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Rachel Cruze
Normal is broke, and common sense is weird. So we're here to help you transform your life. From the Ramsey Network in the Fairwinds Credit union studio, this is the Ramsey show, and I'm Rachel Cruz hosting this hour with my good friend and co host of Smart Money Happy Hour, George Camel. And we'll be answering your calls. So give us a call at 888. 825. 5225. And we'll be talking about your life and your money. First up, we have Jimmy in Los Angeles. Hi, Jimmy. Welcome to the show.
Jimmy
Hey, Rachel. Hey, George. Big fan of Yalls. Thank you so much for what you do. I really appreciate everything that you guys do, and I've gained a lot of knowledge these past few weeks learning more about what you guys do and how to, like, financially plan my future. But I've kind of gotten myself into a sticky situation, and I'm just trying to see if I can, like, maybe get some guidance on trying to find a way out.
Rachel Cruze
Sure. So what's going on?
Jimmy
So late 2024, you know, I retired from the military, served for 22 years, and earlier that year, I decided to open up, like, a kind of like a shop and where we just do, like, detail services, paint protection, film wraps, and things like that. And, yeah, it actually cost me a lot of money throughout that year, I'm sure. How much to the point? Well, we're at a point now where we're, like. Like $580,000 in debt at this point.
Rachel Cruze
Okay.
Jimmy
That first year, we took, like, a $220,000 loss. Admittedly, I think I hired too many people full time, kind of went in too fast and too hard on that, and it kind of really hurt me. So I had to take, like, an SBA loan to kind of get caught up and used a bunch of credit cards. And then the year after, we netted. So just last year, we netted about 35% net loss. So we had another net loss, but it was a better net loss.
Rachel Cruze
And you're still throwing money at this thing.
Jimmy
I'm still throwing money at this thing. I mean, it seems like you're. Oh, it seems like we're. We're kind of, like, making a way out of that.
Ken Coleman
And, I mean, what's. What's the stop loss here? A million dollars in debt, and then we'll call it quits. I mean, at some point, you just got to go, this ain't it. I Would rather pack it up now versus try to. It's like a gambler where they lost a bunch of money in Vegas and they go back to go like, well, now I got to win even bigger to get out of this mess.
Jimmy
Right. That's what I was afraid of. And, you know, through this process, I kind of been, you know, free labor, so I haven't been getting paid by my business.
Ken Coleman
On top of that, you're. How are you paying your bills? Through more debt. Do you have retirement through military?
Jimmy
I do.
Ken Coleman
Okay. What's that per month?
Jimmy
My wife. My wife works too.
Ken Coleman
Okay.
Jimmy
I pull in about 5,500 take home per month from my military retirement. And then what she makes about. She makes about like, take home 4500ish per month.
Ken Coleman
So 10 grand a month is what we're taking home. And that's, that's the hard truth is that's the number we need to actually pay down this over half million dollars in debt.
Caller
Right.
Ken Coleman
What does the trajectory look like for revenue?
Jimmy
It's, it's, it's looking positive because, you know, last year, like I said, even though we had a net loss, it was a smaller net loss. And I think this year we'll be in the positive. But I'm struggling because, like, I've been working for free for two years, essentially, in this business.
Rachel Cruze
Well, and digging deeper in debt. I mean, 35% loss. I mean, this is just a very expensive hobby at this point. This isn't a business.
Ken Coleman
Even if it breaks even, this isn't worth it now, right?
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. Jimmy, when you project out, what do you. With all these loans, how much is the. Is it half a million now or how much debt in general? I'm just trying to. I'm trying to project out, like, what by, I don't know, in the next, like, month or two, like, how much total debt are you guys in?
Jimmy
So I've written everything down. So as it stands right now on the business side, we're at $580,000 in debt.
Ken Coleman
I know.
Jimmy
I have a PhD in being a bozo.
Rachel Cruze
How much of that is credit card? How much of that is small business loans?
Jimmy
So $165,000 of that is credit, and then the rest is split up between SBA working capital and a line of credit.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. Because I'm just thinking the credit cards, you know, if you get behind those, will be easier to settle than some of these loans directly the SBA loan from the bank.
Ken Coleman
What does your wife think about this? What does she think you should do?
Jimmy
She's not very happy with it, but she's been very supportive and very understanding throughout the process. So an absolute blessing to me. Definitely not an added stressor. She's been an anchor for me for sure.
Caller
Yeah.
Rachel Cruze
I mean, a little bit, Jimmy, But a part of me also is like, you guys aren't living in reality. Like, she should be kind of flipping out. Do you know what I mean? I'm like, I mean, I understand the anchor of feeling supported, but you're feeling supported and doing something that's continually getting you guys deeper and deeper into a problem versus saying, stop, stop where we are and we're done. Because we can't just keep doing this. And the problem, too, is that the guesswork is for what you're possibly going to do this year. I mean, you know what I mean? It's like, you can't. You can't predict it. And, and so you guys either have to say, we're going to try to stick this out for a year with no more debt. No more debt. And if that means we have to close up parts of the business in order to do that. Okay. To see if we can get some revenue in here. But you guys can't just keep digging yourselves in a hole and expect just to come out the other side.
Caller
Right, Right.
Rachel Cruze
So I would sit down and you guys, I mean, you either need to make a decision if you were to stop this completely. Guys have things that you can sell off in the business. Like, is there any way that you could gain any of this money back if you were to close shop today from, like, a real estate perspective or, like, you know what I mean?
Ken Coleman
Equipment you have in the business?
Jimmy
Yeah, I have about $50,000 worth of equipment, but I. I think that's tied up in the SBA loan. They. They would have to, you know, I'd have to get permission to. To sell that off to pay that loan down.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah.
Jimmy
And that's why I was like, worst.
Caller
Case.
Jimmy
I really want to avoid bankruptcy. It's definitely not my first choice. And I even thought about getting a job so I can just get some sort of income and then using that job to pay down this debt. But since it's a business, I don't really want to create murky waters with me paying off business debt with my own personal income.
Rachel Cruze
It's all tied to you anyways. Jimmy.
Ken Coleman
Go back to the papers. Look who signed it.
Rachel Cruze
It's you. Yeah. Ye. I mean, it's all. They're all going to come for you.
Ken Coleman
It's not like car detailer llc. Well, they owe the money, not Jimmy.
Caller
Right.
Ken Coleman
It's guaranteed by you. And so that's the. Yeah, that's the hard news is you have to now picture this like it's just consumer debt that you took on. And so you're going to begin the business of cleaning it up. And I hope that you can find a new job that can create a better income that will allow you to clean this up faster. But if you just even sell the 50 grand worth of equipment that's 10% of your debt you just knocked out. And so you got to start making progress. I would not sink more money into this thing just to be 600,000 in debt. 650. And hope we have less of a net loss. Oh, I'm heartbroken for you, man. Thank you for your service too. 22 years, that's. That's incredible. I hope you guys can climb out of this.
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Rachel Cruze
Up next, we have Caroline in Detroit. Hi, Caroline, welcome to the show.
Caller
Hi. Thank you for taking my call.
Rachel Cruze
Absolutely. How can we help today?
Caller
Well, so I recently found out that my husband's been misusing his fund money to pay for communicating with a prison pen pal and.
Ken Coleman
Sorry, did you say prison pen pal?
Rachel Cruze
Yes, like, is that a lady in prison?
Caller
Exactly.
Rachel Cruze
Did he know her before she was in prison?
Caller
No. I guess it was like some ads that popped up, he said on a site. So he got in this cycle and he stopped. But I'm wondering, how do I move on from this Financial and emotional infidelity now and trust.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah.
Ken Coleman
Did he come forward with it, or did you catch him? Like, where is he at with this?
Caller
So I. I caught him because I found some suspicious numbers on. On our phone bill. And so he had been, like, broke all the time, like, just waiting for, you know, couldn't wait for that next, like, fun money to come, but had nothing to show for it, so I. I couldn't figure things out.
But though those.
Yeah, I get. I guess it's. It's a thing that people do, and. And he was kind of, like, trapped in it because I didn't know, so he couldn't tell me. He couldn't, you know, do his phone number. I mean, he just.
Ken Coleman
No, he wasn't trapped. He was willfully doing this on his own volition.
Caller
Yeah, you're. You're right. You're right.
Ken Coleman
Nobody, like, was forcing him to continue this weird prison pen pal.
Rachel Cruze
How long was the relationship for?
Caller
I'm embarrassed to say I didn't figure it out for three years.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. And it was the same woman.
Ken Coleman
Is this a scam or is this a real thing? Because it feels like a scam.
Caller
So it actually is a real thing that people are doing. Like, I guess the purpose of it is to get people to get out and communicate, you know?
Ken Coleman
So who's making the money paying?
Caller
Exactly. So then they're. They're. So they. They use the money to put on their records or to buy things in their commissary or. Or who knows what else. Like, I'm not really sure, but it kind of, like, funds their money while.
Ken Coleman
They'Re in commissary money.
Caller
Yeah.
Ken Coleman
That is wild.
Rachel Cruze
Okay.
Caller
Yeah.
Rachel Cruze
Well, that. Yes. Okay. So, I mean, from the financial standpoint. Caroline, are you guys. Well, sorry, let me just back up for a second. When you found out, when did you confront him about this? How long ago was it?
Caller
It's been probably in the past. I would say four months.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. Are you guys working on your marriage actively right now? Are you seeing someone? Are you, you know, going to therapy? What are you guys doing?
Caller
So I was. I was going to therapy, and we also had the complication that we had a tree fall on our house. So we were dealing with a hole in our mar. A hole in our house. So even if we wanted to, like, get divorced, sell the house, we couldn't, because we're in. We have this massive hole.
Rachel Cruze
Right.
Caller
You know, going on. I was talking to somebody in counseling, and he did. I just. I was ready to get divorced, and I just said, hey, would you be interested in going, like, to church with me, you know, sometime? And it was only because of his reaction of, like, how excited he. He was to, like, try to go to church and know that I was. Maybe there was a way that I was willing to, like, directly.
Rachel Cruze
Is he doing work on his own, individually.
Caller
Just, like, through the church? And I know we're gonna do a marriage retreat soon. He, like, I talked to him about counseling. He's willing, but he's just like, it's just so dark.
It's just.
And I told him, like, I need this in order to.
Rachel Cruze
He said, it's just so dark. Is that what you said?
Caller
Sorry.
Rachel Cruze
He said, what was his response when you said that he needs to go to counseling?
Caller
Oh, it like the out. He's like, it won't be good. It's just so dark, his story.
Rachel Cruze
Like, what. What's in his head?
Caller
Like, all of that, I think just maybe of, like, the whole truth coming out. Like, I maybe only know a portion of it because I wanted to know, like, what did this person go to prison for in my face? How long were they in prison for?
Ken Coleman
You know, if you guys are going to move forward, everything needs to come into the light.
Rachel Cruze
Yes.
Caller
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Rachel Cruze
It's a feeling full. It's a full disclosure situation that you guys need to sit down with a counselor to even move forward. There's no way you. You can move forward with half the truth with your marriage. And George and I are not marriage experts. If Dr. John DeLoney were here, I think he would completely agree with us on that. So. Yeah, so this is a. This is a rebuilding because of how deeply cut the trust has been in the marriage. Right. I mean, for. For three years and any given period of time, Right. When a spouse steps outside the marriage, like, that is. That is painful. And. Yeah, something to really, really be working on for both of you and the individual work for both of you. You having to learn to trust yourself again. For him to face some of his demons and to understand what work he needs to be doing. I mean, yeah, there's a lot of repair that has to happen regardless of if the marriage survives. So I'm just saying, individually, to be two healthy people, that's what you guys need. And then moving forward out of that, if you get the whole truth and you still decide, yes, I want to be in this marriage, then, yes, then there's all the repair work within the marriage, but from an emotional side, it's definitely gonna take some individual work. And then I would say from the financial. I would definitely have. Have a. I would be separating finances. Does he work and do you work? Do you both bring in a paycheck?
Caller
Yes.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. And did we all sharing an account at the time when this happened?
Caller
We were, but because we were working the baby steps, he was doing it with his fun money.
Rachel Cruze
So he just was going, where was the. But the fun money Is it. Is the fun money in Yalls checking account?
Caller
Well, we would take it out cash.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. Okay.
Caller
So right now we're at the point that I'm like. In order for me to trust.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah.
Caller
Your fund money is going to have to be tracked.
Rachel Cruze
Tracked 100%. Yes. Oh, I think that's totally fair.
Ken Coleman
I would also pull his credit report and then freeze his credit on top of that. So we want to pull the credit report to make sure there's no outstanding debts that maybe you don't know about and to get a clear picture of what's out there and then freeze his credit so he can't open any new accounts. And that's just one stopgap to make sure that there's no more financial infidelity outside of what's even in your checking account.
Caller
Okay.
