Day 9: Blessed Are You - The Rosary in a Year (with Fr. Mark-Mary Ames)

Podcast Summary: The Rosary in a Year (with Fr. Mark-Mary Ames)

Episode: Day 9: Blessed Are You
Host: Fr. Mark-Mary Ames, CFR (Ascension)
Date: January 9, 2026

Main Theme & Purpose

This episode delves deeply into the biblical and spiritual meaning behind the words "Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus," focusing on their origin in the mystery of the Visitation (Luke 1:39-45). Fr. Mark-Mary invites listeners to move beyond mechanical repetition in prayer and encourages embracing these words as a real, joyful response to the presence of Mary and Jesus. The goal is to foster a habit of heartfelt, grace-filled prayer and deeper relationship with Jesus and Mary through the Rosary.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

The Biblical Foundation of “Blessed Are You”

Origin of the Words (01:38)
- Fr. Mark-Mary references the Visitation (Luke 1:39-45), where Mary visits Elizabeth.
- Emphasizes the significance of Mary greeting Elizabeth while carrying Jesus:
  
  "Mary brings Jesus, she speaks a greeting. And what happens through her greeting? She communicates grace. She communicates the Holy Spirit." (02:30)
The Work of Grace in the Visitation (02:50)
- Mary’s presence and greeting brings forth the Holy Spirit—John the Baptist leaps in Elizabeth’s womb, and Elizabeth herself is filled with the Holy Spirit.
- Elizabeth’s words, "Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb," are described as an exclamation inspired by the Holy Spirit, not just polite acknowledgment.

Reclaiming the Joy and Wonder in Prayer

Expressiveness in the Rosary (04:00)
- Fr. Mark-Mary challenges listeners to consider:
  
  "How many of us, as we're praying the rosary, are saying these words as a loud cry, as a joyous shout inspired and animated by the Holy Spirit?" (04:08)
- He shares that the true spirit of these words is joyful, akin to the spontaneous and heartfelt reaction of Elizabeth.
Personal Anecdote – Childlike Wonder (05:08)
- Fr. Mark-Mary relates a story about a brother friar reacting with exuberance to seeing a dolphin:
  
  “One of the brothers just went nuts. ‘Whoa, a dolphin! Whoa!’... it was just like this beautiful, natural, proper response to the wonder of God manifest in this beautiful creature, the dolphin.” (06:03)
- He draws a parallel: if such awe is proper for a created creature, how much more so for the Blessed Virgin Mary, “the masterpiece of creation, the boast of our race.”

Invitation to Renewed Prayer

Making Prayer a Cry of Joy (07:04)
- Fr. Mark-Mary encourages listeners not to let these familiar words become mechanical:
  
  "Not just to make this a mechanical prayer, not just another repetition, but a cry of joy, a cry of joy in honor of the Blessed Mother, in honor of the one she carries, in honor of the Holy Spirit, who she communicates." (07:24)
- He urges a renewed approach:
  
  "Let's be renewed. Let's just take the time to practice, to ask for the grace to with Elizabeth and the Holy Spirit before the Blessed Mother who comes to us bringing us Jesus, who comes to us, bringing us the Holy Spirit to receive her with shouts of joy." (07:52)
Prayerful Response & Intention (08:27)
- He concludes the reflection by praying for the grace to love and rejoice in Mary as God does.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

On the Beauty and Humility of God:

“Be moved with awe at the beauty and the humility of God, who becomes so small that he can be carried in the womb of the Blessed Mother.” (02:07)
On Joyful Prayer:

“How many of us are saying these words as a loud cry, as a joyous shout inspired and animated by the Holy Spirit?” (04:08)
On Responding with Wonder:

“Even more awesome—the masterpiece of creation, the boast of our race, is the Blessed Virgin Mary, full of grace... It is right and just as we encounter the Blessed Mother, to do so with wonder and awe.” (06:59)

Timestamps for Important Segments

Introduction & Context – 00:00–01:19
Scriptural Foundation of 'Blessed Are You' – 01:20–03:20
Mary Communicates Grace – 02:30–03:20
Reflecting on Elizabeth's Exclamation – 03:20–04:08
Expressive Prayer vs. Mechanical Repetition – 04:09–05:07
Story of the Joyful Friar at the Beach – 05:08–06:40
Parallel to Encountering Mary – 06:41–07:52
Invitation to Renew Prayer – 07:53–09:03
Concluding Prayers (Our Father, Hail Marys, Glory Be) – 09:04–End

Summary & Takeaways

Fr. Mark-Mary, with a gentle and relatable tone, calls listeners to refresh their experience of the Rosary—especially the phrase, “Blessed are you among women.” Drawing from the Visitation, he highlights how Mary's presence brings grace, how Elizabeth’s cry was a spontaneous outpouring of joy in the Holy Spirit, and how we are invited to pray with the same exuberant faith.

He reminds us that repeated prayers shouldn't be lifeless but joyful cries celebrating the wonders of God, the Holy Spirit, and Mary. Listeners are encouraged to internalize this joy and wonder, making every repetition of the Rosary a living encounter.

