Dirty Rush: PARTY GIRL

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Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

Episode: Dirty Rush: PARTY GIRL
Date: November 2, 2025
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Episode Overview

This episode dives deep into the truth about sorority date parties—unfiltered, hilarious, and a little bit shocking. Host Daisy Kent is joined by several guests, including Rosie, Kristy, and Danielle, who share candid stories from their college days. The episode explores the culture, traditions, pressures, and memorable mishaps associated with Greek life social events, focusing on the real experience behind those infamous parties: the booze, the themes, the scandals, and the sense of belonging (or lack thereof).

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Date Party Drinking Culture

• Underage Drinking and Pregaming

  • Rosie shares that freshmen and sophomores at Miami of Ohio weren't officially allowed to drink at date parties due to being under 21, but that rule was universally ignored.
  • “The little ones were always on watch, so they were usually the ones that were going the craziest.” - Rosie [03:38]
  • Pregaming—drinking hard before the party—was standard for underagers, often leading to drunkenness before the event even began.

• Signature Drinks and "Trash Can" Cocktails

  • Brick, a campus bar, was the site for many sorority parties, featuring cheap drinks.
  • Rosie describes a notorious drink called a “trash can”—a whole Red Bull plus “like six different liqueurs.”
    • “...so gross.” - Rosie [04:35]

2. Social Pressure Around Bringing Dates

• Finding a Date: Status & Speculation

  • Especially as freshmen and sophomores, immense social pressure existed to bring “the right” date; girls checked the “date doc” to see who was going with whom.
  • “It was always, like, checking... the date doc, because the girls, you would put your name and put your date next to it, and it was like, oh, like, blah, blah, is bringing him. Like, I wonder, like, if they're a thing, whatever.” - Rosie [05:32]

• Senior Year: Shift Away from Dates

  • By senior year, the pressure lifted—guys would just show up, making the parties more enjoyable for attendees.
  • “...senior year, like, we wouldn't even bring dates because our guy friends would just show up anyway. So I feel like the pressure was on to get dates when we were freshmen and sophomore years and then senior year, it was like, no one really cared.” - Rosie [05:55]

3. Sorority Standards, Oversight, and Discipline

• Strict Monitoring of Underclassmen

  • Sororities had "standards chairs" who policed party behavior, especially regarding people being too drunk.
  • “We were watched like hawks by, like, our standard chairs… if we would have, like, a drink in our hand, like, she would come up and be like, absolutely not.” - Rosie [06:43]

• Getting "Brought Into Standards" as Punishment

  • If someone was too drunk, even at non-sorority events, they could be called before the standards committee and even suspended from the next party.
  • “They were kind of... yeah, they were. And they literally sent us home. We were brought into standards the next week. We were like, suspended for a date party.” - Rosie [07:06]

4. Date Party Themes & Memorable Parties

• Popular Themes and Ambiance

  • Both sororities and fraternities created themed parties. Notable: the “Catalina Wine Festival” where everyone dressed up and “by the end of it, everyone, like, the boys would be like, completely covered in red wine, like, such a mess.” - Rosie [08:47]
  • Kristy at Mizzou recalls “Duck Calls and Overalls” (everyone donned hunting attire and denim).
  • Danielle at University of the Pacific details outrageous themed events that made national news.

• Most Notorious: Fireman’s Fling

  • Danielle shares a shocking story about a party named “Fireman’s Fling” that was so infamous, it was featured in Sports Illustrated.
    • Girls climbed out a window onto a fire truck, with frat boys “rating” them as they emerged, underwear featuring cheeky or sexual slogans.
    • “The party was super degrading, but we were so excited because it made Sports Illustrated.” - Danielle [26:35]

• Modern vs. Past Party Culture

  • Kristy notes the party scene of her college was lower-budget and less extravagant than what’s now seen on TikTok, where today’s Greek life appears highly produced and expensive.

5. Sorority Social Life, Belonging, and Cliques

• Making Friends and Finding Your Crowd

  • Kristy describes her experience feeling like an outsider coming from out-of-state to the University of Missouri, as existing friend groups dominated.
    • “So there was kind of already a lot of cliques in college.” - Kristy [13:32]
  • Living in the sorority house sophomore year was a turning point for making close friends and feeling a part of the community.