Ken Coleman
But I would have transaction alerts set up. So you get a text message. Every time Ascent comes out of that bank account, you get a transaction alert. Even if it's just his account Right now. If you separate.
Caller
Yeah.
Rachel Cruze
Because there has to be some steps, some visible evidence for trust to be rebuilt in the situation. Caroline. So that's not you being over controlling or like being his mom. Right. Some. Some marriages can function so dysfunctionally with money where like person just has all the control and has to give everything and the other one doesn't know any passwords. All that. I'm not talking about that. This is. There was a. There was broken trust within the marriage. Money was involved in it, as it usually is. And because of that, in order to rebuild trust, I have to know exactly where the money's going. I need every account. Just like his phone records. I need every account of your phone records. Like, there has to be a level of. Of knowledge for you to keep moving forward in this marriage when it comes to building trust.
Caller
Okay.
Rachel Cruze
And I know I'm really tempted. I know he didn't. You know, I know he didn't steal money from you guys and all of that, but. Because it was allocated to him. But I mean, there's almost a part of me. Until you know that the marriage is going to survive this, I almost would just have my own checking Account, Carolyn. But he has to be showing you his transactions out of his. But I'm just scared that something else is gonna come up, and you're gonna find whether there's more on the infidelity side with the relationship or even more financially uncovering some stuff.
Ken Coleman
Cause you caught him, and he still is not telling you the whole truth. And that's the scary part, is we just don't know how much more damage there is. And so because of that, I would just be on the cautious defensive side right now. To protect yourself.
Caller
Okay.
Ken Coleman
And then action plus time plus counseling plus God, that's gonna be the only solution to rebuild this trust and restore this marriage.
Caller
Okay.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. I'm so sorry, Caroline. That is like. It's so heartbreaking. So heartbreaking. And what's wild are these calls, George, we get. We get pretty consistently whether it's a marriage that, you know, one of the two have, you know, made poor choices. But even from the financial infidelity side of taking money and doing things that the spouse didn't know about, it's becoming more and more common. So, again, yeah, the best line of defense, Caroline, is you work on you. He needs to work on him. And you guys moving forward with all the truth out, decide, what are we going to do?
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Caller
How are you doing today?
Rachel Cruze
Hi, we're doing great. How can we help?
Caller
Okay, I am 63 year old. I'm retired. I am debt free on my own home. And then of course, my wife, she's got about 20 acres that we own. You know, we don't owe for anything.
Rachel Cruze
Good for you guys.
Caller
And I have, and I have a large sum of money. I have never invested in anything all my life except my 10% to the Lord. So I don't know what to do with this money I got. It's just sitting in a plain old savings account.
Rachel Cruze
Okay, how much money is it, William?
Caller
It's a little over 400,000.
Rachel Cruze
400,000. Okay. And is that what you're living off of month to month or do you guys have good retirement or Social Security?
Caller
No, I have a pension that comes in every month.
Rachel Cruze
Okay.
Caller
Which covers pretty much all my expenses, which my wife still works and, you know, she makes a good salary.
Rachel Cruze
So you guys are living off of what's coming in. You're not having to touch this 400,000.
Caller
That's right. It's just been sitting there year after year after year after year, which now my pension check is going into my savings and it's been doing that for like four years and I've never touched it. So that's why it just keeps building and building and building and I don't know what to do with it.
Ken Coleman
Are you calling us because you're ready to invest now? It seems like there was maybe a fear or a hesitance to do that in the past.
Caller
Well, you know, when you come up poor, you know, you just always scared about taking big risks. So. But I had talked to the bank about, you know, maybe, you know, doing a cd and then they talked about, well, maybe you can go another way and put it in an annuity.
Ken Coleman
You know, I wouldn't do that. That's just a more expensive product that gives them more commissions in their pocket. That's the truth.
Caller
Right, right, that, and that was kind of my concern because that ties it up for three years.
Ken Coleman
Yeah.
Caller
You know, so.
Ken Coleman
Well, there's a way you can invest this money and have it grow for you. Because the truth is there is more risk of it just sitting in a checking. There is if it's invested wisely. Because right now inflation has been eating up that 400 grand for years now.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah, you're probably having kept up with inflation with the savings account because you're. What you're making on that is what, less than 1% sometimes in some savings Accounts.
Caller
Yeah.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. So it's not even keeping up with them. So your money's actually kind of technically in value has gone down. Yeah, it's gone down in a sense. So. Yeah. So investing. I understand, William. Yeah, it feels, it feels risky. And I think there's ways that you can invest that is risky and then there's ways that are very wise and. Yeah. And that the risk is just not there. Right. So if you're talking about like single stocks, if you're talking about something like cryptocurrency or whatever. Right. There's some more definitely risky type ways that you can put this money. But also there's a lot that is, is actually very safe because you can look at the, the history of the fund and be able to somewhat predict, okay, if the US Economy continues to do well. And again, some years is down, some years is up, but it's not this like, drastic change over time. And you can kind of, you know, you really can look at the pattern over time and say, okay, this one feels right. And if the US Economy all crashes and burns and you lose all the money, I think there's probably more problems that we're going to have than just thinking about. Right. That. That money in the account.
Ken Coleman
So, William, the first thing I would do is talk to an investment professional because what they can do is educate you and guide you, and you can do that. @ramseysolutions.com Click on Start Investing on our website and that will connect you with someone who can help you manage this money wisely. You ever read the Parable of the Talents?
Caller
And what is that in the Bible?
Ken Coleman
The Parable of the Talents. It's a great read. I highly recommend it. Go check it out after this. And I hope it encourages you to steward this money in a way that helps it to grow so that you can retire with dignity, leave a legacy, and even create generational wealth. Because if you just leave this money in an average mutual fund or index fund, it would double in seven years. So on your 70th birthday, there's 800 grand sitting there. And you did diddly. You didn't touch the money, you just left it.
Rachel Cruze
And William, I'll say this too. You know, we talked to some, you know, we talked to a lady, this was a few months ago, she was in her 90s and she was just scared to death to invest her money. I mean, it would keep her up at night. And I'm like, you know what? You're old. Solve for peace. If that stresses you out, you're fine. You know what I mean? But you're 63, William. You got a long life to live. You could easily be living another 30 years. So I would, yes, be very much considering investing and go talk to someone that has the heart of a teacher, one of our smartvestor pros. Because genuinely, you and I want you to feel comfortable with it. Okay. But I do want you to learn something new for how this money can actually, like George said, double in size, continue to grow so that you can leave an even bigger legacy versus living in this fear of the unknown. All right, let's go to. Is it Esmeralda? Beautiful name. Sacramento. Welcome to the show.
Caller
Hi. Thank you so much for having me.
Rachel Cruze
You're so welcome. How can we help?
Caller
So I am a first time mom. My daughter is going to be turning one on February 23rd, and I am planning to go to Miami for her birthday celebration because all my family lives there and my husband, he doesn't have family over here in California. It's just us. So I figured why don't we go to Miami to celebrate since my family out there haven't really had time to spend with her.
Rachel Cruze
Mm.
Caller
The only thing I'm kind of wondering now is, is it too much money? Is it even worth it with how much money we're making and how much money we have saved and would it be too late to cancel?
Rachel Cruze
Okay, how much, how much is the trip going to be total?
Caller
So for the flight, I'm looking. We already paid for the flight, but we did get refundable tickets and that came out to a total of 6, 37 and 92 cents.
Rachel Cruze
Okay, and where are you guys at financially?
Caller
I have. I mean, we have $7,700 saved. And right now in my checking account, in our checking account, we have 1,300.
Rachel Cruze
Okay, how much debt do you guys have.
Caller
Right now? It's only $200. It's from a T mobile payment that. My. That my friend at the time opened the account under my name and we don't talk anymore, but it's just that Bill 200. We took care of the credit card debt when my husband started listening to Dave Ramsey. And.
Rachel Cruze
Good. Yeah.
Ken Coleman
So no, no car loan, no lease, no student loan, none of that?
Caller
No, I didn't go to college. Neither did he. And he paid his car off with cash.
Rachel Cruze
Good for you guys. How much you guys make a year?
Caller
A year? Let me see.
Ken Coleman
Just ballpark.
Caller
45, 000.
Rachel Cruze
45000 a year. Okay. And is it. Is he just working? Are you home?
Caller
Yeah, I'M a stay at home mom and he's working.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. Esmeralda.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah.
Rachel Cruze
I mean, it doesn't bother. No, I mean, because that's all you guys are praise. You're basically doing flights. You're going to stay with family, Right. You're not going to have hotel costs or anything.
Caller
No, we're seeing a family.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah.
Ken Coleman
What is the birthday consist of?
Caller
Right now we're paying like a car rental.
Rachel Cruze
Okay.
Caller
And I was going to purchase her mini bounce house for her with the ball pit and cars parking. So when we drive to the airport, we can leave the car parked there because we don't have family out here that could drive us.
Rachel Cruze
Sure, sure. Yeah. I mean, I would match him up.
Caller
To a thousand dollars.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. So I would, I would, I would put this in the umbrella of like we're gonna go see family versus making it a first birthday kind of thing. Because that almost is going to add more expenses from the emotional planet.
Ken Coleman
You could easily climb to two grand out of just, well, let's just have fun and let's get the bounce out.
Rachel Cruze
I would just say we want to visit our family. So either you can do that now with these plane tickets, you've bought them already. And so go enjoy yourselves, stay on a strict budget or just say let's pause and maybe go this summer when we feel like we have more savings in the bank.
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Ken Coleman
Today's question comes from Kathy in Utah. I'm 70 years old and considering buying a house with a 15 year loan. If I pass away before the term of the loan is completed, what happens to the debt? I'm not married and don't have kids. Why shouldn't I borrow $500,000 knowing I may die before it's paid off? That's the spirit, Kathy. I mean one just integrity, I guess that's a good start. Character. But the point of your question, if I pass away before the term's completed, what happens to the debt? Well, your estate would pay for it, which is any assets that you own. The lender would go after those first to try to pay down the debt as much as they could and then I guess they would just take on the debt.
Rachel Cruze
And yeah, they just move on because that is the understanding that when you die, your debt does not necessarily die with you. To a point it does, but they will. Yes, factor in all the assets you have. So if you did die with credit card debt, car loan, you know, all the things, then you technically have owed that money. So if you have any money to your name or any assets, yes, they are going to deplete those in order to pay the debt. And then whatever's remaining will go to family of your estate. But again, the bank owns the house.
Ken Coleman
So they'll sell the house for what they can get for it, use that money to pay off the mortgage. And so, yeah, that's what they would do. The bank just got us a free house, so I think they might have got the better end of the deal.
Rachel Cruze
But yeah, but also, Kathy, what if you, what if you keep living, you.
Ken Coleman
Know, I mean, you're renting at 70. I don't know anything else about your financial situation. Do you have a million dollars in cash? Are you broke? We have no idea. But buying a house knowing that you could live another 20 or 30 years is a good bet. And so if you are in a financial spot to do it, I would do it.
Rachel Cruze
All right, let's head to Dorothy in Manchester, New Hampshire. Hi, Dorothy.
Caller
Hi, how are you?
Rachel Cruze
Hi. We're doing great. How can we help today?
Caller
I need to know if it, if I Should do an additional $20,000 on a HELOC. You pay off my car, which is at 12%, and I owe 23,000. And I have one credit card at $1,800 at 18%, but my HELOC is currently. I have $20,000 out on it because I had to have an emergency furnace, and it's only 6%. But long story short, I went through a bad divorce, was homeless.
Rachel Cruze
Oh, my gosh, I'm sorry.
Caller
Lost everything. My ex stole all of our joint bank account, left me with $3, and I worked for the government for 20 years. And I had to retire, move out of town. But the new job that I have is lower pay. But since 2019, I've been trying to rebuild. And like I said, I got a house. Well, I bought a condo before the housing market. I have $100,000 in equity. I bought it for 162. It's worth now over 252.
Rachel Cruze
How much are you making now, Dorothy, with your job?
Caller
What, $27 an hour.
Rachel Cruze
Okay, and what does that come. What does that come out to, like, per month? What are you bringing home?
Caller
Only, like 4200.
Rachel Cruze
Okay, 4200.
George Kamel
Okay.
Caller
Yep, yep.
Ken Coleman
That's enough to cover all your bills and cover the minimum debt payments.
Caller
Well, what I have is My loan is 1223. My HOA is 300. My car payment is 464. Insurance is 250. My lights are 100. He 100. TV, Internet, 128.
Rachel Cruze
Yes.
Caller
My phone is 45.
Rachel Cruze
So what. What margin do you have left after all of that?
Caller
I've been making all my payments, and I've been also making my $157 HELOC, and I've been putting $30 a week toward my principal of my mortgage every week. Because 30 bucks is, you know, cup of coffee or whatever, and that's all that I have is just that credit card and my car payment.
