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On this episode of The Rewrite, I’m joined by Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards—author, speaker, and PhD in Spiritual Counseling. Stephen’s work dives deep into the unconscious patterns that shape our relationships, our choices, and ultimately, our lives. But what makes this conversation so powerful is that it’s not just theory—it’s lived experience. We talk about what happens when you can no longer ignore the gap between who you think you are… and how you’re actually showing up. From cycles of desire, secrecy, and emotional avoidance—to radical self-honesty and accountability—Stephen shares what it really takes to confront yourself and choose a different path forward. This episode explores:• Why we stay stuck in patterns that hurt us• The role of accountability in true healing• Understanding desire, attachment, and emotional dependency• What it means to rewrite your identity—not just your behavior Stephen also shares insights from his book, The Venus Fly Trap: Sex, Lies, and Repercussions—a raw and revealing look at the consequences of unconscious living and the power of choosing differently. If you’ve ever found yourself repeating patterns you don’t fully understand… This conversation is for you.Follow Stephen: https://www.instagram.com/vft23_official/https://x.com/Stephen_Edwardzhttps://www.facebook.com/people/VFT23/61575468609762/https://www.linkedin.com/in/seemiracleshttps://www.tiktok.com/@vft23_official?lang=enhttps://vft23.com/

On this episode of The Rewrite, I’m joined by Beth Kraszewski—Founder of Purposeful Wealth Advisors, CFP®, CDFA®, and one of the country’s leading experts in divorce financial strategy. Her message is clear—you are stronger than you know. Beth is also the author of Stronger Than You Know—a must-read for any woman navigating divorce and financial independence.Beth has worked behind the scenes of high-asset, high-conflict divorces—where emotions run high, assets can be hidden, and the wrong financial decision can impact your future for decades.But what makes this conversation so powerful… is how she brings humanity into the numbers.We talk about: - Why fear, grief, and urgency should never drive financial decisions - What really happens behind the scenes in complex divorces - How to protect yourself when assets aren’t fully transparent - Why the “day after divorce” isn’t the transformation—but the beginning of it Beth also shares a deeply moving client story that perfectly captures what The Rewrite is all about: Sometimes life doesn’t go as planned… but what unfolds can be even more aligned, peaceful, and true. Connect with Beth: Websites: www.bethkraszewski.com and www.purposefulwealthadvisors.comInstagramFacebookLinkedIn Book: Stronger Than You Know (available on Amazon)

Divorce is emotional—but it’s also deeply financial. And the decisions you make can shape your future for years to come. On this episode, I’m joined by Melissa Murphy Pavone, CFP®, CDFA®, founder of Mindful Divorce Partners, to break down what you really need to know when it comes to money and divorce. We talk about: • The biggest financial mistakes people make • What to do before you file • The truth about keeping the house • Retirement, taxes, and long-term planning • How to build the right divorce team Melissa brings both expertise and compassion to this conversation—and reminds us that divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. It can be thoughtful, informed, and empowering. Follow Melissa: @mindfuldivorcepartners www.mindfuldivorcepartners.com

This episode of The Rewrite we’re talking about something that quietly runs the show in so many relationships—the division of power inside a marriage, and how it impacts every single step when a divorce begins.From finances to household roles to decision-making, these dynamics don’t just disappear when a marriage ends—they shape the entire process of separation, negotiation, and outcome.Joining the conversation is Attorney Melissa Needle of Needle | Cuda Divorce and Family Law, bringing over 30 years of experience in high-net-worth divorce.Understanding this is the first step in knowing what to expect, protecting yourself, and moving forward with clarity instead of confusion.This is the part of divorce most people don’t see coming—but it changes everything.Follow Melissa Needle | Cuda Divorce and Family Law https://www.needlecuda.com

On this episode of The Rewrite, I sit down with Meredith Beardmore—licensed therapist, author, and founder of Mend with Mere—for a conversation that is as raw as it is powerful. Meredith opens up about loving someone struggling with addiction, the slow unraveling of a life that once felt stable, and the moment everything became impossible to ignore. We talk about:• Why divorcing an addict is a completely different experience • The hidden toll of high-functioning women who “hold it all together” • Betrayal, shame, and the truth about staying longer than you think you should • What it actually takes to rebuild—without toxic positivity Her story is heartbreaking, honest, and ultimately… empowering. This is for the woman who is quietly questioning everything.The one who feels strong on the outside—but exhausted within.The one ready to stop negotiating with reality. Follow Meredith and get her The Plan B Chronicles: Divorce. Defiance. Liberation | Get Your Copy Here & Hey Addiction, Thanks for Nothing: A Brutally Honest Guide to Loving an Addict Without Losing Your Mind | Get Your Copy Here

