Podcast Summary: "The Bush is Back w/ Stella Barey & Rudy Jules"
Trash Tuesday w/ Esther Povitsky & Khalyla Kuhn
Release Date: August 12, 2025

Introduction

In this episode of "Trash Tuesday," hosts Esther Povitsky and Khalyla Kuhn welcome returning guests Stella Berry and Rudy Jules Posner. The conversation delves deep into personal experiences with sexuality, mental health, and the evolving dynamics of the sex industry. The episode offers an unfiltered look into topics often deemed taboo, providing listeners with raw insights and relatable anecdotes.

Understanding STDs: Urea Plasma and Mycoplasma

Stella Berry opens up about her struggles with misunderstood and under-tested sexually transmitted infections (STIs), specifically urea plasma and mycoplasma.

• Stella Berry: "I was on the edge when I was getting UTIs, like, every two weeks. Yeah, I was." (09:08)
• Jules Posner: "It's a little bit more of our unmasked version of ourselves, and I think it's our best work." (02:31)

Stella explains how traditional tests often miss these infections, leading to chronic discomfort and recurrent UTIs. She emphasizes the importance of proper testing methods, such as urethral swabs, to accurately diagnose these conditions.

• Stella Berry: "Urine tests don't really work. They're not accurate." (11:52)
• Jules Posner: "So, it's technically an STI. You have to treat your partner for it." (11:55)

The discussion highlights the lack of awareness and routine testing for these STIs, urging listeners to seek comprehensive testing if they experience persistent symptoms.

Sexual Practices and Personal Experiences

The conversation takes an intimate turn as Stella and Jules share their personal experiences with anal sex, fluid exchange, and the physical and emotional aspects involved.

• Stella Berry: "I'm so sorry. Why do I have to start?" (06:38)
• Annie Lederman: "You're our nanny. You can't hate kids." (62:43)

They discuss the boundaries they've set in their sexual practices to maintain safety and consent, opening up about awkward and humorous moments that arise from navigating these intimate acts.

Building Hidden.com: Revolutionizing the Sex Industry

Stella Berry details her venture into creating Hidden.com, a sex worker-owned platform aimed at providing better monetization and support for performers amidst increasing censorship and competition from large companies.

• Stella Berry: "I started building a porn platform called hidden.com." (17:19)
• Jules Posner: "You're the person to sort of really lead this charge because you have lived it." (29:38)

She emphasizes the platform's unique features, such as a "For You" page akin to TikTok and a storefront for seamless content sales, aiming to empower sex workers by giving them control over their content and earnings.

• Stella Berry: "We have the best chargeback protection so people can't buy your content and refund." (29:33)

The discussion also touches on the looming threat of AI in the sex industry and the necessity for platforms like Hidden.com to safeguard performers' likenesses and rights.

Relationships and Mental Health: Stella's Journey with Bipolar Disorder

Stella opens up about her tumultuous four-year relationship with a partner suffering from bipolar disorder, highlighting the emotional toll and the eventual need to end the relationship for her well-being.

• Stella Berry: "I have to end this. I can't let those people in my life." (38:28)
• Jules Posner: "You're so clear on the fact that you're gonna take you for what you are." (43:32)

She discusses the manipulation and codependency that plagued the relationship, emphasizing the importance of recognizing red flags and prioritizing one's mental health over toxic relationships.

• Stella Berry: "He was harassing my family. I was making him so codependent." (39:52)

Hormones and Their Impact: Lexapro, PMDD, and Pregnancy

The hosts and guests delve into the profound effects of hormones on mental health, particularly focusing on Lexapro, Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD), and the hormonal fluctuations during pregnancy and postpartum periods.

• Stella Berry: "Knowing that I'm capable when I was on Lexapro because anxiety didn't cloud me anymore." (47:50)
• Jules Posner: "When I was pregnant, I loved the way my mind operated." (51:15)

Stella shares her experiences with Lexapro and how switching to birth control pills alleviated her PMDD symptoms, leading to a more stable mental state without the side effects of reduced libido.

• Stella Berry: "I got off my Lex recently because I finally got on birth control pills so I don't ovulate anymore." (48:04)

The discussion extends to postpartum depression, with Jules and Stella expressing the extreme anxiety and depressive states that can follow childbirth, highlighting the need for greater awareness and support for new mothers.

• Jules Posner: "My therapist says those scenarios aren't just scenarios. They become whole movies in your head." (58:28)
• Stella Berry: "Life is not the avoidance of suffering. Suffering is what makes life valuable." (65:29)

Closing Thoughts

The episode concludes with reflections on personal growth, the importance of setting boundaries, and the continuous journey towards mental and emotional well-being. Stella and Jules encourage listeners to prioritize their health, seek support when needed, and remain vigilant in recognizing unhealthy relationship patterns.

Notable Quotes

• Stella Berry: "We're just 2 S.L.U.G.S (Sexy Little Ugly Girls) unloading their trauma, intrusive thoughts and wild takes for all the sluggies out there to love, hate or relate." (00:00)
• Jules Posner: "I have a hair care brand that I'm really proud. It is hyper clean, reef safe, Incredible top. Incredible." (03:29)
• Stella Berry: "Youth is wasted on the young. 'Cause you are so capable and there's so much you can do and you just will never realize it until you have wisdom." (61:39)

Conclusion

"The Bush is Back" offers a candid and comprehensive exploration of intimate and often stigmatized topics, blending personal storytelling with insightful discussions. Stella Berry and Jules Posner's openness provides valuable perspectives on navigating the complexities of sexual health, mental well-being, and the evolving landscape of the sex industry.

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