
Hosted by Tola TA Alabi · EN

In this podcast I answer a question on staying anchored when faced with hardship and challenges.

We have become addicted to being seen, heard, and understood, and many now build their mental stability around these things. But life will not always offer us validation, understanding, or recognition. Sometimes the answers we need will come in spite of being overlooked or misunderstood, and if we are too consumed with seeking validation, we may miss the very answer life is trying to give us.

What we each call reality is often completely different. Reality is not always a fixed standard — it is shaped by perception, experience, emotion, and understanding. In this podcast, I explore what shapes our individual realities, and how two people can look at the exact same thing yet walk away with entirely different conclusions.

The self-help industry has grown into a global machine powered by books, podcasts, seminars, and conferences. But beneath all the motivation and inspiration lies a difficult question: how much of self-help actually helps people create lasting change?

In this episode of the podcast, I talk about the concept of time in a way you’ve probably never heard before, and how understanding it differently can bring greater stability, clarity, and peace to our lives. This conversation challenges the pressure, anxiety, and expectations we often attach to time, progress, and purpose, while offering a perspective that can completely change how we live and see our journey.

This is the final part of a three-part series on economic status. In this episode, I explore wealth and riches not merely as personal possessions, but as tools and vehicles for God’s will and good intentions to be expressed on the earth.

Many pray for wealth, but few are willing to bear the burden and embrace the responsibilities that come with it.

On this podcast, I answer an important question about the concept of rich and poor. I explore why these two dynamics exist in life and how they can serve as tools for growth, purpose, and interdependence rather than simply a curse versus blessing. This is an important conversation for anyone struggling with questions around economic status, purpose, and perspective.

One of the most important human needs is the need for relationships — especially the right relationships. Many people desire meaningful relationships, but very few people truly know how to maximize them.In this podcast, I talk about understanding how to properly categorize the relationships in our lives and how to maximize them to get the best out of them. Not every relationship serves the same purpose, and understanding that can completely change the quality of your life.

What do you do after discovering your skill?In this episode, I talk about the three stages of skill development and why many people struggle when they jump straight from discovering a skill to building a business around it.I explore how skipping key stages can lead to fatigue, frustration, and disillusionment, and why growth requires more than just talent.If you’re intentional about discovering your strengths or building a sustainable business, this episode is for you.