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TRANS CRUSH
Hosted by Pavie Valsa, Zelah Glasson · ENGLISH
Welcome to Trans Crush – the podcast where we expose everything they never told you about us.
Join us as we dive into the real, raw, and spicy world of a trans community. From love and intimacy to the questions no one dares to ask, we’re here to smash taboos and celebrate relationships without boundaries.
Looking for even more unfiltered content? Head over to our Patreon for exclusive episodes, intimate secrets, dating stories, and deeper dives into the topics you crave.
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Chanel: My Traumatic Childhood & Finding My Trans Identity
Yesterday00:30:44Tap to summarizeIn this deeply personal episode of Trans Crush, host Pavie sits down with the Chanel. Chanel shares her journey from a traumatic childhood and early realization of her trans identity to becoming a confident woman who embraces self-expression through fashion, art, and her vibrant personality. We delve into: •Chanel's childhood experiences, including bullying and feeling misunderstood, and how these shaped her resilience. •Her early awareness of being trans at just 7 years old, and the lack of trans representation that made her feel alone. •The pivotal moment she saw a trans woman on Big Brother, realizing transition was possible. •Her family's reaction to her coming out, navigating cultural expectations (Romani heritage), and the evolving relationship with her mother and grandmother. •The importance of self-expression and how it contributes to her happiness and mental well-being. •Chanel's advice for trans women starting their transition, especially those balancing it with education. Join Pavie and Chanel for an honest and inspiring conversation about identity, family, and the power of living authentically. Don't forget to subscribe and hit the notification bell for more essential discussions! Head over to our Patreon Exclusive where we dive deep into Chanel's dating life and experiences with intimacy. We're talking about dating men, women, and trans people, navigating reluctance around intimacy, and the biggest misconceptions people have about her. Plus, we get into some spicy details about a 'sex shed' and other uncensored stories! You won't want to miss this raw and unfiltered bonus content!" https://www.patreon.com/transcrush/
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The Supreme Court & Trans Representation: Dani St James Speaks Out
2w ago00:55:06Tap to summarizeThis episode is sponsored by Feeld. Download the dating app for the curious on Google Play or the App Store: http://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/transcrush In this episode of Trans Crush, Pavie sits down with the incredible Dani St James. Dani shares her journey from becoming one of the first trans women to appear on a British dating show to founding Not A Phase, a charity dedicated to supporting and uplifting trans adults across the UK. She also talks about building ZOAH and creating products designed with the trans community in mind. We talk about: • The work Not A Phase is doing across the UK, from support groups and community events to fitness programmes like Misfits. • What trans representation looked like when Dani first stepped into the public eye and how things have changed over the years. • Her appearance on First Dates and the unexpected full circle moment that came with it. • The impact recent legal developments have had on the trans community and how she stays grounded through difficult times. • Why visibility matters and the importance of creating spaces where people feel seen, supported, and celebrated. • Her approach to self care, confidence, and showing up as herself every day. SUBSCRIBE AND TURN ON NOTIFICATIONS SO YOU NEVER MISS AN EPISODE. WANT MORE? 🌶️ http://patreon.com/transcrush Dani and Pavie continue the conversation over on Patreon, where they get into dating, relationships, attraction, building ZOAH, and whether men who exclusively date trans women are a red flag or not. It's funny, spicy, and as always, real. 🌶️ http://patreon.com/transcrush
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Unpacking Cis White Gay Privilege with Max Hovey
3w ago00:38:30Tap to summarizeIn this episode of Trans Crush, host Zelah sits down with author and sex educator Max Hovey to dismantle the harmful "No Fats, No Fems" culture within the LGBTQ+ community. Max shares his journey from a toxic all-boys school in Kent to becoming a leading voice in body image advocacy and queer advocacy. We dive deep into: •The reality of internalized homophobia and the "queer toxicity phase." •Unpacking the "it's just a preference" defense on dating apps. •The history of tribe culture, the hanky code, and the creation of the Bear tribe. •Cis white gay privilege and the importance of community unity. •How representation (or lack thereof) shapes our desires.This is not everything! We’re heading over to our Patreon Exclusive channel where we lose the filter. We’re talking to Max as a sex educator about the boom in transmasc porn, the psychology of sexual arousal vs. attraction, and the truth about aftercare in queer spaces. You don't want to miss this spicy bonus part! Watch here: https://patreon.com/transcrush/
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LouLou: My Trans Journey & Dating as a Trans Woman
May 1000:45:37Tap to summarizeWant to hear more of Loulou's intimate dating stories and uncensored content? Head over to our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/transcrush/ for exclusive conversations, spicy gossips, and real stories you won't hear anywhere else. Click the link to join our community and learn so much more! Pavie sits down with the amazing LouLou to discuss her journey as a trans woman, offering a candid look into her experiences with gender transition, medical transition, and navigating life as a transgender individual. LouLou shares her personal story, from realizing her trans identity at a young age to the pivotal role of supportive parents in her HRT and breast augmentation journey. She opens up about the complexities of gender dysphoria, emphasizing that it’s a lifelong process of learning to cope, and the importance of patience during transition. This episode goes deep into crucial topics like mental health within the LGBTQ+ community, particularly for trans women dealing with depression and societal pressures. LouLou offers powerful advice on finding interests outside of one’s trans identity and giving oneself grace during difficult times. We also tackle the challenging landscape of trans rights and the current political climate, highlighting the need for respect and education. LouLou gets real about dating as a trans woman, sharing both the struggles of being kept a secret and the joys of finding genuine connection. She discusses the unique dynamics of TFT relationships (Trans-Femme Trans-Masc) and her personal desire for a bi-awakening. This is an unfiltered conversation that exposes everything they never told you about being trans. Don’t miss this discussion on transgender experiences, gender identity, LGBTQ+ advocacy, and dating as a trans woman.
