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Healthy food and healthy living. Visit azurestandard.com that's a Z U R E standard.com foreign and welcome back to True Crime. Kendall ray. It is 2025. Here we are. Cannot believe it. That number just sounds insane. Does is anyone else still just living in like 2020? I mean, mentally I feel like I'm in like 2018. But anyway, welcome back. I hope you guys all had a nice holiday and if you are new to the show, welcome. I'm happy to have you here. So guys, today we are jumping in for with a case that was requested on my members only request form and I started looking into it and it's one of those cases where I thought it was going one way and I was pretty confident about that. And then as I learned more and more details, it completely shifted. I don't want to give anything away so I'm going to jump right in here. But this is definitely a case that needs more awareness. More people should know about Nicole's story and what she went through at the end of her life. It is just so tragic. Nicole seemed like an awesome person. She was a mother and she was a great mother. And the fact that her children have to live the rest of their lives without her is. I don't even have words for that. Before I jump into her case though, I wanted to thank each and every one of you from the bottom of my heart who participated in our holiday matching program raising funds for my foundation, Higher Hope. We were able to raise quite a bit and then of course we matched it and this is all going to go towards projects and grants for the upcoming year. So really appreciate that. If you are interested in making a donation, you can do so@higher hope.org and we are super, super grateful. But let's go ahead and get into Nicole's case. And I want to start out, as I always do, by telling you more about who she was. So most of the time, Nicole went by Nikki. And she was born on March 29, 1995, to her parents, Steve and Vicki. And she was raised just outside of Green Bay, Wisconsin, alongside her three siblings. She had one sister, Heather, and then two brothers as well, Brent and Brandon. And she's been described as a very loving and incredibly intelligent person. Like I said, she's a mother. She's also a daughter, sister, and friend. And she was so, so very loved. After graduating from Denmark High school back in 2003, Nikki went on to attend the University of Wisconsin, Green Bay, where she earned her bachelor's degree in both science and education. And with her degree, she was able to pursue her passion in life, which was helping others and making an impact on them. So what better career field for her to be in than education? Nikki was a teacher. She ended up becoming a substitute science teacher for the Green Bay Area public school system, where she made a huge impact on so many students. And I'm sure that we can all agree from experience that the best teachers out there are the ones who truly care about the subject matter, are passionate about what they're teaching and also passionate about their students. And that was Nikki 100. She was the type of person that didn't just show up and do the job. She genuinely loved it. And she helped her students get excited about what they were learning about. She especially loved biology. And this was such a fun little detail to learn about her. But a friend of hers said that whenever they would go on runs together, Nikki would actually just recite the periodic table. I mean, that's how into it she was. One student said that she was the kind of teacher who actually cared about her students succeeding, and not just in the classroom, but in life. And I love that that's how she's remembered by so many. But aside from teaching, Nikki's biggest passion and greatest joy in life was definitely being a mother. She actually became a mom in a previous marriage to two children, a son and a daughter. And she loved her kids with every bone in her body. Family was definitely the most important thing to her, and that really reflected in every decision that she made. And since she was such an active person and loved being outdoors, loved nature, she loved doing those types of things with her kids. And so she especially loved taking them to the zoo, to the park, anything where they were going to get outside and build lifelong memories together. And those are the Types of memories that she was hoping to make with her third child. In January of 2015, Nikki was ready to start dating again. And like so many people out there, she wanted to find someone to share her life with. Her friends say that she was super spontaneous and that type of person who was just down for whatever. She was literally someone who would go skydiving, which is so cool. I'm so afraid of heights, I don't think I could ever do it. But it really does sound like the most incredible experience. But that's the type of person Nikki was. She was willing to take these chances, willing to experience anything in life. So when she started looking for someone to date, finding someone who's also like that was very important to her. And pretty quickly, she ended up meeting 33 year old Doug Dietri, who she thought might be a great partner for her. But their relationship didn't really follow the, you know, typical timeline because just a few weeks into dating, Nikki found out that she was pregnant. And whether or not he was ready to settle down, they had a child on the way. And so it was time for him to get serious, which he seemed to do. Nikki moved in with him, and when she had custody of her two older kids, they would stay there too. But he didn't really seem to be as ready for family