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Farah
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Jay Kelly
Welcome to the Smart Communications Podcast. I am Farah, trumpeter, co director and worker owner at Big Duck. Today we're going to ask the question, how can you consolidate feedback? And I'm delighted to be joined by Jay Kelly. Jay uses they them pronouns and is a senior account manager at Big Duck. Jay is committed to delivering supportive, well structured and high quality client experiences. Their work before and beyond Big Duck has been focused on queer liberation, economic justice and ending endless war. They have experience working thoughtfully and intersectionally in a variety of issue area contexts. Jay has actually been on the podcast before episode one 181. How do we foster healthy group participation? And Also on episode 169, how can you plan an inclusive and welcoming project? Jay, welcome back to the show.
Farah
Hello. Hello. Excited to be back?
Jay Kelly
Well, so Jay, you recently wrote a blog called A Simple Guide for Consolidating Feedback. And that blog offers six very helpful steps for how to do just that. I hope folks will take the time to read the post and we'll be sure to link to it@bigduck.com insights but for those who've not already read that yet, let's offer a bit of a teaser. Before we get into those six steps though. Why did you write this blog? How has this come up for you as a challenge and opportunity in your role in managing projects?
Farah
Absolutely. So as someone who is an account manager at Big Duck, this comes up quite frequently because I am often the person who is the first person to receive consolidated feedback from the clients that we work with. And then I'm also the person responsible for communicating that feedback to the rest of the project team and sort of communicating what are the corresponding next steps in relationship to that feedback. And you know, sometimes I receive feedback that is clear, concise and super implementable, and other times I receive feedback that perhaps is unclear, maybe some contradicting ideas in there, and ultimately feedback that is actually challenging to implement without additional discussion, discussion, clarification, all of which can impact the project's timeline and budget. Now, of course, most people land on the middle of that spectrum somewhere and I often have conversations with folks who are struggling, right? I'll send them, you know, here's a round one draft of xyz and they're like, wait, what feedback do I give and when do I give it in the process? And how do I communicate our feedback in a way that makes sense to y'? All and this blog is sort of emerging as an opportunity to articulate some of the best practices I've sort of seen in my career. And hopefully these will feel supportive to folks who find themselves in a position to gather, syntheticize and communicate that feedback for implementation.
Jay Kelly
Yeah, it's very helpful. And we also have a few other blogs and podcasts we've done on feedback, many of which are linked to as related posts in Jay's blog. So another plug to check it out. Well, I feel like we should recap these six steps and then dive more deeply into a few of them. So Jay, can you share the six steps?
Farah
Step one, map your stakeholder landscape. Step two, plan intentional touch points. Step three, center transparency and consent. Step four, context is key. Step five, sort and probe. And finally, step six, create an implementation roadmap.
Jay Kelly
Well, with the emphasis you gave in reading those, I'm going to guess which one is your favorite, but we're going to see what comes to light in this conversation. Obviously all six of those steps are critical and I can imagine them actually being for lots of other projects, but certainly in the process of giving feedback. But Jay, if you had to pick just one. And again, I'm going to guess based on your voice, when you read those off, which do you think is the most important step to follow if people want to lead or be part of a successful project? And why?
Farah
Yes, my voice does tend to give away my favorites in advance. And there's actually, I'm kind of torn admittedly, because there's two that feel super important and very interrelated actually. And that is context is key and create an implementation roadmap. And for me the connection is there because both ultimately are about ensuring that everyone is clear on the goal and where we are in regards to meeting that goal and what reaching that goal looks like in terms of taking our next step together. So, so context being key, this is super important because is very easy in our fast paced world to pass along a document to someone internally to review without any context and just it's the wild wild west, right? And while that's understandable, that actually is very challenging because you might be inadvertently getting feedback that is not additive to the process. So we always recommend when you ask someone for feedback, you give them a lot of context. Any like, you know, project, you know, we often at Big Duck, before we start a project, we have a project brief, right? We really align intentionally around what we're going to do, how we're going to do it and what success looks like. And you know, there's lots of other tools and ways you can sort of create that alignment and then making sure you're giving that context again when you ask for feedback. Because it's very easy to forget that the project brief you reviewed three months ago is still actually relevant. Right? And making sure that folks know, okay, I'm giving feedback to around one draft versus around five draft, right? You want to sort of people know where you are in the process so that they can temper their feedback appropriately and so they know what's helpful. Right? Are you looking for line edits or are you just looking for general are we in the right ballpark kind of feedback? And then relatedly, once you sort of get to the bottom of this very contextualized feedback, then you want to create an implementation roadmap that's super clear, right? You want to take these things that people are saying to you and communicate them in a way that any stranger on the street could pick up your feedback and implement it without a challenge. Right. I mean, obviously maybe a person on the street isn't super relevant, but I think a lot about experiences that I've had managing interns that I think is similar. Right? These are engagements where you're working with folks in the short term, often on a part time basis, and they may be coming in with varying levels of sort of exposure, experience and institutional knowledge. And when you assign an intern a task, I mean, obviously asking questions is a great way to collaborate, but often you are working with interns because there's so much going on and you want to make sure that you pass off these tasks to an intern in a way that they can immediately, from where they are and what they know, pick up and soar. And I think that same kind of approach is really valuable in giving feedback as well.