• Working Behind the Scenes

  • Kristy often worked “check-in” at date parties, sober and responsible for crowd control, which gave her a unique perspective—even involving ambulance calls or disciplinary follow-up for drunken behavior.
    • “People handing me slices of cheese.” - Kristy [15:49] (on the absurdity of drunk check-in attempts)

• Economic Divide in Sororities

  • Kristy shares a poignant moment about a pledge from a small town who sold her prize cattle to afford dues.
    • “She had to sell her like prize winning cows...it broke my heart. And I remember it to this day.” - Kristy [19:45]

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Underclassman Chaos at Parties:

  • “The little ones were always on watch, so they were usually the ones that were going the craziest.”
    – Rosie [03:38]

• On Drinking the "Trash Can":

  • “When we, like, graduated, I’m like, I cannot believe we would drink those. Like, so gross.”
    – Rosie [04:35]

• On Standards Policing:

  • “Our standards chair was like, go home right now. Like, you’re embarrassing us… we were brought into standards the next week. We were like, suspended for a date party.”
    – Rosie [07:06]

• On Date ‘Check-in’ and Sobriety Oversight:

  • “People handing me slices of cheese.”
    – Kristy [15:49]

• On Party Themes:

  • “[Catalina Wine Festival] ...by the end of it, everyone, like, the boys would be like, completely covered in red wine, like, such a mess.”
    – Rosie [08:47]

• On Social Media & Modern Recruitment:

  • “I see stuff on TikTok now... amazed at how much money ...the dances are choreographed and there’s sets and props. I don’t know what goes on.”
    – Daisy [18:37]

• On Fireman’s Fling Party:

  • “...the guys all sat on a fire truck out in front of the fraternity and they watched the girls climb out of a window on a ladder and their butts were in the air with sayings on the back that were inappropriate. And then the guys held up numbers like a gymnastics competition.”
    – Danielle [24:50]

• On Economic Struggles & Commitments:

  • “She had to sell her like prize winning cows...it broke my heart.”
    – Kristy [19:45]

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Timestamps for Important Segments

• [03:08] – Rosie begins sharing about Miami of Ohio date party traditions and drinks
• [05:32] – Social pressure and the infamous “date doc”
• [06:43] – Sorority standards enforcement and party discipline
• [08:32] – Popular party themes and the Catalina Wine Festival
• [12:25] – Kristy (University of Missouri) joins, talks about sorority life and party structure
• [15:49] – Kristy’s experience as “the check-in girl,” crowd control stories
• [17:44] – Memorable “Duck Calls and Overalls” theme
• [18:37] – Comparison between past/current sorority scenes (TikTok, money, extravagance)
• [19:45] – Cattle-selling story to cover dues—economic disparities
• [23:33] – Danielle (University of the Pacific) on the wild “Fireman’s Fling” party
• [24:50] – Details of “Fireman's Fling” and Sports Illustrated notoriety
• [26:35] – Reflection on the party’s infamous, problematic status

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Tone & Style

The conversation is candid, irreverent, and full of inside jokes, nostalgia, and commentary on how sorority life—and college party culture—has changed over the years. The hosts and guests balance humor and honesty, with moments of self-deprecation, critique of past norms, and sweet reminiscence.

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For Listeners

This recap offers an authentic peek into the real Greek party scene—messy, dramatic, funny, sometimes a little sad, and endlessly entertaining. If you ever wondered what went on behind the facade (or wondered how crazy things could get), this is your guide.

Transcript

[Host Daisy Kent]

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[Guest Kristy]

Welcome to Dirty Rush, the truth about.

[Guest Rosie]

Sorority life with your hosts, Me, Gia.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Giudice, Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. All right, guys, so we had such success talking about date parties that we wanted to do a part two. We got so many people that want to talk about the themes and the. And the alcohol and the boys and the girls of all of it. So now we have Rosie joining us. Rosie, where'd you go to school? What sorority were you in?

[Guest Rosie]

I went to Miami of Ohio and Oxford, Ohio, and I was a Delta Gamma.

[Host Daisy Kent]

All right, so. And I. I think, you know we're talking about date parties. Yes. Yeah. So tell me a little bit about what was everyone drinking at date parties? Was it always sort of a. Was it drunken madness or were they more contained your own personal experience?

