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Episode: Tim Tebow & Demi Tebow On Finding Your True Purpose, Faith, & Everlasting Resilience
Release Date: January 1, 2026
Hosts: Lauryn Bosstick & Michael Bosstick
Guests: Tim Tebow & Demi Tebow
Episode Overview
This episode launches the new year with an inspiring and intimate conversation featuring power couple Tim and Demi Tebow—both celebrated for their achievements (Tim as an NFL quarterback and philanthropist, Demi as Miss Universe 2017 and activist). Lauryn and Michael Bosstick explore the Tebows’ journeys in redefining success through purpose, faith, and resilience, the realities behind international acclaim, their fight against human trafficking, and practical ways to live a more meaningful life. Expect raw stories of trauma, love, service, and wisdom on legacy, marriage, setbacks, and health.
Key Discussion Points & Insights
1. Demi’s South African Roots & Rise to Miss Universe
[01:32–04:54]
- Demi reflects fondly on her rural South African upbringing, contrasting it with the fast-paced U.S. (“Everything was like farm-to-table and laid back… Here, it’s extremely fast-paced.”).
- Moving from a tight-knit community to international fame in NYC at 22 felt less like “fame” and more like a “responsibility” (“It felt more like a job, like an ambassadorship.”).
- Miss Universe preparation included self-imposed English immersion for three months and emotional readiness.
“I gave up speaking my first language for three months to speak better English." — Demi Tebow [04:28]
2. Trauma, Healing, and Purpose
[06:43–10:28]
- During her tenure as Miss South Africa, Demi survived a violent carjacking. Her safety training kicked in—she fought back and escaped.
- The aftermath was emotionally scarring, leading to EMDR therapy for recovery.
- Most traumatic for Demi wasn’t the assault itself, but public apathy:
“The most traumatic part... wasn’t being surrounded by armed men. It was running for my life and nobody stopped to help.” — Demi Tebow [10:10]
- A young woman’s small act of kindness that night (“She let me into her beat-up old car”) deeply shaped Demi’s resolve to help others.
3. Tim’s Journey: Platform vs. Purpose
[11:14–16:31]
- Tim’s competitive drive was matched by a strong family faith, which shaped his value system early on.
- Pivotal moment: Meeting a disabled boy in the Philippines (on a mission trip at 15) shifted Tim toward purpose-driven living.
“I made the mistake of confusing my platform with my purpose.” — Tim Tebow [13:37]
- After a successful college and pro career, Tim launched his foundation to serve the vulnerable, especially in the fight against human trafficking.
4. Managing Fame, Attention, and Staying Grounded
[16:31–19:01]
- Tim describes the pressures of instant fame in the NFL—and the struggle to handle widespread attention as a young adult.
- Wise counsel from trusted elders and community remain vital guardrails for the Tebows.
“It’s so important to surround ourselves with wise counsel.” — Tim Tebow [18:23]
5. A Purpose-Driven Love Story
[19:01–24:40]
- The couple met through Tim’s “Night to Shine” initiative for individuals with special needs—Demi’s sister was invited but unable to attend.
- Their connection blossomed through deep conversations on service and faith, not shared hobbies (“We had so little in common…but so much on purpose”).
- They knew they’d marry before ever meeting in person.
“We actually knew we were gonna get married before we ever met in person.” — Tim Tebow [22:19]
6. The Fight Against Human Trafficking
[24:57–29:46]
- The Tebows candidly address the scope and horror of trafficking, including chilling statistics:
“Right now in the ICSA database…there are around 57,000 boys and girls that law enforcement can see their rape and abuse images…but have yet to identify them.” — Tim Tebow [35:31]
- Both stress the urgent need for awareness—pushing listeners (and leaders) not to look away.
"If those girls could hear you right now, what hope do you think they would have?" — Tim Tebow recalling an emotional conversation with a powerful donor [27:11]
7. Faith, Worth, and True Success
[39:36–44:48]
- The Tebows assert that their faith is the bedrock of their worldview and philanthropic efforts:
"If we valued people as made in God’s image, their worth wouldn't go up and down based on opinion..." — Tim Tebow [43:50]
- They challenge the audience to shift from success (about self) to significance (about others).
- Story behind their daughter's name — Rain — honors a girl rescued from trafficking.
8. Marriage & Core Values
[45:17–48:52]
- Marriage, family, and organizational life revolve around 5 core values:
- Protection (of each other and the vulnerable)
- Valuing wise counsel
- Compassion (“We hurt when they hurt”)
- “Getting in the foxhole” with those in need
- Embracing both the joy and burden of calling
“Compassion comes from the Greek word splaknizomai. It means to be moved from your most inward parts. It is very uncomfortable.” — Tim Tebow [47:24]
9. Handling Setbacks and Failing Fast
[51:24–54:31]
- Tim shares a powerful metaphor:
“If you get buried or you get planted, it looks and feels the same…Except one, life is over, and the other is just about to sprout.” — Tim Tebow [52:19]
- The importance of perspective and learning from life’s disappointments is emphasized.