Rachel Cruze
Okay, so what I would say, Dorothy, that the secret of getting out of debt is not moving debt around and trying to get a better interest rate. The secret is you. So honestly, you kind of getting into this next gear, which you've already made incredible progress. Like the story you told us at the beginning of the call of, you know, being homeless. I mean, like, man, the fact that.
Ken Coleman
You'Re still standing with shelter is a miracle.
Rachel Cruze
You have made huge strides. So. No, I would not.
Caller
I was driving four hours to work and back.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. Yeah. That's a long time. So what I would say is the magic of getting out of debt. If there is quote unquote, it's you. So you deciding, hey, I'm going to cut where I can. I may even take on an extra job. You have the work ethic and I'm going to clean this debt up when you move it around interest rate wise, over the long term, if you had this for 15, 16 years, then, yeah, we could probably talk about it. But you can actually, you know, the short term life of this debt because you're going to pay it off so quickly. I wouldn't fool with it. I wouldn't fool moving it around. And I think it kind of gives this false sense of security of, oh, gosh, it just feels better that all my debt's in one place or that it's a better, you know, interest rate here and there. But again, that's not going to solve you getting out of debt. It's going to be you.
Ken Coleman
It didn't change any of the behavior. We just moved it around and put it in a different junk closet. And the other thing is, you're moving from unsecured debt to a secured debt. That home is collateral. And so it puts you at even further risk. And so like Rachel said, the solution is you. And that means we got to get on a written plan, we got to get on a budget. We're going to save up $1,000 starter emergency fund to stop those ankle biter emergencies. You have that in place? Do you have any other savings?
Caller
No.
Ken Coleman
Okay. What is the car worth? You owe 23 on it.
Caller
It's brand new. It's a 2025.
Dave Ramsey
Wow.
Ken Coleman
Well, that might be something you could sell for a pretty penny. Could you sell it for almost what you got for it?
Caller
I actually, I got it three months ago, so yeah, I probably could.
Ken Coleman
Because what I'm seeing is that clears your debt journey in half.
Caller
Yeah. Because see, then I could put everything of that car, pavement and that's right. You know, so forth toward the, the emergency of the HELOC for my furnace and stuff. But I mean, you'll still need another.
Ken Coleman
Car to drive, so you'll need to save up a little bit of money.
Caller
Job that I have. Yeah. Then the new job that I have, I don't. I live two minutes away versus four hours because like I said, I was driving from Vermont to Portland, Maine every single day, working my eight hours and going back to back home.
Rachel Cruze
Gosh, well, that's not a sustainable life. So I'm so glad that it's close.
Ken Coleman
Are you saying you could go without A car for, for a short season.
Caller
I could actually go with. I don't even fill my car maybe once a month, maybe once and a half.
Rachel Cruze
I'm just curious, Dorothy, what caused you, what caused you to buy it?
Caller
Because the fact just I wanted to have a forever car where I pay this off and that would be it.
Rachel Cruze
Gotcha.
Caller
I don't believe in leasing or anything like that. And you know where I only had just my credit card, but then that was it, the furnace.
Rachel Cruze
Well, let me tell you, an 8 year old, 10 year old Honda Civic, that'll last you another 10 years while you save on the side and then you got a real forever car. I wouldn't put the pressure on your next car to be a forever car. I really wouldn't. I think that that causes this debt and this $500 payment a month.
Ken Coleman
It's easy to justify when you go, well I'm going to pay it off and I'll have it forever. That's how we make bad decisions financially.
Rachel Cruze
And then when you're in the tactical side of your month and you're like, oh crap, look at all this money going and look at how much debt now I've accumulated. So, so yeah, I would try to get out of this car, Dorothy, for sure. And it's bumping up against. We have a rule that, you know, you should. Your cars should not be more than half of your annual take home pay. And it's. And yours is there.
George Kamel
Yeah.
Ken Coleman
$25,000 car making 50 grand.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah, you're tight, right on that edge. So if I were you, I would, yep. I'd get rid of it. Go buy something new used if you need it, but maybe for a season like you said, if you really can go without it for a few months, save that car payment three or five.
Ken Coleman
Hundred bucks, throw another thousand on top of that, you'll be debt free in 18 months.
Rachel Cruze
100% sense. Yeah, yeah. There's some, there's some moves you can make here, Dorothy, to really change it, but I wouldn't move the dead around in the heloc. I would make some big changes like what you're talking about. And I know you can because you have in your life and you're incredible. So we are cheering you on.
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Rachel Cruze
Welcome back to the Ramsey show in the Fairwinds Credit Union studio. I'm Rachel Cruz hosting this hour with bestselling author and my co host of Smart Money Happy Hour, George Camel.
Ken Coleman
Honored to be here.
Rachel Cruze
We are here to take your calls. It's a little different than Smart Money Happy Hour.
Ken Coleman
Different vibe.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah.
Ken Coleman
We don't take calls on Smart Money so the vibe is generally a little more positive and upbeat because people aren't going through crisis.
Rachel Cruze
I know, but we are. That's why we're here, though, for this show, to help you with your problems, to celebrate the victories. So give us a call at 888-25-5225. All right. To kick us off this hour in Salt Lake City, we have Phil. Hi, Phil. Welcome to the show.
Caller
Hi. Thanks for having me.
Rachel Cruze
Absolutely. How can we help today?
Caller
Well, it's recently come to my attention that my oldest brother has been stealing money from my parents. What started off as borrowing gas money has turned into lying his way into a massive car loan in my mom's name, stealing credit cards without my parents knowledge. And so my parents have more than $100,000 in debt now and that's not even including their mortgage. They're both almost in their 70s. My mom's on disability. My dad has 40,000 in his 401k. And they think that's a lot. And I'm just, I just don't see a way that he's ever going to be able to retire. And I understand that me and my wife are not financially responsible for them, but I'm trying to walk through this with them, but I'm no expert. And every time I learn more about their financial situation, I see less and less of a sol other than bankruptcy. And so what should I tell him to do?
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. So two different paths. I mean if you're going to go, like, full on.
Ken Coleman
He.
Rachel Cruze
He has stolen. Did he. Did he forge signatures, like, for the car loan? How did that happen?
Caller
So from what I could gather, it seems like he's lying to my mom on what she is signing and then gets her to sign something without her reading what it actually is.
Rachel Cruze
Well, crap, because I was going to.
Ken Coleman
Say this to court, they'd be like, ma', am, that's your signature. Right? And she's like, yeah, but I just.
Rachel Cruze
Didn'T read the document. And that's her fault. I mean, to a degree. I mean, do you know what I'm saying? Like, there's a level of responsibility that she did not take.
Ken Coleman
I mean, it's really. Elder abuse is what this is. That's probably your best case, is fraud and elder abuse.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. If they would. Yeah. If they would take legal action, that's what it would be. But I'm scared for. I don't know.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah.
Ken Coleman
I mean, first I would freeze their credit yesterday so that no more accounts can be out. I would also contact every lender on that credit report and say, hey, this was fraud, elder abuse. This guy took out all of these loans without the permission. You know, he basically coaxed them into it. And so then we go from there. I mean, do they still have contact with this brother? Do they know about this?
Caller
They know about it. My mom just had a stroke last week, so this is all adding to it, so.
Oh, my God, Phil.
Ken Coleman
This dude is like the scumburger of all scumbgers to this. To his own parents. Yeah.
Kurt
Yeah.
Caller
And we're trying to find him right now. He's been on crystal meth before, so I'm not shocked that this is having that involved again. So we're trying to find him and figure that out because he has the truck. He has. There's also an RV that has $250,000 on it that I think is in his dad's name. It's. It's a whole ordeal. So I just. And I'm worried that my parents aren't going to file any kind of charges.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah, they may not.
Caller
Hard to.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah.
Caller
How do you do that to your firstborn son? You know, I get that, so.
Ken Coleman
Well, I think they need to understand if they don't pursue this, then they might just be on the hook with us for the rest of their life. Yeah, that's the scary part.
Caller
And so.
Rachel Cruze
And it's a loan, Phil. Right. So the problem is, too, if. Yeah. So if he stops paying and that truck gets repoed and all that's in your mom's name. I mean, it'll all be on her. They're going to come after her for it.
Ken Coleman
Is he even making the payments?
Caller
He's not made a single payment, no.
Ken Coleman
So, I mean, are there. Have they repoed this? I guess. You don't even know.
Caller
He. He does still. He does still have the truck.
Rachel Cruze
Not for, actually.
Caller
I mean, yeah, I don't know. I don't know how long he's gonna have it for, but, like, I call.
Ken Coleman
The repo man myself on it.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah, if you can find him. So he's disappeared?
Caller
Well, yeah. He turned off all of his location services once he figured out that I.
Rachel Cruze
Knew you were on to him.
Ken Coleman
Have you found a police report?
Caller
I believe I told my mom that she needs to. I don't know that she has yet. I actually found his location this morning through his daughter. And so I'm trying to. I'm trying to figure out what I.
Rachel Cruze
Need to do, but yep. Okay. So the hard position you're in, and correct me if I'm wrong, it sounds like you are doing all the proactive work in this situation. You're worrying about your parents trying to find your brother. You're telling your parents what they should do. Like you're kind of the one heading up all of this and none of this is your issue. I understand. It's your parents and you love them. So, like, I'm just saying, from a top tier perspective, the hard place that's going to happen for you, Phil, is you're going to have a wonderful, logical game plan because you're a smart, reasonable person and you're going to say, mom and dad, you need to do A, B, C and D. Brother, they're coming after you for these. Charge and this and this and this is going to happen. And you know, you're going to have a plan laid out of what. What should be happening and in any common sense scenario. And the problem is if they choose not to move forward, that's their fault. You know that. That. That's their decision, it's not yours. And you can't make them do something or even convince them to change their mind. So I think it's going to be a discouraging situation for you, Phil, here in the next few months. Because I think you're going to realize my parents are probably naive because you're. He's been on drugs and still they're signing papers for him. Right? I mean, like, I would be going through A, to going through like, oh my. Gosh so detailed if. If that was me.
Ken Coleman
But they need to be as angry.
Rachel Cruze
As we are, and they're not.
Ken Coleman
And they're just like. Well, I guess it is what it is. Like, what is their response right now? What's their attitude?
Caller
Well, I mean, my mom feels horrible that she didn't see this coming sort of thing, but she doesn't really have the health to take this on. And my dad has not done anything financial in the. Their entire marriage. He just doesn't know anything about it. He doesn't want to know anything about it. And I'm like. Like, I. I know that I'm gonna have to, you know, that eventually. Most of the time, they sign off their finances to their children to take care of them, but I'm like, they haven't done that for me yet, so I can't. I can't do anything about it.
Jimmy
So.
Rachel Cruze
So your dad is just sitting there. Well, all this is being. I don't know.
Caller
I don't know that my dad even knows to the extent of what. How much debt he has. He just goes to work, makes the paycheck, and comes home. That's all he ever does.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. Yeah.
Caller
My mom has always handled the finances, and now she's. She's learned about some of this stuff in the past and hasn't told my dad about it, and now it's blown up to way more than I thought it would ever be.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. How much debt are they in personally, besides all the stuff that your brother brought in?
Caller
I would say not including their mortgage, they probably have anywhere from like 15 to 20,000.
Rachel Cruze
Okay.
Caller
And that's a car loan and various credit cards.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. And how much are they making a year?
Dave Ramsey
Year?
Caller
I don't know exactly.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah.
Caller
But my guess would be anywhere from like 60 to 70,000, because it's just my dad and my mom is on disability. Doesn't get much from that.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. Wow.
Ken Coleman
If you're going to be involved, you're going to have to get financial power of attorney to actually make any moves. And that might be wise based on how things have been going with your dad not being involved. Mom had the stroke. I think now's the time to have some really hard conversations about the future.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. So I think. Think, Phil. I mean, because I feel that burden, right, in the sense of, like, you see what's going on and they don't. So I almost would just have a meeting, sit them both down and tell them, hey, this is exactly what the situation is. I need to know numbers. I want to be able to help you and let's make a game plan. And then it would be up to them to be the ones executing it, unless they want your help in doing so. But I mean, I would give a latch, you know, a last ditch effort to try to do what I can to help them see and know what's going on. But unless they give you the power to do something, they're going to have to be the ones that, you know, make those decisions. And I, I don't know if they will. And that's hard. It's very.
George Kamel
Very.
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Rachel Cruze
All right, let's head to Dave in Charlotte, North Carolina. Hi Dave, welcome to the show.
Caller
Hi. Thanks for taking my call.
Rachel Cruze
Yes, absolutely. How can we help today? So my wife and I are planning.
Caller
On to retiring between three and five years.
Kurt
And I just feel with our total.
Caller
Portfolio that we're house heavy. We always had planned on downsizing once we retired, but I'm wondering if you think we should do that now and then invest that extra money.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. Yeah. How much, how much is the house worth?
Caller
650.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. And how much mortgage do you have left on it?
