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Redeem your Holiday offer@RosettaStone.com Rs10 today for yourself or as a gift that keeps giving. This episode contains descriptions of physical and emotional abuse. Please take care while listening There they're arriving as you can see the red carpet out, the Secret Service men moving in. Security as you can imagine, extremely tight here. This is footage from a live national television broadcast outside of the Straight Incorporated building in Fairfax County, Virginia. It's November 11, 1985. There's the first Lady, Nancy Reagan, and there's the Princess of Wales, Her Royal Highness. The camera zooms in on the First Lady, Nancy Reagan, as she gets out of a limousine, followed by Princess Diana. Mrs. Reagan is going to wave to the crowd, as is Princess Diana. It's they step onto a red carpet that leads to the front door of the Building. Okay, they're inside now with that big rap session between the parents and the young people. By 1985, Nancy Reagan's anti drug campaign was in full swing. For four years, she'd been touring the country with a message for America's youth. Say yes to your life, and when it comes to drugs and alcohol, just say no. Now she was back at Straight Inc. The first place she visited after launching her campaign in 1981. Straight was one of the first places that I went to when I became involved with a drug problem. So I have a very soft spot in my heart for it. I'm very happy to be here, and her royal Highness is very happy to be here also. This time around, Nancy was joined by a global icon, Princess Diana. Ever since marrying Prince Charles in front of a television audience of 750 million people, the eyes of the world were on her. And she was idolized by women everywhere in America. The women who adored her most fell right into the target demographic of straight, affluent suburban mobs. These were the very mothers that Nancy's anti drug campaign aimed to reach. And having Diana by her side only amplified the campaign's appeal. As a parent myself, I'm only too aware of the responsibility to encourage the child to say no. Princess Di was starting to get involved in the fight against teenage drug use in the uk so Nancy Reagan decided to invite her to what she called her favorite drug program. To the children. There's a great big wonderful world waiting out there for you, and we need you. But we need you clear eyed and clear minded, and I love you, all of you. Princess Diana nodded in approval as Nancy Reagan poured her heart out to the hundreds of kids and parents in that open meeting, along with a national TV audience watching @ home. No advertising agency could have scripted a more perfect commercial for Straight Incorporated. It was enough to make anyone forget that just two years earlier, the program had been found guilty in federal court for the kidnapping and false imprisonment of Fred Collins in the highly publicized trial that put Straight's abusive treatment methods on full display. But if you were a parent, who would you believe? A college kid who ran away from a drug rehab or two of the most admired women on the entire planet? I don't think that there's any hurt like the hurt that a child can give a parent. But if you just hang in there with them, I know they'll make it. And I know that we'll beat this. We have to. The therapy at Strait Incorporated was based on powerful forces of psychological persuasion. But the program's most potent form of brainwashing was its marketing and each of us kids was a living, breathing billboard anytime we stood up in an open meeting and convinced someone new to buy into the program. In this episode we'll explain how kids at Strait were not only being abused, they were being used to recruit more kids. Kids like me. My name is Cindy Ettler and this is the Sunshine Place. I have Princess Diana to thank for ending up in Straight. But when she and Nancy visited in 1985, I wasn't there yet. At the time, I was a 14 year old with big hair, a hand me down Levi's jacket and a ton of self hate. I was on day 28 of a 30 day stay in a homeless shelter for teenagers in Bridgeport, Connecticut. In the 80s, Bridgeport was one of the most dangerous cities in America. But I felt so much safer there than at my stepfather's house in the suburbs. He had been sexually assaulting me since I was a little kid. When I became a teenager, I started fighting back. One night he cornered me in a bathroom and beat me. And my mother let it happen. That would be the last time. So I ran away to Bridgeport. That's how I ended up in the shelter. It was the best month of my childhood. I felt safe and respected for the first time in my life. I was devastated when my mother came to pick me up. I didn't want to go back to her house. I had run away for a reason. That's when she told me she was taking me to a quote unquote boarding school in Fairfax County, Virginia. I pictured brick and ivy. But what I saw when we pulled into the parking lot was a windowless warehouse. My mother heard about Straight Incorporated from a relative who knew someone with a kid in the program. When she saw Nancy and Diana on tv, she called my mother and told her she had the fix for my bad behavior. Behavior which was a response to the abuse I was experiencing at home, not addiction. I had smoked pot a total of three times in my life. But of course, during my intake I was diagnosed as an addict and signed into Straight nine days after Princess Diana was there. Her visit was the ultimate example of how Straight marketed to parents. But while the spectacle of events like that caused enrollment to surge, the day to day growth of the program happened in a way that was more subtle and insidious.
