
Kati Morton, a licensed marriage and family therapist with a Master's in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, discusses her journey and her work on mental health. Kati shares the inspiration behind her new book 'Why Do I Keep Doing This?' which explores the concept of control and the emotional patterns established during childhood.
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Hi, I'm Tony Mantour. Welcome to why Not Me? Embracing Autism and Mental Health Worldwide. Joining us today is Katie Morton, lmft, a licensed marriage and family therapist with a master's in Clinical psychology from Pepperdine University. For the past seven years, Katie has turned social media into a lifeline, breaking down mental health with clarity and compassion. Her YouTube channel, now with 340,000 strong and 30 million views, deep, has become a trusted space where eating disorders, self harm and every shade of struggle are met with honesty, not judgment. You've seen her on HLN's Dr. Drew on call, named a 2016 Shorty Award finalist and recognized as a streaming nominee. But Katie's real mission? Building a global community that demands better care and dismantle the shame that keeps people silent. She's here to talk about that and her new book, why Do I Keep Doing this? She has that and more. So before we dive into our episode, we'll be back with an uninterrupted show right after a word from our sponsors. Thanks for coming on.
Katie Morton
Yeah, of course. Thanks for having me.
Tony Mantour
Oh, it's my pleasure.
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Tony Mantour
I understand you've written a book. Can you give us A little information and the inspiration for it.
Katie Morton
This book came about in a very different way from my others. It actually was inspired from the fact that my specialty as a therapist is eating disorder treatment. That's how my channel, my YouTube channel started. And I've wanted to write an eating disorder book. That's not what this is. I'll get to that. But it started with this idea that, like, oh, I really want to write. And the book was tentatively going to be called It's not about the Effing Food. That's really what I wanted the book to be titled, because people just misunderstand eating disorders. And in conversation with my literary agent, Jael, who I love, and my manager, Linnea, I was telling them about this, and they were like, yeah, yeah, yeah. And we got in this conversation about, like, oh, my God, I do that too. And, like, trying to control people and, like, what happens. And. Yeah. And it was all just this great conversation about the things that we do that we get annoyed with ourselves for doing. Why do I compare? Why do I. People, please. And then there was a pause, and my agent, J.L. was like, I think that's the book. I don't think it's about eating disorders. We can talk about them, but I think it's more about control. She's like, what we're talking about is control. And I was like, you're right. And she's like, think on it. Get me some ideas. And why do I keep doing this was born.
Tony Mantour
Wow, that is such a great story. Now for everyone that's listening, can you tell us a little bit more about the book itself? What's the heart of the story, the main theme you are exploring and the spark that made you sit down and say, oh, this story needs to be told.
Katie Morton
Yes. This book is probably my most personal book. You're following me along as I talk about the patterns that we find in our life. So I start off talking about how our childhood kind of sets the tone. Like, the way that our parents interact with us and each other teaches us what relationships look like, what love looks like. And I talk about the ways that I try to control things in my life, like we all do. And so I dig into things like people pleasing, how I try to control others, make them happy, so that I don't have to deal with the discomfort of an argument. I don't like those. Don't like conflict. Very conflict. Diverse over here.
Tony Mantour
Yeah, I get that.
Katie Morton
And then I get into perfectionism. How I thought that if I did everything just right, then I could Earn love or attention or support like that. It. It had to be perfect in order for me to get it. Then I. I take you through my experience with, like, feeling like I'm. I don't have a right to take up space that I have to, like, shrink myself to make other people comfortable. And essentially the thread that weaves through the book is that it's all about my relationship with control and all the kind of whack a ways that it pops up. And unlike my other books where it's much more prescriptive, where I'm like, here's the research, here's what we know, here's what we can do. This one is more like, hey, this is what I've learned. I've been in therapy. I am a therapist, but I've also been in therapy for a long time. Here's what I've learned in that time and here's what I still don't know. Let's consider these things and see what we learn. And so it's less of a, like, let me show you, and more like, come along with me journey, where you're.
