In this powerful and eye-opening episode of the Storehouse Media Group Podcast, host Sherrie Price Clark and Neil Haley welcome Carlos "Los" Rodriguez, a retired Washington State Patrol detective sergeant, former FBI Task Force Officer, author, and nationally recognized expert on crimes against children and human trafficking.

Drawing from decades of frontline investigative experience, Carlos shares the realities of combating child exploitation, the emotional cost carried by investigators, and why communities must become more educated about protecting vulnerable children.

Carlos explains that his journey into investigating crimes against children wasn't originally planned.

After serving in multiple law enforcement roles, an opportunity arose to join Washington State's Missing and Exploited Children's Task Force. Initially unfamiliar with the unit's mission, he quickly realized it focused on proactively identifying offenders, investigating cyber crimes, and rescuing child victims.

Once he participated in his first search warrant involving child exploitation, he knew his career had found its purpose.

Despite operating with extremely limited staffing and resources, Carlos and his team built partnerships that dramatically expanded their impact across Washington State.

One of the most sobering moments of the conversation centers on how accessible child predators have become through modern technology.

Carlos explains that many offenders no longer operate in hidden corners of the internet. Instead, they often use everyday online platforms and messaging services to target vulnerable children.

Through proactive undercover operations, investigators routinely encountered individuals attempting to exploit minors, revealing just how widespread the problem has become.

The discussion serves as a reminder that online safety requires constant vigilance from parents, educators, and communities.

Carlos openly discusses something rarely addressed publicly—the psychological impact on investigators.

He describes how law enforcement officers often develop the ability to compartmentalize horrific experiences in order to continue protecting victims and completing investigations.

While this skill allows officers to function professionally, unprocessed trauma can eventually surface long after the work has ended.

Carlos encourages investigators to recognize emotional warning signs early, seek support, and build healthy routines before stress becomes overwhelming.

Rather than simply pushing through difficult assignments, Carlos believes agencies should intentionally create opportunities for recovery.

Some of the practices he implemented included:

Building decompression time into investigators' schedules
Rotating emotionally difficult assignments
Encouraging conversations among teammates
Supporting therapy and mental wellness
Helping officers transition mentally before returning home to their families

His message is simple:

You cannot effectively protect others if you fail to care for yourself.

Carlos discusses his book:

The Ugly Underneath: Navigating the Emotional Toll of Investigating Crimes Against Children

Originally written from personal therapy notes, the book evolved into an honest account of:

Life before law enforcement
Working child exploitation investigations
The hidden emotional burden investigators carry
Trauma recovery
Mental wellness for first responders
Lessons learned from years protecting children

The book serves both as a resource for law enforcement professionals and as an educational guide for families seeking to better understand the realities behind these investigations.

Today, Carlos serves as an Internal Investigator for the San Diego Unified School District, where he continues protecting children through prevention and education.

Working alongside multidisciplinary partners, he has helped develop programs that include: