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Podcast Host (1:02)
Welcome to Transformation Church podcast where we represent God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ. We're so glad you're here and wherever you're listening from, we believe God will transform your life through today's message.
Pastor Mike Todd (1:16)
Today, as I approach my assignment, I just want to thank God for everybody being in the house and thank God for all those who are watching online. I even want to thank God for the men and women that are joining us right now in hundreds of correctional facilities all around the world. Can we welcome in. Oh, come on. Transformation Church, our brothers and sisters that are watching by the Pando app. Hey, can I tell you a cool stat that this year alone, we have seen over 8,500 people give their life to Jesus that are incarcerated. Y' all don't know when to shout. You free and still bound. They bound and all right. I just want you to know that we love you and we believe in you. And if our ministry is touching you and blessing your life, we get your letters and I hope you get our responses back. We are really trying to go to where people need transformation and we're grateful for what God is doing today. Today is week five of a series we're calling everybody say triggered. And I'm not. I'm not letting off of this because this series actually is a trigger. The series is. The series is meant to make you have a reaction. If you're in a church or with a preacher or somewhere that don't get no reaction out of you, you may be in a space that you are not submitted enough to hear the words or something in you is not alive today. I'm coming to trigger you with the word of God so that there is a response or a reaction that actually causes you to watch this change. And so many people were like, after the conference, what's the new series triggered? Thought you was going into a fire series or no, no, no, the Holy Spirit has not released me from helping you deal with your crash outs. You need to put Christ in the middle of every single one of your crash outs. Holiday season is upon us. Or we could call it crash out season. So many family issues come up during this time. Can I get an amen? You really planning right now who not to invite? Come on, y'. All. How to get around what you already said. We're right now in the season where traffic and gifts and children plays, and yet children's plays. I got stuck there. My daughter told me this week she's married in a play at her school. That means I gotta remember lines, that means we gotta figure out costumes. That and I'm saying little stuff, but I don't know what's going on in your life. But there are things that we face daily that have the opportunity to trigger us. And what I found about the things that trigger me, that get a reaction, that get an impulse response, is that before I react, I need to everybody say pause. And this is what we don't do. We don't take time after we're triggered, we react to something. And this is what I found, that every trigger is an invitation by God to transform. It seems simple, but every time I get triggered, God's saying, hey, do you want to act the way you did the last 19 times or do you want to use some of the Bible you've been reading? Would you like to actually apply some of the book of notes you have the journal that you got open to page 14. And let's see if we can respond differently than how we responded last time. The sad truth is most Christians are good with information, not implementation. Most believers would rather it be in their notebook or a screenshot that they can post than a life that they actually live. And what I'm telling you is many times things are allowed to trigger us as an opportunity for you to prove that that God is actually in you. How do you know that you actually believe what you believe until you're in a situation where you need to use it. You talk about peace, but you cannot honestly stand flat footed and say you have peace until you have peace in a storm. Peace doesn't even exist outside of a Storm, because there's nothing to authenticate the peace. Oh, God. And so I would just like everybody to examine, in your own life, am I actually possessing the things that I say that I have, or am I just being triggered, reacting and playing the same scenario over and over? And Christians have become addicted to cycles. Some of you are planning your cycle right now of getting in a relationship with somebody through the holiday season. You'll be at somebody's house for Thanksgiving, and you'll be on somebody's Secret Santa for Christmas. And you'll be joining us for 21 days of prayer and fasting single in January every year. God, heal my heart. Hold on. Wait. Would you step back for a second and see? Hold on. Is this fool coming into my life right now? Is this the thing that triggers my insecurity of not being wanted by a man? And should I, before I be like, oh, my God, big daddy, you want to take me where? Before I do that, before I do that again again, let me pause. Everybody say pause. Let me step back and see. Is this an invitation by God to transform? Because many of us don't realize it, but each one of our triggers is attached to a trauma. And until we deal with the trauma, we actually will never transform. We will play this over and over and over and over and over and what again? And today, God has sent me, as a coach, as a counselor, as a pastor, as a divine interruption to divinely interrupt the cycle that is about to passively happen again. It's so subtle. Some of y' all about to go. You just got out of debt, and you're about to go back into it for children who not even gonna like what you get them anyway. No, I'm. You're about to go back into impressing a family that does not even want to see you differently. But again, that trigger, oh, I gotta get Sally a present and I gotta go. I gotta do this and I gotta show up for this, and I gotta go to all the balls, and I gotta do all. You don't even want to be there. But that trigger has hit the trauma of insecurity when they didn't invite you when you were in middle school. And so because you won't deal with that, the cycle starts again. And today is a divine interruption. Because if you do not deal with the situation at its root level, your unaddressed triggers write this down. Will usually lead to a crash out. Your unaddressed triggers will lead to a crash out. And some people are saying, pastor Mike, tell me what a crash out is. I'M gonna put this big definition back on the screen again, and I want you to listen to it and I want you to think about. Watch this. Does this apply to me in any way? Have I crashed out recently? Am I in the middle of a crash out, or am I planning my next crash out right now? A crash out is when a person can be suddenly uncontrollably angry and act impulsively. How many people have ever bought something impulsively? Instagram and TikTok make it so easy. And then you get the little shop thing and it's already got all your information in it. Why do I have four of these little bears that hold my cell phone? Why did I. It's just so fast. You order the shirt, don't even know if it's right sizes, and you got a shirt, it's 2x, but it's Chinese sizes, so it's okay. Some of y' all know what I'm talking about. It's like, yeah, 2x and that mud this big made for MJ. Impulsive. How many people have decided