[Guest Rosie]

They were definitely drunk kind of madness because we weren't allowed to drink our freshman and sophomore years at date parties because we were under the age of 21. But everyone would drink anyways. But you were. The little ones were always on watch, so they were usually the ones that were going the craziest.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Oh, so you're saying, like, the freshmen and sophomores who couldn't drink were the ones that were probably pre partying or whatever? Yeah, pregame, pre party, pre game.

[Guest Rosie]

Like, way too hard. Show up, get in trouble, have to leave. But it's kind of just like a rite of passage at Miami. But we had this one bar called Brick, and like, Delta Gamma would rent it out, or a fraternity would rent it out, and we would all go and, like, drinks were like $6, like tequila soda, vodka sodas. Or we had this drink called a trash can, and it was a full Red Bull and like six different liqueurs. Like, they literally would be like, I'm.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Going to throw up. I just. Just. You talking about it is making the bile come. Okay, I know, I know.

[Guest Rosie]

And I literally, when I was there, like, we would, like, order them like crazy. And when we, like, graduated, I'm like, I cannot believe we would drink those. Like, so gross.

[Host Daisy Kent]

I. I just. I know, like, everybody drinks. Not everybody, but the young people drink a lot of Red Bull. So what does it do? So you get wasted, but it just keeps you up.

[Guest Rosie]

Yeah, and it just. It keeps you up.

[Guest Danielle]

You're like, yeah, the adrenaline of it.

[Guest Rosie]

I feel like everyone would just, like, keep ordering them, and then it would just get. It would get messy. I mean, by the end of our date parties, they were. You would leave, and then you would go bar hopping. Or our, like, school is very much bars, right? So you could. You would go to, like, Brick for the main function, and then you would go to, like, CJ's or corner or whatever and continue.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Rosie, did you ever get messy?

[Guest Rosie]

Yes, I would. Unfortunately, I would get messy.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Were they always something you look forward to or were they ever, like, was it ever sort of high pressure to.

[Guest Kristy]

Find a date, honestly?

[Guest Rosie]

So freshman and sophomore year, like, I feel like we all were like, oh, my God, like, we need to invite boys. Like, we need to get our dates. And it was always, like, checking, like, the date doc, because the girls, you would put your name and put your date next to it, and it was like, oh, like, blah, blah, is bringing him. Like, I wonder, like, if they're a thing, whatever, right? Freshman, sophomore, junior year, we went abroad. So I don't even remember our junior year date parties. But senior year, like, we wouldn't even bring dates because our guy friends would just show up anyway. So I feel like the pressure was on to get dates when we were freshmen and sophomore years and then senior year, it was like, no one really cared. You would just go anyways.

[Host Daisy Kent]

And was that more fun or less fun?

[Guest Rosie]

Oh, I thought it was, like, so much more fun.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Wow.

[Guest Rosie]

Because everyone would already, like, be there. You'd walk in, see all of, like, the boy. Like, all the boys that you're friends with already or, like, interested in, like, they would just show up anyways, which was so much fun.

[Host Daisy Kent]

So we actually had my daughter on, but she was saying that if she would get in trouble with her sorority if her date got too messed up.

[Guest Rosie]

Really?

[Host Daisy Kent]

Did you have that? No.

[Guest Kristy]

No.

[Guest Rosie]

It was only if we were. Okay, I won't forget. Like, you. Like, we were watched like hawks by, like, our standard chairs, right? And we would literally, like, get, like, if we would have, like, a drink in our hand, like, she would come up and be like, absolutely not. Like, to rip it out of her hands. Like, we had to be very careful. Freshman, sophomore year, do they care if.

[Host Daisy Kent]

You showed up drunk?

[Guest Rosie]

Yeah. We would have to get called into standards. So if we were, like, even if we were at, like, a frat party and we were too drunk, I'll never forget, like, our sophomore year, me and my best friend were at this frat party with our guy friends, and we both were, like, so drunk, and we had a huge, like, foundation the next day for Delta Gamma, and our standards chair was like, go home right now. Like, you're embarrassing us. They were kind of. Yeah, they were. And they literally sent us home. We were brought into standards the next week. We were like, suspended for a date party. And we're like, okay, what exactly did you do? We were just like, too drunk at the function.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Okay, you weren't like, stripping. You were just like.