Tony Mantour
A therapist and been doing this for a while. Do you work with autistic people or those with serious mental illness, those with anxiety, adhd, bipolar? Do you work with any that fit under that umbrella in the book itself? Either, or what you've written in the book or what you do as a therapist?
Katie Morton
Yes, both. Both cases, I think, because nothing happens in a vacuum. Even though I specialized in the treatment of eating disorders, almost all of my patients who have an eating disorder have something else going on, whether it's anxiety, depression, have traumatic upbringing or a trauma in their background. Yeah, even my YouTube channel started off just specifically about eating disorders. And then of course, it branched into everything from, you know, bipolar disorder, ocd, anxiety, depression, postpartum depression, schizophrenia, you name it.
Tony Mantour
Yeah, that's a wide range for sure. Now, how long have you been doing this?
Katie Morton
I've been a therapist since 2009.
Tony Mantour
Okay.
Katie Morton
I've been creating content online since 2011.
Tony Mantour
Looking back at the therapy that you have done, looking at all the content you've created on your YouTube and all of your social media, I want you to think back a little. What comes to mind of the most rewarding moment that you've encountered over the years from those experiences where you've helped people from their traumas and how they've overcome it?
Katie Morton
Oh, there's been quite a few. The one that sticks out to me the most was actually a letter I received. So I've always kept a PO box for people online to send me things. And I received a letter. This is, I don't know, probably almost 10 years ago now, maybe, but it was from a mother. Might make me get teary just talking about it. Thanking me for saving her son's life because he was suicidal and he found. I have a couple of older videos and newer now, but this at the time, it was an original video at the time about like, I think it's called suicide and honest discussion. And it's essentially like that. You know, we think things are hopeless and we feel helpless, but there's a lot that we can do. And don't let the depression fog and the darkness, like, snuff out your light, you know, and that letter, I mean, I keep all this stuff. I'm not really a hoarder, but I am for sentimental stuff.
Tony Mantour
Right?
Katie Morton
Yeah. That was probably the most, like, touching and most rewarding thing.
Tony Mantour
Well, you know, when you do something that helps someone and you can see a direct reflection of your help and how it changed them, it can and probably changes your life too. How did you see that change you in how you was doing moving forward?
Katie Morton
I think it just further illustrated the, like, the privilege of being, I mean, a therapist, but also a content creator. The ability to reach people, sure, never ceases to amaze me. Probably because I was born before the Internet. Like, I didn't grow up with Internet or social media and I got to watch it develop. And it's such a privilege to be able to create content, share an idea or share a thought or share some of my education with somebody and affect them through the screen, you know, I mean, the way I was trained in school is obviously because there was no social media. It was very focused on the one on one, you know, and like, like you're in session and you're in your office, and it's just wild to me that I can reach people. Like, some of my first community members were people in the UK and Germany, not even in the US and in California at the time where I was. Yeah, it's. Yeah, I think it just is really. It keeps me motivated. Obviously, the reason I started the channel was just to help people, that if someone was looking for something, they could find it. Back in 2011, you being on YouTube wasn't a business decision. You couldn't make money. That wasn't what it was about. It was like just a hobby, passion project. And so, yeah, I mean, it definitely keeps me motivated in tough times and when I'm tired and. Or when I'm, you know, wondering if it's really worth it. All I can reflect back on letters and comments and things like that and remember that having the privilege of being able to positively impact someone's life is just amazing.
Tony Mantour
When you first started out, was you like everyone else? Conventional office, four walls, phone on the desk, and everyone coming to see you there?
Katie Morton
Yes. I. I mean, I worked many jobs, like most therapists will. This will resonate with them that you work, like, three different jobs to earn your hours towards your licensure.
Tony Mantour
Sure.
Katie Morton
And so I worked in the hospital mainly helping people with schizophrenia, schizoaffective disorder, bipolar disorder. Very much more like high needs, I would say. Then I worked in an eating disorder treatment center two nights a week, and then I had my private practice two days a week.
