only thing keeping you at that job.
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E
I could, I just, I just don't know how expensive that would be. Even though I do have like an LLC and everything. I just really haven't.
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B
I mean, I got your homework assignment right here. Okay. When you're done with the call, go tohealthtrust financial.com. they're a health insurance broker that we recommend that can shop for you to find you the. The best coverage at the best price. So once you have that information, you're going to feel more confident to go, okay, it's 1200 bucks a month for the coverage I need. Great. I can stomach that. Considering your mental health is on the line and you're making triple with YouTube pretty consistently. How. How consistent has this been that you've made more than, you know, four grand a month on YouTube every month for the last year?
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E
Last. Yeah, yeah, last month was my worst month I've had in like the last three years, and I made five grand.
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C
Cool.
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B
So, you know, that's the floor right now.
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E
Yeah, I'm at like 115,000 subscribers. And, you know, it's way to go growing.
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B
And what kind of channel content do you do?
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D
Yeah, I'm looking it up. What. What are you called? I just want to know.
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E
Okay, okay. He got kicks is the name. So we changed my name from Mark to something else because I don't like everybody knowing how much money I have.
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D
You said he got kicks. I see you.
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E
Yeah, there we go. And. Yeah, and I've done that. And I've saved up like $135,000.
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B
There you go. There's your off ramp. Even if you need some cushion, this
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D
is the channel I need to be following.
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B
You got the right person on the call, Mark, because Jade's a big. She's a shoe head, I think is what they're called.
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D
Sneaker head.
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B
Sneaker head.
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E
Yeah.
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B
That's how old I am.
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D
He said a shoe head. That's okay. I'll take it.
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E
It's fine.
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D
I listen when you tell me the
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B
numbers, dude, put your two weeks in
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D
tomorrow because here's the thing. If you decide that, oh, man, I want this $3200 back, go get another retail job. Right?
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B
Retail will always be there. They're always going to need marks of the world. But right now, you. You enjoy this YouTube stuff, right?
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E
It's my passion. It really and honestly saved my life.
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B
How many hours are you putting into it right now with your retail job?
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E
Every. With retail, I'm with retail. I'm at 40. And with YouTube, I'm at least at 75 to 80. Like, wow. I do. You know, because I'm also trying to build another channel as well about technology. Trying to build that up as well. So I'm really.
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B
Dude, I would ride this train until morning.
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D
Follow the passion. It's been lucrative for you. And it seems like you have cracked a code that many are trying to crack. So keep going in that direction.
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B
Yeah.
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D
And you can afford, I'm telling you, you can afford health insurance for yourself. Is it just you or is it an entire family?
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E
It's just me. My girlfriend lives with me and I mean she makes like 75 grand a year too. But I mean, and it's just.
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D
Then it's just for you. You can afford that?
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E
Yeah. Correct.
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B
Congrats, Mark. You just earned another subscriber from Jade today. That's exciting.
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D
Wait, let me go and click this.
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B
That's pretty cool.
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D
Let me smash that. Let me smash that subscribe button.
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B
That's pretty cool. And it is true, Jade. I mean, it's crazy. We'll talk to like a 13 year old who's making seven grand a month from YouTube. It's just a different environment.
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D
Different environment.
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B
And not everyone's going to understand it, but it sounds like even your family's supportive. Your dad's laughing at you saying, dude, you made nine grand a a month from this YouTube channel. It's time to go. Why are you spending 40 hours a week in retail? I love it. That's a great subscribe, Great story.
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D
You got kicks.
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B
That's the American dream right there of becoming a YouTuber. Liz is in Omaha up next. Liz, how can we help?
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Hey, Jaden George, what's going on? So how can I let go of my savings account that I built over over a decade? I'm a workaholic and I work about 60 to 80 hours a week and the only debt I really have is about 500 in credit cards. Just I pay it off each year, I mean each month.
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D
Okay.
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C
And, and I got in a hit and run accident in 2023 and I financed car.
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B
Oh, what's left on the balance?
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C
So about $12,600 and I think $75.
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B
And how much do you have in savings?
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C
So I have two bank accounts. I moved up here in Omaha in from South Carolina and in my South Carolina bank account I have about $12,667.
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D
Okay.
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In a CD. Actually it's in a CD. And I have 800 in the savings account in that same bank. And then the bank that I use right Now, I have 38,000 and about a thousand in checking. I just found you guys in February, end of February, beginning of March. And now I'm just obsessed with you guys. I listen to you guys 2477 and I did the baby steps backwards. I opened a Roth IRA a couple months ago and my savings account is now 38,000. So I had 47,000 in my wells Fargo. And now I just can't. I can't get myself to, to make that last because I. I could really pay off this car, like right now if I wanted to.
