Podcast Summary:
The Russell Brunson Show – "This Is Where You Find Out If You Really Believe Your Message Is True" (June 3, 2019)
Host: Russell Brunson
Overview
In this episode, Russell Brunson explores a pivotal challenge for entrepreneurs and message-driven creators: handling criticism, negativity, and 'haters' when you put your message into the world. He shares recent personal experiences with online backlash—both from anonymous Internet commentators and even professional peers. The core theme centers on truly believing in your message and persevering, especially as opposition and noise increase with your visibility and influence. Russell offers practical insights, encouragement, and a clear call to stay committed when facing criticism.
Key Discussion Points and Insights
1. The Inevitable Backlash of Spreading Your Message
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Russell opens by welcoming listeners dealing with negativity as they share their ideas online, stating that louder voices draw more criticism.
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He notes that after nearly 15 years in the space, with experience and thick skin, he’s learned to weather such storms:
"If you haven't had it yet, the more aggressive you are—and the more you care about what you say and the louder you put it out there—the louder the noise will come back." (00:31)
2. The Tony Robbins Example – Defending a Mentor
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Russell recounts a smear article by BuzzFeed about Tony Robbins (04:47), which he describes as clickbait and poorly sourced:
“First off, BuzzFeed is trash. They are the National Enquirer of the Internet…” (07:15)
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He stresses Tony's positive impact and integrity, sharing his personal Facebook post that defends Tony, includes book recommendations, and references a powerful testimonial by Tim Ballard.
“Tony’s done more to change people’s lives than almost anyone who’s ever lived on this earth… He changed my life, saved my marriage, and is someone I consider not just a mentor, but a friend." (08:15)
3. Personal Backlash and Handling Peer Attacks
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Russell shares a recent experience where a peer (who he considered a friend) publicly criticized the “One Funnel Away” message, suggesting it was misleading (12:05).
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He observes this tactic is sometimes used by competitors to drive business by disparaging others.
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He notes support from his community in the face of these attacks, and how he chose to post a single, clear response about his true intent and belief in his message.
“My message has never been ‘your first funnel is going to be successful’. It's consistently for years that you’re just one funnel away, that you don’t know which one it is…” (16:14)
“It took me 21 funnels before I made my first seven-figure funnel… I'll keep beating this drum as long as I have a voice, because I believe the message is true.” (16:50)
4. The Reality of Growth: More Success = More Pushback
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Russell discusses the experience of increasing visibility: initially, friends/family express skepticism; as success grows, opposition intensifies.
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He references a conversation with Steven Larson, who is now facing more criticism as his business rises:
“When you’re making that much noise, the opposition will start coming harder. The second phase… is where you really find out how much you believe in your message.” (19:05)
5. "Phase 2": Testing Your Belief in Your Message
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Russell names the critical point as “Phase 2”—the moment of decision when criticism becomes personal and intense. Many quit here.
“So many people who I know who could have or should have been great leaders and could have changed so many people's lives—stop. Because they heard the opposition and it got so loud they couldn’t handle it.” (19:56)
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He gives practical advice: evaluate your core belief in your message. If it’s true, double down and set boundaries.
“If you don’t [believe in your message], it’s going to be easy to step back. But if you look at yourself and say, is what I’m saying truth? …Then you’ve got to commit and you’ve got to double and triple down.” (21:30)
6. Staying Committed Despite the Noise
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He shares tactics: block or unfriend negative voices, set up support boundaries, but above all, maintain inner certainty.
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Russell reiterates his defiant stance:
“I’m going to keep beating this drum as long as I have a voice, because I believe the message is true…” (22:07)
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The only way to drown out opposition: beat your drum louder, with conviction and consistency.
“The only way to drown out the noise of the people attacking you is to beat that drum louder and louder and louder, to the point where they get so loud that you can’t hear them.” (22:54)
7. Inspiration for the Audience
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He urges listeners to celebrate when opposition comes—it means your message is reaching new levels.
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Find affirmation in real impact, like stories of client success (e.g., $3.5 billion processed through ClickFunnels).
“When I walk up and down the bathroom hallway or the kitchens in my office… I see all the Two Comma Club Awards and Two Comma Club X Awards. I know that my message is true because I know I’ve seen it work over and over and over again. And my absolute belief in it is what gives me the ability to continue to beat my drum.” (24:38)
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Message to listeners: Don’t stop. Your message matters, not only to your business and family, but to those you’re called to serve.
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
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Russell Brunson on Online Critics:
“Their life must be miserable. That's the only reason why they could be angry about this thing that I’m trying to share and put out there.” (02:44) -
On Tony Robbins:
“Tony's done more to change people’s lives than almost anyone who’s ever lived on this earth… He changed my life, saved my marriage, and is someone I consider not just a mentor, but a friend.” (08:15) -
On the ‘One Funnel Away’ Message:
“My message has never been 'your first funnel is going to be successful.' It's... you’re just one funnel away, that you don’t know which one it is. You need to keep building and trying until you find it.” (16:14) -
Advice for Creators Under Fire:
“The only way to drown out the noise of the people attacking you is to beat that drum louder and louder and louder, to the point where they get so loud that you can’t hear them.” (22:54) -
On Serving Your Audience:
“Your message matters. And what you do, it’s important. Not just important to you and to your family, to your income. It's important to people you’ve been called to serve. So don’t stop. Keep beating your drum.” (26:11)
Timestamps for Key Segments
- 00:31 – Introduction: Why Criticism Increases with Message Strength
- 04:47 – The Tony Robbins BuzzFeed Controversy
- 07:15 – Russell’s Facebook Defense of Tony Robbins
- 12:05 – Dealing With Peer Criticism over the 'One Funnel Away' Motto
- 16:14 – Clarifying His Message & Sharing Real Funnel Numbers
- 19:05 – The “Phase 2” of Message Ownership (Steven Larson Reference)
- 22:54 – How to Drown Out Critics: Beat Your Drum Louder
- 24:38 – Finding Validation in Customer Impact
- 26:11 – Final Encouragement: Why You Must Keep Going
Closing Takeaways
Russell’s core message:
When you face criticism for your message, that's the true test of belief. The more you succeed and amplify your voice, the more resistance you’ll face. It's essential to double down on your convictions, protect your focus, and serve the people who need your message most. If you believe in what you’re doing, keep beating your drum loud and proud—your impact depends on it.
