Oren Klaff (5:53)
So, you know, he was very good at like selling directly to like couples and everything like that. You're good at one to many. You know, I'm. I'm okay at those big tickets, you know, million dollars, $300 million, whatever it is. I feel like whatever that wound, like everybody got wounded at some point by money. And then a few of us overcorrected by like 9,000%. And that's what you're good at, right? By your overcorrection. I bet it. I bet if you interview the guys in sales, you look way back and you go, what? Because I'm good at money. But as I told you, I don't care about it. Right. I just love the W. And so what happened is I was in a company and we grew too rapidly. Really. Before, there was a lot of venture capital and there was no money. And so we went out, we had a great company today. That company would have raised $50 million in a minute because there's so much, but couldn't find money anywhere for a software company. And 1991, because there wasn't a lot of venture capital and private equity. And ultimately that created a wound in me that I couldn't find money for a good company. And then I just overcorrected by being great at walking into funds, kicking the door down and saying, no, you sit down, no, stop talking. And just getting frame control over them and getting the people who normally scare other people scared of me. And that is what I like to give the 10 and 15 million dollars guys. From being on the front lines of doing that, maybe to my own detriment, many, many times, and I'll give you an example, I get on up and everybody should start doing this immediately until everybody's doing it, it doesn't work anymore. But I get on the phone with billionaires or guys managing billion dollar funds all the time. Guess what they do every single time they come late, right? Why? Because they're busy, because they can, because they're packed too much stuff in their day. Whatever the case is, they always come. So I'm looking for $10 million and they're running a 300 million or $3 billion fund or they're a $3 billion, you can guarantee they will come late, three minutes late, five minutes late, eight minutes late, whatever it is. I always go, john, are you here for the 1007 call? You want me to catch you up on what has happened up to now? And every single executive banker, private equity guy, money manager in America knows the value of time. It's the value system that we are all in alignment with. So when you call them out on the inability to be professional with time, they will always say, I'm sorry. So that is the right way to start a call. You know, if you're a $10 million guy talking to a $300 million guy with them apologizing to you. Because what happens is, as you know from the book, there's this status imbalance. And I don't know how status works. In the selling that you do, you sort of have a very humble, got your Unabomber sweatshirt on and everything. But in environments that I go into, it is critical to lower the status of the fund. The high net worth guy, the big guy coming in late, shooting big guns because nobody's going to buy from you when they feel like they are higher status than you are. So I think what a lot of people do is they focus on raising their own status. But that is folly because you haven't been in that environment. You're walking into a bank, you walk into a private equity group, you're dealing with venture capital, you're just dealing with a Mark Cuban high net worth individual Rather than trying to make yourself look good in an environment that you're not familiar with, Imagine you and I going to a Katana nightclub in Los Angeles tonight, Friday night, right? 2:45 plus year old guys walking in there. And there's no way we're gonna get into cool, right? Because it's just we're not gonna figure out that environment and be cool in that environment. And that's the same challenge. You're not gonna make yourself look good in an environment or in a situation you have no experience in. So rather than raising your status lower, theirs, and it's easy to do. So I'll do it on time. A lot of times the billion dollar guy will come on the phone and I'll go, he's like, hey, yeah, sorry, I'm a few minutes late. I'm like, okay. And the first thing I'll say is, I'm confused. The things I see on your website are really confusing for all the things you said in the email. So I'm here to try and reconcile what I see on the website and what you're saying in media, because I'm confused. And billionaires hate that when they're sending out confusing messages about their business. So I'll always find something where they're out of integrity or out of their value system. I'll say, look, I saw perfect example, Luke Nosek at Founders Fund, right? So Founders Fund, I'll give you a better example. I want to try and answer your question. I'll try and land the plane here. Guy Kawasaki ran a small venture firm in Silicon Valley called Garage Ventures. And we go there to pitch a deal with one of my clients. And he goes, really? I really like this company. It's amazing. Would be very interested in it, but we'd like to see the revenue more seasoned. We'd like to see faster scaling in the, you know, in the customer growth. We'd like to see more seasoning in the management team. Like to see just a little bit more of a mature business before we could get involved. And I go, it's literally called Garage Ventures. Change your name, okay? Do not have my client drive here across town or fly up and talk to them out of Integrity. It says Garage Ventures. If the client had scaling revenue, if they had more seasoned management team, if they had predictable user growth, it wouldn't be here. It'd be a goddamn bank of America. Name yourself correctly. Oh, I'm so sorry. Yeah. So not to be angry, but I think the important thing is to have the courage to call out an Imbalance in people's value system. They say one thing, do another, call it out. I'll give you one more example and turn it back over to you. I want people running 5, 8, $10 million companies to be able to do this. You get on a call with investors or big partner or whatever, there's two or three of them on there and ultimately there'll be one of them going like this. And I'll just go, who's that guy? And they go, that's our cfo. I go, listen, are you guys able, we're. This call is 20 minutes long. Are you able to focus on this call for 20 minutes? All right, because, because it's one thing my 11 year old knows, my 12 year old knows is people are in their best behavior in the first meeting because they're trying to attract you, we're trying to attract them, right? And I go, if you guys can't come to the call, authentically interested, listening with people that are focused for 20 minutes, I don't even know how to start a relationship with you. Teach me how to work with you. And two things will happen. If it's authentic, they will know like, yeah, you don't come to a call and start texting on a serious financial discussion. And then we'll go, I'm sorry, let's just all focus. We had a call, we're closing the deal, we're a little bit distracted, but let's focus now. Or they'll say, what's the big deal? That's sort of normal course of business and now, you know, not people that care enough to say we booked a 20 minute call, three of us are here, we're going to listen and focus and there's just not a deal here. And so these are the things that are less top of funnel, but I would call just above mid funnel. Right. So you pitch, you get somebody in, have a conversation with them and then you've got to get some status balance where they don't perceive themselves to be more important, more valuable, more cashed up and more powerful than you. Does that make sense?