Bridget Todd (39:59)
Yeah, something that I think needs to happen is you have to give a full accounting of what it is this person has done to. And I'm not even talking about, you know, I'm talking about, like, his own words, things that he has said. I think that they're really making some editorial choices about what is and is not part of his story or an important sort of part of his story. I think a lot of the stuff that he does with, like, slurs and his antisemitism, I think somewhere along the line they've made an editorial choice that that stuff is like, just kidding or just joking and is not really important to the story of who he is. And I'd like to know why. You know, and if you're trying to be of service to your audience or your readers, why. Why have you made. How. How have you come to the conclusion that some of this stuff is not important to include for folks to understand who this person is? And if it's not important, then why are you telling me about him? Like, that's another question I would ask when he didn't have that many followers and was still a pretty niche person in this niche subculture, why was it important that I know about him? I'm not saying that it's not important, but I think that, like, you've gotta make a case for why it is that you're telling me about him. Why are the New York Times dedicating an entire episode of the Daily to him? And I think it's important to sort of end with where Peters is now, where we are in all of this. So, as I said, last week, April 14, Peters was streaming from a bar in Miami, and his friends noticed that something was Wrong. He became unresponsive. The stream cut out. The Miami Fire Department responded to the report of a 20 year old having a possible OD. That was Peters. He was hospitalized in stable condition. And then the next morning he posted that photo of himself with blood on his face and he wrote just got home. That was brutal. All of the substances are just a cope trying to feel neurotypical while being in public, but that obviously isn't a real solution. And again, he goes on to talk about how the worst part of the night was his face descending from the life support mask. And, and that's the thing that he, you know, chose to tell his followers about. That was like weighing on him after a hospitalization for an OD that happened on a livestream. He's worried about what it did to his face, what his face looks like. And it reads to me like a 20 year old who has been told by both like the community online that he came of age in by other influencers, by mainstream outlets like the New York Times who are calling him somebody who promotes handsomeness, that his worth is his appearance. And I just don't think that we would do that with someone who was struggling with a more quote, feminized version of body dysmorphia and self harm. And so since his od, he has indicated publicly that he might not be streaming that much anymore. Not because he's taking a mental health break, but because according to him, he can't stream sober. He said in a video, I ain't going to be doing any more substances for a little while, hopefully for forever. But that means I can't really irl stream anymore. So that's the thing, I can't really irl stream because as you guys know, I'm quite brutal without that. So I think I have to figure something else out. And I think that's really what it comes down to, that this is obviously somebody who is not well, who is using substances and self harm by his own words to cope. And I think that not just for him, I think that for all of us, it would behoove us if media and journalists could figure out a way to cover this person in a way that is a little more responsible and a little more ethical. And that really makes clear what it is that we're actually talking about. Because I tell you, it ain't just like some, some interesting cultural online phenomenon. At the heart of it is clearly an unwell person. And I don't think that media should be obscuring that just to get engagement. So I know that this episode has been quite a lot about Peters, but it's not even really about this one guy. It's really about what happens next. Because Peters is not going to be the last person to push harmful ideology or to try to package self destructive ideas as just self improvement. We already know that this pattern is so much bigger than any one individual. So the real question that I would ask is what role do major outlets want to play in that cycle? When institutions like the New York Times or others choose to frame these extremist figures, do they interrupt that pipeline or do they just smooth it out? Do they help contextualize harm and help their audience really understand what's at stake and who these people are? Or do they repackage it into something that feels safe or even aspirational or cool? Until it doesn't? To me, it's about whether or not this attention is becoming a form of platform building. And then you have these same systems later going on to critique these figures when it's like, wait a minute, you helped them become this big influential figure in the first place. And I want to be clear. Peters is responsible for his own actions and his own bad behavior. But shouldn't the institutions that decide what becomes visible, what gets amplified and what gets turned into a story rather than a warning sign? Like they also share some of the responsibility here. So it really isn't about this one guy. It is whether or not we've built media and digital systems that can recognize the difference between reporting on harm and is helping to repackage it and make it palatable for more and more people at scale. So I know that was a lot. I've clearly been holding in a lot of thoughts about this person and the phenomena around them. I this is again, this is one of those episodes where this is just my opinion. I really want to hear what folks think. Like, has this person come across your feed? What has your engagement with them looked like? And if you have any thoughts on how folks can do a better job, myself very much included, talking about people like this and extremist figures like this, we would love to hear it. If you're on Spotify, you can leave us a comment in our Spotify comments or shoot us an email. Maybe we'll do a follow up episode about how people feel. But yeah, that's all I got.