Two T's in a Pod (Dirty Rush Special):

"NO ONE TOLD ME THERE WOULD BE SINGING"

Release Date: February 21, 2026
Podcast: Two Ts In A Pod
Host(s): Episode hostless; special panel compilation

Episode Overview

This unique hostless episode of Dirty Rush dives deep into one of the most surprising, quirky, and unspoken traditions of sorority life: singing. Assembled is a candid, multi-generational, multi-sorority panel (the “secret panel”), each with personal stories, favorite (and not-so-favorite) songs, and honest accounts of what it’s really like to live through endless rounds of porch songs, ritual chants, and late-night initiation serenades. Unfiltered, funny, and sometimes bittersweet, this conversational episode pulls back the curtain on why singing is such a serious—and controversial—part of the rush and sorority experience.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

The Surprise and Culture Shock of Sorority Singing

• Singing as Fundamental: Many new members are shocked at how central singing is, especially during rush and chapter meetings.

  "People are shook to their core when you mention singing at a sorority. Like, it really throws people off...What do you mean porch songs?" – Dirty Rush Host (03:04)

• Songs Across Houses Differ and Surface Rivalries: Multiple sororities from different backgrounds are represented, each with distinct anthems, percussive snapping, and competitive engagement.

Iconic Songs and Chants: A Mini Sorority Songbook

Pi Beta Phi ("Pi Phi")

• Boom Boom Song

  "Boom, boom I want to be a Pi Beta Phi Boom, boom and honey, that ain't no lie..." – Producer D (04:49)

• Prep Song

  "Take a little golden arrow, Take a little wine and blue..." – Producer D (05:22)

• Pi Phis often sang these at the very start of Rush, making them core to the recruitment ritual.

Kappa Kappa Gamma ("Kappa")

• Initiation and Call-and-Response

  "Knocking, knocking, who is there? Waiting, waiting, Kappa fair." – Madame W (08:10)

  • Performed on opposite sides of a door during initiation, heightening secret society vibes.
• Song Variety and Internal Differences
  • Each chapter/school may do different songs; not all Kappas recognize every tune.
  • Colors are "blue and blue" (dark and light blue); running joke among Kappas.
• Modern Adaptations
  • TikTok “Kappa Rap” has gone viral and become a new tradition in some chapters.

  "It's on TikTok. The TikTok sound. It's like, cute and intellectual. These girls are exceptional...So Kappa's what I nominate." – Madame W (34:46)

Alpha Phi & Kappa Alpha Theta (Mother-Daughter Panel)

• Theta’s “Be A Cat” Song (KAT)

  "It's hip. To be a cat, to be a cat, to be a cat. Go. Theta, Theta, Theta, Theta, Theta. And it just. You just say that over and over again. No originality, no other lyrics..." – Daughter (19:31)

• The Infamous “Damn, Damn” Initiation Chant (Alpha Phi)

  "Damn, damn. Some damn just stole my man. I'll find another F better than the other F. Damn. Damn." – Mother, Alpha Phi (21:06)

  • Marked as “iconic” and surprising coming from a mom; reflects the intensity of older, more risqué traditions.

Delta Gamma (DG)

• Traditional Recruitment Song

  "Gamma Sisterhood. Eternally love. Loving, caring, happily sharing. Anchors of gold." – Delta Gamma Member (27:14)

• DG Dream Girl Song

  "I have found my dream girl, she's as sweet as she can be...Delta Gamma dream girl. You are the only one for me." – Delta Gamma Member (35:43)

Rule Changes: The War on Dancing and Porch Songs

• New Restrictions: Recent security and “risk management” rules in some schools forbid dancing or performing in front of Rush participants (PNMs). Only clapping and very structured movements allowed.

  “There was a different thing this year with recruitment, where you technically weren't allowed to dance. Like you weren't allowed to do like a performance at all. So they were very strict…” – Madame W (15:53)

• Why Ban Dancing?

  • Theories relate to the rise of Bama Rush viral content and fears of “dirty rush” signals (like making eye contact, personalized dancing, or gestures that might be interpreted as favoritism).

  “If you, like, make eye contact at someone or give them, like, a gesture. Like, those things can be considered dirty rushing because it's like you directly interact with the PNM and it makes it seem like you're acknowledging them...” – Madame W (18:13)

• Porch Traditions Dying Out:

  • Once, the porch was a stage; now, singing must occur only inside, with doors firmly closed before songs begin or end.

  "I remember eventually we had to wait till the door was fully, securely closed before you could begin singing ours." – Dirty Rush Host (16:57)

The Social Side: Singing as Sisterhood, Performance, and Pressure

• The “Sing-off” Culture

  "We would have sing offs. Almost like pitch perfect. Going crazy. Then the other's going crazy. Then you go louder. Louder. Like, it must have been an absolute for the neighborhood." – Dirty Rush Host (28:34)

• Pressure to Participate

  • Not everyone is comfortable or prepared; some panelists attended rush unaware that singing would be required.