10. At Home with Tim & Demi (And the Realities of Daily Life)
[54:33–61:19]
- Stories from the Tebows’ marriage humanize their relationship—from Tim’s instinct to help in emergencies (even on their honeymoon) to their playful quirks (dogs snacking in bed).
- Demi’s behind-the-scenes look: Tim’s public persona is “exactly who he is at home—always seeking to notice and help.”
11. Wellness, Health Habits & Family Life
[64:44–74:18]
- Both are passionate about nutrition (minimizing sugar, processed foods) and holistic wellness—citing favorite practitioners, supplements, and routines.
- Morning routine involves family time, devotionals, and coffee (“If we miss it, it feels like the day is less”).
- Demi discusses the challenge of new parenthood and fueling her body for breastfeeding.
- They prioritize brain health as much as physical well-being; Tim recently got brain scans and supplements for neurological health (Neuron by Optimum EFX).
12. Discovering and Living Your Purpose
[74:12–77:22]
- Tim’s “superset” framework for finding purpose:
Mindset + Heartset + Skillset + Whereset = Purpose - Demi shares that purpose is not about grand gestures, but “often hidden in plain sight” and anchored in serving others:
"Our purpose may be hidden in the things that we love and we’re naturally good at, that we can utilize for something bigger than ourselves.” — Demi Tebow [77:04]
13. The Tebows’ New Books
[77:22–81:35]
- Demi’s: Knowing Who You Are: 100 Days to Unbreakable Faith — a devotional for those struggling with faith or questions of identity.
- Tim’s: Look Again — a call to recognize self-worth, reignite hope, and see others with compassion.
“I hope it’s more than a book. I hope it’s a wake up call… Please don’t look away. Look again.” — Tim Tebow [81:16]
Notable Quotes & Moments
- On trauma and public apathy:
“The most traumatic part wasn’t being surrounded by armed men. It was running for my life and nobody stopped to help.” — Demi Tebow [10:10] - On purpose:
“I made the mistake of confusing my platform with my purpose.” — Tim Tebow [13:37] - On the challenge of human trafficking:
“If those girls could hear you right now, what hope do you think they would have?” — Tim Tebow [27:11] - On compassion:
“Compassion comes from the Greek word splaknizomai. It means to be moved from your most inward parts. It is very uncomfortable.” — Tim Tebow [47:24] - On setbacks:
“If you get buried or you get planted, it looks and feels the same…Except one, life is over, and the other is just about to sprout.” — Tim Tebow [52:19] - On worth:
“Our value is fixed. You can do things I like or dislike, but that’s not your worth.” — Tim Tebow [44:48] - On marriage:
"We had so little in common, but so much on purpose.” — Demi Tebow [24:02] - Advice for finding purpose:
“Our purpose may be hidden in the things we love and are naturally good at, that we can use for something bigger than ourselves.” — Demi Tebow [77:04] - On faith as foundation:
“When you really believe every person is created in the image of God…your eyes start to change, the lenses in which you see people start to change.” — Tim Tebow [41:08]
Timestamps for Key Segments
- Demi’s South Africa Story & Miss Universe Prep: [01:28–06:43]
- Carjacking and Trauma Recovery: [06:43–10:28]
- Tim on Platform vs. Purpose: [13:37–16:31]
- Managing NFL Attention & Wise Counsel: [16:31–19:01]
- How Tim & Demi Met; Night to Shine: [19:01–24:40]
- Purpose As Marriage Foundation: [24:36–24:57]
- Human Trafficking: Stats, Action, and Apathy: [24:57–37:32]
- Parenthood and Perspective: [39:56–41:02]
- Faith, Value, and Society: [41:08–44:48]
- Core Values in Marriage & Life: [45:24–48:52]
- Handling Setbacks & Failing Fast: [51:24–54:31]
- Home Life Details: [54:33–61:19]
- Health, Wellness, and Routine: [64:44–74:18]
- Advice for Finding Purpose: [74:12–77:22]
- Books & Legacy: [77:22–81:35]
Tone & Atmosphere
The conversation is open, deeply honest, and faith-centered, filled with warmth, practical wisdom, and a call to look beyond yourself toward a more purpose-driven life. Both Tebows blend humor, vulnerability, and actionable advice, modeling authenticity in marriage, leadership, and healing.
For More
- Instagram: @demitebow, @timtebow
- Books:
- Demi’s: “Knowing Who You Are: 100 Days to Unbreakable Faith”
- Tim’s: “Look Again: Recognize Your Worth, Renew Your Hope, Run with Confidence”
This episode is essential for anyone seeking clarity in their purpose, inspiration in adversity, or guidance on building a faith-driven legacy.