Caller
It's paid off.
Rachel Cruze
It's paid off. Okay. And how much you guys have in retirement?
Caller
About 650 right now.
Rachel Cruze
650. Okay. And how old will you guys be in five years.
Caller
I will be 67, she'll be 65.
Ken Coleman
Okay, what's your game plan currently to retire? Because the house obviously is not going to produce income in retirement. It's great to have it paid off, and I'm proud of you guys for doing that. But what's your current game plan? Regardless of what happens with the house.
Kurt
Where we're going to get our funds from?
Caller
Yeah, well, from the 650, which will grow, plus I have a small pension and then our Social Security.
Ken Coleman
Okay, so between pension, Social Security, and then on top of that, you'll dip whatever else you need, you can dip into that retirement nest egg.
Caller
Right.
Ken Coleman
Okay. And you're saying, do you have too much tied up in the house? Are you guys wanting to downsize anyways?
Caller
Yeah, we always planned on downsizing. And then maybe we could clear 600 on this. And I know I can find something for 400, so that gives us 200,000.
Rachel Cruze
To throw in there.
Ken Coleman
That would. That would give me some.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah.
Ken Coleman
You know, some cushion. And so I would be doing that. If you're going, hey, I don't know that we can make it for the rest of our life with this nest egg, plus the pension and Social Security. I think it would be wise to use any profits to invest to then create a little mini nest egg on its own.
Caller
Do it now versus wait until we retire.
Ken Coleman
I mean, you can wait. You'll, you know, either way, the house is appreciating.
Caller
Right.
Ken Coleman
As time goes on, your. Your nest eggs appreciating. And so it's okay to wait. This is not. I wouldn't say this is on fire, but the sooner you do it, the more. The less variables you'll have. You'll kind of have more on paper to know when you can retire.
Kurt
Higher.
Caller
Sure. Okay, great.
Kurt
That makes sense.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. Dave, how much will you guys be getting in a month with your pension and Social Security?
Caller
At that point, 4 5, 26 to about 7,000.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. And how much do you guys need to live off of per month?
Caller
I think we figured 84, so that would be about that.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. Yeah. Yeah. Well, that's great. Yeah. I was going to say, because, you know, when you do, when you do just the quick math, let's say you added 200,000 to that. That would be $850,000. And you just think every seven years it doubles if you don't touch it. Which you guys will be retiring in five years, so it's a little less than that. But, I mean, you'll have Upwards over a million for sure. By the time you guys hit retirement age. And that in a payoff, if you're.
Ken Coleman
Taking out, you know, your 18 grand a year to float the difference, you're talking 1%.
Rachel Cruze
Yep.
Ken Coleman
Of your nest egg. And so it's going to grow in perpetuity. You know, the balance will continue to grow.
Rachel Cruze
So you guys will be good.
Ken Coleman
I'm not concerned about that at all. At the current, with your current plan.
Caller
Right.
Ken Coleman
And if you love the house, you could probably stay in it and still make this work. There just might be a few sacrifices down the line, but I think you guys will, will figure that out. The pension and Social Security, that's. That's awesome.
Rachel Cruze
For sure. Absolutely. Thanks, Dave, for the call. And well done. Well done. I mean, yeah, right there. Baby steps. Millionaires, you know, they did it.
Ken Coleman
You can retire.
Rachel Cruze
It's awesome.
Ken Coleman
With a paid for house and some money in the bank, so.
Rachel Cruze
Great. All right, let's head to Isabel in Spokane, Washington. Hi, Isabel.
Caller
Hi, guys.
Rachel Cruze
Hello. How can we help today?
Caller
My question for you guys is that I'm on baby step number two, and I have about $6,900 in credit card debt and on my car loan. And I'm wondering if I should take all of my investments in stocks, which total to be about $6,800, and pay off my credit card knowing that I don't have any retirement at this moment.
Rachel Cruze
What are the stocks? Are they in? Are they in like a 401k or your Roth or is just single stocks out there? The 6800.
Caller
Just single stocks that total up to 6800.
Ken Coleman
Okay.
Rachel Cruze
Yes, I would, I would cash those out because. How old are you?
Caller
I'm 25.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. Yeah. You have plenty of time for retirement and the $6,800 is going to be better spent value wise by getting you out of a hole financially and helping pay off this debt. And then you'll be building up an emergency fund. And then, Isabelle, you'll start investing 15% of your income, which I think you're going to be able to do here in the next, you know, 18 months. Months. Two years.
Ken Coleman
What's left on the car loan?
Caller
Just under 9,000.
Ken Coleman
Okay.
Rachel Cruze
What do you make?
Caller
I make 60. Roughly 63,000 a year.
Rachel Cruze
Amazing. Yeah. So after you cash it out, you'll have to pay some taxes on some of it. But, you know, let's say you, you know, could pay it off and you're around 10 grand. You know, you could make it a goal to pay it, pay off that 10 grand in golly, leave five months. Yeah, you know, four months. Get aggressive, get an extra job, pay it off. Then build up an emergency fund of if. If you're. Are you single?
Caller
I am.
George Kamel
Okay.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. So I would just do a three month emergency fund. Whatever your expenses are, just multiply it by three and just say, yep, that's my emergency fund. And then when you start investing, Isabelle, if you start investing by the time you're 27, 28, it's going to be unbelievable. Let's say. Let's say pretend that. Yeah, George is getting his calculator for us. So let's just say you stayed at 60, $63,000 a year, Isabel. Which you won't. Your income will grow over time. So you're making an amazing income right now. That's going to be. What is it?
Ken Coleman
6,9400 a year. 787 per month is what you would be investing, let's say by. By Christmas. If you can get through this plan, get rid of all the debt, get the emergency fund, then you can begin investing you retirement. Right?
Caller
Correct.
Rachel Cruze
All right, get ready for this.
Ken Coleman
Let's go. Should we go 26 to 60? When do you turn 26?
Caller
In August.
Ken Coleman
Perfect. Okay, so be 26. So 26 to 66, you would have $5 million. And that's based on a 10% return, which is what we've seen in the stock market for the last several decades.
Caller
Okay.
Rachel Cruze
Yep. So you'll have 5. 5 million bucks, Isabel. You'll. You'll be great.
Ken Coleman
And if you wanted it, if you want to retire 62, you'll have 3.3 million million.
Caller
Okay.
Rachel Cruze
And that's if your income doesn't go up.
Ken Coleman
That's if you never get a raise. Your whole life.
Rachel Cruze
Crazy. Like that's so wild. And then you're gonna, you know, maybe meet someone. You're gonna double the income. You know what I mean? You just keep it going as life goes.
Ken Coleman
Get a house. Get the house paid off. Invest even more. So you're gonna be multi millionaire. If you stop playing the. The game of a broken financial system. Which is I gotta get a credit card to get a credit score. Whoops. I carried a credit card balance. Well, I guess I need a nice car. I have a big girl job now. I got a payment to. If you can just put blinders on and not care what anyone else thinks about your financial plan, you will be unbelievably wealthy.
Caller
Awesome. Well, thank you, guys.
Rachel Cruze
Absolutely. Well done. Yeah, it's always an encouraging call when you get someone in their early 20s.
Ken Coleman
And you're like, look, you still have so much time.
Rachel Cruze
You have so much time. I mean seriously, like it is wild. And not that you know, those of you in your 60s and 70s, like start now, right, if you've not started, like there's always the point to start. But especially young people out there in your 20s, man, the, the idea of compound interest is insane. Like the amount of money that actually went to principal. Does it say that? George?
Ken Coleman
It shows you how much she contributed. So yeah, we'll go with our example. 26 to 66. So a 40 year period of you investing, that's 787amonth. In that she would contribute 377,000. That's how much of her own dollars went in there. And the growth was 4.6 million on top of that.
Rachel Cruze
So that's what's crazy. So, so the earlier you start, I mean honestly, it is wild, but it does.
Ken Coleman
Over 90% of that nest egg was her just investing and leaving it alone.
Rachel Cruze
Yes. And George, you know what? It's the consistency month after month. Regardless, we are doing this, we're not letting up. It is just a rhythm of life now. When you get to that point, it's just part of it, you don't stop and that, you know, you don't get caught up. I don't think in all the lifestyle creep and all the things, you know what I mean? Like there's so many things can take you off this plan that look shiny and fun and exciting and you can still have a great life while doing this. But it's just having the maturity to say, you know what, I'm going to put some things in place to assure that when I AM in my 60s, I'm taken care of and by me, not by the government or waiting on something else, that you do it. And you have the power, everyone out there, you have the power to do it.
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Rachel Cruze
The fun of doing a live show is your co host may spontaneously jump in the control room and make faces and all of it. And then you say, you know what, actually get in the studio.
George Kamel
Ken Coleman, welcome to My Secret.
Ken Coleman
Welcome our special guest and correspondent to.
Rachel Cruze
Be here for this segment. And it's actually a perfect segment for you because something hit the news.
George Kamel
Oh, boy.
Rachel Cruze
Recently that we were going to talk about in the news. Yes, CBS news.com reports that Trump has floated a 10% credit card interest rate cap. So here's what this could mean for consumers. So Trump came out and basically was.
Ken Coleman
Like on Truth Social. So this was not like an executive order. This is just him on social media making banks.
Rachel Cruze
Credit card companies should just make max their interest rates at 10% because now we can go, I mean, as high as 36%. Right. So it's in the 20s.
Ken Coleman
I mean, like the average is 25% APR right now.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. So it is pretty wild where it is.
Ken Coleman
All right, so here, here's the what this could do. Vanderbilt research found that a 10% cap would save Americans $100 billion a year in interest. I mean, think about that. We're the nation is $1.2 trillion in credit cards debt. That's wild. So 10% means the credit card companies will only make $120 million off consumers this year from the interest alone.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah.
Ken Coleman
That's not swipe fees. That's not annual fees. So let's do the math. You got a $5,000 balance. You'd pay about $42 a month in interest at 10%, but at 24%, which is close to the average $100 a month. So that really would help a lot of Americans who are struggling with this credit card debt.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah, but the reality is.
Ken Coleman
Let's go to reality.
Rachel Cruze
But reality. He can't do that.
Ken Coleman
You can't just truth it into existence.
George Kamel
Nor should he. This is when presidents decide in free market economies to start doing things like this, messing with things, forcing free markets to do things. You get Venezuela, you get Cuba. So everybody just needs to understand this all sounds good until you look at the constitutionality of it. Is it A free market policy. That's first point. But I'll tell you what came to mind when I first saw this. As you guys know, I play a lot of pickleball. Play for three hours tonight. Thankfully, my knees are in good shape. But the knee analogy came to mind when I heard this. If someone has a torn meniscus, you can get away with not having surgery and you might put a knee brace on. And the knee brace is somewhat helpful. So, George, you just laid out beautifully how 10% at a cap would be very helpful. I don't want to gloss over people that are hurting right now. I don't want to be insensitive.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah.
George Kamel
So it's like a knee brace. But here's the thing. The meniscus isn't going to heal. The knee brace just helps a little bit. It doesn't solve the problem. And this doesn't solve the problem, which is Americans have a taste for debt and it's not going to solve the problems. The debt snowball solves the problem. The baby steps solve the problem. Lowering your interest rate, it doesn't solve the problem. How many times do we get a call, should I move my debt around? So for that reason, this feels like politics to me. And he has every right to tweet or truth or whatever he wants to do. I think it's posturing. And I did this when Biden was president. I don't care who the party is. I'm gonna call strikes, I'm gonna call balls. And this isn't going to solve the credit debt problem.
Ken Coleman
Yeah. Well, it's a good reminder. This is for one year. So this cat for one year.
George Kamel
So then what?
Ken Coleman
It's not law. It's not even executive order. He can't. It would have to be Congress rewriting federal law. There have to be a bill in place. Everyone has to agree, which I'm for.
George Kamel
That if Congress does it, and we're.
Rachel Cruze
Talking about banks which make billions and billions dollars, they're going to find a way to get their money.
Ken Coleman
Well, what they'll do is raise annual fee. They will fee you to death.
Rachel Cruze
Yes.
Ken Coleman
And they'll make their money elsewhere.
Rachel Cruze
Not like, oh, you're right.
Caller
You know what?
Rachel Cruze
That would help people 10%. We didn't even think. We didn't even think about that. Thank you, Trump.
George Kamel
You're so right, Rachel.
Rachel Cruze
You know, they have.
George Kamel
They have lobbyists. They have the best lobbyists in the world. Do you think that legislation is going to pay pass?
Dave Ramsey
No.
Ken Coleman
And of course, here's the best part. JP Morgan cfo, of course. Saying this is going to hurt people. Guys, we can't do this. It's going to hurt people who need credit the most. Cuz what this means is tighter lending. These credit card companies aren't going to lend to the subprime borrowers. And so he's saying it's going to actually hurt everyone.