  “Day one of rush was really overwhelming with all the singing for me, because I was not prepared for it.” – Joe Winterstein (33:58)

  • Those unsure or less musical sometimes feel left out or embarrassed, especially during internal rituals.

• Personal Touch: Song Updates and “Secret” Songs

  • Girls with vocal talents often get solos or adapt songs. Some chapters “remix” pop hits into recruitment anthems (e.g., “Gotta Be” by Des'ree).

    “She changed the words to that song and just nailed it. And we had the best Rush ever.” – Mother/Daughter Panel Member (31:08)

• Humor and Memories of “Dirty” or Risqué Songs

  “I think that's the first time I've heard my mom curse in her life. That's my takeaway, like, for my sorority.” – Daughter (21:24)

  • Some songs or chants (particularly from the past) were more explicit, part of hazing or initiation rites.

The Tradition Continues (and Evolves)

• Modernization & Social Media:
  • TikTok and social media help immortalize chants, with new generations making viral remixes based on classic songs.
• Performance as Bonding:
  • Behind the embarrassment and awkwardness, singing is a formative, sometimes joyful, part of the sisterhood experience.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

Boom Boom, Pi Phi is in the House

• "Boom, boom I want to be a Pi Beta Phi Boom, boom and honey, that ain't no lie..."
  – Producer D (04:49)

Kappa Ritual Soloist

• "It's a solo. It's in a part where, like, people don't see you. So, like, you can, like, read off a card..."
  – Madame W (07:34)

Theta’s Earworm Song

• "It's hip. To be a cat, to be a cat, to be a cat. Go. Theta, Theta, Theta, Theta, Theta..."
  – Kappa Alpha Theta Daughter (19:31)

Alpha Phi’s Surprising Chant

• "Damn, damn. Some damn just stole my man. I'll find another F better than the other F. Damn. Damn."
  – Alpha Phi Mom (21:06)

Modern Recruitment Crackdowns

• "They were very strict on. You had to simply only clap and do like a very strict clap. There was no, like limited arm movements and we had to like redo a lot of like our song..."
  – Madame W (15:53)

On Feeling Alienated but Adapting

• "Day one of rush was really overwhelming with all the singing for me, because I was not prepared for it."
  – Joe Winterstein (33:58)

Viral Sorority Raps

• "It's on TikTok. The TikTok sound. It's like, cute and intellectual. These girls are exceptional and every dominate. So cap is what I nominate. Want to be on top like me? All you gotta do is go. Okay."
  – Madame W (34:46)

Closing Sing-Along

• "I have found my dream girl she's as sweet as she can be...Delta Gamma dream girl. You are the only one for me."
  – Delta Gamma Member (35:43)

Timestamps for Key Segments

• Sorority Singing: The Unspoken Truth
  [03:04] – Introduction to singing as a hidden tradition
• Pi Beta Phi Song Medley
  [04:49] – “Boom boom” song performance
  [05:22] – “Prep song” performance
• Kappa Kappa Gamma Ritual Songs
  [07:02] – "Knocking, knocking, who is there?"
  [08:10] – Details on initiation and solos
• Kappa “Blue and Blue” In-Joke
  [10:23] – Color confusion and humor
• Mother/Daughter Panel — Alpha Phi & Theta
  [19:18] – Introductions
  [19:31] – “Be a Cat” song
  [21:06] – “Damn, damn” chant
• Delta Gamma Sings from the Handbook
  [27:04] – DG recruitment and dream girl songs
• “Pitch Perfect” Battle of the Houses
  [28:34] – Stories of inter-house sing-offs
• The Ban on Dancing and Porch Songs
  [15:53] – New recruitment rules
  [16:56] – No more porch singing
  [18:13] – “Dirty Rush” signals and rule explanations
• Modern Sorority Songs & Social Media Influence
  [34:46] – TikTok Kappa rap segment
• Final Reflections & Closing Song
  [35:43] – DG “Dream Girl” performance
  [36:14] – Panel reactions and episode wrap

Episode Takeaways

• Singing is a Core Part of Sorority Life: For most members, it is both a bonding activity and a bewildering tradition, with each house having its lexicon of anthems, chants, and initiation rituals.
• Traditions Evolve: Rule changes and social media have morphed (but not eliminated) these customs, keeping song at the heart of Greek life while adapting to new scrutiny and trends.
• Humor & Humanity: Despite the awkwardness and sometimes risqué lyrics, these songs become powerful memories, jokes, and sources of nostalgia—something every former and current member can relate to.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about what really happens behind closed (and sometimes closed-then-sung-behind) doors of Greek life, or for any alumna nostalgic for her chapter’s off-key anthems and secret knocks.