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What's going on, my friends? Welcome back to the Ryan League podcast, where we love to keep things short and sweet for you each and every week. We always want each episode to just add value to your life, leadership, relationships, and today is no exception. Today's episode is entitled Removing Irritants. Removing irritants. There is a leadership principle that I think is so simple, you're going to think to yourself, ryan, everybody knows this, right? It feels like it's common sense. Here's what I've learned. Common sense is not all that common. And that leadership principle that we're gonna talk about today does not require a rebrand. It does not require a capital campaign or a consultant. It requires a high level of awareness and a high level of you just being willing to care about really, really small things. And it's about removing irritants. I learned it from a guy by the name of Dr. Nito Qubem. He is the president of High Point University, and he leads with this mantra of removing irritant. And it just might be one of the most practical leadership frameworks I've seen in action in a very, very long time. And just to give you context for what's happening in the higher education space, data will tell you that when you begin to look at private, nonprofit colleges in the United States, they're either closing their doors or hanging on by a thread. In fact, I went to a small Christian college, and when I look up even the teams in colleges that I played against in college, I want to say, last time I checked, there was 13 of them that no longer exist. Like, they've completely shut down their doors. However, High Point University ironically has a waiting list of thousands, and the culture is absolutely remarkable. I had an opportunity to visit their campus last year and was thoroughly impressed, and really not just impressed with the campus. I was really impressed with Dr. Nito Cobain's leadership and had the opportunity with a small group of people to spend some time with him. And he just started sharing some stories about this consistent commitment to removing irritants. He even told us a story about how it came to his attention that students kept leaving the campus on the weekends to go to an arcade. So he thought, well, let's build him one. Yeah, that's an inconvenience for them to have to, you know, leave the campus and, you know, figure out ways to get over there and catch rides. But he goes, well, what if they could just go downstairs? What if they could just walk out of their dorm room and have fun here? He removed and heir to him. He also tells a story where he was standing in his office, and his office overlooks the campus. And he saw a student going from one building to another. Now, there was a sidewalk where they would kind of walk around a hill and go over to the next building. But he noticed that students kept walking over the hill to get to the next building because it was the most natural path to get there. Until the next day. Dr. Cobain had pavers. Yeah. He had a construction crew out there making a way. Paving a way to make it easier for students to get from one building to another. What's he doing? He's removing irritants. He's asking the question, what's the most annoying thing that parents have to deal with? What's the most annoying thing that students have to deal with and how can we remove those irritants? My friends, it's not a flashy idea. It's not a marketing campaign. What it is is it's paying attention to friction and eliminating it. And most leaders, most people, I would add, are wired to add. Yeah. Come up with more stuff. Add more programming, more oversight, more initiatives, more structure. But I believe growth is often less about addition and more about subtraction. It's about asking a simple question. What is the most annoying thing that our people deal with every day and how can we remove it? And here's what you and I both know. Every single organization has. Irritant. The meeting that should have been an email. The email that should have been a conversation. The five layers of approval that make decision making painfully slow. The expense report that takes longer to file than the expense itself. Outdated software that everyone complains about, but nobody fixes. And don't even get me started on the automated phone system that makes you press seven buttons before you ever even talk to a human. Listen, the other day, I had a Nike order that was messed up. And so I called Nike's customer service line, and I was expecting an automated system, which, you know, just drives me up the wall. This isn't about my irritants, but I'm just giving you a story, all right? And when you call Nike, here's what happens. They say, thanks for calling to make sure we're always on our game. We record our calls. One of our athletes will be right with you. What did you just say? One of your athletes will be right with me. Is LeBron coming on the call? Like, I'm not annoyed. I'm inspired. What is about to happen? Somebody in that organization is asking the question, hey, man, what's annoying to people. And like, how can we make it better? How can we remove an irritant for these people? I mean, the reality is it doesn't matter what the friction is in your organization. It's going to compound in some way, shape or form, but so does relief. Relief also compounds. Yeah. When an irritant is removed, guess what happened? People talk about it. Think about this. Even in your own personal life, most of the stress that you have doesn't come from one giant catastrophic event. It comes from what? Small reoccurring annoyances, lost keys, a bill you forgot to pay, the login that never works. I can't remember my passwords to save my life. Even when the password saves, like