Jay Kelly
That was really helpful. Well, just to give our listeners and our readers of the transcript here little more to mull over, let's talk about another step, one that I think is essential. Again, I love them all. Hard to pick a favorite, but I'm going to start at the very beginning with map your stakeholder landscape. I'm often having conversations with folks in the beginning of projects or before we even start projects to help understand where do people show up in the process. And this is a really important step because if you're not clear at the beginning, things can easily get derailed or you can wind up with too many cooks. And Jay, can you share a time when you've seen this one? Map your stakeholder landscape practiced well so we can get a better understanding of how it can be applied.
Farah
I actually recently had a call with a client at the very beginning of a project that we are collaborating on together. And normally at the start of a project, I have a handy little worksheet of sorts to help folks map their internal stakeholders for the specific project that we're collaborating on. And historically, it is not uncommon for that to not get filled out in the course of our work together. Right. It can feel like a lot of work to do. And so I was so surprised when on the call immediately, as soon as I sort of walked them through the worksheet with the intention of saying, maybe you could get this done in the next two weeks, they immediately started just rattling off exactly what their stakeholder landscape was. And boom, I put it in the spreadsheet. We were done before the meeting was even over. And when I was sort of reflecting on, wait, how did that go so well, I was reminded, and this is sort of in some of what, you know, we had discussed throughout the rest of the call, is that anytime you need to map out your stakeholders, you don't actually have to start from scratch, right? Even if, you know, we're talking today in the context of giving feedback to some sort of probably copy or visual related, deliverable that you're working on. But we're always at work doing projects with, with other people. And so you never really have to reinvent your wheel, right? These sort of structures that we put in place to map stakeholders, moca, other things that folks use that are out there, you can be repurposing that between projects. Because even though certainly folks will be changed out again, no point in reinventing the wheel, right? You can rely on the work that you've already done to map out stakeholders in other contexts. And also they've also sort of showed up later in a email, maybe like a week or so after that when we were sort of deciding attendance for a meeting. And this was a little bit beyond the scope of the stakeholder landscape that we had mapped. So they were coming to me to sort of ask, okay, here's who we need in the meeting, and here's people who we think want to be included on an optional basis, but it may be too many cooks in the kitchen, what do you think? And then we were able to have a really strategic conversation around, okay, now that we know why their involvement is important, even though we don't have them on the map, we had enough information to know where to put them on the map. And then we could suggest other things like, okay, maybe they don't attend the meeting, but we should record the meeting and send along notes after and then give them some time to review that content and offer their input optionally if they so choose. Right. And so the more that you know about your stakeholder landscape, the easier it is to make decisions about surprise needs for engagement as you move through a project together.
Jay Kelly
Love it. Well, in this conversation we're talking both about gathering and compiling feedback. We're also, you mentioned talking a little bit about feedback that often happens when we're doing creative work. In particular, at Big Duck, we do a lot of work related to branding and campaigns and collateral. And I'm curious, what guidelines or advice do you have regarding the kinds of feedback that's most helpful, particularly on creative work itself and perhaps what is not helpful?
Farah
Absolutely. And I know as someone who is not a graphic designer, I deeply empathize with everyone who is not a graphic designer who has been asked to give a designer feedback about a logo or visuals. And it can be very overwhelming, right? I know I get impossible imposter syndrome. Like what, what could I possibly say to this well trained professional about this beautiful thing they made that maybe isn't like landing the way I want it to, but what do I, what do I say? So if that's you, you're in good company. And I know it's something that I try to do and recommend others do and when they find themselves in that situation. Often when I react to visual content in particular, it can be really an emotional impulse, right? Like I just know in my heart, in my body that I don't like X, Y, Z, or that I do like X, Y, Z. And often it can be really challenging to sort of explain why I'm like, I don't know, I just hate purple. And I can't tell you why I don't actually hate purple. Of course, that would be insane.
Jay Kelly
Now you're really strike to my heart if you haven't met me. Anyone in the world knows I love the color purple. My glasses, my hair, often my, my pants, you can't see that. Jay's tank top. We love the color purple. All right, Jay, go back.
Farah
Ironically, I am in fact wearing purple.