[Guest Rosie]

Yeah, it was just like a backyard party. No, it was. They would take it way too seriously. We would be like, wait, we're not even talking to you guys.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Right?

[Guest Rosie]

Like, you guys have fun. We're having fun.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Right, Right. One last question. So I know that a lot of the day parties are themed. So did you do theme parties? Like, did the sororities do them?

[Guest Rosie]

Yes. It was mostly the girls that would do, like, the themed parties that were like, super fun. And any of your.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Any of them, like your favorites?

[Guest Rosie]

Oh, yeah. Wait, so we, the guys would have this thing called Catalina Wine Festival or Wine mixer.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Okay.

[Guest Rosie]

And everyone would dress up like they were going to, like, the real thing. So we would all be like, cute little dresses people wear like hats and stuff. And then by. That was like, everyone was trying to get. Because that was the boys inviting the girls.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Right.

[Guest Rosie]

We were fighting for dates.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Right?

[Guest Rosie]

We all. And it was literally like so much fun. But like, by the end of it, everyone, like, the boys would be like, completely covered in red wine, like, such a mess.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Oh, my God.

[Guest Rosie]

Live band. It was fun. They would be like Y2K or like Western.

[Host Daisy Kent]

All right, well, listen, it doesn't. It seems like that did not impede on your good time the fact that there were not that many themes, which I'm so glad about.

[Guest Rosie]

Yeah, it was a blast.

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[Host Daisy Kent]

Alright guys, so now we have Kristy. So tell me first, where'd you go to school? What sorority were you in?

[Guest Kristy]

I went to school at the University of Missouri and I was a Kappa Alpha Theta.

[Host Daisy Kent]

So I'm thinking you guys probably had date parties. That's our theme today.

[Guest Kristy]

We did. We did. We had two every semester.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Okay. So yeah, that's so funny because it's so different at every school. We've talked to someone who had them like every weekend. And so you're sorority through two. Did the frats have them?

[Guest Kristy]

The fraternities had them every once in a while. I just wasn't one of those people that went to them. And I'm going to use the term fraternity parties very loosely. They usually just kind of decided on a whim that they're like, okay, we're gonna. We're gonna throw a 70s party tonight. There are fraternities that did have, like, their spring formals, and that obviously was in the spring. Most of the fraternity formals were out of town, which was always kind of like the coolest thing to be asked to.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Right. Why didn't you. Why do you say you didn't go to a lot of them?

[Guest Kristy]

Because I just. That wasn't really my thing. I wasn't that a cool kid back in.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Oh, my God, I love you now. You're my favorite person I interviewed today, and I interviewed my daughter.

[Guest Kristy]

That's hilarious. Well, that's sweet. I also wasn't a big drinker in college.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Right.

[Guest Kristy]

And I think, again, I can only speak on behalf of my experience, but the University of Missouri was kind of very cliquey. So, like, half. Like, a good portion came from St. Louis, a great. A good portion came from Kansas City, and a lot came from Chicago area. So there was kind of already a lot of cliques in college. And I from out of state. I'm from Fort Worth, Texas, so I kind of knew no one going to school. So it wasn't one of those places that like. Like, a lot of people already had their kind of established friends.

[Host Daisy Kent]

So. So did you rush and pledge your freshman year?

[Guest Kristy]

I did. Yeah.

[Host Daisy Kent]

So it wasn't a situation where you felt like once you were in a sorority, you were set, you had your best friends, and I think it took some time. Yeah.

[Guest Kristy]

Again, I think you. You eventually made friends. I think I didn't feel like I not belonged in the sorority until probably end of freshman year, kind of beginning of sophomore, when you. At University of Missouri, we start to live in the house.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Right.

[Guest Kristy]

Sophomore year. But again, I think it's. I was a pledge class of 84 girls.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Wow.

[Guest Kristy]

And then people obviously start to drop out and figure out that they can't afford it, or sorority's not for them, or their grades can't hold it.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Right.

