Podcast Summary: The Rosary in a Year (with Fr. Mark-Mary Ames)
Episode: Day 9: Blessed Are You
Host: Fr. Mark-Mary Ames, CFR (Ascension)
Date: January 9, 2026
Main Theme & Purpose
This episode delves deeply into the biblical and spiritual meaning behind the words "Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus," focusing on their origin in the mystery of the Visitation (Luke 1:39-45). Fr. Mark-Mary invites listeners to move beyond mechanical repetition in prayer and encourages embracing these words as a real, joyful response to the presence of Mary and Jesus. The goal is to foster a habit of heartfelt, grace-filled prayer and deeper relationship with Jesus and Mary through the Rosary.
Key Discussion Points & Insights
The Biblical Foundation of “Blessed Are You”
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Origin of the Words (01:38)
- Fr. Mark-Mary references the Visitation (Luke 1:39-45), where Mary visits Elizabeth.
- Emphasizes the significance of Mary greeting Elizabeth while carrying Jesus:
"Mary brings Jesus, she speaks a greeting. And what happens through her greeting? She communicates grace. She communicates the Holy Spirit." (02:30)
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The Work of Grace in the Visitation (02:50)
- Mary’s presence and greeting brings forth the Holy Spirit—John the Baptist leaps in Elizabeth’s womb, and Elizabeth herself is filled with the Holy Spirit.
- Elizabeth’s words, "Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb," are described as an exclamation inspired by the Holy Spirit, not just polite acknowledgment.
Reclaiming the Joy and Wonder in Prayer
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Expressiveness in the Rosary (04:00)
- Fr. Mark-Mary challenges listeners to consider:
"How many of us, as we're praying the rosary, are saying these words as a loud cry, as a joyous shout inspired and animated by the Holy Spirit?" (04:08)
- He shares that the true spirit of these words is joyful, akin to the spontaneous and heartfelt reaction of Elizabeth.
- Fr. Mark-Mary challenges listeners to consider:
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Personal Anecdote – Childlike Wonder (05:08)
- Fr. Mark-Mary relates a story about a brother friar reacting with exuberance to seeing a dolphin:
“One of the brothers just went nuts. ‘Whoa, a dolphin! Whoa!’... it was just like this beautiful, natural, proper response to the wonder of God manifest in this beautiful creature, the dolphin.” (06:03)
- He draws a parallel: if such awe is proper for a created creature, how much more so for the Blessed Virgin Mary, “the masterpiece of creation, the boast of our race.”
- Fr. Mark-Mary relates a story about a brother friar reacting with exuberance to seeing a dolphin:
Invitation to Renewed Prayer
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Making Prayer a Cry of Joy (07:04)
- Fr. Mark-Mary encourages listeners not to let these familiar words become mechanical:
"Not just to make this a mechanical prayer, not just another repetition, but a cry of joy, a cry of joy in honor of the Blessed Mother, in honor of the one she carries, in honor of the Holy Spirit, who she communicates." (07:24)
- He urges a renewed approach:
"Let's be renewed. Let's just take the time to practice, to ask for the grace to with Elizabeth and the Holy Spirit before the Blessed Mother who comes to us bringing us Jesus, who comes to us, bringing us the Holy Spirit to receive her with shouts of joy." (07:52)
- Fr. Mark-Mary encourages listeners not to let these familiar words become mechanical:
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Prayerful Response & Intention (08:27)
- He concludes the reflection by praying for the grace to love and rejoice in Mary as God does.
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
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On the Beauty and Humility of God:
“Be moved with awe at the beauty and the humility of God, who becomes so small that he can be carried in the womb of the Blessed Mother.” (02:07)
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On Joyful Prayer:
“How many of us are saying these words as a loud cry, as a joyous shout inspired and animated by the Holy Spirit?” (04:08)
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On Responding with Wonder:
“Even more awesome—the masterpiece of creation, the boast of our race, is the Blessed Virgin Mary, full of grace... It is right and just as we encounter the Blessed Mother, to do so with wonder and awe.” (06:59)
Timestamps for Important Segments
- Introduction & Context – 00:00–01:19
- Scriptural Foundation of 'Blessed Are You' – 01:20–03:20
- Mary Communicates Grace – 02:30–03:20
- Reflecting on Elizabeth's Exclamation – 03:20–04:08
- Expressive Prayer vs. Mechanical Repetition – 04:09–05:07
- Story of the Joyful Friar at the Beach – 05:08–06:40
- Parallel to Encountering Mary – 06:41–07:52
- Invitation to Renew Prayer – 07:53–09:03
- Concluding Prayers (Our Father, Hail Marys, Glory Be) – 09:04–End
Summary & Takeaways
Fr. Mark-Mary, with a gentle and relatable tone, calls listeners to refresh their experience of the Rosary—especially the phrase, “Blessed are you among women.” Drawing from the Visitation, he highlights how Mary's presence brings grace, how Elizabeth’s cry was a spontaneous outpouring of joy in the Holy Spirit, and how we are invited to pray with the same exuberant faith.
He reminds us that repeated prayers shouldn't be lifeless but joyful cries celebrating the wonders of God, the Holy Spirit, and Mary. Listeners are encouraged to internalize this joy and wonder, making every repetition of the Rosary a living encounter.
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