Read the Instructions | Proverbs 13 Wisdom That Could Save You Years of Frustration

Have you ever ignored the instructions because you thought, "I've got this," only to realize later that the mistake was completely avoidable? In this episode of The VIBE with Kelly Cardenas, we're diving into Proverbs 13, where timeless biblical wisdom teaches us why following instructions, seeking wise counsel, staying humble, and applying what we learn can transform every area of our lives.

I have to confess something...

When Brooklyn and I moved to Carlsbad, our kids were little enough to sleep in bunk beds, so we headed to IKEA to pick one up. Like every responsible dad, I carefully laid out every piece, organized every screw, and diligently read every page of the instructions...

Yeah... not even close.

I skimmed the instructions just enough to get started. Once I felt confident, my ego whispered those dangerous words:

"I got this."

Everything seemed perfect until I reached the very last piece.

It didn't fit.

Naturally, I did what any mature adult would do...

I blamed IKEA.

Surely they forgot a part.

After a few minutes of frustration, I swallowed my pride, went back to the instructions, and discovered the truth.

Every piece was there.

Every step was there.

The only thing missing...

...was my willingness to keep reading and applying what was already in front of me.

That lesson has followed me far beyond building furniture.

Proverbs 13 reminds us that wisdom isn't just hearing truth—it's applying it.

In this episode we talk about:

Why following instructions is a sign of wisdom, not weakness.
How pride quietly convinces us we don't need guidance.
Why wise counsel always beats isolated confidence.
The power of diligence over laziness.
Why successful people talk about ideas while unsuccessful people spend their time talking about people.
How "Big hat, no cattle" is still one of the best leadership lessons I've ever heard.
Why doing the right thing in the dark eventually shines in the light.
Why Inchstones always become milestones.
Protecting hope at all costs.
Building an inheritance that lasts for future generations.
Stopping comparison and starting praise.

One of my favorite reminders from my Pops was:

"Walk with the wise and become wise."

The older I get, the more I realize Mama and Pops weren't just giving advice.

They were leaving me an inheritance.

An inheritance of wisdom.

And that inheritance only has value if I actually apply it.

So before you assume you already know the next step...pause.

Read the instructions.

Then live them.

If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs the reminder that humility isn't thinking less of yourself—it's being willing to learn.

Remember...

Speak Life.

Your words create worlds.

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