George Kamel
Oh, you two are going to love this one. You're going to love this one. I saw this on Twitter.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah.
George Kamel
By the way, I refuse to call it X.
Rachel Cruze
Thank you.
George Kamel
Somebody came out the day that this was. This came out. I saw this. They were like, well, what people don't realize is, is if they lower that interest rate, how. Where do you think all the points come from? It comes. Which is right, by the way.
Rachel Cruze
Yes.
George Kamel
The point system is.
Rachel Cruze
And the airline miles, all of it.
George Kamel
Who aren't paying their debt off. And every month they're paying 22%. And that's where the miles and the.
Ken Coleman
So what's going to happen? They're going to slash rewards, devalue your points. Guys, the banks are smarter than you.
George Kamel
There's no free lunch. Have you ever heard that phrase?
Ken Coleman
Yep.
Rachel Cruze
Yes.
George Kamel
There's no free lunch. The only way to make this better is to pay off the debt, like.
Rachel Cruze
We preach, is to get rid of it.
Ken Coleman
It's so true. Here's a fun fact. Credit card rates are protected under federal law. It's called National Bank Act. It's locked in by a Supreme court ruling from 1978. And what this does. The ruling. This is crazy. It lets banks charge whatever rate is allowed in the state they're based in. So guess where credit card companies go. Delaware and South Dakota where there are no rate cap caps.
Rachel Cruze
So they can just go.
Ken Coleman
It's like a loophole where they go. We can charge 36%.
George Kamel
So Delaware and South Dakota are the only two states in the country where there are no caps.
Ken Coleman
No rate caps.
George Kamel
And that's where all the credit cards.
Ken Coleman
Can'T override that without Congress rewriting federal law. And so there's no bill right now. Which means.
Rachel Cruze
And the reason that passed in the, in the 70s was what to give the free market and the banks to be able to. To have a free market. Economy. Economy.
George Kamel
I do know what you mean. The reason I'm pausing is I don't want to misspeak.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. Yeah.
George Kamel
Because I'd have to see.
Ken Coleman
We'll have to look at versus first.
Rachel Cruze
Of all, I always assume Ken honestly has any answer to any history legislation.
George Kamel
I'm like, well, I can in Theory, I can say that this is where lobbying comes in and the big banks convinced Congress. And, you know, I mean, that's why we call.
Rachel Cruze
Here's another dumb question. If there, if that is just platforming, if Trump really cannot do that, that by law, to go in and do what causes him to come into the headlines and to. To throw it out there, just to stir the pot.
George Kamel
Same thing when he says. And winks, winks and says he might run for a third term. Says whatever he wants to say.
Rachel Cruze
Well, I know, but he's a showman.
Ken Coleman
And so that's part of it.
Rachel Cruze
But I'm just saying. Was there something else stirring that he's like, yeah, yeah. The midterms gonna be. Gonna be.
George Kamel
Okay. Let me tell you this. The number one buzzword in politics in America today, you guys noticed it is.
Rachel Cruze
Tell us, Ken.
George Kamel
Affordability.
Rachel Cruze
Oh, yeah.
George Kamel
Both sides of the aisle. It is going to be the issue in the midterms.
Ken Coleman
And.
George Kamel
And so presidents do this. I don't begrudge him for it, but that's why he did it.
Rachel Cruze
Sure.
George Kamel
By the way, it was probably three in the morning. He probably just had a filet o fish sandwich, you know, brought to him by Secret Service. The guy never sleeps.
Ken Coleman
Yeah. You know what I mean?
George Kamel
And so he just gets on Truth and he's like, oh, this is a good idea.
Ken Coleman
Let's stir some things up.
Rachel Cruze
Let's just see what happens.
George Kamel
What should be. Anyway, this sounds good.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. And you know, and I will say from my seat, the banks do screw people. But also, we have chosen as a country, as a consumer base, to get into this amount of debt. Right. Nobody.
George Kamel
That's right.
Rachel Cruze
Nobody tortures you and forces you to sign for the car loan or the credit card or whatever. Right. We, as adults, if you're over 18, have chosen to put your signature on something.
Ken Coleman
That's true.
Rachel Cruze
To borrow.
George Kamel
I don't begrudge the banks. You know why? The banks are just like the guy in the kiosk in the mall where I'm walking by with my wife.
Rachel Cruze
He's like, hey, hey, try this, try this.
Ken Coleman
And you have every right to just pass by.
George Kamel
I can ignore him or I can stop and get sucked into it. And then the whole. Let the whole spiel sell me on whatever.
Ken Coleman
Now Ken's got a new face lotion all of a sudden. There you go.
George Kamel
I want to say this. I'm with you.
Rachel Cruze
A new keychain.
George Kamel
But like you, I'm validating your point.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah.
George Kamel
Banks aren't bad. Banks are in the business of making money.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. But they do pry on people. They know, they know the tactics.
Dave Ramsey
I agree.
Ken Coleman
But I'm saying we.
George Kamel
Let's get some personal responsibility.
Rachel Cruze
Right, Right. Which is. Yeah. What I was saying by the way.
George Kamel
Trump threw out the 50 year mortgage too. So he's just throwing stuff out there.
Ken Coleman
Just to see what's.
Rachel Cruze
What was the math on that one that you did? It would be like, it'd be like a million dollars in interest or something. What was it?
Ken Coleman
Yeah, well, you essentially never pay it off. The principal doesn't go down until you're 41 years into the mortgage. That's when more is going to principal and interest. 41 years into a 50 year mortgage.
Rachel Cruze
It's crazy wild. So yeah folks, I would say don't get your financial advice from presidents and or the banks take away.
Ken Coleman
I would, I would pay my credit cards off today and cut them up versus waiting and hoping that maybe the rates will go down and so I'll hang on the banks, they don't care about your financial piece. No. And that's fine. The they're not going to solve your debt problem. And the system is designed to keep you dependent on lenders and on lawmakers. So the best part is you don't have to be dependent. You can break free from the system and just say I'm going to use my own money.
George Kamel
What's in your wallet, George?
Ken Coleman
A debit card.
George Kamel
I thought you were going to say cash in cash.
Ken Coleman
It won't fit.
Rachel Cruze
Ken, thanks for jumping in last minute.
George Kamel
You guys are the best.
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Ken Coleman
Whatever they say.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah, whatever that that saying is. All right, all right, let's head to. Is it Ali? Would you go Ali Or Ali? Or Ali In New York? New York, yes. Hi, Ali. Welcome to the show.
Caller
Thank you. Thank you for taking my call.
Rachel Cruze
Absolutely. How can we help today?
Caller
I just have a simple question. I run a limousine company here in New York and I have a lot of independent contractors. They work with me. They have their own vehicles. So I have right now only one driver that drives my car, which, you know, lowers my expenses. But the question I wanted to ask is if it's okay for me to buy another vehicle and hire another driver, which is gonna obviously, you know, add another car payment and the insurance and the driver's pay on my payroll. So that's the question I want to ask is should I keep using the independent contractors or. Or, you know, buy another vehicle and hire my own driver?
Rachel Cruze
Yeah, well, if you're going to go through the avenue of debt. Oh, yeah, I would say. Yeah, no, I would say you're not financially ready to do that. Because from a financial perspective, even with small business, we always say move at the speed of cash if you have the cash in order to do it, if you have enough revenue, profits coming in that, you know, okay, yes, I have the ability to pay someone full time, save up for a car. Like all of this is going to be streamlined then. Yes, I would. Until then, I would not. But I, But I think that could be a great, you know, next milestone for you. Because I do know, you know, the car service, you know, world in New York. I know it's, there's a lot of need out there. Right. There's a lot of people that use car services. So I do think that your ability to make money is there. And I just wonder if you make it more of a goal than like an urgent implementing something quickly.
Caller
Yeah, I mean, because I was doing the math. It's going to add at least, you know, 10 grand on my, you know, monthly, including the, you know, driver's pay and the car payment and the insurance. So $10,000 monthly is going to add.
Ken Coleman
That's the expense for you for one.
Caller
Adding. Yeah, because the vehicles we use is a Cadillac Escalade suv. We drive a lot of high end business executives and we did around 1.1 million last year.
Rachel Cruze
Is that top line gross?
Caller
Yeah, that was the top.
Ken Coleman
What do you take home from the business?
Caller
Approximately 350 to 400.
Ken Coleman
Oh, amazing. Okay, Ollie, hit me straight. Couldn't you save up and buy one of these in cash? Maybe buy one used, get a deal and then it's pure cash flow.
Caller
Yeah, I mean the one thing I think the only option I'm going to have to go to, as you just said, maybe I have to save money to buy the car because we, if I buy a used vehicle, what's going to happen is they won't give us the Warranty, which is 150,000 mile warranty we normally get when we get a new vehicle. So because you know, we run these cars for a long time, we put a lot of mileage on it. So if I buy a used one, it's not going to have that warranty.
Ken Coleman
Sure, but you could self insure at this point with the business, I mean you can create your own warranty fund and put 500 bucks a month into a pot and go, all right, we're going to cover maintenance and repairs with this month money instead of paying the, the fees for the warranty. Cuz what you're doing is you're destroying these vehicles by using them for business, which means you're likely underwater on that car pretty quickly. You owe 60 grand, the car is now worth 40 because you already have 100,000 miles on it, whatever it is. And so it's actually putting you at more risk by buying those cars with a loan. And so I would encourage you get a deal, buy one used. They're still nice cool cars. Yeah, even a five year old Escalade is I'm not going to go, well, it's not a 2025, so I'm not going to ride in this vehicle. You know, it's about the service you provide.
Rachel Cruze
Clean smells good, right? I mean, it's all that.
Ken Coleman
And so if you run this, do you have any debt tied to the business right now?
Caller
Yeah, right now the only debt I have is, you know, we have brand new to two brand new vehicles. It's close to 130,000.
Ken Coleman
Okay. How quickly could you pay that off?
Caller
I can pay that off. I would say within six or eight months.
Ken Coleman
Cool.
Rachel Cruze
Amazing.
Ken Coleman
Think about that, though. If you got rid of all the debt and then you begin to cash flow, any future vehicles, run the numbers on that. And not only will. I think you're going to go, oh, my gosh, this is amazing. Yes, it's going to take a little bit of delayed gratification right now and sacrifice, but the long term is you survive in this business 10 years from now because everyone else is over leverage, leveraged underwater on their car loans, and you're going, sweet. I got six Escalades paid for in cash.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. And what's crazy Ali is George and I, we were in New York city, March of 2020, literally the day they were shutting down Broadway, all of it. Because we were there for a media thing right when Covid hit. So my thing is too, you know, whether it's, you know, something like that. I mean, who knows what could happen where everything just stops. Right. Business for you guys in 2020 through 21 probably just ended. Right. I mean, it just was done. And so there's still a level. Yeah, a level of risk that you carry when you carry debt. And especially since yours is so dependent upon, you know, other people and even, you know, I don't know if it's just execs that you guys, you know, do this car service for or other people, but there's something to be said that if for some reason, business just stops when you don't have debt, you have a lot of peace. A lot of peace. Thanks for the call, Ollie. I hope that helps. All right, let's head to Ethan in Columbia, South Carolina. Hi, Ethan. Welcome to the show.
Caller
Hi, guys. How's it going?
Rachel Cruze
We're doing well. How can we help today?
Caller
Well, it's kind of a compound question, but I'll keep it brief. My fiance and I are going to get married in June.
Rachel Cruze
Yay. Congratulations.
Caller
Thank you. Thank you. It's been a long time coming about a two year engagement.
Rachel Cruze
Oh, good.
Ken Coleman
Yeah.
Caller
So we have Our honeymoon paid for, we have our wedding paid for. Just a couple of expenses here and there. But we're wondering, should we rent first, should we buy first? We have an opportunity to live with family. But I'll explain more of that in a bit.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. Yeah, my, my kind of go to answer usually, Ethan, is if you guys are not if one, neither of you are homeowners right now. Is that right?
Caller
Correct.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. So yeah, starting off like that, I would definitely just rent. Rent for a year, get settled, get an apartment, like just kind of just, you know, have that, save some money. And then when you look up and say, okay, we do have enough to put a down payment, you know, which is 5% for first time home buyers is what we Recommend On a 15 year fixed rate and mortgage. You know, it may take you longer than a year to save depending on where you guys are financially, you know, what you guys can put away. So I would not buy a home until you have that so you're financially ready. So in the meantime, I would be renting. But even if you were financially ready, there is still part of me, George, that I'm like, you know, still wise. Yeah, just rent for a year.
Ken Coleman
I'm curious, Ethan. I see the word debt on my screen. How much debt do you guys have?
Caller
We have, I did the math while I was on hold. It's spread out $89,000. I didn't realize 36 of that is student loans for me, 30 is student loans for her, and then 23,000 on a vehicle I use.
Ken Coleman
Okay, what's, what's going to be your household income once you guys are married?
Caller
Per month or two.
Total.
