Podcast Summary: The Russell Brunson Show, Ep. 85
Title: The Small Book From the 1930’s That Reminded Me Why I Love Selling
Host: Russell Brunson
Date: November 5, 2025
Episode Overview
In this episode, Russell Brunson takes listeners on a journey through his rediscovery of "The Romance of Selling," a small book from the 1930s that reignited his passion for salesmanship. He breaks down why selling is not just a critical business skill but also an undervalued art—a "romance" that powers success. Russell draws from personal stories, timeless sales principles, and his own hard-earned lessons to highlight how enthusiasm and certainty lead to transformative results in business and life.
Key Discussion Points & Insights
1. The Social Stigma Around Selling
- Russell reflects on how society tends to look down on selling, recalling that, growing up, no one aspired to be a "salesman."
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"I remember as a kid...I never heard someone bragging about, 'I want to be a salesman, I want to get into sales.' That was never a thing people cared about."
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- He emphasizes that, despite this stigma, successful people he's met all excel at sales.
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"All the people I met who were extremely wealthy, extremely successful...the one common thing that all these people were really good at is they all knew how to sell."
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2. The Roles in Business & Why Rainmakers Win
- Businesses have key players: entrepreneurs, technicians, and rainmakers (sellers).
- Technicians (e.g., doctors, dentists) may have skill sets but are capped in earning, while rainmakers have "unlimited upside."
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"The person that makes the most amount of money is never the technician...it's the rainmaker."
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- Russell’s take:
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"For me, it's like, you've either got to be the entrepreneur...or you've got to become the salesperson."
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3. Personal Roots in Selling: Missionary Experience
- Russell shares how his first real sales training came not from business, but as a missionary in New Jersey.
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"My first version of selling...was knocking on doors, literally selling religion, which of all things...is the hardest sell."
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- He humorously summarizes the missionary pitch:
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"Give up alcohol, tobacco, coffee, tea, all premarital and extramarital sex and 10% of your income for the rest of your life. In exchange, you MAY get salvation if you don't mess it up."
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4. The Power of Enthusiasm
- Russell reads an excerpt from the book:
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"Nothing is so contagious as enthusiasm...It moves stones and charms brutes. It is the genius of science. And truth accomplishes no victories without it."
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- He recounts that enthusiasm was the key to success door-to-door—and later, in every arena of life and business:
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"When I had enthusiasm at what I was sharing...it would shift everything."
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- He details his initial struggles speaking on stage and making his first infomercial, learning that what feels like “over the top” energy is what comes across as natural and engaging on camera.
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"If you're on TV and your energy is at this level, you sound normal. If you come in normal, you're going to sound boring and half asleep."
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5. Certainty and Leadership in Sales
- Enthusiasm alone isn't enough; certainty is the X-factor in group selling.
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"The person in any room who has the most certainty always wins."
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- People are searching for leaders—someone they can "plug into" for confidence.
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"J. Pram once said people are silently begging to be led...with like a cord on their umbilical cord looking for somebody to plug into."
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- As Russell summarizes, combine enthusiasm and certainty for sales success.
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"If you want to be a leader...you've got to be the person who comes in with those things because that's what's going to get people to want to plug into you."
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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
- On undervaluing sales:
"Selling is the thing that makes the dentist, the person with the skill set, actually useful. Because if nobody shows up and gives that person money, then nobody gets paid." (10:29)
- On stage presence:
"Every time they say, 'Russell, how do you have so much energy?'...Well, the reason why is because the only time you ever see me is I'm about to go live...But when I show up, I show up with enthusiasm." (20:16)
- On what people desire:
"People desire more energy in their life. They're trying to get energy from caffeine, from coffee, from parties...When you're the person who comes in with enthusiasm, excitement, they want to plug into that." (21:44)
- Actionable tip:
"If you're not as good at creating the offer...but you come in with certainty and enthusiasm, people are looking for people to plug into." (23:38)
Key Timestamps
- 00:00 - 01:45: Introduction, context on the old sales book, and why Russell loves it
- 04:51 - 09:17: The social stigma of selling and business roles
- 11:24 - 14:40: Russell's missionary sales training and lesson on enthusiasm
- 16:18 - 20:40: Stage fright, infomercial failures, and learning to "sell with energy"
- 22:54 - 25:33: Certainty as the closer, leadership, and the need for a sales mindset
Conclusion
This episode is a love letter to the art of selling—reminding listeners that sales isn't just a business necessity, but a life force for success. Through story, humor, and hard-won insight, Russell challenges the stigma around sales, underscoring the magic of enthusiasm and certainty. His message: become a rainmaker, plug into your own confidence, and inspire others to take action with your energy.
For those wanting deeper sales wisdom, Russell also offers his notes on "The Romance of Selling" via a downloadable link.