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Why I Am Into Trans Women: Steven's Story
Apr 3000:31:44Tap to summarizeToday on Trans Crush, I sit down with Steven for a very honest conversation about attraction, shame, and finally admitting to yourself what you feel. We talk about the first time he realised he was attracted to trans women, why he kept it hidden for so long, and how social pressure and anxiety shaped that silence. He opens up about what it means to stop hiding and start being honest with yourself. Steven also shares how he sees relationships, what he is really drawn to, and why happiness comes from accepting who you are attracted to. Later in the conversation, he talks about his autism diagnosis and how it helped him understand himself more clearly. A conversation about honesty, self acceptance, and saying things out loud for the first time. Watch the exclusive part here: https://patreon.com/transcrush/
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From Brisbane, Australia to Slag Wars: Navigating Life as a Trans Masc Person - Hotboiyo
Apr 3000:38:36Tap to summarizeIn this powerful episode of Trans Crush, host Zelah Glasson sits down with the iconic Oscar (Hotboiyo) to discuss his 13-year transition journey. From growing up in a conservative area of Brisbane, Australia, to becoming a reality TV star on "Slag Wars" and a successful adult content creator, Oscar shares the raw truth about trans masculinity, medical transition, gay community and finding love. We dive deep into: The differences between transitioning in Australia vs. the UK. Oscar’s experience with Testosterone (HRT) over the last decade. Reality TV behind-the-scenes: Life on "Slag Wars." Navigating sexuality, sex work, and relationships as a trans man. Advice for the trans community on staying true to yourself. If you're looking for inspiration, real talk, and a bit of "saucy" gossip, this is the episode for you! Subscribe for more trans-masc stories and turn on notifications!🔥 READY FOR THE SAUCY STUFF? 🔥 The conversation doesn't end here! We’re moving over to Patreon for the Trans Crush Exclusive where things get a lot more intimate. On Patreon, we answer: 🔞 Sex Work Secrets: How Oscar got into the industry and his OnlyFans demographics. 🫦 Saucier Stories: Uncensored details from the set of "Slag Wars." 👫 Relationship Dynamics: How Oscar and Angel navigate an open relationship and polyamory. 👅 The "Boy Pussy" Debate: Oscar’s take on the most controversial questions in the community. Don't miss out on the spicy gossip and real stories you won't hear anywhere else! Watch now: https://patreon.com/transcrush/
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From Grandad to Trans Woman: Coming Out at 60
Apr 400:42:31Tap to summarizeToday’s episode is a deeply powerful conversation with Daisy, a trans woman who has just turned 60 and is finally living as herself.Daisy shares her journey on hormone replacement therapy, and opens up about a painful childhood, including being bullied and surviving a rape at knife point at the age of 13. She talks about how those experiences shaped her, and the long road to finally choosing herself.We also talk about her life right now, preparing to come out to her wife, her three children and three grandchildren, and how she paused her transition for years to be there for her family before finally stepping into her truth.This is a story about courage, healing, and what it means to live authentically later in life. Daisy is an inspiration for anyone who feels it might be too late.Support us on Patreon💜 Watch this and all exclusive Trans Crush episodes for the price of one month:http://www.patreon.com/transcrush
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Cheza: How Puberty Blockers Affect Teenagers? Trans Women Explain.
