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In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad and Brittany dive into the art of connecting with other swingers. The ladies offer tips for approaching and interacting with them, without coming off as aggressive. The men share why gauging a woman’s interest is often confusing. They explore the importance of clear communication, reading signals, and advocating for yourself. They each share practical tips that will help you build genuine connections in the lifestyle.(00:00:00) Perceptions of Assertive vs Aggressive (00:09:26) Stress, anxiety, sexual tension and excitement(00:12:18) Shoot your shot (00:16:24) When assertiveness is welcomed(00:18:50) Men want it, too(00:22:06) What do you need in order to play?(00:25:47) Singles who pair up to play as couples(00:27:38) Inexperienced in the lifestyle (00:29:27) Debriefing after play sessions(00:30:10) Advocating for yourself(00:33:36) The Smudge(00:36:05) It’s different for women than men(00:38:37) An electric four-way connection(00:41:26) The majority of men in the lifestyle are respectful(00:44:13) Approaching & engaging with women(00:46:35) Signs that indicate they are not interested(00:50:58) Parting adviceWe'd love to connect with you!Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle!Available on the App Store and on Google Play.INVITE CODE: 2plus2https://peachesncream.app/Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask your questions and connect with your Two Plus Two Crew: Zack, Josie, Brad & Brittany.Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at:hello@twoplustwopodcast.com

Swingers want to have sex, but that means someone has to break the ice and initiate play. In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad and Brittany dive into pickup lines that work, building excitement after a first date, hosting unforgettable playdates, and setting the mood for a spicy foursome. From playful texting to happy hour showers, they’ll help you navigate the art of connection in the swinger lifestyle!(00:00:00) You had a first date; now what (00:05:10) Four way vs individual chats(00:06:33) Maintain the excitement(00:11:50) Great pickup line(00:13:15) Confirmation of interest is exciting! (00:15:45) Flirtatious texting & greeting(00:17:44) Capitalize on interest in the moment(00:18:31) Discussing play preferences(00:23:15) Bisensual(00:25:26) Oral and kissing(00:27:26) Breaking the ice(00:30:40) The naked man(00:34:00) So I just kissed him!(00:38:56) Rounding third; heading home(00:41:36) Consensual ass grab(00:44:22) Hosting playdates; ambience and practicality(00:47:11) Play ‘script’(00:51:56) Dirty talk; awkward or exciting?(00:53:25) Happy hour shower(00:54:54)Naked by 9:00(00:58:09) Polite, but direct(00:59:13) Is initiating play simple?(01:01:43) Who should initiate play? We'd love to connect with you!Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle!Available on the App Store and on Google Play.INVITE CODE: 2plus2https://peachesncream.app/Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask your questions and connect with your Two Plus Two Crew: Zack, Josie, Brad & Brittany.Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at:hello@twoplustwopodcast.com

Dating as a swinger couple isn’t always easy! In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad and Brittany dive into first-date challenges: remaining honest and transparent with your partner and communicating your interest to each other and your potential play partners. They discuss, in depth, how they each handle rejection, both giving and receiving and discuss ways to successfully transition to sexy playtime. Plus, Zack and Josie share a spicy story from their trip to Desire that you won’t want to miss!(00:00:00) Finding dates can be challenging(00:04:42) Naughty pictures, Flirts and Backstage Passes(00:08:30) First dates; drinks or dinner?(00:11:11) Conversation; sexy, vanilla or both?(00:14:11) Signaling interest to your partner(00:18:37) What gets Zack and Josie excited(00:20:19) Playing on the first date and expectations(00:24:10) Zack Stat(00:26:12) Rejection and disappointment(00:31:41) Transparency and honesty(00:35:58) Sexy story from Desire(00:40:33) Expectations (00:45:00) Ask for what you want(00:49:08) Transitioning after the first date(00:51:47) Initiating play; Sex or no sex We'd love to connect with you!Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle!Available on the App Store and on Google Play.INVITE CODE: 2plus2https://peachesncream.app/Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask your questions and connect with your Two Plus Two Crew: Zack, Josie, Brad & Brittany.Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at:hello@twoplustwopodcast.com