Ken Coleman
Total. Per year.
Caller
Total per year. I currently bring homes around 70 or 70. She's about to graduate from nursing school, so it's kind of hard to guess, but I'd say probably around 60 to 70.
Ken Coleman
Okay.
Rachel Cruze
We all make it a good income. Yep.
Ken Coleman
So that you have a great goal while you're renting, which is clean up the mess.
Rachel Cruze
Yes.
Ken Coleman
And aggressively pay off your consumer debt. Which means we're not going to do any investing. We're not going to live the like crazy newlywed life and go get a bunch of stuff and go on all these crazy tr.
Rachel Cruze
No, we're living on $40,000 a year. Tell yourself that. And then throw that, throw that 100 at this debt and get it paid off. You know, I mean you guys could clean this up in one year. Ethan. Which is so amazing. And then beyond that, built, you know, building up an emergency funds and then saving up for that down payment, which again, you guys have a great income, so you're going to be able to do that.
Ken Coleman
Don't get tempted because everyone goes, well, you're married now. You need a house. You need a house, Go buy a house. They don't pay your bills. They don't, they don't know your stress levels. And it's going to add anxiety and stress to a newlywed's life if you do it before you're ready.
Rachel Cruze
Welcome back to the Ramsey show in the Fair Winds Credit Union Studio. I am Rachel Cruze hosting this hour with my good friend, bestselling author George Camel. And we co host a another podcast, Ramsey Network show called Smart Money Happy Hour. So make sure to check it out. Out. All right, give us a call at 888, 825-5225. And we're here to answer your money questions and any questions about life. You know, sometimes money definitely is integrated into our relationships and our jobs and careers and all the things. So we are here for you. All right, let's go to the phones. And we're going to go to Chicago starting us off. And Brooke is on the line. Hi, Brooke.
Caller
Hi.
Thank you so much for taking my call.
Rachel Cruze
Absolutely. How can we help you today?
Caller
So my husband and I found ourselves in sort of a unique situation last year. He had just graduated from dental school and we moved to a small town in South Carolina where he worked as an associate dentist at a practice that essentially was committing insurance fraud, drilling on things that didn't need to be done. So after about a month or two there, we reassessed our options and realized the best bet was to move back to Chicago, where I'm from, to live with my parents while we finished out our lease on our top home there. So the original goal when moving here was to try to pay off as much as our student loans as possible. I'm a physical therapist. He's a dentist. We both combined have about 600,000 in student loans.
Rachel Cruze
Wow. Oh, my gosh. Okay. Okay.
Caller
Over the past year, we were able to pay off, I think moving here, I think I had approximately 140,000 in student loans. We were able to kind of wipe that out. So now it's been a year living here. We've been with my parents. He still has his 420,000 in student loans. And so I guess the next step, like I'm just calling in to get some wisdom on, you know, we've stayed. We're still in a good relationship with my parents, but should we continue to live with them saving up for potentially a down payment on a home? Should we be looking more into renting for the time being.
Rachel Cruze
How much are you guys. How much are you guys making a year?
Caller
So his. He's a percentage of production. So his is approximately. I would say probably 100 to 40,000.
Rachel Cruze
140.
Caller
Since he's an associate dentist. Yeah.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. And what about you?
Caller
And I make approximately 90.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. And do you think.
Caller
Oh, sorry.
Rachel Cruze
Well, yeah. So. So you guys living with your parents? You basically, if you lived on nothing, then you should be able to pay off this in two years. Years.
Caller
Correct. With his. You mean for. For his student loans?
Rachel Cruze
Well, yeah. You guys are. Yeah. I mean, at 250, if you guys each live. If you lived on 50,000 a year, which is plenty, because you don't have rent or you're not paying utilities and stuff, I'm assuming you got $200,000.
Ken Coleman
Do you still have debt on top of his 420?
Caller
So next month we will have paid off my student loans.
Rachel Cruze
Okay, so yours is done. So the 420 is left. Yeah. So if you guys had two years where you put $200,000 a year, that's 400,000. And then, you know, you're working a side gig or whatever, you guys are making 20,000 extra between in those two years, you guys could have paid off.
Ken Coleman
I would be busting it. I would make it my goal to get out of there as soon as possible. I'll say it that way. Don't let this be a hammock. Where you go, well, we're comfortable. Let's go on a vacation. Let's get a nice car. We have no expenses. Great. No, you see where I'm going with this? Because that's the real situations we hear from when people go, I'm living with. This really happened. They. They were living with parents to pay off for. They're $10,000 in debt. I asked them, how much debt do you have now? $40,000 in debt. They went into debt while living with family because they got comfortable.
Caller
And Mike, I guess we're trying to move out, I guess, as soon as possible. So we're looking maybe in the next few months here to try to move out. So.
Ken Coleman
And what is rent in your area?
Caller
About 3,000amonth.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. So you'll be, you know, 40,000.
Ken Coleman
It will slow you down by, you know, 36 grand a year. Essentially.
Caller
It would. And he accumulates about 2,500 to 3,000amonth in interest on his loans.
Ken Coleman
As well, that's your rent right there.
Caller
That's worth noting.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Ken Coleman
I would be busting it to make $300,000 this year and throw every penny at the debt. And maybe you guys get on a game plan with. With your family and go, hey, here's our timeline. Here's what we're doing. Keep us accountable.
Rachel Cruze
Check in with us. And I. There's a part of me, Brooke, too, that I, you know, for the good of just you guys in general, I do think there's a gift in living with them right now while you're paying it off, But I think having an end date, that kind of makes you uncomfortable and forces you guys out. So, I mean, this sounds crazy, but what if you did November of this year, right? And you got pretty much a good calendar year and you're throwing so much at the debt, but then you're saying, you know what, a year from now, we're going to be living in our own place. We're gonna finish paying off this debt. It may take us an extra couple of months because we're living on our own, but there's something about that growing up and being out on your own as a married couple that I don't know. I think it's good. There's something about having an end date for me would be really helpful so it's not this ongoing idea that you're living there. And I would. And again, I think I would. And I would shorten the timeline, in a sense, just to get you guys out. Right? You're both adults. You both are smart people. You're a physical therapist. He's a dentist. Right. Like, you are capable of adults and you'll be able to pay this off. And there's something about two capable adults not living at home that's good for you guys, but for a season, I think it's okay. Right now I just have an end date. Does that make sense?
Caller
Yeah. So if we set the end date, let's say of November, do you think it's important to. Because what we've been doing for the past year is like, putting all our money towards my student loans. We knocked them out. That's great. But now we have, like, nothing to for it other than. Than, like, no debt on my part. Is it smart to kind of be saving money on the side as well? Just so that way if by November we're looking to buy a home like.
Ken Coleman
Brooke, I need you to put the idea of buying a home on hard pause. Right now. We have a huge mountain in front of us, you guys will be homeowners and you will retire multimillionaires. But right now, for the next probably two or three or four years, you.
Rachel Cruze
Have a mortgage right now creating a foundation. $220,000.
Ken Coleman
The amount of interest you pay is more than most people's mortgage.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah.
Ken Coleman
So let's focus on knocking out all debt.
Rachel Cruze
Yes. All focused on that.
Ken Coleman
Then you get an emergency fund of six months. Then we begin saving up the down payment. And so you might crunch the numbers and go, okay, in Chicago, that's a $700,000 home. We might need to downgrade to a townhome. That's 600,000 in the suburbs. Whatever. You guys can figure out the plan. But do not let this home get in the way of this financial foundation that you building.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. How old are you guys, Brooke?
Caller
27.
Rachel Cruze
27, okay. Yeah. So, I mean, if you guys are Debt free by 30, you do some saving and you guys are, you know, homeowners by 32. That's a great plan. So. And you have plenty of time. You guys have time and you make an incredible income. Like, you're going to be able to make some big strides. And that's if all of your income stays the same for the next five years, which it's not. It's going to go up over 10 time. So it's going to fast forward your plan. I think you're going to get to all of these things faster, but you have to do it in the right order, which is the baby step. So you want a thousand dollar emergency fund, go ahead and get out of all your consumer debt, build up that emergency fund, and then be saving up for that down payment. Have you guys. Have you guys read the Total Money Makeover?
Caller
My husband has. He's having me reading it right now.
Rachel Cruze
Oh, well, there you go. I was going to give you a copy, but you don't need. Let me give you George's. George is fun. Breaking free of brew.
Ken Coleman
There's more jokes in there I think you'll enjoy.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah, yeah, it's a. It's a great one.
Ken Coleman
And read the student loans chapter. It'll light a fire.
Dave Ramsey
Yeah.
Rachel Cruze
And it just kind of solidifies Brooke, like, just the way our generation does money. It kind of just like pokes a hole in all these, you know, industries to show you that you don't have to be normal. You don't have to be normal. So I wanted to solidify where you guys are. I don't want you going backwards in your progress. Continue to move forward. You have A great income. You guys are smart. But get rid of this $420,000 loan in two years. Do it. Make a crazy goal and do it.
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Rachel Cruze
Up next, we have Samantha in Phoenix, Arizona. Hi, Samantha. Welcome to the show.
Caller
Hi. Thank you for taking the time to speak with me.
Rachel Cruze
Yes, absolutely. How can we help?
Caller
So my husband and I are on baby step seven, and we're trying to figure out what to do next. So we are out of debt. We've got 3,000 in savings. We're contributing to our 401k in our Roth IRA. And so we're just. And we own a home.
Ken Coleman
That's amazing. What's your house worth?
Caller
When we bought it, we bought it for 150. And right now it's worth about 400.
Rachel Cruze
Oh, my gosh.
Caller
Yeah, we. We pay it off.
Ken Coleman
How old are you guys?
Caller
28 and 29.
Rachel Cruze
Oh, my gosh. Samantha, who raised you?
Ken Coleman
This is crazy.
Caller
I grew up listening to Dave Ramsey on the car ride home.
Ken Coleman
Financial peace, baby. And you guys were like, all right, let's just live this out. So you guys got married. You were debt free or close to it. You were able to get a house faster and pay it off fast.
Rachel Cruze
What do you guys make a year?
Caller
Between the two of us, we make about 200 before taxes.
Rachel Cruze
Okay, good for you guys.
Ken Coleman
You said you had how much in savings?
Caller
30,000.
Ken Coleman
30,000. Okay, awesome. And you're asking what's next?
Caller
Yeah. I also have a secondary question that might play into this. I have a house I inherited as well, on top of this. And so we're debating selling it and investing in another house to kind of be like, our, you know, rent our current house and invest in a nicer house to live in versus sell it, sit on the money, put it into, like, stocks or something. Like, we're not really sure what to do with it at this point.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. When do you guys want to upgrade houses? Do you know?
Caller
We're looking to do it sooner than later. We are putting that home on the market because it's not making us anything and we're unable to Rent it comfortably due to the location and manage it well.
Rachel Cruze
Okay.
Caller
So we want to have a rental in the same city that we're in, so we can manage it.
Ken Coleman
What do you think you would net from that?
Caller
Probably 400,000 as well.
Ken Coleman
Wow, that's incredible. So you would take that 400,000 and get a different house in cash, and then you would keep your current one and rent it?
Caller
Yes.
Ken Coleman
Is that feasible?
Caller
Yeah.
Ken Coleman
You can get the house you want for that 400 in your account area.
Caller
Our dream house would probably be a little more. So we'd have a mortgage about 200, and then we pay that off in about a year to two years is our goal.
Ken Coleman
Okay.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. Well, I think that's. Yeah. So you ask what's next? I think that would be the next step. Right. So for. Probably for the next two to three years, when it comes from everything from selling the houses, closing, finding the new and all that, you know, so I'd say you guys have, like, a house goal here for the next three years of buying something. And if you take a small mortgage, paying it off quickly, all of it. So that would be.
Ken Coleman
You'll be back in baby step six for a bit and then back to seven, and then you reassess your goals. And that's really when the world's your oyster and you guys get to dream. Do we want to get another home? Do we want to get into real estate? Do we want to give more? Go on these trips? It just sort of scales up everything. It scales up your spending, it scales up your giving, and it scales up your investing.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. So to George's point, too, you know, doing all of those things is going to be really important. Samantha, you know, when you guys are in baby step seven and you're going to be settled there for a while, once you have this new home and it's paid off, is to up your giving and find some things that you guys are excited about. And I think, you know, this is one area that Winston and I really kind of had on autopilot for. For a few years. And probably because we were having babies and all of. I don't know, we were. So we were giving and doing, you know, mathematically what we were saying. Supposed to, but it just kind of didn't get as exciting. And so we've switched up even how we give. And it's. It is so fun. Like, it has brought the joy back for me in the last, like, year or two of, like, oh, my gosh. So get creative in your giving. Find things that you really are passionate about do some fun stuff with that money. I mean genuinely, that is, it is some of the most, the most fun you can have with money. And we say it all the time, but it really is true. And then be saving, continuing to invest and, and even maybe, you know, have some big savings goals for things that maybe you want and then enjoy some of it. And so doing the giving, saving, spending, formula, all three things need to be happening. And yeah, and that's what's kind of crazy is like there's not a lot of people say this when they finish the baby steps.
