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Yeah, well, my, my mom and my grandparents, my great grandparents, they all Came here from Cuba. And so, you know, if anybody's ever watched snl, which I. I don't recommend to anybody because it's awful. But there's one character on it that's pretty funny, Marcelo. And Marcelo's Cuban. And he tells this story about his mom that is, like, so accurate to my life. And he's like, okay, so the problem with being the child of a Cuban refugee who escaped communism is you are never allowed to have a bad day, period. It is not allowed. You come home from school and your mom's like, hey, how was your day at school? You know, and you're like, oh, it was. It was all right. And she's like, oh, oh, it's all right. It's all right. Really? What happened? Did somebody take your freedom today? And it's like, okay, so you already start out with this base level positivity that you have to have, right? It's like, okay, I'm extremely lucky. But then on top of that, you know, I am not sure I've ever met anybody who loved our country more than my great grandfather. His name's Raphael. We called him Payo. And, you know, he's passed now. But the incredible way he lived his life was a testament to me about who I wanted to be. Right. He was like my father figure. And for him, he worked his whole life. You know, he was essentially a cowboy. You know, had had land in Cuba and everything, and was a hard worker his whole life, but had built up a really nice life for himself. He ends up having everything taken by the Cuban government. Comes here to America, never complains about starting over. Started over as a janitor, working double shifts. Worked until he was like 90 years old, and never a complaint. Like, literally not one complaint. All he had was gratitude because he realized that had this happened in America, there was nowhere to run to. At least he had somewhere to run to. And, you know, that's the truth, is that gratitude just runs through my veins. And so when I see this modern, you know, sort of woke DEI movement, and I see how it tries to disempower people, especially young minorities, too, I mean, the discrimination against young white men is insane. But there's this other piece of it, too, where it disempowers young minorities, too, because, like, I look at my own example, when I was in school, I was constantly having reasserted to me that I could do anything in this country, right? That anything was possible. This was the land of opportunity. You have no excuses to not succeed at whatever it is you want to Succeed in, in life. Well, I try to put myself in the classroom chair of a kid today, you know, and say, what would I be getting told in that same position now? And there's sort of an interesting anecdote, which is that I was in a special program as a kid that, that existed for students who had accelerated learning, right? So that means I graduated high school just before I turned 16. I had already done one year of college at that point, because this program, it believed in excellence. If you were willing to put in the work, you were able to excel and jump ahead. That program today was deemed racist by the state of California. And so the state of California essentially said, there's too many white kids, too many Asian kids in it, so it's not fair. And, and that accelerated path does not exist in the same way today that it did back then. And I think that what I'd be hearing from teachers is that everything stacked against me, right? Your mom was a refugee Latina, so you're a Latino. And Latinos just are going to have a harder time achieving things because this country's racist, so on and so forth. I mean, you know the drill. Everybody knows what a young kid would be getting told these days. And you can pretend you're doing that out of some sort of good hearted, empathetic vision of the world where you're trying to uplift people and right wrongs of the past, but the truth is, it's just disempowering. All you're doing is giving people excuses. And I think that that's an incredibly dangerous thing. So when I look at my own kids, I've got four of them, you know, I don't want them to live in that world. I want them to live in one that believes in merit, that says if you work the hardest, you put in the time you excel at something, you're going to be rewarded for it. You know, I don't want to live in a world where the people who do the best are constantly punished. And so that is really my motivation for all of this, is ensuring that, you know, if I had to boil down the United States does not become Cuba 2.0, because we could go down that path. I mean, I think we were actually very close to tipping into it, which is why I started speaking out about politics. You know, we talked about it in the opening. I directed some of the biggest stars in Hollywood, Oscar winning actors, actresses, some of the biggest music stars. And so to give that career up that a lot of people would kill for, especially since I didn't have a Hollywood family. I didn't have a rich family. I built everything myself. I only did that because I saw that we could very easily become Cuba 2.0. And I felt like Hollywood in general had become a net negative to culture for our kids and for the future of our country. And I could either be a part of that and profit off of it and keep my own kids safe, or try to do the right thing, which is what I promised my family I would do.