Ready to spice up your travel plans? In this episode, we dive into the exciting world of travel for swingers! From planning sexy getaways and prepping for epic theme nights to packing tips and travel hacks, we’ve got everything you need to make your next trip unforgettable. Plus, we’re sharing behind-the-scenes details on Peaches'nCream—the hottest new app for swingers to post, chat, and connect. Don’t miss out on the fun, the tips, and all the juicy details that make lifestyle travel extraordinary! (00:00:00) Lifestyle travel; no filters(00:06:13) Decompression to enjoy vacation(00:09:56) Lifestyle travel with friends(00:14:31) Preparing for lifestyle travel(00:17:37) Connecting with other couples beforehand(00:29:31) Why Zack created Peaches’nCream(00:25:51) Spicy vs vanilla(00:29:19) Join your Two Plus Two Crew(00:31:31) Shopping and planning for theme nights(00:36:28) Advice for the guys(00:41:44) Favorite theme nights (00:44:43) Travel and packing hacks from Josie(00:46:57) Deciding what to wear(00:48:55) You’re not overpacking(00:51:06) Packing your ‘go’ bag(00:52:28) Hair ties and blow jobs(00:54:33) Perfect trip length(00:57:25) Parting adviceWe'd love to connect with you!Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle!Available on the App Store and on Google Play.INVITE CODE: 2plus2https://peachesncream.app/Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask your questions and connect with your Two Plus Two Crew: Zack, Josie, Brad & Brittany.Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at:hello@twoplustwopodcast.com

In this bonus episode, Brad and Brittany spill all the juicy details from their recent trip to Costa Rica. From Brittany getting "caught with her hand in the cookie jar" to a spontaneous separate play session and a steamy threesome while Big Texas whipped up dinner, this episode is packed with fun, laughter, and unforgettable moments!(00:00:00) We popped their cherry(00:03:57) Brittany got caught with her hand in the cookie jar(00:05:22) ‘Desire Costa Rica’ (00:07:35) Spontaneous separate play(00:13:07) Unequal experiences (00:15:25) Fairness in the lifestyle (00:17:05) Fear and insecurity(00:19:19) Dinner prep and sex(00:21:20) Porn dinner theater(00:23:53) Lifestyle adjacent; mind blowing sex(00:27:17) Sex everywhere; anywhere(00:28:55) Naughty & Noteworthy We'd love to connect with you!Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle!Available on the App Store and on Google Play.INVITE CODE: 2plus2https://peachesncream.app/Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask your questions and connect with your Two Plus Two Crew: Zack, Josie, Brad & Brittany.Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at:hello@twoplustwopodcast.com

Every swinger couple has a story—a spark that lit the flame. It's actually one of the most common questions swingers are asked when meeting other swingers..."So how did you get into the lifestyle?"In other words, what's your origin story. Who brought up the idea of the lifestyle? How did their partner react? Was it an instant 'yes,' or a journey full of questions and challenges?In this episode, we’re getting personal. Zack and Josie, along with Brad and Brittany, are sharing the raw, unfiltered stories of how they each started their lifestyle journeys—and the bumps they hit along the way.(00:00:00) Segment One: Caught up in the moment(00:04:32) I kissed a girl and I liked it(00:10:43) Accidental Soft Swap (00:13:59) Like getting caught by your parents (00:15:06) That was HOT…how do I tell my husband? (00:20:29) Brad & Brittany’s intentional entry into the lifestyle(00:23:19) Segment Two: The lifestyle…round two(00:26:28) Overcoming shame(00:30:48) Sex becomes routine (00:34:01) Be curious, vulnerable and explore(00:37:47) The lifestyle, as a vanilla couple(00:42:11) Lifestyle couples are respectful(00:45:35) Desire opened up conversations about the lifestyleWe'd love to connect with you!Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle!Available on the App Store and on Google Play.INVITE CODE: 2plus2https://peachesncream.app/Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask your questions and connect with your Two Plus Two Crew: Zack, Josie, Brad & Brittany.Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at:hello@twoplustwopodcast.comRecommendedCome as You Are by Emily Nagoski Ph.D.

Friends with benefits or one-night stands? In this episode, we dive into the pros and cons of one & done, hit it and quit it, one night stands...whatever you want to call it versus friends with benefits.Your Two Plus Two Crew, Zack, Josie, Brad & Brittany, share their personal experiences and how they’ve shaped their views on swinging, intimacy and connection. Join us for candid insights, laughter, and honest reflections on navigating relationships and exploring what may work for you.(00:00:00) Swingers in the Wild(00:06:19) Friends with benefits vs one and done(00:08:43) Looking for a circle of friends(00:09:35) Segment 1: One and done(00:11:50) Circumstances influence when we play (00:16:55) We had sex but won’t be friends(00:18:46) Your partner has sexual chemistry with someone else(00:25:32) One and done and two and through(00:28:43) Two Plus Two crew play(00:33:01) Friends first; sex second?(00:38:24) Sex or no sex?(00:42:22) Cockbocked(00:45:13) Segment 2: Friends with benefits(00:49:54) Comfort in friendships(00:53:17) Exceptions to needing a connection(00:58:13) I shook his penis, ‘hello’We'd love to connect with you!Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle!Available on the App Store and on Google Play.INVITE CODE: 2plus2https://peachesncream.app/Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask your questions and connect with your Two Plus Two Crew: Zack, Josie, Brad & Brittany.Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at:hello@twoplustwopodcast.com