to do things impulsively? A crash out is something that happens. Watch this. Almost without a thought, it said it potentially leads to negative consequences. This many times shows up as emotional or physical shutdown, usually from burnout, overstimulation, or being overwhelmed. The act of surrendering all reasonable control of your emotions and response in order to react to. Watch this. How you are currently feeling. How many people can honestly say that sometimes their feelings lie to them? I would dare say all the time, your feelings are a current indicator of the moment. They are not a dictator of how you move. And so right now, the crash out that you're in is because I felt a certain way. It could be a strong indicator that these people who are crashing out are struggling with their mental health and need support. This whole series is to support you. Your pastor is trying to come and support you. As people have been furloughed and the government is shut down. As people are trying to figure out their. Their. Their family drama. As people, I'm trying to help you right now. This is spiritual support. I want your mental health to be able to be in good shape because of spiritual help. This is what we have in Jesus. But most of us are going to things that didn't create you to figure out how to help you in a situation that you don't know how to get out of. And so today I'm gonna teach you about something that God likes to do in the crash out. Now, this is gonna be a Curve ball for most of you. But what I found out is that when a situation is going bad, wrong, unexpected, God is not waiting for us to figure out why the situation happened to us. God, many times in the middle of the crash out. Corrects you, and most of us are missing the correction in the middle of the crash hour. Pastor Mike, why are you talking about this? Because this is going to repeat if you do not learn the lesson. I have a prophetic word for you. This is going to repeat if you do not learn the lesson. Pastor Mike, can you give me a word? I'm so glad that you need a word from God. This thing you're dealing with is going to do what? Repeat. If you do not learn the lesson. That this doesn't seem fair. That in the middle of a situation that is going on, that I cannot understand why it's happening, why my job is going like this, why my relationship is falling apart like this, why my kids won't listen, why all of this is happening. Why in the world would God try to correct me? Why are you trying to do this? Ain't fair already. God, why are you trying to give me a lesson while it feels like my life is falling apart? God, I already don't have enough money. Now you want me to start a budget. Oh, yeah. I'm in the middle of losing everything, and you want me to write the vision and make it plain. You want me. You want me to put out this hundred and twenty two dollars in columns. We got three columns like, God, why are you trying to correct how I talk to them? And they started it. They approached me. This is just my. If they would have stayed over there, if they would have never came over here. Don't start no stuff. Why are you talking about. Why are you talking to me about forgiveness? God, they actually were the ones who are disrespectful to me. I'm trying to decide if I'm going to stay at this job, and you're telling me to apologize. You're telling me to apologize. Why are you trying to correct me in the middle of this crash? Out. Why are you. Hold on. My wife did that. I didn't do that. My wife did that. And you want me to take responsibility and step up and lead our home out of the situation that she. Why you trying to correct. I'm trying to talk about real situations right now. That pastor fumbled me and my gift and what I brought to the table, and you're telling me don't stop leading that team and don't spread the gossip of my feelings in this moment to them and infect them. Why are you correcting me in the middle of this moment where I feel justified to have a response that lines up with the situation that happened to me? And I've just found out that God is so good. Watch this. That he doesn't waste anything. Either we believe Romans 8:28, or we don't. All things work together for the good. So in a bad situation, God's like, I'm not wasting this. Y' all think I'm about to waste this? Yes. They started talking about you. Now I'm gonna use this to make you more like me. And the problem right now, and why some of y' all look at me right now like you want to fight me, is because your transformation will not happen outside of you. You are waiting for God to change the job, change the husband, change the friend, change the situation. And God's saying, I ain't doing that. I'm starting with you. And the reason why people become unwavered in their ability to continue to trust God and they begin to be shaky is because they want God to do it another way. But what I found out is that when you come to God, he never starts with them. He always starts with you. And I came to tell you for real that in the middle of the situation that you could crash out in and feel justified and get applause from your friends. God said, did you catch the correction? Most people are missing it. You're missing the whole point of why God allowed that situation to happen. God allowed you to be able to get kicked out of that school. And you so disappointed and embarrassed, you ain't even told nobody. It's been six years. And you acting like you got your degree and ain't no degree. You won't even talk about it. You won't even share your testimony, because in the middle of the crash out, you did not catch the correction. The problem is, you weren't even supposed to go to that school anyway. You followed somebody there. That was not God. And so he let that fall through to teach you something. And you ain't even. You haven't even stepped back to examine. Could I have missed something? Is God going to use this? Okay, today I got to show you two people who were in the middle of a situation that was a crash out situation and how God tried to use the situation, and in the middle of it, he tried to correct them. And there were two different responses to the correction and how one of them ended up differently than the other because of watch how they Caught the correction. Simon Peter, y' all remember him, the one who walked on water. The one who was told like, man, that revelation that didn't come from you, I'm gonna build my church on you. Like Simon Peter, let me tell you about him. Simon Peter was a crash out. He had a whole bunch of situations happen in his walk that was like, man, we gotta get this dude under control. He is impulsively moving by his emotions. One of the greatest examples of this is found in Matthew 26, verse 50, when Jesus had just finished praying in the garden of Gethsemane. And now Judas had sold Jesus out. And they're coming now to pick Jesus up so that they can take him to the corner cross. Matthew chapter 26, verse 50. This is where we pick up. Jesus replied to the people, do what you came to do. Do what you got to do, my friend. He's talking to the people who are coming to take him out. And Jesus replied, do your thing, man. Then a man stepped forward to seize Jesus and arrest him. Once that happened, one of Jesus companions p dog reached for his sword, drew it out, shank, shank, shank. And he struck the servant of the most high, cutting off his ear.
