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Episode: By Order of the Faithfuls: From Laguna Beach to Scotland w/ Stephen Colletti
Date: January 23, 2026
Guest: Stephen Colletti
Special Segment Hosts: Wells Adams & Dolores Catania (By Order of the Faithfuls)
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Episode Overview

This episode features Stephen Colletti—known originally for MTV’s Laguna Beach and later One Tree Hill, now a key contestant on Season 4 of The Traitors. The discussion navigates Stephen’s TV evolution, experiences on The Traitors, reality TV culture, and behind-the-scenes insights, with hosts Wells Adams and Dolores Catania probing both the personal and strategic sides of reality game play.

Main Discussion Points & Insights

1. Personal Updates and Keeping Life Private

• Stephen announces his first child is on the way ([03:22])
  • Staying low-key: No public gender reveal planned.
  • "We just want to make sure, you know, Alex is doing well... focus on the health... it’s our first go,” - Stephen ([04:07]).
• Private wedding ethos: Immediate family, civil ceremony, pizza after, then celebrated in France ([05:00]).
• Dolores relates, inspired to keep her own upcoming wedding small and private ([05:40]).

2. Parenting & Reality TV

• Would Stephen let his child do reality TV? ([06:11])
  • Advises having "a five-year, ten-year plan... the business doesn't have time for [idleness]... you gotta be a hustler." ([06:18])
  • "You're going to get in the washing machine that is Hollywood and it'll spit you out when it wants to." - Stephen ([06:18])

3. Stephen’s Career: From Reality to Scripted Television

• Preference: Enjoys "scripted" more than reality but values both ([08:29]).
• On Laguna Beach casting: Senior year, ready not to care about high school opinions, but faced real skepticism from friends ([09:28]).
  • Noted the unique blend of opportunity and challenge as reality stars crossed into the acting world ([10:00]).

Notable Quote

“Early on, I had a lot given to me because I was on Laguna Beach. That was not deserved. We were plucked from complete obscurity and thrown on the show into MTV when MTV was near its peak… But I’m proud to say... I’ve grinded through it… It’s been good to me.”
—Stephen ([10:43])

4. Returning to Reality: Why The Traitors?

• Assured he’d never do another personal-life-centered reality show after MTV’s editing left him “scarred,” but competition reality felt different and compelling ([11:34]).

5. Dynamics in The Traitors: Housewife Energy

• Meeting the Housewives: “Fully intimidated. Are you kidding me? ...These are reality TV vets. Big personalities.” ([14:04])
• On respect for Housewives and reality stars who are often looked down on by trained actors ([15:11]).

Notable Quote

“People would say it’s like this is the deathbed of the art… Even those jobs, I’ve… read about the schedules for Housewives… it’s a full-time job.”
—Stephen ([15:11])

6. Traitors Game Talk: Strategy, Personalities & Group Dynamics

• Why faithful? Did he want to be a traitor?

  • "I wanted to be a Faithful. I did not want to go and try to lie the whole time and have to carry… the weight." ([20:52])
  • Was open to being recruited as a traitor but felt he’d make it further as a Faithful ([21:35]).

• Strategy:

  • Stand out in missions: “If there’s one thing the Traitors and Faithfuls can agree on... it’s getting that prize fund as high as possible and they’re going to like the people that are good at the mission.” ([22:09])
  • Observational at first, let louder voices “bury themselves” ([23:36]).

• Michael Rapaport’s role

  • Michael’s overbearing persona and eating habits become highlight moments ([25:49]).
  • “He was being so loud... you can’t be a traitor because you’d just be the worst traitor.” ([29:10])

• Voting and Emotional Fallout

  • Difficult to vote out Faithfuls; self-doubt grows with each misfire ([35:10]).
  • “It was emotional for me… the Tiffany vote was emotional for me… pulls at the heartstrings” ([35:51]).

• Advice for future contestants

  • Listen, observe early, speak up at the right time: “Make sure you speak up… show the Faithfuls you are trying...” ([38:28]).

Notable Quotes

“There’s so many different curveballs, you have to be ready in real time to react to them... you could play the game 100 times and have 100 different outcomes.”
—Stephen ([37:41])

7. Editing, Airtime, and Scenes the Audience Misses

• Not all drama or fun makes it to air; often huge chunks left out, especially lengthy confrontations at the roundtable ([53:37]).
• Stephen shares relief that some embarrassing moments didn't make the cut, but recalls a tense roundtable where laughter surprisingly broke the tension ([56:45]).

8. Speculation and Insider Baseball

• Who’s getting screen-time, who isn’t? Johnny’s fun personality isn’t as visible as expected—possible sign he lasts longer ([50:28]).
• Strategy tip: Sometimes, early episode screen time means early exit ([52:42]).

9. Looking Forward: The Faithfuls' Comeback

• Tease for the rest of the season: “The Traitors have had their way… but they can’t kick ass forever. The Faithfuls are coming for them.” ([57:18])

• Would Stephen return for an All-Star season?

  • “100%. The game was so much fun. I had an absolute blast… Be fun to go back and see if we ran it back, how would I do?” ([57:43])

Timestamps for Key Segments

• [03:22] – Stephen’s baby/pregnancy news
• [05:00] – Low-key wedding and being private
• [06:11] – Advice for would-be reality TV children
• [08:29] – Preference for scripted vs. reality
• [14:04] – Meeting/intimidation by Housewives
• [20:52] – Choosing to be a Faithful, not a Traitor
• [22:09] – Strategy entering The Traitors
• [23:36] – How observation factored into his game
• [25:49] – Michael Rapaport moments & roundtable drama
• [29:10] – Voting out loud/annoying Faithfuls
• [35:10] – Emotional cost of mis-voting
• [38:28] – Game advice for future players
• [50:28] – On who gets less screen time vs. game length
• [56:45] – What happened off-camera/not shown
• [57:18] – Teasing Faithfuls’ comeback
• [57:43] – Would he return for an All-Stars edition?

Memorable Quotes

• “You’re going to get in the washing machine that is Hollywood and it’ll spit you out when it wants to. Not when you choose to or how you choose to.” —Stephen Colletti ([06:18])
• “People would say it’s like this is the deathbed of the art…” —Stephen Colletti ([15:11])
• “I wanted to go and try to lie… I wasn’t sure how I’d handle the weight of being a trader.” —Stephen Colletti ([20:52])
• “There’s no single way…this is the strategy that will win you the game. Depending on the personalities…the outcome always changes.” —Stephen Colletti ([37:41])
• “The Traitors have had their way with the Faithfuls so far…They can’t kick ass forever. The Faithfuls are coming for them.” —Stephen Colletti ([57:18])

The Tone & Takeaways

The conversation is candid, encouraging, at times irreverent but nostalgic, as all three—Wells, Dolores, and Stephen—relate as reality show veterans. Stephen is grounded and self-aware, keenly dissecting both the mechanics and emotions underlying competition reality TV. Whether you’re a Traitors superfan or enjoy thoughtful industry insight, this episode is an inside look at strategy, fame, and self-preservation in the modern reality TV gauntlet.