Ken Coleman
They're like, they want like baby step eight. Okay, what's that?
Rachel Cruze
Yeah, like what do I keep doing?
Ken Coleman
You know, so I'm like, you tell me. I don't get to decide your life for you.
Caller
Yeah, yeah. We've done some travel and we've done some things so I, we could have more saved, but I mean, we've been kind of enjoying life a little.
Ken Coleman
And you guys have kids?
Caller
No, we don't.
Okay.
We want a bigger place before we do that.
Ken Coleman
Okay, cool. Well, here's what I'll tell you.
Rachel Cruze
No go now. Samantha, kids. Yeah, don't wait for the big house. What I want to tell you, babies are small.
Ken Coleman
It's okay for your dreams to change. You may go, you know what? I want to stay home and you guys have the flexibility to do that without it being, you know, adding any financial stress to your life. And so I would, I would sit down to a dream date with your husband. Husband this weekend and go, hey, let's both put a, a goal for each category on paper of what we want to do next year. Here's my giving goal, here's my investing saving goal. Here's my spending thing. I want to do.
Rachel Cruze
Rachel's vote is have babies earlier and.
Ken Coleman
We'Re having kids next year. It's going to be awesome.
Rachel Cruze
You never regret, you never regret it.
Caller
We do. One of us is going to be a stay at home with the kids. So we want to be comfortable with that. Like one income.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. I think you guys are great, right? I mean, you have no idea.
Dave Ramsey
Debt.
Rachel Cruze
You're choosing the house thing. I'll say that. If the, if the getting into this.
Ken Coleman
New house, that's the caveat is does that put a damper on your plan for one of you to stay home? I don't want you to like. Well, once that house is paid off, then maybe we'll start thinking about having kids. I would put the kids as the priority before upgrading the home. The child will survive in this home that you have now.
Caller
That's true. Okay, and then if we were to say sell like this house in the next month and then, and we, we decide not to buy a home, would you guys let that money sit in a high yield interest account or would you invest or how much of that would you say?
Ken Coleman
I would go high yield because you're talking about like a one or two year goal, right? This money's not going to sit there for more than one or two years. And that's where I go, hey, the market, it's been great the last few years. Who knows what 20, 26 or 27 is going to bring if it's negative 20%. And now you're on the cusp of trying to buy the this home. And so the high yield savings account just gives you some stability. It'll grow at, you know, three and a half percent right now. But that's, that's kind of more guaranteed than the market which is going to fluctuate more drastically. So if I had a one or two year goal, I'm going to park it in high yield savings. And if you want a great option, you can check out Fairwinds. You can go to fairwinds.org Ramsey. They have an awesome smart bundle for you.
Rachel Cruze
Up next, we have James in Ohio. Hi, James.
Caller
Hi guys. Thank you for taking my call.
Rachel Cruze
Absolutely. Hi, can we help?
Caller
So my wife and I just last year purchased our first home and it's a little bit of a fixer upper, well within what we can afford. But I did jump the gun a little bit. And looking back in hindsight, I kind of regret it just because we still have a little bit of debt. Just a little under 20,000 total.
Rachel Cruze
Okay.
Caller
12,000 of that is on my wife's car.
Rachel Cruze
Okay.
Caller
5,000 in a student loan of hers and just under two grand of credit card debt.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. How much do you guys make a year?
Caller
Last year I grossed about 80 and she her about 20.
Rachel Cruze
Okay, perfect. All right, well, why don't you all just, you know, pay this off in five months.
Caller
That's the goal ultimately. So. But essentially my question was is I'm driving a car that I bought for $5,000 cash and we still owe about 12 on hers. And I know it's well under 50% of my income, wheels and motors. But what I wanted to do was sell the car and get another cheap car just to pay that debt off because I'm so tired of making that payment, which she disagrees with. She thinks we should just keep it and pay it off.
Ken Coleman
What's the cost car worth?
Caller
Probably about 1 or 2 less than I owe on it.
Ken Coleman
And how much do you have in savings?
Caller
So I paused on the baby steps because my house is in desperate need of a roof. So I have 10,000 in savings earmarked for that. Now I think that my dad and I, because I'm gonna do it myself, can probably do it for about six. I don't know what's, what we're gonna uncover when we rip the shingles off. You know, open Pandora's boss box and wow. I don't wood's gonna need replaced or anything.
Ken Coleman
So I'm not looking to sell her car right now.
Rachel Cruze
I know we're on her team.
Ken Coleman
I think you guys will pay it off. If you can pay it off in five months, it's not worth selling because now you got to turn around and use savings to buy a $5,000 car or $3,000 car which could lead to more issues.
Rachel Cruze
So you're gonna upgrade sooner anyways. So. No. Yeah, I think it's, I think it's doable.
Ken Coleman
It's not that desperate.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. And I think you guys need to tighten this up. James, I mean you guys have kind of. I understand that the whole house situation is kind of put you guys in a, in a different position, but I mean get back on track and you guys can, can get all this cleaned up really fast. Really, really fast. Just be on the same team with it. But no, we would probably not sell your wife's car.
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Ken Coleman
I dare you all to go test it out right now and see how close it is to what we would say on the show. That'll be a fun experiment.
Rachel Cruze
That's great. Yeah, we're trying to help as many people as possible. Not, you know, if you can't get on the show or slide into our DMs with your question, we don't get back to you. Whatever. The thing is, like you have the ability to ask a question about your money and we want to help you do that. All right, let's go to Kurt in Calgary in Canada.
Ken Coleman
Hey, Kurt, how's it fun? Hello.
Rachel Cruze
Hello. Welcome to the show. We love to bring on people who have absolutely killed it when it comes to money, just to hear their story and honestly to kind of set up the idea like this can happen. Like you can actually.
Ken Coleman
It's possible.
Rachel Cruze
Yes. And build a positive net worth and one over a million dollars. So Kurt, thank you again for coming on. And what is your net worth?
Kurt
Just north of 2 million Canadian.
Ken Coleman
Wow. And how old are you?
Kurt
I just turned 45 not too long ago.
Ken Coleman
Well, that's wild. Are you married?
Kurt
I am.
Ken Coleman
Fantastic. Okay, tell us the mix of this 2 million. Break it down for us.
Caller
Oh, goodness.
Kurt
Probably a quarter of it is retirement. 10% is my kids college fund. I've got about a quarter of it in corporate assets for the businesses that my wife and I run.
Ken Coleman
And.
Kurt
Some cash on hand. Some, you know, probably a third of it is my house. Our house. Yeah, just a couple of places.
Ken Coleman
I love it. And you guys have been following this plan for how long now?
Kurt
So you'll have to forgive me, I didn't know Ramsey and the baby steps existed until maybe four or five years ago.
Ken Coleman
You were smart before you found us.
Rachel Cruze
Did great.
Ken Coleman
That's impressive.
Kurt
Well, smart and stupid, I won't lie. We took on what I would call a soul crushing amount of debt. But we worked our way most of the way through it. And all we have left is the mortgage.
Ken Coleman
Wow. What's your household income?
Kurt
Just right around 200,000.
Ken Coleman
Okay, what was your best year and worst year of income during this journey?
Kurt
Well, the worst year would have been when we first got married. I was still a university student and my wife made 33,000. But once I graduated, our household income sort of started around 70 or 80,000. We kind of averaged around 100, 110 most of the time. Only in the last few years has it really moved upward.
Ken Coleman
That's awesome. And did you guys inherit any of this? 2 million?
Kurt
You know, my wife's mother gave her part of her. When my wife's grandmother passed away, my mother in law gave us 5,000 doll to go on a trip for fun.
Ken Coleman
So safe to say it did not mathematically cause you to become millionaires. No, because that's a big myth we hear all the time. Well, you got to inherit money to be a millionaire. Must be nice. That's not at all. And what are your careers?
Kurt
So my wife is a bookkeeper and I'm an engineer.
Rachel Cruze
Fantastic. Which that's about right up the alley of our study on millionaires.
Ken Coleman
Number one career choice in the millionaire study, over 10,000 of them, was engineer. What do you attribute that to, Kurt? Is that you're a process driven guy and you just went, okay, I'll just follow the process.
Kurt
Well, I attribute it to my wife, as any sane man should. No, it was always, we live within our means and apart from a few decisions along the way, you don't buy something if you can't pay for it for it.
Rachel Cruze
Okay, so y' all have always been very averse to debt, you would say?
Kurt
Well, yes and no. My, my mentor retired earlier than planned and he sold the business to myself and my. One of my. My business. Current business partner. And we weren't quite ready to. To purchase that outright and so we had to finance the purchase of the company.
Rachel Cruze
Oh, that's right, that part. But consumer debt when it comes to clothes and vacation cars, credit cards, cars.
Kurt
We financed one and it just. I hated it. Yeah. After about two years, I just couldn't stomach it anymore. And so we got rid of that as soon as we could.
Ken Coleman
Wow. What are you guys driving today as real life millionaires? Give me a year. Make, Model.
Kurt
My car is a 2013 Volvo C30, just a little hatchback back with over a hundred thousand miles on it. My wife, she gets the new car. We bought her a new car just a couple years ago. The tree fell on our Last one, but.
Ken Coleman
Oh my goodness.
Kurt
Yeah, it was just unfortunate timing. But no. She has a 20, 23 Volkswagen Tiguan.
Caller
Nice.
Rachel Cruze
Very great.
Ken Coleman
And paid for in cash.
Kurt
Paid for. No, nothing.
Ken Coleman
That's amazing. So she's got a three year old car, you've got a 12 year old car.
Dave Ramsey
Car.
Ken Coleman
And that's we found in the millionaire study. The average millionaire drives a four year old car with 41,000 miles on it. And the top brands were Toyota and Honda.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah.
Ken Coleman
Which is pretty wild. So you guys are square in the middle of that and you guys have four year degrees, Both of you or more?
Kurt
Both of us, Yep.
Ken Coleman
Okay, Were you guys super smart? What were your GPAs, do you remember?
Kurt
I'll just say I finished my. Finished my degree with a GPA of around 3.37. My wife's was higher. She's a smart cookie.
Ken Coleman
This is impressive.
Rachel Cruze
I know. That is impressive. That's amazing. Well, Kurt, what would you say to someone that's listening? Maybe it's a newlywed couple when I'm still in school. Maybe they're starting off just like you and your wife did. You know, how would you say, what are the principles that you would tell people? This is what you have to do if you want to start building real wealth.
Kurt
Live on less than you make. Make it, do, use it up, do without. Those were the guiding Princip principles that we live by.
Rachel Cruze
Wait, say it again. Use it up. What'd you say?
Caller
Use it up.
Kurt
Use it up. So if you've got something, use it.
Ken Coleman
Don't waste.
Kurt
Yeah, don't be wasteful. Do without. Meaning that if it's not absolutely necessary, don't do it.
Dave Ramsey
And.
Kurt
Yeah, what is it? Use it up, do without and make it.
Ken Coleman
Do.
Kurt
So, repair as needed and make what you have last. Take care of what you have so that you don't have to keep going and buying new things.
Rachel Cruze
Yes.
Ken Coleman
That's old school. That's definitely like a grandma and grandpa principle right there. You know, coming out of like a great depression. Like, we're not going to get new stuff. That's crazy. This works just fine. We'll fix it up.
Rachel Cruze
Well, I love it because you can get in the habit if something just kind of is off a little bit. Like, yeah, we'll just get a new one.
Ken Coleman
We'll just get a new one on Amazon. It'll be here in two hours.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah. And you end up. You do. You end up spending so much doing that. Okay, so Kurt, would you say now where you guys are? Do you. Are you enjoying your Money. Do you feel like you guys are having fun?
Kurt
Not yet, because we still have a mortgage and so that, you know, the fun is, is coming when that's, when that's done and gone.
George Kamel
Y.
Kurt
But, you know, right now we're still, we're still working the process and but for me it's the, it's the piece that comes from, you know, it's like we've got six months of an emergency fund. So that if, you know, because we're both, we're both self employed, if our income is variable, it's like, you know what, that's okay. We've got, we've got comfort and peace.
Rachel Cruze
Yes, absolutely. Yeah, that, that padding is very real between you and life. I mean, there is something that does give a lot of. Oh, you can sleep at night. The stress is down because if something happens, we're going to be okay. We have this, this money set aside. So how much longer till the house is paid off?
Kurt
Five years.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. Yeah.
Kurt
The goal, the goal is debt free.
Ken Coleman
By 50, the ripe age of 50, and by then you'll probably be worth closer to 3 million. Maybe closer to 3.5.
Kurt
Things keep, I think things keep, keep trending the way they are. Yeah, maybe. Yeah, I could see that happening.