Jay Kelly
So Exactly. Let's say someone out there doesn't like the color purple. For the sake of your conversation here.
Farah
What can be helpful is trying to attach a thought to that emotion, right? Figuring out, okay, I don't like this, but why don't I like this? What is the idea that is perhaps being communicated that you actually don't want to Communicate or vice versa. You know, I know that I don't like blue, but I know that's just a personal preference. However, if I see content with blue and I have that reaction, I can take a second to say, am I reacting this way because I just simply never like blue in any context or is there a quality to this blue that doesn't feel on the mark? Right. So for me, even though I do hate all blue, what I hate the most is like stark, jarring blue. And you know, I could see myself giving feedback. Like I admit I don't like blue, however for me this blue is maybe more jarring. Like I want to see something a little bit more welcoming and inviting and a really like fluorescent blue just feels off putting to me. So again, you know, I certainly started with a feeling, but I was able to extract a thought from the feeling that someone can then take action on and understand why they're doing at it. And this sort of gets at this related idea of being as objective as you can, even though ultimately a lot of feedback is subjective. But the more you can tie it, not just specific thoughts, but if you can go back to a project brief and be like, I think this choice doesn't meet X, Y, Z in this brief, that's even better. Right? If you can get this out of the world of sort of your specific instincts perhaps around what you're talking about, like is there project agreements or alignment around outcomes that you actually don't think are going to get met if this choice is made, which is exactly why you're giving feedback in the first place. So that's beautiful. That is sort of like the 201 connect an emotion to a thought 101201 make it objective and tie it to some sort of document like that. Because what often happens in these situations is it's really easy to name a solution without actually naming the problem. You know, in our fast paced world that's good enough and we, we deal with that. But as much as as we need to, the more that you can name what is not working and why as opposed to saying I'm just going to share with you the logo of Target and be like, I want this to be more like the target logo. Which can be helpful in its way. Right. Like again there's, you know, there' bad way of communicating but the goal here is to communicate as effectively and as specifically as possible.
Jay Kelly
Yeah. And everything you were just sharing, it's really getting more at the why than the what. Not that I don't like blue. Or purple. Or I want it to be like Target, but the why behind it is it's too jarring. Or I want it more tranquil. Or I want something that is just really clear and simple and that what you've presented just feels overwhelming. That is the kind of feedback that's really helpful. You don't have to solve it right. You've hired a freelancer or an agency, or you're collaborating with someone else who will join you or lead in the solution. But understanding what's not working is the kind of feedback that really will help. Take visuals and also, I would say messaging too. This comes up a lot with words. People have a lot of strong feelings about specific words and ideas. Again, as you said, that's okay. We're here to learn about what those are, but help us understand why things are not feeling right to you.
Farah
I think of it as resist the urge to rewrite, which is another urge I too empathize with. When you see something in writing and it doesn't work, sometimes it is just easier just to write it yourself. But again, you're working with really skilled, talented people who can help you, so you have to figure out a way to help them that isn't just I'm going to do this myself, especially in.
Jay Kelly
The first or second round, right when you're still just ideating and trying to figure it out. Back to our various maps. Well, I hope this conversation has given you a lot to think about, and I encourage you to read or reread Jay's blog. And again, all of those other helpful posts we have out there about project management and inclusive practices@bigduck.com insights Jay, thank you so much for joining us again. And before we go, any other parting words of wisdom you'd like to share?
Farah
Absolutely. You know, I would say if you are like me and in a position to be consolidating and communicating feedback, just embrace that chaos with intention, confidence, and a sense of humor. And you can't go wrong. And if you do go wrong, at least you'll be enjoying it while it happens.
Jay Kelly
There you go, right? Find something to laugh at. Take a step back. Well, Jay, thanks for being here and everyone out there. Have a great rest of your day.
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Summary of Episode 192: "How can you consolidate feedback?"
The Smart Communications Podcast | Hosted by Big Duck
Release Date: August 6, 2025
In Episode 192 of The Smart Communications Podcast, host Farah welcomes back Jay Kelly, a Senior Account Manager at Big Duck, to discuss effective strategies for consolidating feedback within nonprofit organizations. This episode delves into the challenges and opportunities associated with managing feedback in project settings, offering actionable insights to help nonprofit leaders enhance their communication and project management skills.
Jay Kelly (they/them) is a dedicated Senior Account Manager at Big Duck, committed to delivering supportive, well-structured, and high-quality client experiences. Jay's work focuses on areas such as queer liberation, economic justice, and ending endless war. With a background in thoughtful and intersectional project management, Jay has previously appeared on episodes 181 and 169, discussing fostering healthy group participation and planning inclusive projects, respectively.
