The Viall Files: E911 Going Deeper – Tom Sandoval and Victoria Lee Robinson

Release Date: April 2, 2025
Guests: Tom Sandoval and Victoria Lee Robinson
Host: Nick Viall

1. Introduction

In this episode of The Viall Files, Nick Viall welcomes back Tom Sandoval alongside his partner, Victoria Lee Robinson. The trio dives deep into Tom's personal journey, his past scandals, and the evolution of his relationship with Victoria. This episode offers listeners an intimate look into overcoming personal demons, public scrutiny, and building a healthy, supportive relationship.

2. Reconnecting with Tom Sandoval

Nick expresses his excitement and slight surprise at having Tom back on the show, acknowledging the emotional weight of their first episode together.

• Nick Viall: "I honestly thought there was no way you would come back on the show."
  (01:54)

• Tom Sandoval: "It took some convincing on your part and Dylan helped."
  (01:59)

3. Revisiting the First Episode

Tom opens up about the emotional turbulence he experienced during their first appearance, revealing deep insights into his grief over his late friend Ali.

• Tom Sandoval: "I was going through a lot. [...] I really liked her and I really wanted her to meet him."
  (03:12)

• Victoria Lee Robinson: "The first time he ever poured his heart out [...] it was from crying."
  (04:28)

4. Personal Growth and Overcoming Challenges

Tom discusses his struggle with alcohol and how he took control of his life by quitting drinking and seeking therapy. This transformation was pivotal in his ability to perform and engage positively with fans.

• Tom Sandoval: "At first I was drinking like crazy, okay? [...] I stopped drinking. I stopped smoking cigarettes. I just started working out and just, like, focusing on all the things that I could actually do that made me feel better."
  (14:02)

• Tom Sandoval: "It was a real eye opener and a real, real true like hard knocks learning experience."
  (15:30)

5. The Impact of Scandival and Public Perception

The discussion shifts to the infamous "Scandival," where Tom faced significant public backlash. Tom and Victoria talk about handling online harassment and the importance of maintaining mental health amidst public scrutiny.

• Nick Viall: "People will like to pile on because, like, you know, it's good for their engagement."
  (80:25)

• Tom Sandoval: "There's absolutely no excuse for a man to put his hands on a woman."
  (55:14)

6. Therapy and Relationship Building

Both Tom and Victoria emphasize the role of therapy in strengthening their relationship. They discuss setting clear boundaries and ensuring they are on the same page regarding major life decisions.

• Victoria Lee Robinson: "We have to be on the same page on everything. I'm like, don't waste my time."
  (33:31)

• Tom Sandoval: "We have goals, we have things we want to do together, and I'm all about it. And I'm 100% in."
  (24:23)

7. Reality TV Experiences and Toxicity

Tom shares his perspective on the toxic environment of reality TV shows like Vanderpump Rules, contrasting it with his healthier relationship dynamics. He criticizes the manipulative editing practices that exacerbate conflicts and public perception.

• Tom Sandoval: "They create the debate online. Whose side you on? You team Nick? Are you team Tomorrow?"
  (73:33)

• Nick Viall: "I hate it when people dehumanize people for making mistakes and things like that."
  (81:44)

8. Meeting Each Other and Relationship Beginnings

The couple recounts their first meeting at Craig's, highlighting the spontaneity and genuine connection that sparked their relationship. They share humorous anecdotes about their first date and the immediate chemistry they felt.

• Tom Sandoval: "We had our first date at Craig's and ended up having sex in the bathroom."
  (65:12)

• Victoria Lee Robinson: "We ended up having sex in the bathroom at Craig's."
  (65:07)

9. Future Plans and Projects

Looking ahead, Tom and Victoria discuss their aspirations, including Tom's plans to revive his podcast and explore new show opportunities. They express optimism about their future both personally and professionally.

• Tom Sandoval: "I want to get my podcast going again. Working on that."
  (50:07)

• Tom Sandoval: "It feels like a gift, you know, to be able to do that again."
  (37:22)

10. Conclusion

The episode wraps up with heartfelt acknowledgments of each other's growth and resilience. Nick praises Tom and Victoria's relationship, admiring their commitment to personal development and mutual support.

• Nick Viall: "I'm proud of you, man. You've really come a long way."
  (61:02)

• Victoria Lee Robinson: "We are a really great couple."
  (80:56)

Tom and Victoria express their gratitude for being part of the conversation, reinforcing their strong bond and shared commitment to a healthy, supportive partnership.

Notable Quotes

• Tom Sandoval: "I have to put myself and get myself to a position where I feel like I deserve somebody like her."
  (22:44)

• Victoria Lee Robinson: "We have goals, we have things we want to do together, and I'm all about it."
  (24:23)

• Tom Sandoval: "There's absolutely no excuse for a man to put his hands on a woman."
  (55:14)

• Nick Viall: "I hate it when people dehumanize people for making mistakes and things like that."
  (81:44)

This episode of The Viall Files offers a candid and comprehensive exploration of Tom Sandoval and Victoria Lee Robinson’s journey from personal struggles and public scandals to building a resilient and loving relationship. Their openness about therapy, personal growth, and handling external pressures provides valuable insights for listeners navigating similar challenges.