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D
Yeah, just take the 12,000 from the, the 1 savings account and knock it out. And then. Yeah, why not?
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B
I mean, look at the reality of this. You pay off this car and you're left with $25,000. Can you live with that? Can you stack back up some cash?
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C
I mean, I work two jobs now. I probably could.
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B
Yeah. I mean, you're a workaholic. You're a saveaholic. It's time to be a debt free aholic. How about that?
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D
What are you making from these two jobs? Jobs from these. 80 hours a week.
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C
$15 from C. From C. And I'm a vendor, So I make $22 an hour. And I do about.
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D
I will say this, I will say this to you, Liz. I might look for some jobs that are a little bit higher paying so that you're not having to work 80 hours to get the same result, because that'll break your back after a while.
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B
If you can work 40 to get the same amount of pay, you'll get your mental health back and you won't have to be so aggressive in every other area. But I would pay off the car today. And if you don't sleep good at night with a paid off car, you can always go get another loan. They'll give it to you.
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Our scripture of the day, Ecclesiastes 3, verses 1 and 2. There is a time for everything and a season for every activity under the heavens. A time to be born and a time to die. A time to plant and a time to uproot. Michael Altshuler said, the bad news is time flies. The good news is you're the pilot. Look at that. Okay, I'm the pilot of time in my own life, I guess.
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D
Okay, I was thinking.
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I'll chew on that.
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E
One.
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Michael?
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Yeah.
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Thank you.
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Okay.
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All right. Neil is in Grand Rapids. Up next. What's going on, Neil?
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Hi, Jade and George. Thank you for taking my call.
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Absolutely.
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I'm retiring next year and my wife and I are both 75 years old and we've been married for 59 years. I think we're in great.
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D
Congratulations.
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E
Thank you. I think we're in great shape financially. My wife is still a little nervous, if you do the math. We were married when we were 16 years old. And I was a father at 16. So talk about baby steps.
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D
Amazing.
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E
Yes. And I was working at a car wash. So I understand why she's a little nervous about money. Because we started out dirt poor. She doesn't want to go back to being poor. But I think we're in good shape. Our kids are all grown. They're all financially okay. I don't plan on leaving money to them intentionally. And I think. Here's what we have. We have. Our home is worth $350,000. We have a $63,000 mortgage at 2 1/4 percent. We have Social Security after taxes of $41,000 a year. We have a 401 worth about 450,000. We have a Roth IRA at about 150,000. And we usually carry about 40 or 50,000 in our bank checking account. Beyond that, we have cars and antiques worth about another hundred thousand.
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D
Are the cars paid off?
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Yes.
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D
Okay, good.
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E
So we have no other bills.
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So the Social Security. What is that, 3,000amonth?
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About. Yes.
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Is that enough to. Can you live solely off the Social Security or do you need. How much do you pull out of the. Would you be pulling out of the 401k?
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I would think we kind of did it. And it's going to be a little hard to figure, but about another $10,000 per year.
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D
Okay.
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B
Is what you need out of the retirement accounts?
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E
Yes.
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B
Okay.
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E
Yes.
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B
We'll call it 12. So, what's your question today?
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E
Well, I'd like to take time for travel and entertainment. I'm looking at about $15,000 a year, maybe 20, that I think we should be able to enjoy our lives over the next, you know, 15 years. That's going to 90, I think I'm aggressively, I mean, aggressively on our 401 s, et cetera. But I think I would downplay that down to about a 50% short term after I'm retired. 30% in an index fund and 20 in an FDIC. So I do the math and it looks like we're okay. But again, my Wife's a little nervous, and I get it.
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B
Um, so would you be pulling from retirement instead of pulling 12, you'd pull 24?
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E
Yes.
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B
Something like that. Okay.
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E
Yep.
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B
I mean, I'm crunching some. Some napkin math here. If you had a 24 run retirement, let's say you guys live to be 99 and just using your 600 grand, if you needed to pull 24 grand a year from retirement, you have a 99.2% success rate. And that's not counting the antiques, the money. So mathematically, you're okay. And I would have her and you sit down with a SmartVest CH Pro to actually show her these projections to show her just how small of a chance there is of failure with these numbers. Now, if you ramp it up, they'll show you. Hey, if you ramp up to 36 instead of 24, you could run into problems. If you guys live to be a hundred, sure. And then you guys can have actual facts instead of. Right now, it's just all emotion.
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E
Right, Right. And I understand the first 10 years for our marriage, we were struggling, and then we, you know, started investing late. I had a business, so I didn't invest in a 401 until I was probably 50. So, you know, it went from there.
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B
But what's your mortgage payment?
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E
Pardon me?
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B
What's the mortgage payment every month?
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E
Mortgage payment. I don't. I think it's $700, approximately.