Jay recently authored a blog titled "A Simple Guide for Consolidating Feedback," which outlines six essential steps for effectively gathering, synthesizing, and implementing feedback within projects. This episode serves as a discussion and expansion of the ideas presented in that blog.
Jay outlines six pivotal steps to streamline the feedback process:
Farah highlights two interconnected steps that particularly resonate with her:
Context is Key ([04:13]): Providing comprehensive context ensures that feedback is relevant and actionable. Farah emphasizes the importance of aligning feedback with the project's current stage and objectives, preventing misaligned or unproductive input.
"You give them a lot of context... you know, making sure you're giving that context again when you ask for feedback." ([04:13])
Create an Implementation Roadmap ([05:00]): Translating feedback into clear, actionable steps ensures that the project team can effectively implement changes. Farah compares this process to assigning tasks to interns, where clarity and structure are paramount for successful execution.
"You want to take these things that people are saying to you and communicate them in a way that any stranger on the street could pick up your feedback and implement it without a challenge." ([05:00])
Farah shares a practical example of effectively mapping stakeholders early in a project:
Example ([07:36]): During a project kickoff, Farah used a stakeholder mapping worksheet to swiftly identify key stakeholders. This proactive approach facilitated strategic engagement and prevented the project from being derailed by "too many cooks in the kitchen."
"They immediately started just rattling off exactly what their stakeholder landscape was... we were done before the meeting was even over." ([07:36])
While not deeply elaborated in the transcript, this step involves scheduling regular and purposeful interactions with stakeholders to ensure continuous and relevant feedback throughout the project lifecycle.
This step emphasizes maintaining openness and obtaining necessary permissions when collecting and sharing feedback, fostering trust and collaboration among all parties involved.
Sorting feedback involves categorizing and prioritizing input to address the most critical issues first. Probing requires seeking clarification on ambiguous or conflicting feedback to ensure a clear understanding before implementation.
The conversation shifts to providing constructive feedback on creative projects, such as branding and visual design—areas where feedback can often be subjective and emotionally charged.
Farah discusses the difficulty non-designers face when providing feedback on visual content:
"I deeply empathize with everyone who is not a graphic designer who has been asked to give a designer feedback about a logo or visuals. And it can be very overwhelming." ([10:02])
Connect Emotion to Thought ([11:23] & [14:04]): Transform emotional reactions into specific, actionable feedback by identifying the underlying reasons for the feelings expressed.
"What can be helpful is trying to attach a thought to that emotion... figuring out, okay, I don't like this, but why don't I like this?" ([11:23])
Be Objective and Tie Feedback to Project Goals ([14:04]): Relate feedback to the project's objectives and agreed-upon criteria to maintain alignment and clarity.
"If you can get this out of the world of sort of your specific instincts perhaps around what you're talking about, like is there project agreements or alignment around outcomes that you actually don't think are going to get met if this choice is made." ([14:04])
Resist the Urge to Rewrite ([14:52] & [15:10]): Instead of overstepping by rewriting others' work, provide clear guidance and allow the creative professionals to implement the necessary changes.
"Resist the urge to rewrite... you have to figure out a way to help them that isn't just I'm going to do this myself." ([14:52])
Provide Clear Context: Always align feedback with the project's current stage and objectives to ensure relevance and effectiveness.
Map Stakeholders Early: Identify and understand all relevant stakeholders at the project's outset to facilitate strategic engagement and decision-making.
Transform Emotions into Constructive Feedback: When providing feedback, especially on creative work, aim to articulate the reasons behind your feelings to make the feedback actionable.
Maintain Objectivity: Base feedback on project goals and agreed-upon criteria rather than personal preferences to ensure decisions are aligned with the project's success.
Create Actionable Roadmaps: Develop clear implementation plans based on consolidated feedback to guide the project team in executing necessary changes.
As the episode concludes, Farah encourages listeners to embrace the complexities of consolidating feedback with intention, confidence, and humor. She states:
"If you are like me and in a position to be consolidating and communicating feedback, just embrace that chaos with intention, confidence, and a sense of humor." ([15:40])
Jay echoes the sentiment, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a positive outlook even when facing challenges in the feedback process.
Farah on Feedback Challenges:
"Sometimes I receive feedback that perhaps is unclear, maybe some contradicting ideas in there, and ultimately feedback that is actually challenging to implement without additional discussion." ([01:45])
Jay on Effective Feedback:
"It's really getting more at the why than the what... understanding what's not working is the kind of feedback that really will help." ([14:04])
Jay Kelly's Blog: A Simple Guide for Consolidating Feedback
Big Duck's Insights: Explore more blogs and podcasts on project management and inclusive practices at bigduck.com/insights
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This summary provides a comprehensive overview of Episode 192, encapsulating the essential discussions and insights shared by Farah and Jay Kelly on consolidating feedback within nonprofit projects.