Tony Mantour
What were some of the differences that you saw from your private practice and then the other two jobs you were working, was there anything that just jumped out to you?
Katie Morton
The level of care needed is definitely the obvious one. For the eating disorder treatment center, we're seeing people who need 24. 7 support. They would stay at the facility.
Tony Mantour
Okay.
Katie Morton
And I think, you know, it was. It was nice to work with a team. I always love that part, because then it's not all on me. Like, we're all around and we're sharing information, making sure that the patient is getting the support they need. I always love that the hospital setting was very unique because it was a different. It's a different type of patient. I feel like there's a lot of people within this world that those of us who don't live in the mental health space may never see or notice. People with really debilitating mental illness and getting to see them get stabilized, on medication and thrive, I still love. I still. That's so exciting for me. And so that treatment was just a little bit different. It was more about stabilization and getting resources and then private practices. Not to say I enjoy it most. They all have their perks, but that's where I could really. I call it, roll in the de with people. I could really challenge them. I could really ask them intense questions, and we could really push for. For better, for more, because we weren't so focused on the, like, safety factor. Like, you're operating well enough, you are able to hold a job, able to go to school or whatever it is. And so we could really, you know, push the boundaries of how we can grow and what we can challenge ourselves to do.
Tony Mantour
Okay, so you had all these things going on. When did you see the transition from everything you were doing to the social media world that you ultimately turned to.
Katie Morton
It was really slow. I'd like to say, oh, I had a viral hit and it was out of this world. That's really not how it worked. I started in 2011. I don't think I quit my full time job till, I don't know, 2014.
Tony Mantour
Okay.
Katie Morton
And I still have my private practice and I still work part time at the eating disorder treatment center. So I was still doing partial things. I just quit the hospital job, which had my health insurance, much to my mother's dismay. But I let that job go because I just couldn't keep up with the hours. And then I slowly just whittled down the other two. I left, you know, a few months later, left the other. Honestly, at the very end, this is just my personality is that I had decided I was done with it, that I was moving into social, doing more social media. Because I really like speaking, I really like meeting people. Like I said, it's so cool to talk to so many people around the world. Like, I never in my wildest dreams thought that that could be a possibility. I had decided it was in March that I was going to quit my job, not my private practice, because that takes time, but quit the last bit of my job. And I told my husband, I think I'm going to quit in June. And I lasted one more week and I put in my two weeks notice and off we went. And so it was kind of slow and steady, but I really wish I'd saved more before I did that. But it was time and I felt it was time. And it got really hard to keep everything going.
Tony Mantour
When you're dealing with people one on one, face to face, then you're dealing with people one on one in a group situation like you do in a hospital. What differences do you see dealing with people one on one on YouTube or those that might email you or zoom? What differences you see, if any, from all those different scenarios?
Katie Morton
I think there's a big difference, especially when it comes to in person, one on one.
Tony Mantour
Okay.
Katie Morton
There's something special about in person with somebody. The energy of the room, especially as a therapist. It really helps me pick up on things that maybe you might be able to hide if we were doing a zoom session. Yeah. Like are you sitting on the edge of your seat? Are your feet fidgeting? I might notice the shake a little in your head, but so there's that piece. I've always liked the in person when it comes to therapy. Now moving into social media and, you know, communicating with my community as a whole, it's very different. I almost see myself as like an adjunct. Like, I'm just this add on. Like, a lot of my community members, especially on Patreon, which I use to help support myself, is they kind of ask me questions about their own therapy. They're like, hey, I saw my therapist and they said this. What does that mean? Or like, hey, I'm having this trouble. What could I ask? Or like, how could I move this forward? And so I kind of see myself as just like a little. A piece of it. Like. Like a more of a supportive role than maybe a primary role.
Tony Mantour
Yeah. With all the information that you have taken in, then add to that all the information that you have given out. What are some of the common things you tend to give out a lot? Like tips on life. What are some of those that you wish everyone knew?