Mar 2600:37:03Tap to summarizeToday on Trans Crush Cheza talks about something we do not hear enough about, what it is actually like transitioning as a teenager.She shares her journey starting puberty blockers at 13, going on hormones at 16, and having surgery at 21, and how having a supportive family and safe environment completely changed the outcome of her life.We also talk about why puberty blockers matter so much for trans teens. How they can give young people time, space and safety while they figure themselves out, and why for many they are life saving gender affirming care.And of course we get into the politics around it, why it is so heavily debated right now, and what it means that access has been restricted for under 18s in the UK.It is an honest, important conversation about growing up trans young, and what support can actually do when it is given at the right time.Watch exclusive episodes on Trans Crush Exclusive:http://www.patreon.com/transcrushFollow us on socials:http://www.instagram.com/transcrushpodcasthttp://www.tiktok.com/@transcrush.podcastIf you want to support the work and watch the full unfiltered conversations, Patreon is where it all happens.
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Navigating Trans Man Identity: Modeling, Stealth Life & The Reality of Top Surgery
Mar 1200:37:14Tap to summarizeIn this powerful episode of Trans Crush, host Zelah Glasson sits down with Kai, a 25-year-old model from Liverpool, to explore the complexities of the trans experience in the UK today. Kai opens up about his journey from realizing his identity as a "masc lesbian" to transitioning into the man he is today. He shares the raw realities of top surgery, including the unexpected "winky face" nipple loss, the challenges of dating as a trans person, and the vital importance of family support. From the high-pressure world of modeling to the deeply personal process of medical transition, Kai’s story is one of resilience, humor, and radical self-acceptance. Main Topics Discussed - The "Stealth" Experience: What it means to navigate the world when people don't perceive you as trans. - Medical Transition Realities: The difficult choices between starting testosterone and fertility preservation (IVF). - Top Surgery Deep Dive: A candid look at recovery, "dog ears," scar care, and the emotional freedom of being top-less. - Modeling as a Trans Man: Finding a safe haven in creative spaces versus the anxieties of traditional workplaces like construction. - The Power of a Supportive Mother: How Kai's mom became his "rock" throughout his entire journey. - Dating and Safety: The fears and precautions trans people face in the modern dating world.Patreon Exclusive: Dive Deeper with Kai! https://patreon.com/transcrush/ Want to hear more of Kai's unfiltered story? Join us on Patreon for the exclusive extended cut where we discuss: - Future Family Planning: Kai's thoughts on ideal methods for having children. - Sex Life & Sensitivity: A candid discussion on changes in sensitivity after top surgery and his sex life pre and post-transition. - The complexities of dating as a trans man, including the importance of disclosing biological status. - Phalloplasty Insights: A detailed look into the phalloplasty process, including wrist to thigh grafts, sensitivity, and laser hair removal. - Online Persona vs. Reality: The difference between public confidence and private anxieties. Don't miss out on these crucial conversations! Support Trans Crush and get access to exclusive content. Join our Patreon: https://patreon.com/transcrush/
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From Male Model to Trans Woman - Phoebe’s Story of Growing Up Deaf
Mar 500:44:10Tap to summarizeThe uncensored, extended conversation is available here: https://patreon.com/TRANSCRUSH/ Phoebe joins Trans Crush to share her extraordinary story of growing up deaf, becoming an international male model, and eventually transitioning after years of hiding her identity. Born in New Zealand and later traveling the world through modeling in cities like Sydney, New York, Los Angeles, and Tokyo, Phoebe spent over a decade performing masculinity on camera while privately struggling with identity, addiction, and self-acceptance. After getting sober and finding the courage to transition, she left everything behind and moved to London to start a completely new life. In this episode, Phoebe opens up about transitioning at 25, navigating the queer nightlife scene, DIY hormones, surviving family rejection, and rebuilding her life with the support of the trans community. She also shares the emotional reality of growing up deaf, being bullied for femininity, and learning to trust herself after years of being told who she should be. This is an honest conversation about identity, resilience, community, trauma, and what it means to finally live as your authentic self as a trans woman. In This Episode We Discuss: ◼️ Growing up deaf and learning to lip-read before getting hearing aids ◼️ Being bullied for femininity as a child ◼️ Traveling the world as a male model while hiding her identity ◼️ Addiction, sex parties, and the darker side of nightlife ◼️ The moment sobriety led to her transition epiphany ◼️ Moving alone to London to begin her transition ◼️ Starting HRT and navigating DIY hormones ◼️ Finding support in London’s trans community ◼️ Family rejection and discovering relatives supporting anti-trans politics ◼️ Dating, safety, and traumatic experiences with men ◼️ Why Phoebe believes being trans can be a superpower
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