[Guest Kristy]

They want to transfer school. So I think when we. I was in theta all four years, so I think our graduating class was about 60. So again, I think once you start living in the house and you start to go to the events and you.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Start to feel more part of it. And do you remember any date parties in particular that were super fun or any that were not? I know you didn't. They weren't really Your thing, but. Or like, how about. Or even like, what was so typically at a date party? Did the girls come back? You know, totally. Was there tons of stories? They came back, they were shit faced.

[Guest Kristy]

Oh, yeah. Oh, tons. So you'll think this is funny, and my. My mom sure thinks it's funny. I didn't go to a lot of the date parties. I was one of those who that worked check in at the. At the event. So, like, I was. We had the table in our basement of our sorority house and we had to check in their names. Luckily, I knew who all these people were, but I had no idea who their dates were. And trying to get their names out of people. Like people. I was like, no, I need to see your ID. I need to make sure you're 21. People handing me slices of cheese.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Oh, my God, you're that girl. Christy. I love the check in, girl.

[Guest Kristy]

Like having security call me. Us having to get someone who was sober to drive us down to the venue that we had to, like, get people back because we bussed people over there. Right. We like, imagine like a school bus.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Right? There's one literally behind you as you're talking. Oh, maybe. Yes. Yeah, that's so funny.

[Guest Kristy]

We had to like, shuttle everyone out. And so if someone, you know, threw up on the bus or so drunk they couldn't get off, like, I was one of those people that had to go get them.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Wow, I love that. That's. I mean, I'm sure it wasn't as much fun maybe as your sisters.

[Guest Kristy]

No, honestly, it was. It was so funny. And as people that always did kind of the check in, as I'm sure you know, we had to have sober sisters, which we all know likely weren't sober, but, like. Right, sure. And it was just funny to see, like, up. She's back.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Were there any or any of the girls just notorious for tons. Yeah.

[Guest Kristy]

And I. And then sometimes because I was on the check in table, I would then get the call on Sunday morning, like, hey, heard you were there. Like, can you, like, give us a statement or do you remember what happened? Like, that's horrible.

[Host Daisy Kent]

So you had to kind of rat.

[Guest Kristy]

Out your sisters 100%. I mean, I wouldn't be like, this girl, she did this. But I was like, well, I was there.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Like, she was a little wasted or.

[Guest Kristy]

Yeah, like all these other people were there. It happened in this location. Like, we unfortunately did kind of.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Did you ever meet anyone at one of the date parties? I mean, you were so busy checking everyone in. Any cute boys you Were checking in?

[Guest Kristy]

Not that I can remember. No. I mean, I remember going to my first day party, which was the. Cause it's a theme I'll never forget. And again, I went to the school in the University of Missouri. So middle of nowhere. The theme was duck calls and overalls.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Elaborate.

[Guest Kristy]

Yeah. So, like, you were essentially dressed in, like, hunting gear. Like, we wore, like, cut off jeans and like, camo print.

[Host Daisy Kent]

I love that.

[Guest Kristy]

But that theme was so fun because that was kind of the first time all, like the freshman class was together. And that was our first party, like, meeting new people again. You're allowed to bring dates. I didn't. So, like, most freshmen just kind of went together and I thought that was so fun. I mean, one thing that I do remember about going to New York's Missouri and day parties is a lot of people didn't lean into themes a whole lot. And I think it was just because, like, we were in college and, like, we had no money.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Yeah.

[Guest Kristy]

So, like, you see on TikTok these days of people going elaborate costumes, different costume for every. Every event. And I'm like, we just didn't. We didn't really do that.

[Host Daisy Kent]

You know why? Because the. I think because the kids that don't have the money, they don't give a shit about putting it up on TikTok. Okay? They're just busy doing their thing. But you're right. I see. I see stuff on TikTok now. I'm amazed at how much money and everything is. So, like, the houses are over the top and, you know, you see like Rush and the girls are decked and the dances are choreographed and there's sets and props. I don't know what goes on.

[Guest Kristy]

Yeah. No. 100%.

[Host Daisy Kent]

100%, right?