Katie Morton
The number one tip is, well, there's two. I'll give you two, and I can give more. But there's two that come to mind right away.
Tony Mantour
Okay.
Katie Morton
And the first is, when in doubt over communicate. I don't mean over explain yourself. I mean that if you're concerned about a relationship, you're concerned about how your boss interpreted something, I would always err on the side of sharing more and being honest. Communicate. If someone hurt your feelings, tell them. Don't make them guess. If something didn't go as planned, you know, let someone know, like, oh, I thought we were doing this so often, instead of communicating about an upset or an expectation or anything, we stay silent and it ends up hurting us down the line. It can either, like, turn into resentment or it can turn into, like, internalized shame. Like, something must be wrong with me. That's why this didn't work out. When, in fact, if we'd communicated, we might have realized, oh, they didn't even notice and they're so sorry, and, you know, the conflict could have been resolved. So when in doubt over communicate.
Tony Mantour
Okay?
Katie Morton
And then the second. Anybody who's been following me for any amount of time will know I am a huge supporter of journaling. I think so often we. We let things run in our head, and we can turn molehills into mountains. We can shame ourselves. We can think about all the ways something could go wrong, and it can keep us up at night, it can make us feel anxious, depressed, you name it. Putting it out on paper, journaling about it gives us an opportunity not only to slow it down, but also to be able to reflect. I find because I journal all the Time when I journal, I can see things more clearly. I'll even pose questions to myself, which might make me sound a little crazy, but I promise you it helps. Because one thing I know as a therapist is that we have all the information we need to fix any of our problems. We just need help getting to those. To that. To the meat. We need help finding those gems. And so journaling really helps with that. Because sometimes I'll be like, what am I really afraid of here? Or, why is this making me so stressed? Oh, I'm afraid that someone's not going to like me. Or I'm afraid that, you know, maybe it's, like, about money, and I'm scared of not having enough. And that's really stressful for me. It helps me uncover kind of the reasons behind my behavior. And if I just let it live in my head and I didn't write it down, I might not be able to uncover that. I'd instead get caught in these thought cycles, you know, because there's this research study from years ago that 93% of the thoughts we've had, we've had before. So it's like we're just having these repeat thoughts over and over. Sometimes it's just a little flavor, a different flavor to them. And so journaling really helps me clean that up.
Tony Mantour
Yeah. Now, when you do a journal, you write down all your thoughts, like you said, it might come to you as a question, or you might have other thoughts as well. I believe there is a difference in most people, not all. I think there's a difference between what people will write down on a paper that they want to tell someone. Then in reality, they don't tell them at all. How do you help them get past that so that the communication still stays strong?
Katie Morton
Good question. In general, there's a couple of ways to go about this. Number one, if you're in therapy, practice it with your therapist. The first time you say something that's difficult should not be in front of the person you're trying to communicate it with.
Tony Mantour
Okay.
Katie Morton
Because sometimes the words coming out of our mouth just, like, shock us, or they feel really harsh all of a sudden, or we're like, oh, my God, is that what I meant? It can feel very overwhelming. So it's helpful to say it out loud to another person, ideally a therapist, but even a best friend, or at least in your car by yourself. You should say it out loud so you kind of get used to the language and. Because if we're having a difficult time with someone, chances are we know Them at least somewhat, but usually pretty well.
Tony Mantour
Okay.
Katie Morton
We know kind of what they're going to say in response. So I always encourage people like, yes, you can journal about it. If this is a conversation that needs to be had, I encourage you to journal both parts. What do you think they'll say in response? How does that feel to you? Are you able to like, stay with it or do you need to take a break? You know, and so through that practice, hopefully we can get so comfortable with it. It's almost like practicing a speech. You could say it in your sleep. You've said it so many times. I want you to almost feel that way before you go into what I would call a really emotionally charged conversation. When things, when we're like, I'm conflict adverse, right? I told you, I don't really like fights. And so if I'm going to tell my husband that something really hurt my feelings or I didn't really like how something went, I know that, that for other people who aren't conflict averse, they're like, that's no big deal. No, I have to practice that with myself. I have to be like, it's okay, I can say this. How would I say it? Okay, well, what do you think he'd say back? Okay, if he gets upset about it, how do we manage that? How do we handle that? I know this sounds tedious, but it's worth practicing if we want to break out of those patterns. And that's kind of what my book why Do I Keep Doing this Is about is like breaking out of these patterns that we know. We do these things over and over, but. And we almost can't feel like we can't stop. We can, we just have to figure out, you know, how to hang in there, do the, do the hard work.