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Transcript

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Foreign. Mark Mary with Franciscan Friars of the Renewal and this is the Rosary in Ear podcast where through prayer and meditation, the Rosary brings us deeper into relationship with Jesus and Mary and becomes a source of grace for the whole world. The Rosary in Year is brought to you by Ascension. This is day nine. To download the prayer plan for Rosary in a year, visit ascensionpress.comrosaryinayear or text RIY to 33777. You'll get an outline of how we're going to preach month and it's a great way to track your progress. The best place to listen to the Podcast in the Ascension app. There are special features built just for this podcast and also recordings of the full Rosary with myself and other friars. No matter what app you're listening in, remember to tap, follow or subscribe for your daily notifications. I encourage you to pick up a copy of the Rosary in a Year Prayer Guide, a book published by Ascension that was designed to complement this podcast. You'll find all the daily readings from Scripture, Saint reflections, and beautiful full page images of the sacred art we'll be reflecting on. Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Where do these words come from? These words come from what we know as, or refer to as the mystery of the visitation found in Luke chapter one, starting at verse 39. To help us grow in our deeper understanding of these words, I'd like us to reflect upon what's happening in their sort of greater context. And so we go to verse 39. In those days Mary arose and went with haste into the hill country to a city of Judah, and she entered the house of Zechariah and greeted Elizabeth. And when Elizabeth heard the greeting of Mary, the child leaped in her womb and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. And she exclaimed with a loud cry, blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb. So I know we're familiar with this mystery in this passage, but let's take a little look at it. So the first thing that happens right as Mary brings Jesus to Elizabeth, and let's just take a moment to ponder and be moved with awe at the beauty and the humility of God, who becomes so small that he can be carried in the womb of the Blessed Mother. So Mary brings Jesus, she speaks a greeting. And what happens through her greeting? She communicates grace. She communicates the Holy Spirit. Elizabeth, hearing this greeting, has John the Baptist leap in her womb and Elizabeth herself is filled with the Holy Spirit. Mary, she who is full of grace. Her greeting communicates grace her presence as she carries Jesus communicates Jesus in a way that is effective and sanctifying. And then what happens? The Holy Spirit, Elizabeth, filled with the Holy Spirit, exclaims in a loud voice, blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb. So these words, these are a work of grace, a work of the Holy Spirit in Elizabeth, which are expressed through a loud cry. How many of us, as we're praying the rosary, how many of us are saying these words as a loud cry, as a joyous shout inspired and animated by the Holy Spirit? And I was just reflecting upon this, and a story came to mind. For those of you who know me, I'm not the most expressive guy in the world. And so I was just reflecting upon, like, what's another context where I've seen somebody give a loud cry of joy? And what came to mind is, this is a number of years ago, a couple friars and I, we were down doing a mission, like a young adult type of retreat in Florida. And one day we were near the water, as we were checking out the waves by the beach, all of a sudden, a dolphin jumped up, and one of the brothers just went nuts. Whoa. A dolphin. Whoa. And it was. First of all, I'm here recording this in the Friar. I hope none of the brothers, like, heard that, just talking about the rosary here, you know, but this brother, like, there's this loud exclaim, and I was so moved by it, and it was so childlike and so innocent. Whoa. A dolphin. Whoa. Whoa. And it was just like this beautiful, natural, proper response to the wonder of God manifest in this beautiful creature, the dolphin. It was awesome. Even more awesome. The masterpiece of creation, the boast of our race, is the Blessed Virgin Mary, full of grace. And it is a work of grace, and it's a work of the Holy Spirit. And it is right. And just as we encounter the Blessed Mother, to do so with wonder and awe. And like Elizabeth, with shouts of joy, she is worthy. She is worthy of rejoicing. She is worthy of honor. And this is, for me at least, the invitation to spend the time today to reflect anew upon these words which I've prayed so many times. Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. And not just to make this a mechanical prayer, not just another repetition, but a cry of joy, a cry of joy in honor of the Blessed Mother, in honor of the one she carries, in honor of the Holy Spirit, who she communicates. And so let's do that today. Like, let's be renewed. Let's Just take the time to practice, to ask for the grace to with Elizabeth and the Holy Spirit before the Blessed Mother who comes to us bringing us Jesus, who comes to us, bringing us the Holy Spirit to receive her with shouts of joy. Lord, help us. Lord, help us to love and rejoice in the Blessed Mother as you love and rejoice in her. And let us pray. In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen. Hail Mary, full of grace. The Lord is with the Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen. Hail Mary, full of grace. The Lord is with the Blessed art thou among women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen. Hail Mary, full of grace. The Lord is with the Blessed art thou among women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen. Glory be to the Father and to the Son and to the Holy Spirit. As it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be, world without end. Amen. In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. All right, brothers and sisters, thank you for joining me and praying with me today. I look forward to continuing the journey with you tomorrow. Poco. Poco. All right. Bye, friends.