life as he said he was. And during this episode, I'll be sharing text messages with you that will really paint that picture, make what I just said make a little bit more sense. But basically their relationship was not a very healthy one because of the way that Doug treated her. And I will continue to break that down and what that means as we go on here. But that brings us to May 20th of 2016. It was a Friday night, and a group of Doug's friends convinced him and Nikki that they should go out with them. They had already had their son. It had actually been about six or seven months since their son was born. And they were, you know, ready for a fun night out for a change. Their other two kids were with their dad for the night. So in the beginning of the night, her mom watched the baby, and then eventually her friend Dallas came over and watched the baby the rest of the time that they were out. So this group of Doug's friends ended up going to this place called the Watering Hole. And it's like a bar, music hall type situation all in one. Bands will book gigs there on the weekend. And that night in particular, Steel Panther was playing. And based off what we know from the reporting on this case, that night started out completely normal. Nikki sent a selfie of her and Doug to Dallas, the friend of hers that was babysitting that night. And by everyone's recollection, everyone was doing okay. But around 11pm when the band finished their set, things took a turn as everyone is ushering out of the concert area. Nikki and Doug end up getting separated. And to some extent, I understand this, it can be very chaotic at the end of a show like this, especially in a bar scene. But instead of making any type of effort to find Nikki and go with the rest of the group to the next bar that they were going to, Doug ended up staying behind with one other friend and he basically said that he went to the bathroom and then when he got out of the bathroom, everyone except for this one friend was gone. And so they went to leave, but then they ended up running into some old friends and decided to stay behind and have a drink with them. And Nikki was unhappy about this because reminder, she's out with all of his friends and she was hurt that he just abandoned her. Essentially, the start of the new year is a perfect time to get organized, set goals, and prioritize what matters most. And it can also be a great time of year to get your financial wellness in check. And thanks to Rocket Money, it's easier than ever. Your goals will feel achievable. They'll show you all your subscriptions in one place and help you cancel the ones you forgot about. 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So let me just read you some of the texts that she was sending him. It really paints a picture of where her mind was at. Wow, what slut are you with? Because none of your friends know. Fuck you, abusive asshole. And another one that said, you hurt me all the time. Now, that's only three texts, but there's quite a lot to unpack there. And obviously abuse is no joke. And Nikki certainly wasn't joking. In fact, I'll talk about this a little bit more as we go along here. But her friends and family did say that there was abuse in their relationship. And so that night, when Doug had ditched her, she brought it up to show him how angry she was. And it all eventually seemed to come to a boiling point when one of the girls that Nikki was with decided to call Doug herself, and she thought that maybe if she tried Doug that he would answer and it would help the situation, but it actually didn't because Nikki was like, why the fuck are you ignoring my calls? But you are answering from my friend, and I would certainly be pissed about that too. So at that point, Nikki decided that she had enough and she ended up leaving the bar. There's actually surveillance footage that shows her leaving out the back gate, and you can actually see that one of the guys that she was with went after her, and he was trying to convince her to come back inside, but she wanted to leave, and he felt that he couldn't stop her. After this point, there's one call between Nikki and Doug that we know of, and he basically just tells her that he's finally on his way to the Sardine can and will meet her there. But according to him, she was drunk and not making a whole lot of sense, and she was. Was obviously very angry. And I guess at one point, the friend that he was with, whose name is Greg, took the phone from him and started trying to talk to Nikki himself, but said that she either hung up or that maybe her phone had died. And then after that, that was it. Nikki was never seen or heard from again. Doug says that he and Greg did drive around looking for her, but they ultimately ended up going to the Sardine can for some drinks before finally going back home around 3am and when he got home, Dallas, the babysitter, said that she had a really weird feel. She said that she thought it was strange that Doug came home without Nikki. And I think most of us can agree that that is pretty strange. And if I were in Dallas's shoes, I would definitely think that was extremely odd too. I guess she even jokingly asked if Nikki was in the trunk of his car. And apparently he just brushed that comment off. So she sort of just had to leave and hope that her friend made it home safely that night. But she didn't. Nikki didn't come home that night, and she didn't come home later the next morning either. And next day, around 4:30pm Doug finally decides to go ahead and call 911 and report Nikki missing. And here is the audio from that call from County Public Safety. This is Therese. Yes.