Tony Mantour
Now, you said you started your practice around 2009. Okay. Now we're looking at 16 years. So from when you first started to now, you have seen people evolve tremendously and hopefully for the better. How have you seen yourself evolve from when you first started to today?
Katie Morton
Oh, good question. I mean, so many ways I like to think that, you know, every so often we like, shed skins of our past self almost so much that if, like I passed somebody on the street, they wouldn't even know me anymore. You know, I'm so different. I think as a therapist in particular, I'm much more confident. I mean, that's obvious. Doing anything, you know, at the beginning, you're super nervous. And I used to think and rethink things that I would say, and how I'd ask questions. But I'm much more confident and much more comfortable with silence. Much to my patients dismay. Let them sit in that. And I also think that as I've continued to do work on myself, I've realized better ways to use the. This is going to sound kind of woo woo, but it's like using the energy of the room to help people uncover parts of themselves that they've been trying to ignore. I've gotten better at asking questions to get in also. Sure, I talk about how people are almost like a locked house and some people open the door and let you right in, Here you are. And other people, you have to like, find that little window in the back that doesn't quite lock all the way and jimmy it open and get in that way. And so I've gotten much better at getting people to open up.
Tony Mantour
Okay.
Katie Morton
And I would say also, because I've been online, this is a random perk of having to create content for as long as I have. I definitely feel like my knowledge and understanding not only of the research, because I have to do that all the time, which as a clinician you don't always have to. But also talking to my community has given me a greater understanding of what is really going on with people. What's really the problem? I think a lot of times people come into therapy and they're just feeling bad and they don't even know where to start. And I feel much more equipped to figure that out with them at like a faster pace.
Tony Mantour
So again, 16 years dealing with people, 2009 to today. If you had a chance with everything that you know now to tell your younger self, just starting out, what is it that you would tell her?
Katie Morton
I think I would tell myself, don't be so hard. You're just starting out. I'm always really hard on myself. I'd also tell myself to know that it's okay to say you don't know. I think for a long time I felt as a therapist it was like important for me to be like, oh, I have all the answers. We're human, we can't have all the answers. And I don't know if I necessarily pretended to know, but I think I felt bad if I didn't. I think I would tell my younger self to embrace that and make it a place for growth versus shame. And then I think I would also, I would tell her to, to try different types of therapy personally earlier on, because I did talk therapy for a long time and it was helpful, but it wasn't until I did EMDR and I tried parts work that I found it. I made some huge strides personally, especially with grief because I lost a lot of my family in a short period of time. So I guess those are some of the things. I'm sure there's others that will come up later. Like at 2:00 clock in the morning, I'll be like, oh, I should have told Tony this. But yeah, those are just a few.
Tony Mantour
Okay, that's great. Now tell us about your book again. Where can they find it? And I believe you're going on a book tour.
Katie Morton
I am, yeah. My book, why do I keep doing this? Unlearn the habits keeping you stuck and Unhappy comes out December 9th. I'm doing a short book tour in December. More coming in January. I will be in Santa Monica on December 9th. Then I'm going over to Jacksonville, Florida on December 14th and then I'll be up in Chicago on December 15th. I'd love to see everybody sign books, answer questions. The book itself is, is just really personal. I hope it helps one person know that they're not alone in doing weird things over and over and getting the same result and not understanding why. We've all been there before. That's why it's called why do I keep doing this? Right. And they can find me anywhere on the Internet. Just Kati Morton K A T I M O R T O N I have a podcast, Ask Kat, Katie, anything that comes out every Thursday and my YouTube videos come out every Monday.