this password no longer you're like, but I saved it. And how come it's not like it's just, it's like what's happening. Clutter that slowly takes over your desk. None of it's dramatic, but it low key just drains energy. So I think this idea of removing irritant, while it's not glamorous, I do think it's transformational. I mean you just, I mean obviously think about your job. Just what would it look like for you to just shorten meetings and give people their time back? Like how many meetings have we had that were 60 minutes, that could have been 20. How many three hour meetings have we had that could have been an email? Like remove the irritant. I mean, you just think about, like you think about approval processes and what we would call corporate red tape. Like what if you just remove the irritant and made the approval process just a little more simple? I mean, going back to your personal life, I mean, you just think about removing irritants there. Like, you know, if it's lost keys, like what if you just picked a place, like created a space for those precious keys, you know, or you saw set up auto pay for your bills like so you're not consistently surprised. Oh wait, what that bill's due. It's like, no, it's, it's due every month. Or like you might be annoyed, like getting ready to go to the gym, Might struggle to go to the gym at all. But what if you just, I don't know, prepped your gym bag before bed so the morning's a little bit smoother. Or maybe you meal prep on the weekend so weeknights are just a little less chaotic. I think sometimes, especially when you think about like your romantic relationships, you know, one of the most loving things you can do is remove a small reoccurring Frustration. Like, sometimes the best gift you can give somebody you love is even like a little bit of a better system. Like, as a leader, you know, you start thinking about, man, how am I going to remove irritants for my people? Like, sometimes it's not even giving them a bigger bonus. It's just giving them a better system. Like, what I love about this removing irritant idea is that, like, irritants communicate something, like students leaving a campus. Well, that communicates desire. Like, if somebody's complaining about something, they're communicating some sort of misalignment. Like, if people have a certain workaround that it's like they're doing it because it's communicating some sort of inefficiency. Like, even silence can communicate resignation. And I think as a leader, like, we often listen to words, but I think their behavior is louder. Like, all of it is trying to communicate something to us. And so at some point, I think what we learn from High Point University is we have to take a step back and ask the question, where are people cutting across the grass in our organization? Where are they bypassing the official system? Where are they creating their own solutions because the former ones are too slow or too frustrating? My friends, that's not rebellion, it's data. And if we're paying attention to it and removing the irritants, I think we can create a better culture. If you and I are the kinds of people that are humble enough to pay attention to those small irritations, I think they reveal an enormous opportunity. I don't think we always need a bigger vision. I think sometimes what we need is, is fewer frustrations. The organizations that win long term are not just visionary, they are attentive. The marriages that thrive aren't the most romantic. Often they're just the most responsive. The parents who build strong homes are not just the most loving. Oftentimes they're the ones that are just the most observant. And so my simple challenge today is I want you to. I want you to find three people this week. Yeah. Whether you work with them or live with them, you know, there's three people this week. Hey, what's one thing that frustrates you around here? Hey, what's the most annoying thing that you have to deal with week in and week out and just listen without defending it and do your best to find that one irritant and ask yourself, what can I do to remove it? You don't have to fix everything, but if you fix something, one thing, I think momentum will begin and I think relief with one annoyance can build a lot of trust. Trust can build some loyalty. And I think loyalty can build some growth. My friends, thank you so much for listening to the Ryan Link podcast. I hope that you enjoyed today's episode. If it added value to your life, leadership, relationships, do me a favor, share it with a friend. And if you haven't already, I would appreciate if you subscribe rate, leave a comment, let me know how this is helping you in any way, shape or form. And as, as always, we will always do our best to add value to your life in some way, shape or form. Hey, we'll catch you next episode.
Date: February 23, 2026
Host: Ryan Leak
In this installment of The Ryan Leak Podcast, Ryan explores the deceptively simple yet powerful leadership principle of "removing irritants." Drawing from his conversation with Dr. Nido Qubein, president of High Point University, Ryan unpacks how focusing on alleviating small, recurring annoyances—both professionally and personally—can drive transformative change, foster greater loyalty, and build stronger relationships. The episode is a practical and motivational guide to cultivating awareness and a habit of subtraction, rather than addition, for meaningful impact.
Ryan closes the episode encouraging listeners to adopt an intentional, attentive approach to leadership, relationships, and life: remove small annoyances and watch trust, loyalty, and growth compound. The key is not complexity but thoughtful subtraction—removing friction to create lasting change.
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