On this episode of The Rewrite, I’m joined by Taylor Beck, divorce coach and founder of Revive & Rise Coaching. Taylor’s story is raw, real, and still unfolding. From being a “married single parent,” to navigating a relationship impacted by substance abuse, to finding the strength to leave and advocate for herself through ongoing legal battles—her journey is one so many women will see themselves in. Now remarried, raising two children, and continuing to co-parent, Taylor is helping women move through divorce with strategy, confidence, and clarity—especially when everything feels uncertain. We talk about:Choosing yourself—even when it’s hardNavigating the legal and emotional chaos of divorceSetting boundaries and protecting your peaceRewriting your life in real timeWhat is DR Divorce Coaching This conversation is for anyone in the trenches—or finding their way out. Follow Taylor: @reviveandrisecoaching

On this episode of The Rewrite, I’m joined by Erica Komisar—psychoanalyst, parent coach, and author of The Parent’s Guide to Divorce. At a time when divorce is often framed as a fresh start for adults, Erica brings the focus back to what matters most: our children. With over 30 years of clinical experience, she shares a powerful truth—divorce itself isn’t what harms children. It’s chronic conflict, instability, and disrupted attachment that leave lasting effects. In this conversation, we talk about: • How to protect your child’s emotional well-being during divorce • The importance of attachment and feeling safe • Common mistakes parents don’t realize they’re making • How to raise resilient, emotionally secure children through change• Her Book: A Parent’s Guide To Divorce This episode is a must-listen for any parent navigating separation and wanting to do it with intention, awareness, and care.Follow Erica:Website: https://www.ericakomisar.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/ericakomisar FB:https://www.facebook.com/EricaKomisarLCSW/

There’s something powerful that happens when we stop silencing ourselves… and start telling the truth. On this episode, I’m spotlighting Erin Snow, founder of The Unmuted Room—a space dedicated to helping women reconnect with their voice, their truth, and their inner knowing. Because healing isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about remembering who you’ve always been… underneath the noise. If you’ve ever felt unheard, unseen, or disconnected from your own voice—this is your invitation to lean in.Your voice mattersYour story mattersYou matter Follow Erin and step into your own Unmuted Room.Website: www.theunmutedroom.comEmail: erin@theunmutedroom.comIG: @the.unmutedroom

Money can feel overwhelming after divorce or a major life transition—but it can also be one of the most powerful tools for creating the life you want next. On this episode of The Rewrite, I’m joined by Phil Weiss, founder of Apprise Wealth Management. Phil has spent decades helping people navigate personal finance and investing, with a special focus on supporting women facing new beginnings. We talk about what “enough” really means, why so many women feel stuck when making financial decisions after divorce, and how shifting from fear to self-trust around money can completely change the way you design your future. This conversation is about more than finances—it’s about choice, confidence, and realizing that you get to decide what your next chapter looks like.Follow Phil:www.apprisewealth.com/rewrite@phweiss11

My guest is Ron Platt, CEO and Co-Founder of the National Association for Single and Divorced Families — an organization dedicated to supporting and advocating for single and divorced households across the country. Ron is also the creator of Support Insured, the first divorce insurance product designed to protect families by guaranteeing child support and alimony payments if the payor dies, becomes disabled, loses their job involuntarily, or declares bankruptcy. It’s a powerful safety net for families navigating the uncertainty that often comes with divorce. But Ron’s work isn’t just professional — it’s deeply personal. From fostering a young LGBTQ+ teen who became his son, to surviving a painful 14-year relationship that ended before marriage equality made divorce possible, to rebuilding his life during the Great Recession — Ron’s story is one of resilience, reinvention, and advocacy. In this episode, we talk about:Surviving and thriving after divorceProtecting children’s financial futureReforming systems that fail familiesAnd how personal pain can become powerful purpose This is a conversation about rewriting your life — and helping others do the same. Follow Ron:https://www.nasdf.orgFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/NASDF.orgInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/nasdforg/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NASDForgLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ronald-platt-a6b49016/