Ever wondered about the 'levels' in swinging? From soft swap to full swap, hall passes to playing separately, and even rules about kissing—every couple has their own boundaries. In this episode, we dive into this fascinating spectrum, share our own personal 'levels,' and speculate about those who take it further. How do your rules compare? Tune in to find out!(00:00:00) Segment 1: Lifestyle Levels(00:01:02) Full swap ‘situational’(00:03:03) Lifestyle terms(00:05:10) Hot soft swap story(00:11:25) Zack’s first lifestyle orgasm(00:14:22) The no kissing rule(00:16:50) Comfort level(00:17:43) They’re ‘situational’...now what?(00:20:47) Exclusive to your partnership(00:23:08) Cum is like a box of chocolates(00:24:52) Segment 2: Same vs. Separate rooms(00:26:12) Adjusting boundaries in the moment(00:31:29) You can’t anticipate everything(00:33:20) ‘Same room situational’ (00:35:00) Josie won’t play separately(00:40:09) Possible exceptions for separate play(00:42:37) Segment 3: Hall passes(00:44:56) Celebrity hall passes (00:47:08) 4-way connections & hall pass vacations(00:49:08) Safety concerns(00:50:38) Trust and grace(00:51:53) Envy (FOMO)(00:52:06) She’s a 10; he’s a 6(00:53:54) Lifestyle veterans(00:55:01) We’re vampiresWe'd love to connect with you!Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle!Available on the App Store and on Google Play.INVITE CODE: 2plus2https://peachesncream.app/Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask your questions and connect with your Two Plus Two Crew: Zack, Josie, Brad & Brittany.Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at:hello@twoplustwopodcast.com

From Brad’s pornstar fantasy to Brittany’s spider monkey move; we dive into our favorite parts of the body, of sex, and the lifestyle; some may surprise you. We discuss theme nights, confidence, communication, and the anxiety of dating in the lifestyle. We explore lifestyle vs vanilla friendships, domination, and more—this one’s a wild ride.(00:00:00) Segment 1: Favorite body parts(00:02:32) All the things a mouth can do (00:03:57) Boobs are best(00:07:10) How big is too big?(00:10:52) Josie cheats on the assignment(00:15:50) Dominate us!(00:19:44) Pushing vs pulling(00:22:22) Brad sets a scene that makes Josie hot(00:23:22) Segment 2: Favorite part of sex(00:28:49) Brad’s porn star fantasy (00:33:40) Dirty Talk(00:35:19) Brittany’s spider monkey move(00:37:38) Cock: I want it, I need it(00:41:53) Penetrative sex; the beginning of the end(00:43:17) Segment 3: Lifestyle favorites(00:43:41) Brittany, the hunter(00:47:16) If a cock was a roller coaster(00:48:30) Lifestyle vs vanilla friendships(00:49:39) From sex to Costa Rica(00:51:05) The lifestyle without sex(00:52:44) Zack stat(00:54:55) Theme parties, confidence and feeling sexy(00:57:25) The ladies like attention(00:59:19) When vanillas dress slutty(01:00:46) Our job interview(01:04:35) Is conservative sexy?We'd love to connect with you!Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle!Available on the App Store and on Google Play.INVITE CODE: 2plus2https://peachesncream.app/Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask your questions and connect with your Two Plus Two Crew: Zack, Josie, Brad & Brittany.Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at:hello@twoplustwopodcast.com

Does size matter? You may be surprised by our answers as we share some real life experiences to drive our point home. We also discuss erectile dysfunction and performance anxiety from both the male and female perspective. Finally, we share our opinions about condom use and whether most people we’ve met recently agree or disagree with us.(00:00:00) Segment 1: Does size matter?(00:03:14) Meat gazing(00:05:27) Brad & Zack get excited(00:06:17) Getting Josie into bed(00:07:58) Zack meat gazes(00:08:45) Brad’s penis envy(00:12:38) Average is better(00:17:56) Doggy style(00:19:53) Average guys try harder(00:21:26) Segment 2: ED and performance anxiety(00:22:13) CBD gummies(00:24:40) Dick shots(00:26:22) The brain and the dick disagree(00:27:44) Managing and Overcoming ED(00:42:02) Segment 3: Condoms(00:42:20) Terrorist abduction(00:44:55) Unprotected sex; oral and penetrative(00:45:16) Cross pollination(00:47:48) Vaginal health(00:48:37) Stigma around condoms(00:50:24) Ditching condoms?(00:53:25) Condoms suck (00:57:03) Hard vs Trimix hardWe'd love to connect with you!Create your own FREE account on Peaches'nCream, the new social media app for your lifestyle!Available on the App Store and on Google Play.INVITE CODE: 2plus2https://peachesncream.app/Join the Two Plus Two Podcast Group on Peaches'nCream to see our exclusive photos, post your comments, ask your questions and connect with your Two Plus Two Crew: Zack, Josie, Brad & Brittany.Email us your thoughts, comments and ideas at:hello@twoplustwopodcast.com