Rachel Cruze
Well done, Kurt.
Ken Coleman
Well, thanks for the inspiration.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah, you guys are awesome. Thanks for calling in Always your stories. Yeah, definitely kind of give a boost to people out there to see real life, people doing real life stuff. So thanks.
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Rachel Cruze
Our scripture of the day is from first Timothy 6, 5, 7. This is one of my favorites, George. But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we have brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it.
Caller
Beautiful.
Rachel Cruze
Bob Marley said, spend life with who makes you happy, not who you want to have to impress.
Dave Ramsey
Oh.
Ken Coleman
Oh.
Rachel Cruze
It's pretty good. But, yeah, the godliness with contentment is great. Gain. That is. That's big. You brought nothing into the world. You can't. I saw someone. I couldn't. I couldn't quite live with this philosophy because it's a little bit too YOLO for me, but it was, like, on Instagram was a meme, and it was this woman. She was, like, at the beach, like, had a drink or something, and she was like, you know, no one. Basically, like, in the graveyard. You're not going to. You don't care if you're the Tannis or the. The have the best, skinniest, biggest bank account. Like, she listed all these things that we worry about. She's like, go, enjoy your life. Like, eat the pizza. Take the trip. Do the thing. And I thought, you know, it's a little bit of that.
Ken Coleman
And you are very. Experiences over things person.
Rachel Cruze
Yes.
Ken Coleman
Which is wise. The data bears this out. That's one of the best ways to spend money, is on experiences with people you love. You love.
Rachel Cruze
Yes, we've heard that. Arthur Brooks talks about that a lot. And there is something to it.
Ken Coleman
Rachel's using that to justify every next trip. She's like, winston, it's science. We have to go.
Rachel Cruze
We have to go. This is where we should spend our money. I'm telling you, it's what everyone remembers. It's the fun, big meal. It's the whole. You know, at my house, we had all the personalities and their spouses, and.
Ken Coleman
We had the best time. You guys were so generous.
Rachel Cruze
We have a great dinner. I don't know all of it. There's something about. Yeah. Living a little bit.
Ken Coleman
You could have bought a purse, but instead you said, you know what? Let's have a great meal with friends.
Rachel Cruze
And I can't take the purse with me into the next life, but I'm okay. You could, but I'll take the memories.
Ken Coleman
You could be in your Costco casket, and they're with you. But what good's that gonna do?
Rachel Cruze
It's not gonna do good for anyone. So I love it. Yep. Godliness with contentment. Great gain. You didn't bring anything to the world. You can't take anything out. All right, let's go to the phones, and we're gonna go to Hunter in Fresno, California. Hi, Hunter.
Caller
Hi.
Rachel Cruze
Hello. Hello. Welcome to the show. How can we help today?
Caller
So my Wife and I, we are a little bit of. We just got married about a year ago. We, we started off really good. Financially. We're making a little over 100,000. Well, we kind of added, racked up some debt. We bought a new truck. So now we're have about $50,000 on that. And then we also.
Rachel Cruze
That's a nice, nice truck.
Caller
It is a nice truck. But we also got a camper.
Rachel Cruze
How much is that?
Caller
About 20,000. 20,000 is what we still owe on it.
Rachel Cruze
Okay.
Ken Coleman
What other debt?
Caller
So other than that, the only other debt is we just bought a house about a month ago. And so now we added that 2,800 payment onto our monthly payment. Payments.
Ken Coleman
And what's your monthly take home pay?
Caller
Monthly take home pay. It kind of ranges. It ranges anywhere from. It can be anywhere from 5,000 to roughly about, I would say about nine, 10,000.
Ken Coleman
Whoa. Okay. Well, that would be more than 100,000 if you're. If you're fairly consistently getting, you know, eight, nine grand a month take home.
Caller
Well, yeah, I mean, this past two months, we've only been taking in about 5,000. But a couple months prior, we were.
Rachel Cruze
How are you guys. How are you guys surviving?
Ken Coleman
Yeah. Your mortgage is over half your take.
Rachel Cruze
Home pay, and you got a camper loan or pay.
Caller
So the Truck payment is 1300.
Ken Coleman
Oh, my gosh. And what's the camper payment?
Caller
A thousand.
Ken Coleman
So you got 2,300 going to Toys that are going down in value every day.
Caller
Yep.
Rachel Cruze
So. Okay. But my thing is if you make 5,000amonth, that's $5,100 just in payments. How are you guys making your light bill and food? Like, do you guys have savings?
Caller
We do. We have. We have roughly about. So we have roughly about 20,000 in our savings account.
Rachel Cruze
Okay. And you're just going to be draining that a little bit at a time to live off of.
Caller
Right. Well, so that's. Right now, the reason that fluctuates is I'm currently in school, and so with my construction business, you know, there's sometimes, you know, I'll get a job and I can work around school, and I do great. And then there's other times it's, you know, school gets caught up and I don't have as much time to work.
Rachel Cruze
Yeah, but you bought a case.
Ken Coleman
Yeah. It feels like a bad time to buy a $50,000 truck and a camper. A camper that you probably don't have time to use.
Rachel Cruze
Hunter, do you just feel crazy? Like, do you feel like, what did.
Caller
We Do I. I. Yeah.
Ken Coleman
What does your wife think about all this?
Rachel Cruze
Let's make it. Yeah.
Ken Coleman
Is she like, hey, we got to get out of this situation? Or she like, it's fine. He's got it under control?
Caller
Both, I guess.
Kurt
She.
Caller
So she. I mean, you could tell she gets nervous or frustrated every now and then from it. But she's also. She realizes that we're not. I guess we're not. We're not at the end of the road yet. We. We can still come out of this. And so she's a little bit more comfortable with that.
Ken Coleman
Okay.
Caller
So, yeah, we're definitely.
Rachel Cruze
I mean, you're, like, probably nine to ten months. Months away of having nothing, though. You know what I mean? Like, I think y' all don't. It doesn't feel this. I don't feel an urgency necessarily. And so that 20,000 is gonna go really quick. Cause the months you do make the 5,000, you're already $100 underwater, right? So you take that hundred, and then you gotta. You know, you guys are probably going out to eat. You're stressed with school, so you're. You know, you're doing this. And, I mean, you guys probably are not on a very strict budget, are you.
Caller
Right now? We actually. Past couple months, we have gone to a strict budget. We don't really eat out maybe once every couple months.
Rachel Cruze
Oh, Hunter, we have not been really.
Ken Coleman
If I looked at your bank account.
Rachel Cruze
Statement, overnight, over two months. Over 60 days, you don't eat out except for once out of 60 days.
Caller
Yes, ma'. Am. Yes, ma'.
Am.
Rachel Cruze
All right, I'm going to take your word for it, Hunter, like, you're an honest man.
Ken Coleman
I will tell you what I would do if I was in your shoes.
Rachel Cruze
I just feel like a Starbucks run is probably in there somewhere.
Ken Coleman
Maybe for her, at least.
Rachel Cruze
Chick fil A nugget.
Ken Coleman
You know, you guys need some vices right now. This is crazy. Okay, okay.
Rachel Cruze
Let's make a plan. Make a plan for Hunter.
Caller
Luckily, Chick fil a is, like, 30 minutes away from me, so that's fine.
Ken Coleman
So I'm Hunter. I'm a newlywed. Been married a year. I have a cool, great income.
Rachel Cruze
What are you going to do, George?
Ken Coleman
I am selling the truck and camper tomorrow. Like, I'm taking pictures tonight. I'm listing it tomorrow.
Rachel Cruze
And your construction ego just plummets.
Ken Coleman
And any amount you're underwater on, you're going to use that $20,000 in savings to cover it and get yourself a beater car.
Rachel Cruze
Oh, okay. It's working. Now and then what's freed up, George? How much money you got? You got.
Ken Coleman
You just got a $2,300 a month raise, my man.
Rachel Cruze
So those $5,000 months turned in to 7,200.
Ken Coleman
Now we can breathe.
Rachel Cruze
Oh my gosh, George, what a plan.
Ken Coleman
All right, this is great. This is a solvable problem.
Rachel Cruze
Then what are we going to do?
Ken Coleman
Then we need an emergency fund. Cuz you likely will deplete that 20k to cover the underwater difference. Y plus getting you a beater car. And so. So now our job is to really build some financial stability once we don't have debt to get three to six months of expenses.
Rachel Cruze
How does that sound? Hunter.
Caller
You'Ll make it sound a lot easier than what it is.
Ken Coleman
I feel like you're not willing to sell this truck or the camper. Tell me why the camper?
Caller
I'm actually the camper. I would get rid of it in a heartbeat. But I heard this, my wife about selling it. What was that?
Rachel Cruze
Yeah, I said and they can be tough to. To sell.
Caller
Well, they're tough to sell. And it actually came from her parents. And so she's. She's a little bit more stuck to it than I am.
Rachel Cruze
Don't have, don't have like attachments to campers. We got to get attachments to healthy financial foundations. That's what we're looking for here. Or Hunter, you guys can. Here's the deal. You know, you called the show. I feel like we're giving a little tough love. But the truth is you can stay in this cycle. You guys can stay with campers and trucks and you can live in a.
Ken Coleman
Truck and a camp house, which will be your future.
Rachel Cruze
No, but they. This is. No but like this is normal, Hunter. This is normal. And you guys could go on for years and years and years. And then what's going to happen is you're going to have a baby. Something's going to happen. One of you is going to want to stay home. You guys are going to be in your early 30s, the roof's going to be leaking and you have no money. And you look back and think, what have we been doing? We've been working our butts off for seven years and we can't even do what we want with our life. Why? Because in our early 20s, we just, you know, our mid-20s, we didn't make decisions. These are, these aren't hard decisions. It's hard for the ego. The ego hates it. But I'm telling you that you guys can stay normal. But you called the show, and the show is far from normal. We are all about getting out of debt, making deep, deep sacrifices. Hunter in order for you guys to get ahead in the future, you guys can get a great truck and a camper, but when you can afford it, you can't afford it. You can't.
Ken Coleman
You.
Rachel Cruze
You don't have the money for this stuff, and then you run into a house and all of it.
Ken Coleman
So say it out loud, own it, and go, hey, babe, I'm sorry. I screwed up.
Rachel Cruze
Yep. All right. What a great show, you guys. Thanks to everyone in the booth. Thank you, George. And remember, there's ultimately one way to financial peace, and that's to walk daily with the Prince of peace, Christ Jesus.
Episode: "We're In $580k Of Debt At This Point"
Date: January 15, 2026
Hosts: Rachel Cruze & Ken Coleman (for Dave Ramsey/Ramsey Network)
This episode of The Ramsey Show dives deeply into callers’ real-life financial emergencies, focusing on practical and emotional advice to help listeners get out of debt, make wise spending decisions, and transform their financial lives. The hosts, Rachel Cruze and Ken Coleman, field a wide range of calls from people dealing with overwhelming business debt, marital infidelity intersecting with money management, fear of risk in investing, elder financial abuse, and more. The typical Ramsey blend of firm, direct advice and empathetic encouragement is on full display.
[00:47–09:01]
Insights & Advice:
Memorable Moment:
Jimmy, candidly self-aware: "I have a PhD in being a bozo." (05:05)
[10:24–20:12]
Advice:
Memorable Exchange:
Ken: "He wasn’t trapped. He was willfully doing this on his own volition." (12:07)
Rachel: "Some visible evidence for trust to be rebuilt... That’s not you being overcontrolling. This was broken trust." (17:29)
[21:39–25:46]
Advice:
[44:08–52:14]
Advice:
[65:20–74:07]
Throughout Episode
Ken Coleman (On Sunk Cost Business):
"At some point you just got to go, this ain't it. I'd rather pack it up now versus try to... It's like a gambler..." (02:45)
Rachel Cruze (On Enabling vs. Support):
"You guys aren't living in reality. Like, she should be kind of flipping out..." (05:52)
Jimmy (Self-Deprecating):
"I have a PhD in being a bozo." (05:05)
Ken (On Financial Infidelity):
"He wasn’t trapped. He was willfully doing this on his own volition." (12:07)
Rachel (Radical Transparency):
"There has to be a level of knowledge for you to keep moving forward in this marriage when it comes to building trust." (17:29)
Ken (On Rate Caps):
"Lowering your interest rate doesn't solve the problem. How many times do we get a call, should I move my debt around? So for that reason, this feels like politics to me." (67:38)
The episode brings a sobering, occasionally humorous, and ultimately hopeful message: No matter how bad the mess—or how “normal” your current struggle seems—there’s a clear way out: own your reality, stop digging, change your behaviors, and chart a wise, disciplined course forward. The Ramsey perspective remains unyielding: anyone can build wealth and regain control, one intentional decision at a time.
For anyone facing overwhelming debt, confused about investment, or worrying about family money battles, this episode provides both a wake-up call and a pathway forward—with clarity, candor, and hope.