Tony Mantour
Now remember, you have to come to Nashville.
Katie Morton
I know, I do, I do. I'd love to like expand the book tour. We'll see how many cities we can hit.
Tony Mantour
Yeah, that's good. Do you ever find yourself doing self analyzing to the point where you're going, whoa, what am I doing here?
Katie Morton
Definitely I'm trying to break out of that habit. But I'm glad you asked because I definitely am an intellectualizer. That's my like defense mechanism of choice. I like to understand something from every angle. And I saw this post online where somebody was saying their therapist had told them that overthinkers are under feelers. And I felt very called out. But it is true. I definitely will try to understand myself and it's not helpful. I think that's why a lot of people will say, well, you're a therapist, like why are you in therapy? And I'm like, because I can't therapize myself. You know, I can't do that. That's not. That doesn't work. That way I can't challenge myself. I'll let myself off the hook. And so, yeah, I definitely analyze things, although I'm trying to break that habit.
Tony Mantour
What do you think that the listeners need to hear that is really important about what you're doing? You may have touched on it already, but what do you think is important that they know about you?
Katie Morton
About me? I was going to try to offer another tip or tool.
Tony Mantour
You can. You can do that, too. We're flexible here.
Katie Morton
No, it's okay. I mean about me. I guess the thing that I would hope people could hear or could know more about me is that I. Yes, I'm a therapist, but I don't know everything. And I'm not perfect. I mess up, too. I always try to make sure that my content online reflects the fact that we're all human. This is all of our first rodeos. We're just trying our best, right?
Tony Mantour
Absolutely.
Katie Morton
And I like to, especially more recently, I've tried to shift my content more into the like, let's go along this journey together. Let me share what I know, you share what you know, and together we'll work for a better tomorrow. And so that's kind of the goal and what I would hope people could get through following me online or reading my book or, you know, engaging with any of the content I create. Because I think, unfortunately, a lot of people try to act like they know it all and nobody knows it all. We're just doing the best we can.
Tony Mantour
Yeah, that's right. Now, is there anything else that you would like to tell our listeners?
Katie Morton
I don't think so. I think I always just want people to know that therapy is beneficial for all. You don't have to wait until you're at your worst. I think getting extra support is always a good choice, and it's a great investment to make in yourself. And also know that every therapist works on a sliding scale, so ask for it if finances are an issue, because I know it can be expensive. Yeah, I think that's it.
Tony Mantour
Well, this has been great. Great information, great conversation. I really appreciate you taking the time to join us today.
Katie Morton
Yeah. Thank you so much for having me. It's been a pleasure. Thank you.
Tony Mantour
Oh, it's been my pleasure. Thanks again.
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Release Date: December 9, 2025
Host: Tony Mantor
Guest: Kati Morton, LMFT
This bonus episode features Kati Morton, a well-known marriage and family therapist, YouTube educator, and author, discussing her path from clinical therapy to building a massive supportive online community. The conversation centers on Kati's journey as a mental health advocate, her new book "Why Do I Keep Doing This?", and practical insights drawn from her experiences with trauma, neurodiversity, and mental health stigma. The episode aims to break down misconceptions about mental health, highlight tools for self-growth, and encourage both individual and collective healing.
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The tone of the episode is candid, compassionate, hopeful, and practical. Both Tony and Kati speak conversationally, inviting openness and emphasizing genuine connection. Kati shares vulnerably from both her personal and professional life, blending expertise with relatability.
This episode offers listeners a heartfelt look at mental health through the eyes of a therapist who is both educator and fellow traveler. Kati Morton dismantles therapist perfectionism and explores both the messiness and empowerment of seeking control, inviting listeners to embrace change, curiosity, and courage—together. Listeners walk away with practical tools for mental health, inspiration to break old patterns, and the reassurance that everyone is still learning, including the experts.