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You're listening to the Travis Makes Money podcast presented by GoHighLevel.com for a free 30 day trial of the best all in one digital marketing software tool on the planet, just go to gohighlevel.com Travis, you're not behind, you're just early. That is the topic of today's show. I am your host, Travis Chappell. This is one of our solo shows here on the Travis Makes Money podcast where we talk mainly just, just me, you, just me and you and the mic, of course. But today we're talking about you're not behind, you're just early. This is a message that I've needed to hear a couple of times throughout my life. Because if you are anything like me and you are somebody who wants more out of life, then you can tend to get into this trap that says that you're behind that, you know, because you can find like four examples of people on the Internet who are better off than you, means that you're just a failure and you're just really bad at what you do, you know, and you may as well, you may as well throw in the towel now because it's going to be a long journey of failing ahead of you. And I've definitely felt like that several times throughout my career. But you're not, you're not behind. You're just early. And what I've noticed as a couple of things about this, which of course we're going to talk about, but really what I've noticed here is that especially if you want to do like big things with your life, you're going to have to make a bunch of sacrifices at the beginning. And those sacrifices can basically make it seem like you are not progressing. That's what makes it difficult is the lack of progression. It's like you, you're doing all the work, you're, you're making all the sacrifices. You know, you're putting in late nights, you're working, quote, unquote, working overtime without getting paid for it. You know, you're working your, your 9 to 5 and then you're working from 8pm to midnight working on what you really want to be working on. Maybe you're doing it a coffee shop or you're leaving your family to go to a Denny's and sit down. I don't know why Denny's for me has been like a productivity place. Probably stems from the fact that like when I was in college, I wasn't much of a, much of a. I wasn't a partier at all because I was in Bible college and literally get kicked out. If you got caught drinking or smoking or gambling or cussing or any of those things, having sex, they'd kick you off for any of those things. So I wasn't, I wasn't a partier at all in college. And so Denny's was like the place that we'd go hang out. It was also the place where I got the majority of my studying done. Cause I, I like being like. When I'm studying or, or, or working on something, I like being in a place that has bus rather than if it's like midnight and I'm sitting at my kitchen table and the house is dark and it's. And it's come and it's too late, nobody's up, nothing's happening. I am way more tempted to go lay down and go to sleep. Whereas at a Denny's, people are there and walking around and busy. And yeah, half of them are homeless and the other half are drunk and recovering from the club there's. That went to. But it's a good place. So anyway, you might find yourself in a Denny's at midnight working on a side project or maybe learning a new skill, right? Like taking an online course and trying to learn how to run Facebook ads or something like that. And during that time period, it feels bad because you're making all of the sacrifices and you're not seeing any of the results. And so this is why it feels like you're behind. Because you look at other people who are your age, maybe other people that you graduated school with, whether that's high school or college, and maybe they just, they just, you know, you. You have one friend who just went out and got a job and they just started working and they are making 60, $70,000 a year, and they use their free cash flow to go buy toys. They got a brand new truck and they got this boat that they just bought, or they have whatever, a motorcycle or a dirt bike or something like that. And you start. They start upgrading the new house that they just bought and all this other stuff. And you start looking at that and you go, well, I'm still, you know, living with three roommates and just trying to dump all the money that I make back into myself so that I can learn how to make more money. And you, you. And like, I'm still driving this piece of crap car and I can't eat at the restaurants they're eating at. And you just start getting really down on yourself, man. You start feeling like, well, I'm not, I'm not going anywhere. Why is this? You know, I'm the one that's like pursuing this other version of success and, but I'm the one who's not getting any of it. And that can, that can feel really bad. And I, like I said, trust me, I've been there where I've, you know, even when I first started making some money in door to door when I was, when I was younger, in my like early 20s, I had, even during college it's like I had friends who would, who were buying, you know, brand new Mustangs and stuff like that and I was driving an old beat up truck with 200000 miles on it and I really wanted to go get a nice car, but I just wouldn't allow myself to do it. But I saved up and bought my first house.