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B
Okay. I was just wondering if she'd. If there was a compromise here where you said, hey, we're going to sell off some of the antiques, pay off the mortgage, that'll free up 700 bucks. Would that make you feel better about us loosening the purse strings a little bit and enjoying our retirement?
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D
I'll tell you, it'd make me feel better.
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E
Yes. Well, she doesn't want to pay off the mortgage because I suggested we do that.
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B
Why doesn't she want.
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E
Well, because she's earned. She's worked our way to a 2.75 interest rate. She's very proud of that. And she likes knowing that we have paying the bills. She does a good job with it, and I think there's a little security there.
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D
You said she likes paying the bill.
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B
There's security in owning your own home free and clear, not the bank owning it.
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D
She'd still pay the taxes, right?
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E
Right.
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B
Let her pay the insurance and taxes, and she can have a field day. But if she's worried about money and she's also saying, I want to keep my $700 payment, well, now we have two conflicting opinions. You want to keep the interest rate or do you want to enjoy retirement?
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D
I mean, you said you're going to work for one more year.
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E
Yes.
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D
If you reached over and you paid off the mortgage and then for set for the next year, you put the 700 back and reinvested it along with what you're doing now. That feels pretty good to me.
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E
Yeah, I think so. And that's what I was talking about too. So, yeah, I think she's going to be okay. She's probably listening. I'm working out of town, but just knowing that somebody else agrees with me. I think she knows and yeah, but we just want to enjoy ourselves.
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D
What kind of work do you you do, Neil?
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E
I'm a CEO right now. I did construction most of my life, but I've been a CEO for 20 years.
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D
Wow.
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B
Fantastic.
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D
Way to go. Proud of you guys. Congrats on 59 years. That's really incredible.
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B
Enjoying retirement. Because the truth is, Neil, you're 75. I hope you guys live to 100. But we don't know what the future holds. And some people hoard the money and go, well, when we're 80, we'll enjoy it. And then there's a health problem and now they can't travel, they can't enjoy it. And so there's a great book too called Die with Zero. I don't agree with everything in the book, but the general premise is pretty good of enjoy your money while you're alive and spoil your kids while you're alive and not hoard it until they're in their 60s and you give them a million bucks that they don't need anymore.
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D
It goes right along with our scripture and quote of the day, there's a time for everything.
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B
That's right. It's time to live. So I hope she's listening, Neil, and I hope that helps. But I would sit down with a professional professional who can run these actual numbers and show her the truth and show you the guardrails. Hey, you can spend between this and this and be totally fine. Even in a worst case scenario, here's where you'd be. So I hope that helps. Thomas is in Bentonville, Arkansas. Thomas, what's your question today?
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E
Hi there. I make about 50,000 a year take home and I was just curious on how you guys could have how to afford a house. That income is subject to change due to promotions in the Future. I'm only 23 years old. We're on baby step three right now and we're just trying to build a nice emergency fund because we're a one income household with a little boy at home.
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C
Oh, wow.
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B
And that's. You want to keep it that way. Let's. You want to keep her at home, keep you working and let's increase the income so that we can become homeowners instead of continuing to rent.
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E
Yes.
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D
What do things cost in your area to have the type of home that you're thinking of? Reasonably, what would you have to spend?
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E
Right around 300,000 right now. There's nothing within an hour. There's nothing within an hour of work that we can afford with the 25% rule.
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D
Yeah. And I was going to say, you know, the 25% rule. That's good. And you're bringing home, what is that? Around 3,3500amonth?
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E
Yeah, around. A little more, actually. 3900.
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D
Okay, 39 that bank, because right now
- [126:32]
B
that means $1,000 mortgage payment, which as you can imagine, very difficult with today's housing prices and interest rates, which means we need to either save more for the down payment or change the home price. And that's going to take some patience in getting your income up. So that's what I would be focused on. You're 23. That's a great income. I would focus on what can I do to start making 60, 70, 80 over the next couple of years so that you have more margin to stack for the down payment.
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D
Yeah. And let me just encourage you that 23 is so young. My husband and I got married at 23 and we didn't buy our first house together until, oh my goodness, was that 35 that we bought.
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B
And the average age now, jade, is like 38 to 40 for first time homeowners. So I wouldn't be in a rush, Thomas, but I would be very intentional on working on my income, staying debt free, setting a goal, you and your wife sitting down saying, hey, we're going to save 24,000 a year. That's 2,000amonth. We got to sock away into this high yield savings account what must be true for us to get there. I need to go make more money. We need to cut down our expenses. Hope that helps. That puts this hour of the show in the books. Remember, there's ultimately only one way to financial peace and that's to walk daily with the prince of peace, Christ Jesus Sa.