[Guest Kristy]

One funny story, and I won't name any names, but I remember on my initiation night or the night before, all, like, kind of the freshmen, like, they put us up in like a room so you can kind of get to know each other before you get initiated the night. And they had all of us go around and kind of give like, your. Why? Like, why did you join a sorority? Like, where are you from? Kind of thing. And one of the girls was like, bursting into tears because she's from, like, a really small town in Missouri and to afford her sorority dues, she had to sell her cattle that she'd raised.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Come on, stop it.

[Guest Kristy]

Showing her cattle. That was ball and crunch. She's like, but it's so worth it. Like, look at all the people I've met. Like, but like, my cows. Like I had to sit like I my parents couldn't afford this but like I had she had to sell her like prize winning cows come on a part of this and it like broke my heart. And I remember it to this day.

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[Host Daisy Kent]

Hi, Danielle. So tell us where you went to school. Tell us what sorority you were in.

[Guest Danielle]

Okay, so I went to school in Northern California at University of the Pacific. It was super small, like 4,500 people. In northern California?

[Host Daisy Kent]

Yeah. And what sorority were you in?

[Guest Danielle]

I was at Delta Gamma.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Do you guys have date parties?

[Guest Danielle]

We had lots of date parties.

[Host Daisy Kent]

I call them. We call them mixers and matches. I guess they call them day parties.

[Guest Danielle]

I don't really know if we had a name. They were just called parties where we got drunk.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Yeah, yeah, yeah. But were there any specifically where you like how to bring a date you.

[Guest Danielle]

Or you were invited by a date? So I guess there were date parties. You were invited by a date.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Okay, so any themes that you remember? Any ones that were like, particularly fun or particularly sh. Tty.

[Guest Danielle]

The number one party that we ever had was actually in Sports Illustrated on a regular basis for several years.

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[Host Daisy Kent]

What do you mean?

[Guest Danielle]

It was. Well, so Sports Illustrated used to have. They used to rank the top parties in the country for colleges, which they would never do these days. But back in the 1940s, they. They ranked the parties. So the parties were ranked and they were in Sports Illustrated. And we were in the top 10 for three years. Probably running a party that at our school at one of the fraternities.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Okay, so do tell. What made it so special that it got into Sports Illustrated? Besides, I'm sure that you all were so beautiful.

[Guest Danielle]

Okay, special is a really great word, but I would call it probably not at all okay these days. But the party was basically called Fireman's Fling and you had to go. The guys all sat on a fire truck out in front of the fraternity and they watched the girls climb out of a window on a ladder and their butts were in the air with sayings on the back that were inappropriate. And then the guys held up numbers like a gymnastics competition.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Oh, okay.

[Guest Danielle]

And they rated you so 1 to 10. Obviously you want a good number and your. Your underwear would say things like. I'm not sure if I can say what they say, but they say bad things about your date.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Yeah, I know you have daughters, so I know that like you're. Because like I have. I have a daughter. But she always thinks she's so cool and she's been through more than I have. And like, I've never like. Right. Like she's like, like I'm just. I've lived under a Rock for 57 years.

[Guest Danielle]

Right.

[Host Daisy Kent]

And it's so funny. I hear this story and it reminds me of my own stories that were just like. And. And also, by the way, P.S. that would not happen today. You are right.

[Guest Danielle]

That would not happen today.

[Host Daisy Kent]

So like, you wrote stuff on your ass that was about your date.

[Guest Danielle]

About my date? About my ass. Basically you'd write about like some sexual comment.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Right. Okay, go on.

[Guest Danielle]

I but said my gets hot for Scott.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Oh, it's that cute.

[Guest Danielle]

We were super in love. We were super in love. Yeah.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Precious.

[Guest Danielle]

That's right. You know.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Yeah.

[Guest Danielle]

You know, so weird we didn't stay together.

[Host Daisy Kent]

But you're ain't hot for Scott anymore.

[Guest Danielle]

The party was super degrading, but we were so excited because it made Sports Illustrated.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Wow, that is exciting. Those were the days, my friend.

[Guest Danielle]

And that of mine was huge.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Listen, honey, I think you're is still hot. Not that I've seen it or want to see it, but it's still hot.

[Guest Danielle]

But my butt is better.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Listen, I love having you because I love you. Thank you for sharing.

[Guest Kristy]

I love you too.

[Host Daisy Kent]

Okay, all right, talk soon. Bye.

[Guest Danielle]

Bye.

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