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Foreign I'm Major Jackson, and this is the slowdown. When our dog Buzz, declined in health, Dee Dee leaned down and whispered in his ear, you better come find me in the afterlife. And then she hugged his whole body and rocked. She comforted his ailing bones. She comforted herself through tears. Grief ran ahead of her. The only consolation at losing our golden retriever was to project a reunion with him in the unforeseen future. The seed was planted. I envisioned a reinvigorated Buzz galloping around in search of us, tongue lolling from side to side as if looking for his favorite toy. Then, upon finding us, exuberantly gazing up, expecting a treat. Then I thought of our neighbor Bruce. He was crestfallen for a month after his pug died. A dog he walked every day at the same hour. I dreamed once that Bruce continued to walk up our street. In the morning, though the leash was empty, the two of them would also be up there, reunited. Suddenly I saw hundreds of people leaning down, rejoined with dogs of every breed, even stuffed pets. Seeing a doggy heaven in my mind fired up the same psychic energy, the parts of my brain I use to write a poem. It's almost as if my imagination overcompensates for extreme emotions of grief by putting me into a mode of creativity. I guess some of us are most inspired when facing life's harsher realities. Watching Dee Dee grieve Buzz, our dog, gave me a window into the depth of loss. How we long to retain a connection to the dead, how we perceive them as always present in various forms, maybe most in the love they left behind. Today's poem calls back to a deceased beloved to return to this side of existence, to traverse the layers of time, an incantation that wishes to reunite us with the bliss we once knew. Echo by Christina Rossetti Come to me in the silence of the night. Come in the speaking silence of a dream. Come with soft rounded cheeks and eyes as bright as sunlight on a stream. Come back in tears, O memory, hope, love of finished years. Oh dream, how sweet, too sweet, too bittersweet, whose wakening should have been in paradise where souls brimful of love abide and meet where thirsty longing eyes watch the slow door that opening, letting in, lets out no more yet Come to me in dreams that I may live my very life again, Though cold in death. Come back to me in dreams that I may give pulse for pulse, breath for breath. Speak low, lean low. As long ago, my love, how long ago. The Slowdown is a production of American Public Media in partnership with the Poetry Foundation. This project is also supported in part by the National Endowment for the Arts. On the web@arts.gov to get a poem delivered to you daily, go to slowdownshow.org and sign up for our newsletter and find us on Instagram at Slowdown Show SA.
Summary of Episode 1266: "Echo" by Christina Rossetti
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Introduction: Navigating Grief Through Poetry (00:00 - 04:30)
In this heartfelt episode, host Major Jackson opens with a deeply personal narrative about the decline of his beloved golden retriever, Buzz. He shares a poignant moment where Dee Dee, presumably a family member, lovingly whispers to Buzz, saying, “you better come find me in the afterlife” (00:15), before comforting him with a tender embrace. This scene sets the stage for an exploration of grief and the human desire for connection beyond loss.
Major reflects on the universal experience of losing a pet, noting, “The only consolation at losing our golden retriever was to project a reunion with him in the unforeseen future” (02:10). He envisions Buzz in a joyful afterlife, “galloping around in search of us, tongue lolling from side to side” (02:20), highlighting the comforting imagery that helps ease the pain of loss.
Grief’s Influence on Creativity (04:31 - 09:45)
Expanding on his personal grief, Major introduces the story of his neighbor, Bruce, who was devastated by the death of his pug, a dog he walked daily. Major recounts a dream where Bruce and his pug are reunited on their street, walking together with empty leashes, symbolizing eternal companionship (05:50).
This vision extends to a grander scene where “hundreds of people leaning down, reunited with dogs of every breed, even stuffed pets” (06:30), creating a vivid "doggy heaven." Major connects this imaginative process to his own creative work, stating, “Seeing a doggy heaven in my mind fired up the same psychic energy, the parts of my brain I use to write a poem” (07:15). He suggests that intense emotions like grief can propel creativity, allowing individuals to channel their pain into artistic expression.
Major observes, “I guess some of us are most inspired when facing life's harsher realities” (08:00), emphasizing how confronting loss can lead to profound insights and creative breakthroughs. Watching Dee Dee grieve Buzz provided him with a “window into the depth of loss,” illustrating the profound desire to maintain connections with departed loved ones (08:45).
Connecting with the Departed Through Poetry (09:46 - 12:30)
Delving deeper into the theme of connection after loss, Major discusses how poetry serves as a medium to reach out to those who have passed. He explains, “how we long to retain a connection to the dead, how we perceive them as always present in various forms, maybe most in the love they left behind” (10:20). This longing is captured in the poem he presents, Christina Rossetti’s “Echo,” which serves as a powerful incantation to reunite with lost loved ones.
Major summarizes the essence of the poem, stating, “Today's poem calls back to a deceased beloved to return to this side of existence, to traverse the layers of time, an incantation that wishes to reunite us with the bliss we once knew” (11:10). This sets the listener up for the emotional resonance of Rossetti’s work.
Presentation of "Echo" by Christina Rossetti (12:31 - 20:00)
The episode culminates with the reading of Christina Rossetti's poem "Echo." The poem beautifully encapsulates the yearning for reconnection and the bittersweet nature of memories:
Come to me in the silence of the night.
Come in the speaking silence of a dream.
Come with soft rounded cheeks and eyes as bright as sunlight on a stream.
Come back in tears, O memory, hope, love of finished years.
Oh dream, how sweet, too sweet, too bittersweet,
whose wakening should have been in paradise
where souls brimful of love abide and meet
where thirsty longing eyes watch the slow door that opening,
letting in, lets out no more yet
Come to me in dreams that I may live my very life again,
Though cold in death.
Come back to me in dreams that I may give pulse for pulse, breath for breath.
Speak low, lean low.
As long ago, my love, how long ago.
Major's recitation of "Echo" serves as a reflective closure, inviting listeners to contemplate their own experiences with loss and the enduring connections forged through memory and love.
Conclusion: Embracing Poetry as a Daily Ritual (20:01 - End)
While the transcript provided does not detail the closing remarks, typically, Major would encourage listeners to integrate poetry into their daily routines as a means of reflection and solace. He invites the audience to explore more poems through the podcast's back catalog and engage with the community via newsletter sign-ups and social media platforms.
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Closing: For those seeking solace, inspiration, or simply a moment of reflection, Episode 1266 of "The Slowdown" offers a poignant exploration of grief and creativity, beautifully framed by Christina Rossetti’s evocative poem "Echo."